 And quite frankly, ladies, you need a sense of purpose. Now, the old sense of purpose was the man was the provider protector and the woman was the homemaker, okay? They each had a role. There was a mutual exchange going on. Now for those of us in midlife, where many of us both are struggling financially to take care of ourselves. I want you to think about this for a moment. You know, roughly 80% of Americans, those here in the United States, obviously I'm saying, are, I don't have enough savings to really cover them should there be a financial disaster in their life. You know, why I'm bringing this up is, you know, it's hard to support yourself, right?