 Well, first I want to avoid getting used from the very get-go by being more conscious and intentional in the early stages of dating. That's right, being conscious, conscious and intentional in the early stages of dating. What does that mean? It's don't date based on romance, you know, as being the driving force of the relationship. I want to encourage you to be more intentional. What does that mean? Get really clear on the type of relationship that works for you. And that requires looking inward and looking at your life and saying, how would I fit someone into my life or how would I fit into someone else's life? Or more importantly, how can we blend two lives together?