 to get better because going way far out into the distance and trying to fix those symptoms oftentimes results in You running around in circles just like on that map Just like when you're driving around in circles and you never achieve your destination All right number four Misinformation specifically don't be led or misled by misinformation. So I'm gonna give you guys a a quick drill here All right, I'm gonna throw out a bunch of Say standard things in the committee and I want you guys to tell me which ones are correct and which ones do you think are Incorrect By show of hands. I want you to raise your hand every time you hear something that seems correct. Okay The first one you can attract women through DHB stories because they raise your value Okay, second one when you go out to meet women the most important thing is to go out and have fun Okay Ask for her email first and then tell her to write her number down, too Okay, I guess you guys don't like that one always be congruent Okay Qualification means finding out if she meets your standards Okay. All right, so sum up sum down. Here's a scary part of misinformation Misinformation is such by definition. It's misinformation You don't know that it's misinformation because if you did you wouldn't it wouldn't be an issue The scary part about that is that every single one of those things is false Only you didn't know which one was false and which one was real So if you continue to make your decisions based on this is true and this is false Then you can see where this is going The further you go down the line making core decisions that are incorrect Basing it off of assumptions that are incorrect The more you do that the more ineffective down the line you become Your core assumptions your core presuppositions the thing that defines everything the baseline right there is going to have a Ripple effect on every decision you make after that. So your core assumptions better be correct If my core assumption getting into this is Asian guys that are five foot four cannot get good at this What would happen? I never would have gotten good at this Because everything else would have tried to fall in line with that core assumption that core assumption would have prevented anything from actually happening Those core assumptions are things that you have to always be questioning and you have to make sure that they're correct Because if they aren't we get exactly what we just got here We get a lot of assumptions that are wrong that are going to continue to haunt your progress your development Throughout the rest of the time you do this or that you do anything. That's misinformation Don't be led by misinformation now brass tacks. How do we fix that then the first thing?