 Have you ever wondered what people think of you? Why do people treat you in a specific way? Could it be because they find you attractive? Let's put your mind to ease and take a look at signs you are secretly attractive. 1. Others go out of their way to help you. Do your coworkers often offer to help you with your tasks? Do people jump at any opportunity to help you with the problem you're having? People are more likely to come to your aid when they are attracted to you. They naturally help you as they are curious about you and would like to get a chance to get to know you. In essence, the people attempting to assist you are trying to make themselves look good in front of you to earn your good opinion as you have earned theirs. 2. People are shocked that you have insecurities. It's natural to have insecurities, yet one must make sure that they don't take over. But when others find you attractive, they're quick to place you on a pedestal and presume that you're flawless. People think you've managed to sidestep all the common insecurities just by looking at you. Since you appear self-assured and capable to them, they're quick to assume that everything is perfect on your end. This is why most people are astonished when you say you're insecure or desire to change some features of yourself. But the truth is that everyone suffers from low self-esteem at some point in their lives. If you often shock people when you speak about your insecurities, it may be a sign that they find you extremely attractive. 3. You're good at expressing yourself. Are you adept at expressing your opinions? Do you always manage to say what you think? The more at ease you are with yourself, the more you're not concerned about impressing others. The culture powered by social media may make it seem imperative to gain the approval of others above all else. So it takes a lot of maturity to realize that this urge to impress others isn't important at all, and that being helpful is more essential than going viral or being praised. When you stick to what's right, rather than caring about what others will say, your confidence makes you very attractive to others. You have wholesome conversations with people. Let's not forget that attractiveness isn't solely determined by your physical appearance. Sure, it's a fantastic place to start, but being attractive is about so much more than how you look. You're not just appealing, but you're also a terrific company if you find yourself having incredible discussions and amazing banter. If you have a way with words, then there is a good chance people are attracted to what you have to say. Number five, you don't want attention. Have you ever observed that you get a lot of attention? When you wish to spend some alone time, for example, friends call to arrange a meeting or your family might invite you over. What does it mean when it happens frequently to you? Well, it simply indicates that people regard you as dependable and stable. They know they'll get something valuable if they ask for it, so they take as much as they can. They stay around you for the genuineness and positive vibes you bring along. Number six, you often catch people staring at you. Meeting another person's gaze, especially if it's sustained, can be a sign of attraction. In casual conversations, if others lock their eyes with yours for a very long time, it might be because they find you interesting and don't want to miss anything you do or say. People may also make eye contact with you without realizing it since they're staring at you. When you grab their attention, they may swiftly avert their sight and appear uneasy or nervous. Number seven, people open up to you easily. Are you a personal favorite secret keeper for them? People tend to divulge more personal and sensitive information with those they find attractive, whether it's to develop a connection or simply because you appear trustworthy to them. If you are frequently taken aback by the personal information individuals disclose to you, you might want to consider it because your trustworthiness attracts their attention when they want a shoulder to lean on. The signs mentioned are just a tip of the iceberg. Human nature is complex and therein lies its beauty. Beauty is far more than skin deep. It's what's on the inside that matters most. You're more than just your appearance. It's important to look beyond the surface and cherish what makes you who you are. Do you know any other traits that others may find attractive? Feel free to leave a comment with your experiences, feedback, or suggestions. If you find this video helpful, be sure to hit the like button and share it with others too. Don't forget to subscribe to Psych2Go and hit the notification bell for more new videos. Thanks so much for watching.