 You need to understand like the thing that I love about seduction the reason that I don't get bored of it I've been doing this a long time. I've been coaching for six years and If women were like robots if they all responded the same way when I press their buttons in certain sequence Then I would have quit this a long time ago because that's boring and predictable The thing I love about it is its variation is the facts is the fact that there is an infinite Array of possibilities of what could happen with me and women that I meet Because essentially throughout life what you're doing is you're living a story The collection of all your experiences all your ideas and all the people you meet creates that story and magic happens when stories intersect and As a seducer not a PUA but as a true ladies man what you are doing is stepping out and Not just waiting for chance to bring you the one The one who happened to be sitting next to you really she was the only one What you're doing is you're going how about that one? What about her? Let's see if we can create some magic Some love story if we can have two lives intersect and create something awesome because How much people value you desire you and respect you has nothing to do with the amount of time you spend with them or How nice you are to them It has solely to do with the emotional intensity that person feels with you My role in women's lives currently Is to appear in their city for a short amount of time? Take them on a wild unpredictable and intimate adventure and then vanish That's the role that I choose to play in women's lives if a woman is screening for a boy To look after her and sit and watch TV on a couch. I don't exist We'll just step past each other. I'll go and talk to her for three minutes. It'll be become apparent That these stories are not meant to me But there are plenty of women out there who want to live that fantasy They have needs that need to be met by my archetype by my role So you gentlemen need to start thinking about What are the stories that you are playing out with the women you approach and what impression are you giving them because if you give her the impression that you want to go on three predictable three to seven predictable dates and You know awkwardly escalate which my associate Liam McCrae will be talking about shortly and Make kind of vague promises about the future and then go and hang out with her parents and her friends and hold a hand in Public and do all this boyfriend stuff then she has only one choice But to go well do I want him to be my boyfriend if yes Well, that's what he's selling and if no well now I'll go and have sex with Liam in the bathroom Yeah So if you want to have multiple relationships you need to let her know that through your behavior and speech from the very beginning That's why going up and being audacious and direct. He's awesome Because only a man who is willing to play that lover rake ish raugish debauchers Archetype would do that Do you understand what I mean? Everyone nod is that a nod Okay, what don't you understand you do understand. Oh good excellent an agreement So Here is so that's that's some of that doesn't mean I have 30 or I've done 30. I've got 30. All right excellent So that's what I want you guys to take away in terms of understanding the mindsets of a man who can have multiple relationships Think about the adventures that you are going to have with the woman if it's just about you trying to go up there and get Sex out of her that will work very rarely Men who are very good with women actually are really interested in them. I Am endlessly curious about the little tiny variations that each woman has the different face She has when she's having an orgasm the different You obviously haven't made enough girls orgasm because you're snickering The the way that she she operates when she's out of her normal comfort zone away from her friends because I'm a Transient lover. I'm person who's passing from town to town. I get to be the guy that doesn't count That's a fucking awesome thing to be I don't exist. I never happened Yeah, all I am is a wistful memory that she carries with her to the grave That's an awesome thing to be I've also been many other things. I've been a confident. I've been a great friend. I've been a long-term boyfriend I've been a husband. I hopefully haven't been a father yet So here's the process you guys want a practical ABC step I know you do and how to have multiple relationships. All right only works if you keep what I've previously said in mind so You picked up a girl well done. You had sex with it awesome Do you need to tell her on the first night? No, you don't unless you have gone through some protracted predictable courtship affair Then you've already fucked it up if it takes more than three nights to go to go into bed It's too long unless she's a virgin or highly religious or that's about it Yeah, if it takes longer than that, it's too long because by then what we're doing is we're bargaining We're trying to trade something else for sex Yeah, because if it's protracted out it means that we've created currencies that are not dick for pussy essentially Yeah, if it happens within two three nights, then we're we're actually on an equal standpoint So What I do is I have a talk with girls about the second time I've been with them The first couple of times you have an amnesty. They may disappear No one really cares at that point after the first two three times both sides are naturally wondering what's happening here Now most guys deal with this by doing this situation by doing this They just don't say anything. I didn't say I was not gonna sleep with other girls, right? So she didn't ask and then they wait a month or two and eventually the girl Tendatively goes so are we are we together am I your girlfriend and he goes? Oh, no Well, I mean, I've just you know, I'm trying to get over my ex and right now You know, I'm focusing on my career and so I don't really feel like you know I've got a bit of fear of commitment and they waffle on about how yeah, they can't really commit But maybe one day in the future That's the way most men deal with this situation and I've done that many times. It's messy and It is not direct when we talk about direct direct is an attitude not an opener You should be direct for life You don't just go up and go hey You're fucking sexy and then don't own your intent or your desires or your direction in life after that That is not direct. That's very confusing for a woman who if your guy comes up or super confident clear about what he wants and then like asks her what she wants to do on the date and You know, it doesn't actually engage in any conflict if it needs to be needs to be resolved or whatever So you'd be to clear and direct for life. I Have two rules in seduction and it basically covers everything The first one is my inner game rule, which is the right to freedom rule which states make no apology take full responsibility So in the situation where I am stepping into a woman's life and I have something to offer her I Don't necessarily have everything to offer her but I have something awesome to offer her I will make no apology for the fact that I wish to be actively single right now That I am focusing on my own personal development on my travels on my business and on making sweet love to you Tonight probably tomorrow night probably a night after that and definitely not the night after that because I'm going I Make no apology for that and I take responsibility for the fact that she may not be up for that That this is an unusual thing to do Therefore I need to have an even more solid frame than the average guy that I need to be a fucking amazing lover If it's worth going to be worth her while and everything else that goes on between I take responsibility for So What I do is I give the girls a talk I've been asked this many times by guys to say well how do you bring this up with girls? Would you guys be interested in hearing my talk that I give to girls? All right I hope you appreciate this because there will be some girl who will watch this in the future Just before I give her the talk and then I'll tell her and she won't have sex with me again So I'm about to lose sex for you