 What happens if your spouse does not want intimacy? The key to having real intimacy in a relationship is to have a deep connection with your spouse. So that means not just in a physical way, but in an emotional way. If you don't have that emotional intimacy, you can't expect to be able to have the physical intimacy. So thinking about what's going on in your day-to-day life, what type of connection that you're having, what type of love are you showing your spouse throughout the day so that when it comes to being more physical that you see that there's more of a connection there. So that's something to be aware of. Also it's important to be able to have a discussion about it, what your feelings are about it, in a safe and connected way so that you can both open up and understand what might be bothering you, what might be getting in the way. So it's not something that's just going to be easily, you know, easily fixed because one of you wants or doesn't want. It's something that has to be thought out as something that has to be examined to understand, to become conscious about what's really going on in the relationship as a whole because what's going on in the bedroom is really a barometer of the relationship as a whole. So obviously sometimes there's some physical issues or traumas that need to be dealt with. But if everything was going fine until now and now it's not, we need to address what are some of the underlying issues that may have changed and might be making it not feel so comfortable to be together. If you have any questions and would like to discuss your individual situation with us, please feel free to be in touch and we'll be happy to help you.