 So Cindy says, hi, quick question. I've been dating this guy for a month, but he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend. How can I make this happen without coming off like I'm pressuring him? Well, I mean, what do you mean by you guys have been dating for a month, right? Have you, are you sleeping together, right? Here's my suggestion. My suggestion is you stop worrying about being boyfriend, girlfriend. I mean, what does that mean even, right? Like I'm his girlfriend. Like does that mean that you're exclusive together? Does that mean that you're committed together? Does that mean that he wants a real relationship with you? Cause those are the things that I would be focusing on if I were you instead of getting this label of girlfriend. Although if that's part of the package that might be something that you might be interested in. However, you know, this whole idea of scarcity and all the things that we just talked about, that is what will make it so that that's really easy to get.