 5 things you won't know about Narcissus By now you should know that Narcissus are self-absorbed and lack empathy They're preoccupied with their own interests and needs So they're not aware of or concerned about your needs Which is how they're so difficult to deal with because they don't care about anyone but themselves They will manipulate you to get what they want They will expect everything to revolve around their needs And they will elevate themselves at your expense They only care about looking good About presenting a false image to people They're not interested in becoming something of value and substance But you can protect yourself from Narcissus By becoming more aware of what they're trying to do By learning more about them And by understanding things that they don't want you to know Things that they try to hide from you So here are 5 things you won't know about Narcissus Narcissus are not confident They act as though they have it all together They act as though they're certain of their abilities They have trust in people plans of their future But it's all a facade, they're very insecure They just don't want to feel vulnerable They don't want to be honest Because it would make them feel weak and inferior So they pretend to be more than what they are They pretend to know everything It provides them with a false sense of security and stability It makes them feel like they're in control They don't even know you They act like they know you They act like they've got you all figured out Like they know everything they need to know But they don't know anything about you Because they don't even see you as a real person They see you as an object As something that exists to meet their needs They don't care about you as a person You can make them feel who you are as a person Does not matter to the narcissist Most often they can't even see it They can't see past their own wants and needs So they don't connect to you emotionally They use you to feel better about themselves They leech off you And then they discard you when they no longer have a use for you Three, they feel nothing for you Narcissists lack empathy So they don't share your experience They don't put themselves in your shoes And they have no desire to do that Because they just don't care Which is why they're not hurt when they hurt you They don't feel your pain They don't regret the things they've done to you They may even have done those things on purpose Because they get off on your pain and misfortune Which is why they never give you an apology And they never change their behavior Because you don't matter to them You're not important They are the only ones that matter Unless you can feel into their importance and superiority Four, they don't know what they want They act like they've got it all figured out But the truth is, narcissists don't even know what they want They constantly seek money, status and power But even those things don't fulfill them They're never satisfied with what they have They always want more Which is why they're always trying to escape from their unpleasant reality By engaging in escapism By trying to distract themselves with self-destructive activities By seeking validation from other people And they will do whatever it takes to get it They will lie, they will future fake Just so they can feel better about themselves and their own lives Five, they envy you Many people have heard this before But it's difficult for them to accept They can't believe that the narcissists is envious of them Because they act so arrogant and superior As though they're better than you As though they don't need you But the truth is that they are very envious and jealous They're intimidated by your success Which is why they can't be happy for you Instead, they will become very competitive They will try to win They will try to show you that they're better than you Or they will try to humiliate you Or they will just ignore you Because they have to be better than you They have to be the best When they see that you might be better than them at something It makes them feel inferior It triggers them to reflect on themselves and their own lives It feels like an attack on their character So they will try to defend their elevated view themselves By trying to destroy your success By gossiping about you and trying to ruin your reputation Narcissists are very different how they perceive themselves They appear arrogant and entitled But they're actually very insecure They act like they've got you all figured out But they don't know anything about you They just see you as an object that either is or isn't doing what they want it to be or do They feel nothing for you They don't care about your pain They don't care about your wants and needs Everything has to revolve around them and what they want But they don't even know what they want They're chasing money, power and status but they're never satisfied Those things don't make them happy Which is why they end up sabotaging themselves By engaging in self-destructive activities And then they envy you for being happy and successful Because they can't find that in their own lives So they try to sabotage your success They try to ruin your reputation They will try to steal it from you Because they think that you have what they want But what they actually want is not your success It's your happiness and fulfillment And that is something they will never find No matter how much they sabotage you or try to destroy you Because our happiness comes from serving Not consuming Which doesn't do anything for the narcissist So they never get to experience that They don't understand it And it frustrates them But when all is said and done they will try to hide it They will try to mirror your happiness and reflect it back to you As though they have what you want When they fail to consider that true happiness Does not come from other people or external objects It comes from within And what comes from within is what we give out Which means that their behaviour is very contradictory It doesn't make sense And it should reveal to you that they haven't moved on They're not happy without you They're just trying to prove to you and to themselves that they're okay When it's just a fantasy It's this make-believe world of pretending and imagining things is better than they really are Instead of confronting the core issue Which is something that most people will not know about the narcissist Until it's too late Because not only are narcissists trying to hide this from you But they may not be fully aware of it They may not know why they are the way they are They may not know why they do the things they do But even if they become aware of it It doesn't mean that they're going to change Many of them like how their disorder works It's like a system of reward for them It gives their lives meaning So there's no incentive for them to do anything about it They only care about themselves They have no passion or love for anything But they're quite comfortable with that way of life Even though they will never find what they're looking for Even though they will never have what they really want Thank you for watching I hope this video resonates with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My paypal link is in the video description Coach and enquiries you can email me at coach.narcsurvival.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon