 I used to aim low to increase the chance I would reach goals. I'm what I'm trying to expand in my life right now is to dream much bigger and because I've put so many self-limiting beliefs on what I'm capable of because I used to look at the world through that paradigm we've discussed earlier that falling short of a goal means you're a failure and I don't want to fail or I don't want to be viewed as a failure failure you know so if I aim lower then I have a higher percentage chance that I'll hit but you also live a much more tepid mediocre life so now I'm trying to stretch and expand and aim much higher and just realize that I'm not going to hit all of those goals in fact most of them I don't but I still make progress and I still learn something and then I can chase that goal again if I want