 Look how good I look now in my 80s and 60s. But who wants to show them how bad they looked before? That's what I want. Who would take a selfie of like... That's just going to be right there. But my thing is, why do people need so much acknowledgement and so much like, you know, praise and look at me now. Like, just be yourself. If you're skinny now, be happy. Why do you need everyone else to like... You know what I think most of the selfie is? Is a facade. Because I have girlfriends who take selfies of themselves everywhere they go because they want their Facebook to look like they're doing something fabulous all the time. Well, I know the truth behind the selfie, okay? She's taking it at my kitchen counter, but she's like got this like, Instagram filter on it, you know? Like, now we can have all these instant photo shops and if I go in early bird, maybe I'll look like I have a tan. It's not working, babe. You don't look fabulous. You look like you're taking a picture of yourself everywhere you go. I'm guilty. You do love selfies, right? I'm guilty of selfies. Tell me about the selfie. I am guilty of them, but I don't do it with the purpose of look what I'm doing. Do you do it with the filter? No, not all the time. But I may be like my makeup that day, or I may like my hair, so I want to take a picture of it. Why do you put posters? Of course we put our pictures up there. Yeah, why do you put posters? My family put pictures of that, but maybe I'm sending it to someone. What'd you say? Maybe I'm sending it to someone. This is so taxing, Amber. Do you have a picture of yourself? I'm going to say it right now, sugar. I don't take no pictures of myself. I don't want nobody to know what you mean. I'm going to call it no selfie. I'm not for it. I am against it, and I see people all the time take pictures of themselves, and I'm like, why? It should be because selfish. But then they do it, and I'm like, dang, I just worked out with her. She looked good, and she had already fluffed up her face but makeup on, you know. But me, when I work out, I got my afro out, I got my acne all exposed. I mean, I'm not trying to do that. I wear my T-Filene shirts, you know, because I'm not going, I'm going there for myself. Why does everyone always have to do stuff for other people? That's what the selfie is. They're taking a picture of themselves for other people. But in my defense, when I do take pictures of myself, it's for my hair and makeup. I don't think I've ever tried to look sexy for someone. But when I do see those pictures, though, or if I would have posted them, but okay, going back to that, when I do go on my Instagram and I see pictures of girls with lingerie, that kind of does, I'm scrolling and I'm like, okay, do I want to see your picture in the lingerie? I have a question. Is this the new porn? It is. Modern-day porn. Girls take selfies of themselves and then sex it to their partner. And then Instagram it. And then Instagram it. And then I go, Stacey's confused. Yeah, I'm confused. I know y'all were like, okay, selfies. So that, like my husband, so I would like take it with like, kind of provocative and then turn the camera on myself and then smile. But you wouldn't just send it to your husband. You would send it to all of your friends. That's where I would... Is it a trend? I mean, what is it? That's all girls are doing. When you lost all that weight, you know what I mean? Was it something? I mean, obviously you want to, you know, share it with other people. But you know, just the whole like, meaning to be in the sports bra and sending it out to everyone else. Like, why do you need so much acknowledgement? I don't know if you have flat boobs. Why do you want to show me that? I don't want to see it. You don't have that problem. I know, I know. And I'm showing them the way I see it besides my husband. When you think about it, when you do take selfies though, you get to pose the way you want to pose. You got to fix it the way you want to fix your angles. Nobody's just taking the picture for you. You're the one that's like, okay, do you want to do fish face? So can you go with that? Yeah, what's a fish face? What was that? When you pose like, okay, so we need to go and have a selfie.