 I'm just gonna go squad. Fun video today. Engaged edition. We can say that now. We can do some engaged-style videos. Is that crazy? And I've never heard of this video up until yesterday. Mariah actually brought it to my attention. Yes. Agree or disagree? Yes. We're gonna see if we have the same opinion on things and if we agree or disagree on the same exact things. Or if we have the same 50-50. Wait, when do I put up 50-50? That's just like, you're like in between, like an answer, like you have a reason for both. So it's like, does Mariah look good today? 50-50, no. Technically, agree is in disagree, so. So the reason I did these note cards was because I wanted it to be like legit. Like if I said agree and then Bill just went along with it, like I wanted to like actually get our answer and then show it at the same time. You cannot switch it. After you pick a card, you can't switch it. So in my head, I'm not gonna be like, oh, I disagree and then they're, oh no, I agree, yeah. 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All right, we're gonna start off juicy because I feel like this is a good one to start off with. All right. If your partner is talking to another person that's the opposite sex, then it's cheating. Oh. I'm gonna do this, right? All right, disagree. 50-50. Ooh, wait, what? Okay, so you don't think that's cheating? No, not at all. Okay, this is how I view it. I'm 50-50 because it depends on the girl and the relationship. Like if you were texting Julia or Anna, I don't find that cheating because I know what's not going anywhere. But if you're talking to another girl, like texting and like having conversations, I feel like that's almost cheating because you're giving, it might not be physical, it's still the attention you're giving to the other. I'm changing my answer. Yes. 50-50 for me. Because I said disagree at first because I was thinking of like going out in public and talking to like, you know, a girl and I'm a guy. No, this is like texting. Okay, so if you're like texting, you're just talking. I need talking though. The thing is, it depends on the conversation. I think you should be able to talk to whoever you want, whenever you want, but depending on what you talk about and how the conversation plays out and how often. If it's like the girl like, hey, oh my God, but you're not entertaining and I'm like, oh no, you're so friendly. Like, don't even, I got a fiance, obviously, but like, trust me, like you're awesome. No, don't do that. And I had some people in my life who were my friends and they were talking to you and they would get a little too flirty with you. Okay, but it wasn't like. You were entertaining it, but I just know girls. So I feel like I agree on that, but I'm also like I said on the other end because it's half and half. Trust me, I went out to a bar like three weeks ago. True story. And this girl, she was like rubbing up her words, let's just say. So like, you know. I wasn't there guys, I was home. Right when she left the bar, it was me and some other guys and she just like was going around to all the guys and like it came to a point when she was up to me and I told her, you know, I had a fiance and stuff because she was like, so are we gonna dance or what? And I'm like, I have a fiance like no and then she left obviously, but like that, if I entertained it. Yeah. Nope. Yeah. Do you feel like you rushed into getting engaged? That's a good one. A lot of people are asking this. I already know my answer. I already know that too. Ready? Disagree. All right, why do you first? I disagree because I feel like we've experienced everything about each other, we moved in together. I know it's un-traditional moving with someone before you get married, but we did it and I feel like we've been together for almost six years. So I feel like it was meant to be like, I was ready for the next step. Like I knew he was giving me a partner for life. I felt it, I could feel it. We've went through everything together, all the highs and lows and like we came out even stronger. So I knew you would be the person for me. So I don't- Yeah, I think that's awesome because I totally, my views are the exact same. I don't think it's wrong to move in with someone if you're not married. We wanted to move in with each other. We were here. Obviously we felt like we've been married for years. We've been dating. We bought a house together. We got an apartment together. Our anniversary is this month. Oh yeah. Oh my gosh, wait. Oh my gosh. Our six year anniversary is this month. So that's just like another thing. I think we're six, oh our six year is literally in two weeks from now. It's on the 22nd. It's on the 22nd of March. Two weeks from today. So literally two weeks from today. We are literally going to be having our six year anniversary. So like that just shows like I feel like not only was I like didn't rush it. I feel like I could have done it way earlier. Yeah. So I feel like if anything, I waited. I was getting to the point where I'm like when is he gonna do this? Like he knows how badly like we're ready. We said I have to remove the door house and we settle down. Like we need to be ready for that next step. And obviously I let him do it on his time. I didn't force him to rush him. I wanted him to do it when he were ready. And I'm not gonna get that way. Answer all your questions. I disagree. I think I waited honestly rather than like rushed it. Because if I rushed it, I would have done it three years ago. Oh yeah, for sure. Yeah. Oh, this is a controversial one. Let's get juicy. Come on. You might not think this one's juicy, but I think it's juicy. Cats are better than dogs. Whoa, do you see how controversial that one is? See, this is hard because we own two cats, but I already know my answer. Listen. I already know my answer. Okay, I'm just gonna say my answer and then I'll, I'll. I have it right here. I have it right here too. It's the only one not backwards. 50-50. 50-50? You think cats are better than dogs? Okay, it's hard. I guess I would say I'm 50-50. See, the thing is they both have their strengths and their weaknesses. Strengths of cats is they're very independent. They can basically live on their own. They don't eat all their food at once. The reason I like cats better than dogs, our cats act like freaking dogs. Okay? We say something to our cats and they know exactly what we're talking about. Like it's crazy. To prove it, I don't even know where chat is. Snap, snap outside. Outside. Snappy, wanna go outside? Snap, oh, he's at the door. He's literally right there. Now, I know the thing to prove that our cat is like a dog. That's really mean. Ready? Snappy. Floss. Floss. Example, I feel like I'm a cat person because as of right now, only because we travel a lot, we're very busy, we don't really have time to walk our dog or let the dog out or we're just not home enough to give a dog attention. I feel like a dog is kind of like a full-time job. And I said 50-50 because I don't think either or are better than one another. I feel like they both have their strengths and they both have their weaknesses. It just depends on what you also grew up with, what you love. Like Mariah honestly grew up with dogs. I did. I'm a dog lover. I'm an animal lover. I'm an animal lover. But as of right now, in my life, my time of life, I'm a cat person. But that just shows you can also teach cats certain words. So far our cat knows like six words that when we say them, including his name, he knows exactly where to go, what to do. And if I said outside, he goes straight to that door. Even if I'm not standing by the door, I could be in the bathroom. And if I say outside, he will literally go. He's literally over there by the door right now. Men should have periods. Oh my gosh. I already know your damn answer. Aubrey! Disagree, what? I say agree. Okay, I wouldn't say I would want you to go through it, but I'd rather you go through periods than me because I feel like you guys are more strong-willed. You can handle things sometimes better than women can with their stomachs, okay? I only say that because I would only want you to experience it once so you know my feelings. For the girls out there that want guys to go through periods or whatever. Yeah, okay, I wish I could maybe go through it once to see how it is, but the thing is, I feel like girls go through stuff and guys go through stuff. Whatever the stuff that is, there's a lot of stuff that comes along with being a guy that girls don't experience. That is true. And I'm not saying it's hard to be a guy because it's not, but it's also like, there's a lot of stuff that girls do that guys are never gonna, so it's like, I don't know. We both have things that you're never gonna have to worry about, never gonna have to deal with, but same with girls, I know girls do a lot. So period-wise, yeah, of course I wish I could take the pain away from your period cramps. But hell no, I don't want that every month. That's so much work. Oh my gosh, shout out to all your ladies because I don't know how you do it. It takes a lot of energy. It does take a lot of you. And now that I have a UTI, it's been taking a lot out of me with my freaking medicine instead of being nauseous. That's news too. Woo! Agree or disagree with the thoughts of having kids during Nell's honeymoon. Ooh, honeymoon kids, honeymoon children. Okay, so I'm gonna put my answer up. I have my answer. I really, okay, I have my answer too. Okay, 50-50. Hey! I'm gonna be real with you guys because you guys are our family and you know, it's just how it is. I already know what it is. We have not waited till marriage and that's just how we've grown up. Listen, there's some people who wait until marriage and people don't. But with us, we use all the protection we can. And I know a lot of people are like, you use protection, oh my God. I don't know, because I'm not ready to have a kid yet. Now, I did say after a wedding, I wanna cut all the protection off. I don't need that anymore. I said on our honeymoon, I wanna like not use protection anymore and if it happens, it happens. But I'm not gonna like rush it. I don't know how we're gonna feel in a year because I know we already have baby fever. 50-50 for me because I don't mind if we do have kids and I don't mind if we don't. Like obviously, like I really feel like I'm not ready to be a dad right now just because like I'm so experienced. No, but it's not even that. I feel like I just like, I haven't like been through the wedding stuff yet and experienced all of that. So if it happens, it happens. But like- I'm not fully ready. We're not rushing anything and we're not gonna be sad if anything does happen. We're just open-minded, you know? And we really don't mind. Obviously, we're gonna be together forever. So whatever happens- We're taking all the precautions now so we don't get pregnant anytime soon. I mean, anything's possible. Do you agree with milk before cereal? Oh my gosh. Oh, but that's not even a question, okay? Okay, I'm just gonna say disagree. If you put your milk in before your cereal- Ew! First of all, when you put your cereal in the milk's gonna splash everywhere. Second of all, you don't know how much milk you're gonna use or need because when you put your cereal in first, you kind of fill your milk up until you start seeing it seep through. Yeah, it's not too much. And then you're like, I'll stop. Yeah. And at the same time, when you pour it into the cereal, the milk doesn't splash. It kind of uses it as a sponge and keeps all the milk from going out the bowl. I've seen so many times people pour milk in the bowl and it goes, whoop! Because it's like, you know, like- Yeah, no. I'm not hating on people if you put milk in, but like, you don't do that. I'm sorry, but like, that's just, I feel like it was not made to be like that. No, I agree. But if you wanna be different, be different. I'm not gonna judge, you know? Judges are free zone. Things are being non-traditional nowadays, so it's okay. All right, this question was from Matilda. Pineapple belongs on pizza. This is a huge one. Yeah, it is. Does pineapple belong, do you agree pineapple belongs on pizza? Agreed. You like pineapple, right? I love pineapple on pizza. If you haven't tried it, don't be a hater until you try it. It's good. It's actually good. I don't think pineapple deserves to not be on pizza. It tastes good, it's warm. Yeah, oh. I don't hate it. It's so good. I love it. And I didn't show you. Nope. You feel pressure to have a lit wedding because of YouTube. Like, an insane, like crazy, wedding. Okay, I actually have an answer. Okay. Ready? Disagree, 100%. I will say this because I feel like, not that I don't care what you guys think because I do, but no matter what, I am listening to what me and Bill want in our wedding and I know you guys will love whatever we choose to do. I'm doing it for me and Bill and what our visions and our dreams are for. That's why I don't feel pressure because I'm gonna love my wedding no matter what. That's my wedding, our wedding. That's special to us, not to anyone else. Me, I said disagree because yeah, I've seen a lot of YouTubers that do crazy, crazy things with their weddings, you know, and they're beautiful and they're awesome. It's not the drama bit. You know, our wedding's gonna be crazy and awesome as well, but ask me before we were wedding planning. I might have said I would be in little, like, you know, have that in the back of my head, like, oh, we have to make this super dope. But ever since I've been wedding planning, I haven't even thought about it until now, until you asked this question. I've really not factored in to be competitive with any other wedding that I've seen or to think that I need to do anything more or less because of people having, like, insane weddings. The only thing though that I did think about when it comes to, you know, filming is the videographer. Oh yeah. And we're spending pretty good amount on a videographer because, like, we want the best video and quality possible sound, everything, emotion. I wanna show you guys, like, you're literally sitting there in the seat, watching it all go down. You think our proposal video's good. If you haven't seen our proposal video, make sure to go and watch our proposal video after this. You think that video was good. Our wedding video, just by planning out the videography so far, it's gonna be dream. Oh, it's gonna be so dreamy. Oh my gosh. But yeah. That's the only thing that I've actually, like, thought of. I agree with you, like, I don't feel like, just because someone else wants to go big doesn't mean you have to flip, you have to, too. Matter of fact, I haven't even looked at any other weddings to get inspiration. You've just been planning stuff. Maybe I will. Maybe I should just to see if, like, oh, we should have had that at ours. Yeah. Either way, our wedding is gonna be super dope. You guys are gonna love it. It's gonna be literally like, up until last, like, already the stuff that we have planned, I'm so excited for. It's crazy. It's coming together, too, little by little. We're gonna be sharing more here and there. Yeah. Is Mariah the one that causes the arguments? 90% of the time. Someone asked it. I didn't ask it, okay? I didn't ask. I don't know what you're gonna say. Disagree. What would you say? Oh, no, no, no, I meant, I meant. Did you? I meant 50-50. Oh, okay. 50-50. Listen. 50-50. Calm down. Okay, I want you to answer this first. I want you to answer this first. Okay. Go ahead. All right, so I really didn't mean to put up a grade. So the only reason why I say 50-50 is because me as a person, I am, like, not to toot my own horn. I feel like I'm the most non-problematic. Oh, fine. Then I know. Yes, you are non-problematic. You're the thing. You're the thing. So being a non-problematic person. And I'm not saying that I don't cause problems because I do, so don't think that I'm trying to, like. No, we need to be manipulative right now. Because, like, my goal is to not argue. I hate arguing, and that's just something in my subconscious that, like, if people go to argue, my immediate reaction is not to argue back. It's just to, like, talk it through or something. So with that being said, when some situation does occur, whether it's me or her, I feel like the one, the other 50%, the one propelling the situation 90% of the time could be my other half, 50-50. But I'm not saying that you're really arguing. I agree. I agree with what he's saying, only because I do think he's the water that tries to put the fire out. I'm the one that will fight, because I'm a fighter. That's how I grew up. I mean, don't get me wrong. Sometimes a fire extinguisher can malfunction. Oh, yeah. But sometimes, when you are too calm, it fuels my fire a little bit, and it makes me more mad. Yeah. Because I feel like sometimes there are situations where I want you to be louder, and I want you to, like, be like, no, that's not okay, but you are more quiet, and it makes me mad, so then it makes me get more mad, and then it becomes a bigger argument. Yeah, our relationship, definitely, like, I feel like you, I love you to death, but I feel like you definitely are a more aggressive person. Yes. Not when it comes to just arguing. Just when it comes to, like, how you do things, how you think. I have the biggest heart ever. If you know me, deep down, know me, I have probably one of the biggest hearts I know. Yeah, you're aggressive in a lovey way, you're aggressive. If I have to be aggressive with someone that's, like, I know, like, someone's messed up, then I like to say how it is. I'm not the type of person that keeps that in. I say how it is. She definitely doesn't say good things. I call them. No, I don't say a good thing. That's why I'm the more, like, okay, this is what the hell's up, and he is the one that's like, no, no, no, it's okay. I think I explained that pretty well. You did. You did. I don't think you argued all the time either. I just think, you know. You gotta have a half medium. You can't have two people who argue all the time. That's why I said 50-50. Yeah. I think you're right. I would change my answer 50-50. Okay, so now that it's used, now it's me. Well, technically it was 50-50 till you had it 97 at the time. Anyways. Do you agree on an open relationship? Like, having a three with some. Oh my gosh. You going to hook up with someone, I'm going to go hook up with someone. This is going to hurt some people's feelings, isn't it? I disagree. Disagree at a million percent. Because the thing is, if you're going to have an open relationship, you might as well not have a relationship. You might as well just be a bird that can fly wherever it wants, but it's not tied down to one nest. I just feel like every operation that I have come in kind of with or seen, something always happens where the person gets just, I mean, in some situations, okay, I support it, I'm like, whatever. If that makes you happy, that makes you happy. But I've just seen a lot of situations where people will, you know, have a three with some, and then the person will end up like, he kind of steps with that person more than the other person. Does that make sense? You've seen a lot of situations? No, I've just heard a lot of situations. No, trust me, trust me. Just thinking about it, it just seems so super complex. I don't want to see you kissing someone girl. People, like think about it. People's feelings are going to start getting hurt. You're going to be always on edge. You're going to be wondering how they're thinking about you. Are they doing the same thing behind your back? Because like, having an open relationship, I feel like a lot of it, it's easy to lie. And it's easy to get stuck in a situation where you become not faithful to that person. Like, more of the story for me. Okay, and it's not hitting on anyone. No, it's not. If you have an open relationship, I feel like it's kind of like you don't have a relationship at all. Yeah. It's more so just, you just like, hanging out with people. I just would not want to see you kissing and hugging or do any of that with someone else. Like, I would literally cringe and- Yeah. But we don't know the other side of it. We don't know the people that are in an open relationship. Yeah, I don't know their feelings. Because like, you know, we are like, you know, we're like focused on one person and one person only. But like, I don't know, I just feel like having an open relationship, that's just like kind of to me an excuse saying like, you just don't want to be in a relationship because you want to have freedom. Yeah. Which don't be in a relationship then. I don't know. That's just my thing. No, I'm with you on that one. I'm with you on that one. Just know guys, we're not judging anyone who does. 100%. We love every single person. Literally, you do what you want. Don't let anyone tell you no. This is our opinion. This is our life. Yeah. That's why like, we just think how we think. That's why we're getting married. Yeah, exactly. We're about to be husband and wife and I can't wait for that. That's crazy. 11 months. 11 months guys, we're literally coming down. I proposed it was 13 months. Now it's 11 months. Oh my gosh. It's gonna become so fast. 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