 Nyosa, hezda, kuna chaikwengiwa marafiki kuna wale renyukiwa na mazuri wa kuna wale Bampa to Bampa Lakin ni hile wakachi wisha patwa na shida dil actually renawei Only the few ones wada smama na wale Nasi, nime toki o moj sa hendo tu mejoa true friend nimitu Inagani tumonam tumunia tukotu na expectia vej tuketa kumsaydia na wegi minyu tukotu na kiriya, awa jafu e po so, wukiwa na shidanda uta jwa atu friends ni nani desa itu na jwa. A friend utam jwa in each and everything in all the things that me kwa mkirilit pamoja. Sila zima, ukwa in trouble, jubeshtia kwa ajuwe ukwa in trouble because kama rafki ako, kama you've been friends with someone in a manisha and a kwa understand whether you are in trouble or you are not in trouble. So mi, mi mi venye neza se ma ni if I have a friend I expect that friend ajuwe that kama ni kona shida this is how I behave na kama sena shida this is how I behave. Friendship ni two way and then another thing friendship in a juli kananga if ukwa in trouble a ma hajuwe ukwa in trouble. So mi mi na ona if someone is your friend ataka ma ukwa shida ataka ma hajuwe ukwa shida that person will always be there for you that is number one because a friend in need na se me kananga is a friend indeed. So mi according to mi mi na ona sila zima ukwa kwa shida diyo ujuwe mutuni beshtia ako beshtia ako aneza kwa kama ana jua kama uta jubeshtia ako kama ukwa kwa shida ama taimei nye kwa kwa shida but most importantly ni taimei nye ukwa in need diyo uwa wana the character ina zi portray mo but mi mi na ona if you are in trouble you will always know your friend. From my opinion mi na ona you have to be in a problem so that you know your friend. Karizom yubim wakati mwingine kleg kama tuna utu kona raha we party and everything una pata friends are so close to you but then wakatuna jipatu wakatika shida para kwa chate sana hukubali kutambianawa wakatika yu shida so they feel when you were atambianawa hadi mwisha wuji ondo wakatika yu shida ndi wu tatambua hua friends. And there we go. Apparently a friend in need is a friend indeed which is what we started with but previously before we played the videos which I thank you for very much by the way and the floor is always open if you want to express yourself you know how to do it. Just take a selfie video or just have someone take a video of you or you can just give us a small small write up on our socials as at white by four on Facebook white by four channel on a Twitter hashtag is why in the morning. So Wangari asked a very important question and she said who how do you know your friend is your friend. How do you graduate from acquaintance or just pass her by to friend. And I'm going to throw that question to Patrice but before he answers that I want to ask you Wangari another question. What if let's just I give you the scenario. What if me me ok I will use people on the set. So what if I am a kind of person nikiwa na shida sita taftana. Like it will just be inside of me and I will try to figure it out the best way I can. Na kama na kufa na kufa tu naio. And I just there's a lot going on for me but outwardly I'm ok you know and that's maybe that's how I've been raised. So maybe Patrice has a problem of his own. Patrice knows how to reach out he knows how to talk to people. So it's busy they are reaching out to me they have no problems. Honor it's not that I'm not trying to be there for you it's just my own life is overwhelming me you know. And I cannot communicate that to you. Infact nukwa nangoja ni malize ishida to start ones up taftana to chill. Benye tukwa na chill. Does that make me a bad friend. Does that make you a bad friend. Does that make me a bad friend. You know you're talking about me because that's exactly what I am. Ya. But what I tend to do personally is that I can have a million things in my head. But when you come to me for anything I always tend to put me aside. Ya but who takes care of you ma? I take care of myself and God like that's me. Okay like that is me. For me to ever get to that point where I have come and tell you know what I'm going through this and that. Eh. You ever you've graduated. Only talk about acquaintance. Umetuka friend you're not even a best friend. I don't know you're just a part of me. But I don't. That's why for me I'd not easily say I have fake friends or real friends because I don't bank anything on friends. Okay. Ya I just don't bank anything on friends. Now you're like on another level now. It's for just caring and loving and not taking anyone too seriously. Not too seriously. Not taking anyone serious. At all. Ya. I like her. Hashtag is where everybody. Wa. Alright so give me your two cents on that and then legit just logically because apparently ma dem tookana feelings. Ya nina zanda shule ni so many graduate. So school physodism. A lafuku jew ni yembeni kuna feelings nikiyongia. Actually that is my feelings. You know feelings can be. It's my feelings. Okay. Anyway. So tell me. Now when do you graduate from being an acquaintance to being a friend? How do you tell somebody is loyal? Okay. Now I think people should start treating friendships like the way you go and look for a marriage partner. Imagine I agree. In the sense that you have to fully investigate this nenga. You meet him daily. I don't oppose. You meet him. I mean you even share the same room for instance. But before he graduates to that level you have to know a lot about him so that he doesn't surprise you. Friends are surprising out here. I hear they say if you have a lua friend he can be with you here over the weekend is not here. And then on Sunday he's going to be with you. Wow. You know he actually said that your friends are surprising. And then he made it seem as if relationships ain't. And I'm like. Yeah but my relationships are also surprising. So I think. No please keep relationships first. Friendships at least they can be a little bit surprising. Friends can surprise you because you've got to be a friend in your relationship. Hey among many other things. So I think you have to really well know your friend. So like most of my friends I know their families. I know their girlfriend and girlfriends. I know major things about them. I know about their sickness by the way. First thing that I can offer. I even know about their blood groups. Wow. Yes. So my friends are there not many. Yeah. Being a political leader you know you might have a lot of people around you but they're not that many. I can relate. So. So. That's one thing that people do not know. Okay wait let me cut you short. Sorry. How do you know these friends know that you know them well? How do you know they loyal? How do you know they real? Apoko intentions. Now it depends with also what kind of a person you are. You know there are people who don't need loyalty. You just need to be there. Wow. Yes. I mean fundraiser over 100,000 to some people it's just no more. That's not loyalty. You get but I mean loyalty to another level. Our interests are aligned and we are not going to betray each other. You know sometimes you can be passive. I mean you don't act on my needs. But you don't betray me. What does that make me? Okay. Betray you. Betray you. Let's talk about betrayal kiasi. Supposing me and you have the same goal. You want to be employed by her. Okay. And you obviously seem like you have an upper hand. Okay. And that's my dream. And we are friends. So if I go and backstab you to get what I want. Would you really term that as. Okay. Let me take back the wide backstab. If I just go and speak nicer than you doing to her. Is that betraying you? So long as you get the job and you will employ me some day. I don't have any issues. Yeah. This kind needs to be my friend. Because I think. Okay. Another thing. Eh. There are many things. Nkwani shamsa apasani me fika apani yu komiteko. Let's start with what you said. I like to think that friends or a friend. I want to say it very loosely. A real friend is someone who would be happy for you. When you grow. When you shine. Absolutely. And it's important to understand. Nkwani skize. Please. I'm not stammering. I'm not stammering. Please listen to me. Okay. These seasons are not always the same. As we started wearing suits in our kindergarten classes. That's why I said ask him. Clearly we have different struggles in life. But assuming we were all starting from somewhere, you know, and now it's time to graduate, see what it's all right. So maybe you became a doctor or whatever it is that your heart desires and you just went in, no kumokao, sijwi, wuka tiza kama jimbo, wajou, dema me omoka kimchezo sana guys. Just one minute I was watching her on was up next, no na, na, na, na, postiwa na bad girl, Riri. I was like, why you who? Ha! Okay, that happened very quickly and maybe you perhaps you find yourself as a governor somewhere, you know, na, na kumuna kwa TV na sama, kiyokitambi na jua. That is my friend. Now looking for sex pipe. Let's say, mimi, mimi sando hasla e, umona yo pichiwa matua me bebo yondo suji ya ma eboila lafut numa me strap on gas, gas cylinder. Just in case, customer na tukama e fry e, maybe that's me. Does that mean now we're going to stop infants? Should I now hate you? I don't think so. I really don't think so. Na sijwi, na na kwa mungu, please, please, please trust. I will go to the most higher than who created me, na tia demona, amayo servant, amayo house girl. Mbo na hao ingi na omoka na Mr. Omoka. Kwa ni? Siu mesama, you created me in your image and likeness. What is the problem? Alafu niksama, Lisa Apu, somehow the universe will start telling me to be content and be grateful and work hard and be patient and trust the process. Na desiba, okay, sour. But then I'll go back to my friends and in my heart, ntasama, you know what? These people, I know where they've come from. I know where they're going. They've come from so far. They've done so well. How can I hate that? How, in fact, I should be saying any dreams do come true. Okay, let me tell you. Let's go back to personality kiazi. You see, there are people who've gone through so much bitterness in their lives to a point where right now they are bitter. So if they see you have what they think, what they should have or deserve, they take it out on you, you know. So it's not just a matter of hating. Sometimes it's even unconscious. Sometimes it just comes from the inside. That is not your friend's problem. That is your problem and only you can fix it. And it happens to everyone. But no, you see, for me, I'll turn the story around because I'm human. I know you're the one who will be the fake friend. Because you're up, then you're not pulling me up with you. Because I'm a robot. Me, I'm not human. No, you're not pulling me up with you. So this situation is what Nani sang, 50 Cent, sang another song. Many men, I don't know if you're right. Yeah, many, many, many, many, many. Yeah, want me dead. The story behind that is 50 Cent and another boy of his, boys, another friend of his, were running business. And this guy felt the need to overtake because 50 Cent was up there and he was down here. So, I mean, sometimes you see, you can be up there and you forget you had friends because you're focusing so much on your dream. I mean, you're also human. There's just that much you can do. You can do everything. Because you also have your mum. By the way, your mum is there. And your dad, you have not mentioned, you see. Now it reached a point, this man, this man planned to alternate 50 Cent and 50 Cent didn't die. And 50 Cent recovered. Now, that guy suffered. Oh, the name Shotshots. Did you meet him? Yes, nine bullets. Did he get one as well? And then him, and then I was saying, three weeks later, he's not breathing, but 50 Cent is breathing. Wow. Yeah. So, I mean, sometimes there is that hostile takeover that comes from, I mean, you're both ambitious, man. You both want something. But at some point, that person who is already ahead of you can only do so much. Thank you, imagine. You see. So, at that point, you see, he's not doing that much for you, but you don't demand too much because you're not a baby. And mum, I mean, I think you're not a baby. Exactly. Yes. And you're not your friend's responsibility. Good. You are God's mothers and fathers and they were part of father and mother ends at 18. But we can all agree that life has levels. Absolutely. So, if we friends right now from high school, like we've been through that shit together, matpukotuki hasl pamoja, and then he patch a job, like another level, forgive me, I don't mean to like now just, you know, kukwe kakando, but the new people nimepachana now, the new things we discussing, when kikuja kwangia nawewe, we're talking about what when I go to that other level of people, we're talking about businesses, investments. So, okay, you labeled me as a fake friend because nimepika paleni me kusaw, but truth is, we're not at the same page anymore and we have to accept that.