 kind of a side note. It's so important that we're not talking about our kids in front of them. This isn't like sensory based, but only conversation topic or anyone, anyone in front of them. Yes, we don't talk about people like they are not in the room. That's just a really important thing with my with my grandma who she has Alzheimer's and always get really frustrated when like, like the staff come over to talk about her in front in front of us. I'm like, you know, yes, it's just doesn't feel right. You know, it's that's, that's one of those parenting things that you that parents need to learn immediately. Not years later, they don't they don't clock that the kids are actually listening and what they're saying. Doctors like the doctors should know at this point, the therapist, that if we're rehashing all of the crises since the last appointment, and the child is in there listening to all of their everything, it is it's not kind. It's this is not compassionate. This is not affirming. So that's just kind of a lesson learned that parents, like we should be telling parents this when the diagnosis comes not. You know, it even happens in, you know, I was watching that show love on the spectrum. And I even saw that that happened between like the camera crew, the interviewers and the parents of this, this one guy. I can't remember what his name is. It's kind of the big star of the show. But they were talking about him in front in front of them in front of them. I was just like, Oh my God, they literally just don't think that they have have the ability to process what they're saying. They're like, if they're not looking directly at them and they're doing their own thing that they they don't have ears and can't like, you know, so it's yeah, and it comes down to the presumed competence. Also, we need to be honoring our kids and honoring autistic people as whole people. It's so important.