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I've not but I've seen this in phone jaggers 1240 on Monday Susie lamp blue Her car was found abandoned and unlocked in a street near the River Thames The prime suspect who's not what he seems Financially and career-wise. I've achieved what I've wanted to achieve This is someone who's literally pretending to be another person so this charm and intellect seems superficial He's faking it I'm just now looking for what the next thing to achieve, but he's kind of overshooting it a bit here And I see that a lot with psychopathic personalities and later The other side of domestic abuse She's trying to project a gentle meek mild vulnerable individual When the truth is she's an aggressive. I could tell that's already gonna make me mad this one Lot of that goes violent Like I sat there and watched the whole My name is Michael Barley in July of 1986 I was a detective sergeant at Fulham police station And got assigned to the Susie lamp blue case 28th of July 1986 Susie lamp blue 25 an estate agent leaves her office at midday her diary recording an appointment with a mr. Kipper She's never seen again Susie's fiesta was parked here, but just over the entrance to this this garage It was almost obstructed the entrance The boot of the car was about here And it's part facing that way But the driver's door was unlocked and say there was a hat on the back parcel shelf The handbrake was off and you could see in the driver's door pocket There was something which turned out to be her purse those sorts of things just thought this isn't right So she got snatched out the car With a hundred offices assigned to the case and an in oh man, don't forget. We do have patreon Investigation that spread from London to the continent the hunt for Susie dominated the news for months The vivacious young estate agent Well bad, this is the patreon for anybody that's new link is down in the description This is everything that's on there and I got two notes two new shows beginning real soon. This is England and one other one I'm wearing a person is believed to have been lured into a trap Police are worried this might be a murder hunt But with few firm leads and immediate suspects being ruled out All the police had to go on was the artist's impression of the mysterious mr. Kipper Just over a year later October 1987 a smart young man arrives for an appointment a minute ago 87 at a dating agency a hundred miles away in Bristol I guess this was the 80s so there was no tender or plenty of fish or BLK or Christian mingle He's well presented. He's well groomed And even the Stuff we were working at the dating agency said he's attractive. He's got charisma Financially and career-wise I've achieved what I've wanted to achieve. I'm just now looking for what the next thing to achieve It's all a charade because he's even using an alias This is someone who's literally pretending to be another person What do nasty Dangerous men look like well. He was the internet before the internet was even out. Well, they look like this His real name is John Kanan a man with a very different backstory Born and raised in Sutton Coldfield near Birmingham John Kanan came from a comfortable background With a doting mother and an ex-RAF father who was a successful car salesman privately educated locally Aged 14 John Kanan committed his first sexual attack more followed culminating in an assault at a local precinct in 1981 John Kanan goes into a knitwear shop the woman is on The phone and she has her two-year-old son With her and he pulls out a knife and puts it to a throat Bundles her into the back office and puts it to the child and said do as you're told or I'll cut him the woman's mother arrives He binds her Hand and foot He rapes the woman as her mother stands there saying Please God leave her alone. She's pregnant Absolutely horrendous attack Police put out a description of the man There's a distinctive Part of his appearance. He's eyebrows. Yeah, the eyebrows is You can't get away from that really over the bridge of his nose and within a week they get a tip-off It's John Kanan John Kanan was jailed for rape After spending five years in prison. He moved to prison And then rolled at a dating agency under a false name John Kanan crops up as John Peterson So not only is he got a brand new name For the purposes of attracting a whole new raft of women But he's got a whole new history and a whole new personality to go with it Now if you join up to a dating agency with a name that's not your own You're not planning on having a long-term relationship. Are you financially in? Career-wise I've achieved what I wanted to achieve. So he's a Bristol businessman and he's made his fortune So he's ready to settle down Spend his time with the right woman Yes, I've admired a few people like Gandhi I Knew he was gonna say something like this Gandhi God Malcolm X philosophers like Bertrand Russell Ah present-day people like Prince Charles Who's socially aware, but he's kind of overshooting it a bit here and I see that a lot with Psychopathic personalities He doesn't seem to realize when he takes it too far but also Classically he gets words wrong. He's He's not actually that good with English and he loves big words and Quite often misuses them. I'm just looking now. I'm in a sedimentary period. Yeah, we're Financially and career-wise. I've achieved what I've wanted to achieve. I'm going through a bit of a sedimentary period Sedimentary is a geological process by which rocks were formed, right? 3.9 billion years ago or so he might have meant sedentary But all that means is that you that you sit down a lot He probably wasn't trying to convey that impression either. He just gets it completely wrong. I'm just looking now I'm in a sedimentary period now. We call this a malapropism because he's using the wrong choice If you're in college, we work at 9 to 5 and it's not what you want. It's not making you happy. I seen that There's a movie on Netflix where the guy did the same thing and it was like the onion dome They took them to the office and they had to solve the murder of himself and somebody was actually trying to take him out He was saying the wrong words playing the role of somebody smart Propism because he's using the wrong choice and What this signals to us is that this is someone who's literally pretending to be someone else He's taking on a persona, which is much bigger than he is in terms of how socially aware he is or Is educational level if you like and his language choices are effectively giving him away at this point We all do this on occasions. I certainly Mess up my words all the time But I think that it's very interesting that some research has shown that people who are very high on psychopathic traits Tend to use more malopropisms and that's because their brain is taxed when they're talking about subjects that they can't emotionally connect to When we saw the video from the dating agency my initial reaction was This is a man. This is a convicted Criminal rapist, but he's trying to portray himself as a businessman who has been amazingly successful Trying to be alluring. He's trying to tell him what they want to hear basically he capping Bad cap because of who he really is it would be good cop if he wasn't really like, you know if he didn't have that history, but But right now it's terrible But he's financially stable that he's achieved everything he wants to achieve these were clearly lies But the interview was no more It's just a beautiful country It's clean. It's precise Well, yes, that's right and what we see is a micro expression which is a combination of contempt and immediately after Fear Contempt is a unilateral expression. It happens on one side of the face And one corner of the lip will move up to the center of the cheek Activated by what we call a buccanator muscle in the cheek And that cheek dimpler action is a sign of contemptuous Judgment, so why would he feel contempt? Maybe because he's being quizzed on a place. He doesn't know too much about it's just a beautiful country It's clean. It's precise. I Never heard somebody describe a place as precise as Clearly he don't know what he so if you look at his eyes, they've widened. We see the whites around the eye If you look at the eyelids, they're stretched Vertically with the top lid high the bottom lip low now when the mouth moves sideways at the same time like we're seeing here Activated by the rhizaurus muscle connected to the lip corners on the cheekbone We know Beyond reasonable doubt. He is experienced in fear. So this charm and intellect seems superficial He's faking it two days after this interview Kanan reverted to type with a vengeance He tried to kidnap a woman near the Bristol waterfront, but her screams forced him to run away But the next day was a different story Shirley Banks has been married for six weeks She and her husband Richard They have arranged a date night And she goes into the broad meat center in in Bristol and selects a blue and white print dress She makes her way back to her car Amen Attacks her and gets into the car with her she goes missing Three weeks later more than a hundred miles away in Lemington spa Police arrest a man after he uses a knife to threaten a shop assistant His name John Kanan He was brazen too. He's like broad daylight Like Maybe sometimes not broad daylight people were definitely around and this is possibly visible and they rapidly find his car and there are handcuffs a replica gun and Absolutely crucially a tax disc from Shirley Banks's orange mini But when police traced that orange mini it looked very different What John Kanan had taken that into his garage Resprated and changed the number plate and he changed the number plate from HWL 507N to SLP 386S He chose those letters and he chose them in that order the obvious significance is SLP used to for Susie Lamploo He collected trophies and put in slick little names on them that will he test people like SLP Stand for Susie Lamploo the only person that can possibly tell us is of course John Kanan 14 months and two weeks earlier July the 25th 1986 Wormwood Scrubs west London John Kanan is completing a five-year jail sentence for rape As part of his rehabilitation He's in the prison's day release hostel and has a job locally But doesn't spend the evenings locked up There are insecure windows people get out and particularly Kanan was known to get out at night and He was drawn as if to a honeypot to fool him three miles up the road Wine bar drawn locked up Hostel and has a job of his rehabilitation He's in the prison's day release hostel and has a job locally But doesn't spend the evenings locked up There are insecure windows This is two separate events now And y'all give him this type of leeway. I don't care what he does in prison to be so So good and get these type of leisure and whatnot like Keep him maxed cat a as people get out and particularly kanan was known to get out at night and He was drawn as if to a honeypot to fool him three miles up the road wine bars full of young professional women Exactly the sort of woman that he targeted Kanan completed his sentence for rape and was released He's come out of wormwood scrubs hostel On friday the 25th of july He's been out three days That puts it to monday the 28th of july That's the day that susie lamploo goes missing Three days after he got out from a halfway house where he wasn't even secure. He commits his next guy The photo fit of mr. Kipper the man seen with a woman who looked like susie lamploo on the day she went missing Bore a striking resemblance to john kanan After he was jailed for life for the murder of sherry banks in bristol and other violent sexual attacks Offices investigating the susie lamploo case questioned john kanan in prison They believed the changed car number plate meant an even stronger link to susie lamploo He said about the car that the car belonged to a bristol businessman And that he was the man who was responsible for the murder of susie lamploo and i said to him Is that man you john? and he said yes Then he went no, no, I meant it's not me. I'm backtracked And we carried on questioning him And he didn't come back to that point. I couldn't get it from him anymore. We had a break But I actually believe for that very brief moment in time That john kanan was telling the truth I don't know whether this is a slip of the tongue or rather a slip of the ego And you know you tend not to make mistakes when you're talking about something as serious as murder The fact that john kanan said yes It was enough for me That that he was a man responsible You can't prosecute somebody for murder or one word But sometimes killers just can't help taking You can't prosecute somebody for murder on one word You can if the question is did you do it and the word is yes that Ownership of what they've done even if it's in a very momentary way because They are secretly very proud of what they've done. So they want other people to know it Even if it's just for a split second. So it feels to me like it's a very significant moment It feels to me that it's an admission of guilt Susie lamplu's mother Diana was convinced john kanan had killed her daughter Part of my body has died We merge it But it would take a review of susie's case 14 years after her disappearance before police once again questioned john kanan Tapes of the interview in a custody suite were leaked to a national newspaper Our experts watched the extracts posted online First kanan answers questions about susie lamplu I I don't really see as things currently What else there is to be said? I don't really see As things currently stand What else there is to be said? and the the anger Mimic because I believe this is faked Is on the first part and the second part of the sentence I don't really see as things currently stand What else there is to be said? I'm going to pretend to be angry But he lets himself down with this instant drop Instant increase which is not characteristic of anger. He's not feeling angry And unfortunately for him what he's adding is a qualifier what we call an exclusion qualifier as things currently stand In other words what you've got me on so far is just circumstantial And therefore I'm not going to give you anything else because I'm feeling fairly secure at the moment Mrs. Lamplu thinks I've done it She's accused me of doing it. He uses done it and doing it So we've got examples of being deliberately ambiguous and distancing It is a form of even distancing himself. The little things that these people catch on to like I completely missed when he said done it and doing it like The little things that these professionals catch up like I wonder how it would be being in a relationship with this woman Just out of curiosity like you could not You got to be faithful as you should in a relationship But if you think you funny cheat on her or lie or do anything behind her back. Oh, no You had another thing coming Let's see. She got a ring on her finger man. Let's check it out So from even naming what happened to Susie Lamplu and we know that Susie Lamplu was murdered So that's why we've got both ambiguous language and distancing happening at that point I've answered only question you've put to me I've invited mrs. Lamplu herself up to the prison Franklin prison to have a quiet word to me To to question me or if her husband wants to question me And I've said I'll go on the lie detector test the truth drug or anything you want to put me on And so far We've not had a denial One of the 27 indicators of deception is evasiveness And evasiveness is characterized by not answering a question If you didn't do it, you say I didn't do it. He's not taking the opportunity here So why is he holding back? John Canaan has always maintained that he had nothing to do with Susie Lamplu's disappearance I'm trying as I've always tried for 12 years to try and help you to try and help persuade you that it wasn't me Our experts gave their view of this denial All he needed to say was it made me for whatever reason he qualifies that it doesn't do that And he goes to this helping frame to try and help you to try and help persuade you that it wasn't me Why does that it wasn't me come after So much additional packaging. What he's saying Is I'm trying and I've been trying for 12 years to convince you that it wasn't me That is not really a denial Canaan then said more More than anyone had expected My life, um, I think was that believe me. I'm genuinely sorry for Um, one or two things I haven't been caught for now. Does he realize that that's a stupid thing to say right now Because what you can see in his eyes is fear His eyes have widened. You can almost see the whites of the eye We call that the sclera around the iris and the pupil As we move into a micro expression of why died fear He's experiencing a fear state and that could be because he's just semi-confessed By saying I've committed crimes I haven't been caught for Um, I think was that believe me. I'm genuinely sorry for One or two things I haven't been caught for If we unpack this we have a credibility qualifier believe me and then we have That's how these rappers be in the booth When they Admitting they crimes over over rap, maybe Yeah, yeah She can stop them Have interesting language choices. So genuinely sorry for relates to many crimes But not all crimes So that suggests to me that there are some crimes that is He's actually admitting to us on camera. That is not genuinely sorry for So if he was genuinely sorry for all of his crimes, why isn't he in that police station right now? telling us About those are the crimes Part of the reason is he's a criminal. He wants you to do his job, you know, criminality is a game of cat and mouse We don't say cat being police mouse being criminal He knows he's holding information back and that's fear attached make you work for it He's already locked up for life. So why would there be any fear attached? He's just gonna make it hard for you Withalding that information back. So this isn't about him easing his conscience at all. This is about him Maintaining things that the police haven't yet found out One or two things I've been caught for it's a not thing to say, isn't it? But I think he's trying to bargain with the police what he's trying to say is Look, I have done terrible things that I've been not caught for But this isn't one of them So he's trying to deflect attention away from Susie Lamplu's murder and look like he's actually giving A bit of useful information to the police look like he's trying to be honest But actually all he's trying to do is serve his own needs Canaan then criticized the police Claiming they had planted stories in the newspapers Blaming him for Susie Lamplu's murder What you've done the press gonna be depressed man the press make their own story Is a dam site more serious than you will ever know Because you are affecting Um, my own position my own legal position and you're affecting quite frankly my case I'll be honest with you. I think you're not that you're not involved in a prosecution You're involved in a persecution which for me is a great line. Um This is somebody that um Thinks about some of the choices Um, that was a great line That we are looking at it objectively that was a great line They were non-objective Make in terms of language But was volume is down now. This is someone from most of the interview who has had the volume up Um, and now we get the volumes down That volume down tends to undermine the words that he's saying at that point So there's a sense in which that he knows this isn't persecution And and this is about the police trying to get to the truth Though the police wanted Canaan charged the prosecutor ruled against wanting more conclusive evidence Heartbreaking news for Susie's family We are greatly distressed And indeed considerably angered that after all these years It is still not possible To prosecute the person who both we and the police believe murdered Susie The detective who questioned that person John Canaan more than 30 years ago Still believes he is guilty and will never forget the prime suspect's momentary admission I think the three main reasons why I think John Canaan Is responsible and he is still the main suspect one He couldn't account for his movements On the 28th of July Satisfactorily to us The car the mini that he changed that number plate to SLP. I think that's very significant And thirdly He said yes to a simple question Oh, no, bro. Is it me or is It be seeming like they got more than enough evidence to get a conviction They found her car in his garage like they found her car Spray with a new plate in his like possession or somewhere in his possession Uh Will link to him having possession of it He said yes, I would as as soon as he would have said yes, I would all right that concludes it Get out of there like 35 years on the Susie lamp blue case remains unsolved and the search continues 25 years of policing this one sticks with me It's not a success of policing This one from the policing perspective It's not a success It's not a success from the policing perspective We haven't found the body. We haven't found Susie We can't give satisfaction to the family So there's a bit of a sense of failure. I feel on on our part on my part because we weren't able to resolve it But the answer The answer to this lies in one man's head And that's John Canaan Good morning Susie lamp blue trust Diana and Paul lamp blue worked tirelessly to Pull something positive out of the wreckage of this situation And they created the Susie lamp blue trust And the trust does some remarkable work Trying to keep people safe keep women safe in particular and advocating for victims silver lining If there can be one this is a really heart wrenching case And it feels just as relevant now 35 years on That it did at the time So I feel as a woman Susie could have been literally any one of us And is every one of us whenever we feel afraid and unsafe If John Canaan knows anything anything at all about her disappearance He's got a moral obligation to tell the police To give her family some sort of As a as a perfectly sane person Who's on that side of the line? Yes, you would think like that. But as John is that guy You don't have no moral obligation to do nothing. He's a he's a M-u-r-d-e-r-e-r What morals closure some sort of justice Maybe even bring her body back home I think that he understands this I think that he knows this But if he is responsible, I just don't think that he cares 10th of june 2017 A 21 year old man is rushed to the a and e unit at bedford hospital His name alex skill He was found to have second and third degree burns over a number of areas of his body He had stab wounds scarring scalding burn marks alex tells police the person who's attacked him is his 22 year old girlfriend, jordan Jordan worth presents herself as a Meek and mild almost innocent person here Where she's trying to project a gentle meek mild vulnerable individual When the truth is She's an aggressive violent abuser of a partner At the surface level You would think well, how could she possibly be carrying out this type of abuse against alex? She went to university She's got a couple of children Seen from a well-mannered background Or how possibly Could a woman like this be carrying out domestic abuse Against a man. It just doesn't seem possible or plausible And that that's that's that's what that's what women like is behind behind The thought of oh man, nobody's gonna think this is possible Look at look at how my life has set up Nah, bro It could happen to anybody This could be anybody Jordan worth and alex skill had met as teenagers Jordan worth was a Student who had achieved a degree in finance. She had done a large amount of charity work The couple seemed happy But the smiles masked the truth The situation was very different behind closed doors One of the key features of domestic violence is the Jekyll and Hyde thing Facing police questions, Jordan worth tried to give a very different version of events She was to say to officers that she herself had been the subject Of violence at the hands of alex She did admit In due course that she struck him, but she Effectively was seeking to downplay the matter to police I thought it's Just wanna sort everything out Start again to him. She's leaning on the table Uh, she's got her head covered her shoulders are rolled in. She's trying to create a vulnerability in the eyes of the police Start again to him. Yeah And she closes off this statement. Do you think she's actively trying to do that? Or just something that's coming natural to her like the body's instinct is to do that, bro With some Jekyll and Hyde behavior What we see here is with the left hand She grooms the side of her face and uh, takes the hair behind her ear in almost like a vulnerable pose But look at her right hand You've got the fist firmly clenched on the table How old are you? 22 and I was 21 Of what you were doing I was holding a knife And if you notice the rotation of her wrist here, she's clearly mimicking pointing the knife forward But maybe realizing how aggressive this might look she very quickly softens it off and turns it back and places her hand on the desk here So she's reliving the moment, but I'm gonna minute. This is looking too bad I'll soften off and bring back to the table Your son is into coming So she's trying to describe a Vicious attack with a knife in a light-hearted way and we are I guarantee you she's an only child too Have a gentle social smile on her face Almost trying to take the emphasis away from what was a vicious attack I was holding the knife Your son is into coming house There's laughter when she says the house and the volume drops If we put those two things together, I was holding the knife And the relationship like this right now I just wanted him to come in the house means that her motivation According to worth for holding the knife was to get alex to come in So one of the first questions we'd want to ask is why does she need a knife In order to get alex to come in the house Tell me about the knife It was a big one Kitchen I think it was a bread knife It's at this point we see an increase in hesitation and pauses which is a sign Of stress potentially it's also indicative of deception in some cases Tell me about the knife It was a big one Kitchen I think it was a bread knife and It was a big one So we can assume she chose a big one from the kitchen and she thinks it's a bread knife So in spite I'm gonna keep it a buck with y'all right now. I'm gonna keep it real. I don't even know the difference between kitchen knives All I know is butter knife And knife That's it of her demeanor in spite of how she says this That's quite a menacing thing to do She's asked So now we know it's menacing Um, it's a it's a loaded question I don't even think it went that far but it did those little blood There was a lot of blood. She's admitting she's caused alex harm, but she isn't telling us she's attacked him She's telling us she was holding the knife that then ended up in him and then it didn't go in that far Notice she doesn't say she didn't put it in that far She then contradicts herself, of course because she tells us there was a lot of blood So it would suggest it went in far enough to cause quite a serious injury Jordan worth seems quite compliant in her police interviews. She's trying to show that She's sitting forward she's paying attention and she's answering the questions Look, if you're ambitious, you're young, you want to make money Using but right now she's using the one that is You know indicative of the situation Big word But what I find quite disturbing is the fact that even though she wants to minimize what she's done to alex She's actually quite matter of fact. She seems to have lost all sense of perspective that this is absolutely Inappropriate unacceptable behavior. It shows what has become the norm for them in their household Pretty soon after their relationship started. She began to control And suggest what he wore She wanted him to wear clothes that were made by jack wilts because it was the same initials as her name As it progressed she would Effectively end up taking over his facebook profile and shutting down his contacts Also Jordan worth insisted on the color of alex's clothing and forbid him from wearing anything in gray Domestic abuse is very insidious It's a drip drip drip of behaviors And those first behaviors Jordan worth telling alex that he doesn't really suit some colors. So he should wear another color instead They they seem to be almost caring a lot of them are packaged as romance Well, I only get possessive because I really really a backwards compliment. We love you It's a whole pattern of behaviors a whole raft of different behaviors designed to Manipulate a victim and make that victim dependent on somebody And they think well, yes, because this person loves me so much Don't they that this must be right and then they try and alter their behavior To try and avoid there being any unpleasant consequences in the future Now, of course, they they find that they can't avoid unpleasant consequences And so they feel helpless they feel trapped and they feel stuck in this situation that they just can't get out of Eventually alex's skill did decide he'd had enough of jordan's control and he ended their relationship after two years together But when jordan gave birth to alex's child they reunited and eventually moved to a new address in stewartby bedfordshire He became cut off from his friends and his family He became captured completely captured and controlled by jordan So that he had no independence no means of escape Despite the arrival of a second child the abuse continued On june the third 2017 bedfordshire police are alerted Neighbours had called them to say that they felt that his life was actually at risk Police arrived at one o'clock in the morning They could see that alex had a number of very serious injuries And at that stage alex was indicating to police that he had self harmed and they were self inflicted One officer recorded the scene on his body camera The body cam footage that we see is really quite Harrowing viewing it's painful viewing because you see just how broken alex And even though he's got a policeman standing in front of him. He's too afraid to say yes, she's doing this to me. Please help me So he goes along with the pretense that in actual fact, he's a self-harmer and he's doing this to himself That shows you just how powerful a figure Jordan worth is to him With no complaint from alex skill the police made no arrests He was left at home with jordan worth But things would change dramatically Sunday june the 10th 2017 One week after police visit the home of If there's anybody going through any domestic situations on either side of the fence, man Do not let it's listen. It does not get better It only gets worse You need to separate you need to call whatever hotline you need to call You know call your parents and get help You ain't got to deal with it by yourself. Get help alex skill and his partner jordan worth A second emergency call is made The thing for me is that alex's neighbors saved his life But police spoke to alex this time privately and that then started the police investigation into the matter But at first alex insists there's no problem Eventually the officer persuades alex to make a Statement just as jordan enters the room To get alex away from jordan the police tell her they're taking him to hospital alex was taken to hospital Finally confirmed the officer's suspicions Jordan worth was taken to the police station, but tried to downplay evidence of alex's injuries I think the ghost fucked my husband Tell me about this hairbrush of alex's injuries Tell me about this hairbrush that you came from the car Well Whenever we've had an argument in the car I'll Wrapped my hair, so it's on the side and I'll just hit him either wherever I can What she's trying to do is minimize her actions by saying just my hairbrush Wrapped my hairbrush and sort of hit him wherever I can So she's using vague language When she says, um, I'll just sort of hit him wherever I can It shows intent We've had an argument happens more than once My go-to is to pick up the hairbrush that is on the side and I'll just sort of hit him It suggests it's an activity that she's engaged in definitely more than once and probably regularly and they got a newborn child You think these kids don't ingest What they see at such a young age, but they do believe me they do I got a child They take all of that again, man Next there were questions about a much more serious attack So we have an interest in confession here Because the discussion now is around Worth pouring boiling water over alex Often while he's sleeping in bed boiling water And we've seen the results of that in terms of the scarring of the tissue On his arms and and around his back And it was so bad his screams It never relates, never So she Uses head shakes and says never in leads, but she falters on never It never relates, never And she repeats never again, which suggests it's undermining what she's just said There's a lack of confidence in what she's saying Trying to reassure herself with the double never It never relates, never So she didn't say I didn't pour water on him She's saying here, yes, I do pour boiling water on him, but you've got it wrong not in leads Very very weird He says that he's told to make a story up So your parents that the shower in the hotel was faulty Yeah, right, you know how much money out stewed that hotel for it was burning me like that. Come on now. Yeah, I'll be rich So And there were scars from another attack from another serious weapon When Jordan worth mentions the hammer in the police interview we have more evidence of fake language She tells us there was a hammer and then she pauses she hesitates Pours us again and then tells us but I never I never hurt him. It's what she's telling He knows is that she didn't hurt him too much Not that she didn't hurt him with the hammer I think she did more And we obviously did more because he had marks all over the place And you've accepted that you have thrown water over him. That was boiling Okay, and you have accepted that you swapped him with the knife and cut him. All right And the other time you're just Maybe like but you can't argue about those injuries because they're quite obvious because the burn marks and the cuts Finally there was the claim that you look at this man This man looks over. Let me move out the way because y'all not getting the full grasp of this picture, right? Look at this man. This man looks so peaceful in the hospital bed Wherever he is that he looks peaceful right now while somebody probably in the kitchen plotting Boiling water Jordan had stopped Alex from seeing his parents Alex seems relieved That he's now going home Back to his family. I'm gonna have ptsd for ever He feels he's being isolated from Isolating a victim from their friends and family is Very very common amongst domestic abusers Because they don't want to be found out They don't want their partner to have the support network to be able to go to and potentially leave them He states that majority of the content of his family has been stopped because you You hear that I'm a sudden this to you You hear that Stopped him having contact And also they're jealous of the relationships that their partners have with other people They want to create a world where it's just them and their partners because that way they've got far more control Would you say at any point you have made it difficult for him to see his friends and family? He made it okay. He didn't want to see any of his family. He said he hated his family Illusionability. I made that word of I don't know if that's a real delusional to his family He wasn't a stupid family At the root of this appears to be morbid jealousy and what I mean by that is not just the green-eyed monster, but a real Pathological fear that somebody is going to come in and take her man That's the paradox of domestic abuse So you've got these people who exert so much power and control over their partners But that doesn't make them Powerful individuals. They might be dominant individuals. They might be very bullying individuals But at the heart of it, they're actually really very inadequate It stems from their lack of self-worth and self-esteem And the inability to believe that actually somebody could just love them for them and want to stay with them without them having to Make sure that happens by being controlling threatening intimidating Jordan Worth pleaded guilty to causing grievous bodily harm with intent And was the first woman in the uk to be guilty of the new offense of coercive control She was jailed for seven and a half years Not all as she should be domestic abuse Involves physical violence and so coercive control has now been made into an offense to recognize that It might involve threats. It might involve intimidation In this case, it involved isolating alex from his family Taking his wallet away from him not allowing him to go to work Not allowing him to sleep in the bed Not even allowing him to eat when he needed to eat So all of this has an cumulative This is not the same dude that we saw when the police came Effect of making him feel helpless Hopeless and utterly utterly dependent I'm glad you up out of there alex your kid probably with you and she is in jail currently probably Because that was in 2007 2008 2017 2018 so Tlo leave a like comment subscribe turn on your post notification if you are in any if you're in a situation like this Or know anybody in a situation like this Help them