 Oh, the phone sideways. Y'all give me a second, YouTube. Q Scott, is it showing more video sideways? Like is it showing you me, actually, or my turn sideways, or can you see me normal? Trying to wonder, I tried to turn this sideways so I get a little bit more wider view. Okay, so I'm looking straight. Okay, just making sure it's normal that it adjusted. Okay, awesome, appreciate y'all. I was on Instagram, just kinda opened up the app and I seen this message pop up and it said, you know, sudden such trying to send you a message. And so when I clicked on it and went to the request, I saw a few people had sent me the same video. And it was a video of a lady who has the three men. And I did a little video about this, but because of the way the video, I mean, because I used the footage from the show, it was, they limited it. So I just figure I'll talk about it without using the actual footage from the show. But it's really, it looked like it's current time. I don't know if it's something from old, but it just kind of go to show you like how the times that we are in. And when, as they say, the rabbit got the gun. Now we know all too well about men having multiple women. We done heard about that. We done heard about men having multiple women we done seen TV shows about it and you know, all of that different stuff. But it's totally different when you see it on, when it switch and it shows the lady with the men. And so that right there, that lets you know like, okay, we in a different time because here's the thing, it's like for a woman, I would imagine that it would be different because the woman is a receiver and this wasn't really being talked about but I haven't shared this a few times and on some different podcasts and now it doesn't start to kind of go viral when we talk about the woman being a receiver and when you think about it, it's kind of like just how they say the rabbit got the gun. When you think about it, a man is doing the shoe and the woman doing the receiving. And so which end would you rather be on? When you think about it, would you rather be the one doing or the one catching it? And that's the difference. And when you realize that a man can take and none of this is to justify it, but just to show you the difference in the order even where you see this stuff is like common and where it's legal, you've heard people talk about how a woman can only be pregnant from one man at a time, but a man can go in the same day and impregnate several different women. And it kind of says something about the body and it says something about the majesty of the body that God made a woman's body that it can only carry one man's child at a time. And when she carrying that child, she off the market, like her body can't do nothing for 10 months. The first four weeks we don't know about and then the next nine months we know about and 10 months her body off the market. But yet he made a man body to where it could just skeet around, just skeet around different women in the same day. And so it's a lot of value in a woman's body. And so when a woman receives, and I remember the doctor saying how a man can be carrying a STD and not even know it, like showing no signs and symptoms, but a woman carrying a STD and she, her body aching up and it's insides. And it's different for a man and a woman because it's insides. We'll see where's a man got, it's like another arm or another leg. But what a woman got is far more complex and a lot go on with it. It's almost like it's sacred. And so when you think about this, it does not make sense for a woman to use her body the same way that a grown boy will use his body. Cause a man shouldn't be using his body recklessly either, but a man who does, does not care about his body. And most of us men have been in that place, but not for a woman who body is totally different. Now we talking about, we talking about a body that bleed for a week out of every month. We talking about a body that it's just a part that it's always kind of working and doing something. What women have to deal with, men don't have to deal with. So a woman can mess around and easily get a UTI, yeast infection. As a man, I've never had a UTI. I've never had a yeast infection, but almost every single woman don't went through those things. And so what you have to realize is the woman's body is far more complex. Cat, stay out the chat talking. That's why you're here confused cause you need to hush. As you see, coming to the video, just sit here and listen, still trying to be like the kid in the classroom, standing up, making noise. And so when you think about a woman's body, a woman body is far more complex than a man. So you have to take and take care of your body. Like you can't say, oh, cause men do this, I'm going to do this. Cause we're not the same. So don't just go and do something just to do it because in a lot of women saying, oh, well, men been doing this for a long time, not a woman doing it. Men got a problem. Listen, as men, we know we stupid. We know we ignorant when we do that. Really what we saying is, hey, you really don't want this over here. Like, especially with what you got going on. A woman body way different. So now you receiving this man into you, and you're going to eventually now receive a sexually transmitted disease. If you keep it, if you keep going, different men, you immediately going to receive a spiritually transmitted disease. And what you're going to receive is a tie, a spiritual tie. You're going to receive an emotional tie that ties you to that man. See, I'm going to tell you something about, I want to tell the lady something about men. One thing about men, one of the things that we believe is that if we sleep with a woman, we own her. So a man's goal is to sleep with a woman because we know, even if a man has never read the Bible, even if a man knows nothing about biology, anatomy, every man inherently believes that if he sleep with a woman, he owns her. And that is in so much power associated with that act in the mind of a man. See, as far as the woman is concerned, now see, we take and we say, oh, it don't matter for us. It don't mean nothing for me. You'll hear a lot of men say, oh, it don't mean nothing to a man. But even if he believes that, he knows it means something to a woman. And see, that's why a man could sleep with a woman or have some type of connection with a woman and he could come back 10 years later, 15 years later and that woman will open the door for him because of the connection that he made with her heart 10, 15 years ago. I hear from women all the time dealing with men that they dealt with a decade ago, two decades ago because a woman is not created to be passed around. A woman in created to be passed around and a lot of women feel like, oh, well, that's not fair. That's not fair. You say a woman can't do what a man does. You need to be thankful that you're not created to do what a man does because it's no benefit to a woman sleeping around because you're building emotional ties, you putting your body at risk, you devaluing yourself and you're giving the most prized possession in a man's eye to a man. See, it's different if you say, well, oh, what's between my legs is not my most prized possession. You're correct, but it's in the eye of the beholder. So if a man views that what's between your legs is the most prized thing to him when he getting to know you and you give him that. It's really like you having a company and you giving somebody health benefits on day one. You having a company and you allowing your employee to be vested on day one or without putting in the work, without due diligence. That's what it is in the mind of a man when a woman gives him any part of her body. And so some women say, oh, well, I'm not gonna give a man what's between my legs, but I give him my mouth. So you give a man your mouth, but what a lot of women don't understand is that when you put your mouth on a man, you actually have given him more than had you opened your legs. It is more degrading for a woman to use her mouth than between her legs. And I come to realize that a lot of women don't know that. It's a lot of virgins between the legs, but not virgins by their mouth. And they think that because they ain't done nothing between the legs, they still a burden. No, you did worse. You did worse. A man I actually respect and see, let me tell you, this is the thing with men. This thing with men is Charlene, I'm gonna have to, I'm gonna have to get you to be quiet or Charlene, you know, hit her like a bot and I didn't pail her out to her. This is what women don't understand. Women will put their mouth on a man and think that they're doing something special by having their legs closed. And what you got to realize is when you talk to a man, you're gonna, and when you around men, you're gonna hear men say this phrase. You're gonna hear a man say, man, I wouldn't let her do nothing, but I wouldn't let her do nothing, but give me some head. I wouldn't let her do nothing, but sloppy topic. I wouldn't let her do nothing, but what that is telling you right there is that the lesser man values a woman, the least he wanna do with him. Meaning he will let a $2 woman who on the street corner put her mouth on him, but he will not climb up in between her. And then women be thinking, oh, well, I didn't sleep with her. I just did or I'll be like, hold on, let's say, listen to what you just said, okay? Listen to what you just said. If this man got HIV, if this man got her pee, if this man got gentle to war, you just now got that in your mouth. That's what you got to drink with. You got to eat with. You got to kiss your child with that. You got to talk with that. So the difference is if it's between your lead, don't nobody got to know, ain't nobody got to see that, but you ain't got, but you ain't got. So with y'all, please pass the memo to women that you are doing worse by putting your mouth on a man, then sleep with them. If you will put your mouth on a man, you might have well spread ego. You might have well spread ego because at least then you put something on top of it. You put something on top of it, at least then. And you cover up and then you can have something in you and on him and you still can't block the spiritually transmitted disease. But when you put your mouth on a man, you ain't got no prophylactic in your mouth and you ain't putting nothing on him either. And then here go, hey little Liz, I'll say just, I'm telling you from a man perspective, it's worse. It's worse. And see, this is what y'all have to realize. This is what women don't understand is there's a difference between a classy woman and just a regular woman. So what you have to realize is that a classy woman will end up building with a man and she'll sleep with a man before she put her mouth on him. That a class and see this man have the data. So this how a man views a woman. When he look at this woman, he say, oh, she don't put her mouth on me, but this woman over here won't put her mouth on me. So now he now has a comparison. He now has a comparison and now you just put yourself in a different class and this other woman then elevated herself. She might actually have more bodies than you because it's actual quote unquote virgins that's putting their mouth on a man and had no clue that that is seen as worse to a man than just sleeping with them. See, this is why you got to understand a lot of men don't like to put on protection. And the reason why a lot of men don't like to put on protection is because when the owl hit it, when the owl hit it, it stimulated. So if it's enclosed in the prophylactic that wind can't get to it. So now you can't get that cool breeze. So now that you can't get that cool breeze, you're gonna get limp faster. This is why I got to create tonic tool so I can really educate y'all because I can't educate everything on here. And so this what y'all understand. When you do the other one, you're doing worse because the man got that cool breeze. About to go to bed buddy, lay, sleep tight. Close the door. So I have to talk in cold because Manayo, he's walking to the door to say good night. Good night, I'm talking in cold. And so this what y'all realize. If you were to lay down with a man and you have him put that right there on, that prophylactic, now to him, he actually like, well, well, it's harder. Now you put more pressure on me now. But when you just been a sloppy toppy, when you've been the same on that microphone, for one, he looking at you as nasty. And this what a lot of women don't realize is when you open your mouth and put your mouth on a man, if he got any kind of decency in him and you don't put your mouth on him before y'all then lay down together, you just ex yourself out as a wife. If he got any kind of decency in him. Now what you have to understand now is a decent man, a grown man will still accept that sloppy toppy. Yeah, women think that mature mean perfect. A lot of women think mature mean perfect. That ain't what mature mean. Women think man or God mean perfect. That ain't what man or God mean. Listen, a man is a man. A man is a man, you hear me? And it take a whole lot for a man to be renewed by God. Cause listen, if you take that mouth up there to the pastor, that pastor gonna have a hard time turning you down. And if I don't recommend doing this now, cause you're going to bust hell wide open with gasoline draws on for being a hindrance to your brethren. But if you was nasty enough to do it and you went and tried 10 pastors, I'm gonna guesstimate two or three, I'm gonna say no. And out of the two or three, all three might be saying no cause they got ED. You hear what I'm telling you? A man got to be renewed all the way. Listen what I'm telling you now cause I'm gonna give you a little bit of game. So now the later ED now, wow. Come on now. The first word me and the D stand for dysfunction. Love. Well now I've got talking cold on him now. So listen, the lady who going viral right now on social media, I'm gonna tell y'all something from a male perspective, she is not, she is not cute. And what I mean by this is she cute, meaning in the eyes of the Lord. I'm not saying the lady look bad or nothing like that. But what I'm saying is for you to have three willing men to be in a relationship with you and the men is all the way together, you got to be Beyoncé. Now I'm gonna tell you Beyoncé, if she gonna break bread, if Beyoncé gonna break bread, it's three of us to be with her now. Oprah, three of us to be with her. Who else? See a man is about that money and see the third man this lady I'm brought in, the third lady this man I'm brought in, what did he say? The other two men said, well, you and her used to be together. And you know, he said, yeah, it was intense. And then they say so, so the man say, so what make you think, so what make you think y'all gonna be different this time? Well, what's the reason you coming back this time? And that's what I, do you write Beyoncé, Jezebel, that's what I'm trying to say now. And so the man say, well, it's about money. Listen, listen. Somebody says on TLC show, it's about money. That's what the man says about money. The first man with the locks, he like men. The other man with the ears and the head line, he like him men too, but he just ain't all the way, he ain't all the way gone, but he like him men. And then the third one, he bought that money. It's certain type of men that they're doing a thing strained for a piece of change. And what this lady is, this lady is a poster for childhood trauma. It's almost like the therapist said, I wanna show y'all what childhood trauma look like as an adult. Since y'all don't understand what childhood trauma look like, I'm finna show y'all on TV what it look like. It's like a therapist that brought it all the way to life for you. To show you this right here, and then I went on the post, it was on Tyree's page, he posted it. It was a young lady in the comments that say, my mother and then added her. So the fact that she added her, they trying to be famous. They wanna be famous. They sold out for the money. They'll do anything for some money. And to be honest with you, this could be fake. Now, they better at this than Denzel, watch it and invite Ola Davis. If it is fake, so I believe it, but they want that check. And it really ain't making no money now cause I've done reality TV show, reality TV ain't no money in reality TV. Ain't no money now. Nah, yeah, when you on season 10, they'll finally give you a little something to make you look like you got something but ain't no money in reality TV. So they think they're gonna get rich and that's why they showing this. Because if she really just wanted to just do this, then Carolyn G, just stay on the point, sister. And so if she really just wanted to do this, she wouldn't be on TV. They trying to get some money. And the men, I don't know, I don't know what a, I don't see, listen, I don't know how to say this. I know what a ugly man is. It's me and that I could look at them and say, well, all his features intact. So he must be a handsome man. And then a woman to say, no, he ain't handsome. I said, okay, that'll let me know on like me and then cause I can't tell you what a handsome man is. But I could, in my mind, guesstimate, I'm thinking I know what a ugly man is. Now, one thing I know is when I was a matchmaker, I never heard a woman describe these three men. Looking at these three men, I never heard their description in a matchmaking session when a woman describing what she looking for. I never seen their description. So it let me know that they're not lookers. And that's the thing too, is they tired of being overlooked. They tired of being overlooked and under looked. So they say, listen, I got to do what I got to do. And here's the thing, what people don't understand about the spirit of a woman. See, some women understand this and they misuse it. But when you hear about a Jezebel spirit, when you hear a Jezebel spirit, and you hear about these different type of spirits, women have a spirit. And when a woman wanna use that spirit in the wrong way, when a woman wanna use that spirit in the wrong way, she can seduce a man. And she could get anything she want from a man. So what this woman got on her, although she not a looker, she has a seducing Jezebel spirit. She has a seducing spirit. And so these men who have not been around these men who have not had their feel of women who want them, they easily seduced by her. And she got that gawk, gawk 3000 that y'all talked about. And these men, when they got that gawk, gawk 3000 put on them to the level that they got it put on them, she could have very well, unless they paid for it. She could have very well been they first. She could have very well been they first, them first two men. Now that third man who came in the picture, he didn't have him some, he didn't have him some, he didn't have plenty. He didn't have plenty. You could see the spirit on them. So what he doing is he coming and he saying, the third man who came in, he is the alpha male amongst them three. That's why he came in like that. He really ain't looking in the eyes. He tapped them up and he hugged that first man, but see the third man, he shot out. Him and her, they are a match. And that's why they was together a decade ago. And that's why he say, yeah, it was intense. Cause he met his match and she met her match and now they trying to rekindle. But see, he shot out. He'll take on something up the tailpipe. He will do anything for him some money. He'll do anything for some money. Yeah. Charlene, I'm married. I'm about to have to block you now. About to have to block you and come on here with the spirit now. It could be that lady on here trying to mess up, trying to mess up the conversation. She could see I'm on here talking about either her daughter on here with a little bat page. Time y'all already now, Charlene, my time y'all again now. Listen to me. That third man, he coming in now, he won a wreck shot. So what he think he finna do, he coming in to put pole on her. But see, he's a toxic lover for her. He coming to put pole on her and then she might break up with them other two and then try to convince him to let her brain to mow in now. So this woman got three husbands basically, three men. Now listen, for any man that have been with a sane woman, and especially any married man that has been with a sane woman knows that a woman before 40s, before her 40s, really don't be especially of kids in the picture and I don't think they got none of that. So this lady probably what she feel like in her prime. But this is a sign. What this also is a telltale sign to men to let you know. Men, we get so high up on ourselves. We can't please no woman. And that's really why a lot of women get bored with sleeping with a man, with a man cause it ain't even pleasurable. It ain't even good. And it really don't be good till a woman ain't got it. And the reason why it'd be better in the mind of a woman when she don't have it readily available is because the mind is wired to self-soothe and the mind remembers things better than it actually was. So that's why single women be so horny. But women who got it on top and could get it any time don't really be that crazy about it. And so this woman here, she is dealing with childhood trauma and what she is doing is this is her therapy. So when this man here is too low or he too tired, she get off of him and she get on the next one. And what she need is she constantly needs somebody to give her a release. What she don't realize is the men are her drug. They her drug, she basically a crack addict because the same part of the brain that is activated from crack cocaine is the same part of the brain that's activated from an orgasm. So what she got going on is this communication and this intensity with these men, she getting a release. She getting a release. And so with this here release, this is a high and it's helping her forget what happened to her at three years old, eight years old, 10 years old. And she got to keep on getting that dosage, keep on getting that dosage. And the thing about it is though, if she didn't have these men, she probably would be strung out on drugs or she would be taking lives or she would be working as a fat worker in the industry as a fat worker selling her body or it'll be something of the like. All it is is just a release to take her mind off of what she done been through. That's all it is. And these men, the same thing, childhood trauma. All three are most likely was touched. All three of the men most likely was touched. And cause something had to happen for them to be shot out, cause they shot out because a whole healthy mind is not gonna be okay with that. Not the mind of a man. It's women who will do it, but a lot of times the women who do it is the same reasons. It's because they shot out. And so here's the thing. This right here, this what you really wanna call trauma bonding. That's what this is. Trauma bonding. That's what they a picture for it. They bonding through their trauma. But see, here's the thing though. The way spirits work is a spirit is energy. So the spirit is not a man or a woman. Meaning the spirit is not physical. This is in the spiritual where the corner don't fully understand it. But the way spirits work is the spirits are transferred and then we respond to the spirit physically. So what's gonna happen is they're going to have thousands of men and women deciding to try this. So this is going to become a physical therapy, not physical therapy. Not physical therapy when you got a physical injury. This is their physical therapy for a spiritual injury. They are injured spiritually and they doing this physically to trick the brain, to get a release, to get high off the release to forget they pain. And when you think about it, they really want companionship. They want to be touched. They want to be held. They want to be loved. And that is why you see the two men who getting ready to let third man come in they kid in the cabuto. The two men, they're not happy about it. They ain't happy about it. Now the first man with the locks, he looked at a little ecstatic. He looked at a little ecstatic when he hugged the third man who coming into this picture. Cause the man with the locks, he finna get that war out the frame. He finna, but now in the tailpipe. And he said to the man, he said, man, I ain't seen you in about a decade. Yeah, what y'all were doing a decade ago? Cause if you notice when we hug as men, we doubt hands, we doubt hands, then we'll pull close and we a little tap on the bike. Just like that. Doubt hand pull, tap on the bike. If you notice the third man, when he hugged the man with the locks, I'm calling it locks for y'all. We call it dreads where I'm from, but y'all get mad when I say dreads. So I'm calling it locks for y'all. That third man, when he hugged that man with them locks, he rubbed down that bike. He rubbed all the way down that bike. He said, cause he done had that man bent over. And so him with that locks, he like, yes, I'm going to get my new pole. So he happy cause nah, instead of just having the man with the ears and the hairline rubbing up on him when they in the bed, nah, he got his big daddy coming. And nah, the man with the hairline and the ears, he said, he said, you know, you know, I'm just a little worried because I'm now being moved out of the bedroom for another man. So, nah, he upset. He upset cause nah, he finna get put in the outhouse. And he finna hear that noise while he over in the outhouse. Nah, I'ma tell you, she like her and you notice why none of the three men look like your prototypical man, meaning the type of man that the commercial want to use or a movie want to use. So, she like to pick her man with a love. See, this is what you have to realize. Sometimes what these women I tell you is a lot of times a special needs man, he be blessed in other areas. And so I remember I was working in the group home and you know, special needs. A guy, the house manager came to me, he say, yeah, you know, such and such. I say, yeah. He say, man and man got 12 inches. I say, well, how do you know that? He say, cause I went in there one time, man and him and such and such was in there. They were doing it. Cause when they be in there, they start getting with each other. So sometimes if a man is lacking on one area, he got some somewhere else. And so if you notice she picking her men who look a little, they look a little off. It just got a little bit of that. Your mama love you type of face. And so and when you see how she act, how she carry herself, she like a man with a old baby on down there. And so, but here's the thing. She got that trauma on her and they can't knock that trauma off her. They can't knock that trauma out of her. And the third man, he is what y'all ladies taught me about the hobo sexual. That's what the third man is. The third man, he is the hobo sexual. He come in literally for him a place to stay cause he say he produce. He say he produce and create music, but he needs somewhere to stay. So that let you know that music he making is terrible cause producers make good money. Producers make all the money. They let you know that music is terrible. And that's why he needs somewhere to stay at 45, 50 years old. The music is just absolutely horrendous. And so this is the thing which you have to realize. He's talking about, yeah, I'm just coming basically for money. That right there, let me know that he's slow because you're supposed to disguise this. But he's so slow, God bless his soul cause they all gonna watch this video. But because he is a fry short of a happy meal, he's unhappy for one. And then two, this is the thing. He couldn't even articulate a lot. He just was straight out with it. Well, I'm really here for the monetary reasons. I said, oh my God, at least you could have said, well, you know, I really love her. I really miss her. And I just feel like love is all we have. And we all have a lot of love and we need to operate in our truth and just live out love. He straight out said, I'm here for monetary reasons. I said, oh my God. So he broke busted and discussed it. And I'm gonna tell you what he gonna do. He gonna take out a life insurance policy on all three of them. And within the next three to five years, they might be sipping on something in their coffee that they don't wake up from. But it coming in now, he coming in now to wreak havoc. He the last one the devil finna use. Cause see what the devil try to do, the devil try to get you comfortable. But then he finna dog you out. The devil gonna make a food layer. He gonna make a food layer. He coming in now to wreak havoc. And then what he finna do? That man with them locks. That third man, he finna break his bike. He finna wham out that frame. I could tell by the way he ran his hand down that man bike. I said, oh yeah, they like that man that was up there in the church time. He been delivered. I'm like, yeah, no more. Winner, winner, winner, winner, winner, winner, winner. I said, oh, oh my goodness. E-boy and he finna be a mess. And I'm gonna tell you the truth. My heart goes out to the middle man. The second man, the man with the hairline receding in the ears. My heart go out to him because the first man with the locks, it's a good amount of women. It's a sector of women that will pick him. They'll pick him. It's a lot of him that's in a relationship. Meaning download men that got them a wife. But that second man with the hairline in the ears, my heart go out to him because he deserves love. And that's all he want is love. But his look is not in style. And to the latest, y'all is wrong for that. Because now y'all got this man in a foursome because he done been overlooked, overlooked, overlooked, overlooked, overlooked. That is the man that every last one of y'all say, Tony, he so nice, but I don't know how to say this, Tony, and I don't wanna say this is the wrong way. I don't wanna sound the wrong way. But I just don't feel the, you know, just like a spark. I just don't feel the, ugh, just the little. I don't feel the spark. That's the second man. And that's every last one of y'all to pass over him. So now y'all got this man in a foursome. Got this man in a foursome, been the bus hair wide open with gasoline draws on cause y'all didn't wanna see that man heart. And now he got to be dealing with Griselda. What's her name? Corella Deville. And then here he is, he getting kicked out. He getting kicked out of the room that further proves my message. She really don't want him. So now she finna treat him like Cinderella and finna have him cleaning the floors. He got to wash the dishes. He finna be the one on the dishes. And all he want is love. And when he said it, the video was on Tyree's page. Tyree's the sweet lady. They finna be listening to Tyree music. And so listen to him. When he said it, you could see, you could hear the hurt in his voice. He said, you know, it's just one thing that I'm worried about is now I'm getting put out of the bed for this third, for this other man. I said, my mama's single. I might send him a message. Hey man, my mama's single. As long as you ain't had nothing in that tailpipe, I might do a little batch making for you, man. I feel bad for you over there. And then the thing about it is, when a woman want three men, when a woman want three men, something is off. Something is off. Because every man know, every man know, no, no, no, it's only the IG page, nah, Carol, it's only the IG page. He posted the video or the lady, it's from a TV show. Every man know, and some of these women know that if you with a man, that it's a possibility you could be sore. It's a possibility. If a woman want her three men, something is off with her. Something is wrong with her. And so that right there, let you know, you can't trust that type of woman. I was watching a crime show with my wife cause she love them crime shows, but who don't? And they say they put vasine in the drink. That woman there, me personally as a man, if a woman admit to me, she want multiple men at one time. Me knowing that she a receiver. Me knowing what her body go through. Me knowing that men sleep around. I wouldn't even deal with her. I wouldn't even deal with her. Because that's the type of woman there, you cross her. You two, you two, it's gonna, the autopsy ain't gonna show enough. You two, you can't trust no woman. That one of three angolans at the same time. New, I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm scared to be talking about this right now cause that type of woman right there, she'll come for me. Now, when she don't know who I married though, my wife will be out here like Liam Neeson on her, you get me? She gonna make it up, but listen to me, listen to me. This right here is a sign of the times and this was so heartbreaking. But I guess I can't really say it's that crazy because it's a lot of documentaries with white people on there. It's sad that it's black folks. It's like, listen, and this, I'm talking to the four of y'all in this relationship. Y'all need to end that show. We not already been through slavery. We not already been through Jim Crow. We not already been through, we still getting discriminated against. Our house appraisals are still coming back low. We still being given unfair deals. The underwriter can choose what he or she gonna underwrite and black people still not getting the passes that other races getting. And here y'all go with this show. Y'all need to end that show. If that's how y'all wanna live, that's between y'all and the devil. Keep that to yourself. Don't, and then here go the thing. They're going to use us. They're gonna use us. Oh, yeah, yeah, we're gonna get this show here. This narrative. See, we have seen white people with the man having multiple women, sister wives on them plots of land where they had the cope. We've been seeing that. What we have not seen or ain't seen, it ain't going viral is a white woman with multiple men. But now they wanna take and give us a black woman. And then the two men, when she brought the third man in, the two men was jealous. They were like, yeah, she's a little giddy. We haven't seen her giddy like that in a long time. And she was jumping up and down and clapping. Yeah, yeah, all of that. I say, no, Bachelorette different now. The woman ain't sleeping with three men. They competing for her love. This lady is sleeping with three men and they living together. They not competing for her love now. This woman, these three men, her husband's basically, I don't know if they could do that legally. But they gonna use us. They gonna put black folks on there. And it's like, come on now, no. Don't use us now. Don't use us now. Don't give us no show now. And if you look at it now, if you look at it, they gave us one good show out of all the TV that I know of. And that's black love. And that's on own. And own is like you watching it on your own. Meaning ain't nobody watching it but you. Yep, after that, they ain't giving us no more good shows. And, but as soon as her butt wanna give her a show, oh yeah, come on. Get your show. Get your show. And so I say, come on now. I say, come on now. But now listen though. This is what you got to realize. This is what you got to realize. I was watching this how they doing this. I'm watching Snowfall cause I'm trying to see what Lord Harvey's seeing in man. I'm trying to see if she is in it for the money because I know men who look like this man on Snowfall. And they is not getting women. There's not, I know a lot of guys look like that. And they got no Lord Harvey. Listen. So Lord, what's really going on? So I'm watching the show. I'm watching the show. Yeah, Naomi, you see what she see cause you see him acting. You don't even know that man. You don't even know that man. And it's so funny to me how women, all of a sudden a man gets some money and get some fame and not all of a sudden you see what she see. It's a million of that man walking around. That's what every black man never looked like. That's what he looked like. Naomi used to gold digger. Your gold digger because listen to me. Men, I know men who look like him. They not getting no women. You know why? You know why they not getting women? Because of self hate. And because of colorism. That's why they ain't. Oh my goodness. Naomi Hush, why are you a head? Tom, that's a swag about him. He's an actor. In real life, he is like, I guarantee you in real life, he is like two left shoes. That man is a actor. That man went to school to learn how to act. I guarantee you in real life, he is like two left shoes and five thumbs. Listen to me now. Men know men. Men know men. As men we know the men who got sauce on them now. We know the men who get women. We know that. Come on now. Y'all be seeing men once they got money. But the men who look like him without money and fame is getting overlooked. And that is why they don't need podcasts. That's why they don't need podcasts bashing women. Now listen to me now. I'm watching the man show. And they show a commercial by HPV. And they are saying they got a black father with his black daughter and she get a text. And her texts go to her daddy for him. And the texts say send pictures. The daddy look at it like, whoa. And then the daddy texts her. His picture in the kitchen cooking. And then the commercial say, it's not too early to talk to your child about the HPV vaccination. So I'm like this right here and I hold on. Y'all want us to talk to our nine year old daughter by the HPV vaccination. But guess what? Out of all the commercials, they wanna get that commercial to black people. The same reason they gave that commercial. They pick white people for every other commercial. And then when it's about a vaccination and about HPV, they wanna all of a sudden, now they wanna be inclusive. Now we wanna, oh, we wanna, you know, black people need commercials too. No, give us a commercial about vegetables. Give us a commercial about water. Give us a commercial about the economic friendly car. Don't give us no commercial about no HPV vaccination. Don't give us no commercial about that pill that you want the men who sleep with men to take. They got the two black men on their kissing. They got the black man on their, listen, don't use us for this now. Use it in another kind of commercial. But the same reason they gave with their commercial, and the same reason they gave this lady, her three-boyfriend at TV show is spiritual. So now what's been happening is they finna have a lot of other broken, trauma-ridden black people saying, oh, we ought to do that. I'ma do that. So now you finna have men who like men. I'ma tell you this right here. I'ma tell you this right here. Any man, I'ma tell you right here, any man who will be okay with his woman having another man, that man like men. Point blank period, any man who will be okay with his woman having another man, that man like me. Point blank period, ain't no, oh, we just full of love. Oh, we just open-minded. No, you got that backside open. You hear me? Listen, you ain't fooling me. Boy, you're nasty, boy, you're nasty. But guess what though, guess what though? When that man come out that tailpipe, I can tell you right now, that third man, he finna take that man with them locks and he finna wear him out the frame. See, we could tell this from prison, men who go to prison. That third man, he finna wear that first man out the frame. And when he come out that tailpipe, he going right to that woman mouth and she ain't even gonna realize it. And see, the wages of sin is death. And that third man, he finna, he, I could tell he is for the community. Men know men, he for the community. And what I mean by that, he not getting a lot of women, he could get prostitutes, he could get strippers, he could get women he could pay, he could get women who want a dinner, he get women who want a little bit of bills paid. That third man, he gonna be hopping around and he finna bring all the rest of the three of them, he finna bring all three of HIV or something that's incurable. He finna bring all three on something incurable. And so to the other two men, when y'all see this, brother, you better wake up and smell the Folgers in the morning, you better tuck your tail and get on and haul tail. Because that third man, he finna wreak havoc on y'all. And I'ma tell you like this right here, I could look at that man right there and tell, he'll try to strong arm y'all boys. Y'all would be in their sleep and he coming up, come here boy, come here boy. Hey, get up. You thought I was here for her, I'm here for you. That man gonna be right in there with you. And the man with the locks, he finna be over, over, for real. Man listen, I'ma tell you what this is. I'ma tell you what this, I think the Lord, I seen that because that's finna draw me closer to the Lord. That's finna draw me closer to the Lord because when you see that right there, when you see that, I'm trying to tell you, I'm trying to tell you, it might be getting by time for the Lord to come back. When you see this right here, it's already sad enough and nasty enough for a man to wanna maintain multiple women. Because see, I'ma tell you now, where y'all think STDs come from, bacteria mixing, bacteria mixing. Certain bacteria don't go with certain bacteria. So when that man come out that tailpipe, when that third man come out that, that first man with the locks tailpipe, and then he take that dirtiness and he go to that woman. She finna, she finna have something that's finna have her itching. She finna be itching in the kitchen. You hear me? And she finna get exactly what she asked for because guess what? God will not be marked. God will not be marked. You're not finna be, you're not finna be an abomination to the Lord and not catch something in your body. She finna have more than the UTI. She finna have more than the UTI now. You hear me? She finna have more than a UTI. She finna have something can't get rid of and then, then let's see her get a TV show there. See, they gon' give her no TV show to show the damages of it. And see, listen, that right there, you got four people, it's hard for two people to live in a house together. When you have two people in a house together, two people be fighting. What world you think finna have with four people? For one, it's finna be a whole lot of bacteria, it's a whole lot of sin, finna be a whole lot of nastiness, but then guess what? The wages of sin is death. Somebody finna end up losing their life. Somebody finna end up losing their life. You hear what I'm telling you? Because you don't get to determine how somebody deal with their trauma. So that man with the heli, with the conus, with the conus received, I ain't got no heli either now, brother, so don't feel like I'm picking on you. I'm just using the descriptor. Ain't nothing wrong with your heli received now cause we all got that issue for the most part. Now listen, you don't get to determine how somebody deal with their trauma. I could look that man, I could look at that man with the heli and I could tell all he wanted to love. And he didn't put out the bed. And I could hear the pain in his voice. That man right there, they gon' have to watch him. Cause he gon' be sittin' in that room by himself in the outhouse or on the couch by himself sittin' with them demons. That he'd be entertaining to even be in this and that demon finna tell him go in and do what you do. And they gon' get ugly. So if y'all that's on this show and his folks gon' see this, you better heed his warning now. You better heed his warning. Cause you're playing with the Lord and what make it so bad is that you promote it. If one thing, if you wanna live in debauchery, it's another thing when you wanna highlight and promote the debauchery. That right there, now when you highlight a life of sin, you are directly in opposition of God. You now are saying, God, you are telling God that you finna work against him and that you're fishing to do the work of evil. You finna do the work of dark forces. And guess what? God don't lose. God don't lose. Spiritual warfare turn to physical. And a price got to be paid. So you got to realize when you align to preach and promote against good, a price gon' be paid. Either you're gonna become a full-fledged example and keep the breath in your body, but you're living with something that you cannot get rid of or you gon' be gone all the way. And that's what you got to realize. And so, one thing I want you to understand is for everybody who see this right here, who you see what's going on, you better take heed. You better take heed. It's a sign of the time. Now a sign of the time don't mean God finna come back next week, because a thousand years is like one day until the Lord. So understand that. A lot of times people say a sign of the time and they think that we talking about, oh God finna come back next week. Listen, it's a sign of the time. This is another example of why you need to be active in your son and daughter life. This is another example why you need to be active and why you need to speak life into your nieces and your nephews, into your students, into your mentees. Whatever chance you get, you need to have your powerful sentence that you say. My uncle called me in the day, he's in prison. But every time I seen him, he would always say, he called me Brat, that was my nickname. And so it became a name of a facture. He called me Brat. Hey Brat, what I always tell you, boy? Winners never quit and quitters never win. He would say that every time. And I remember that. I remember that, as he would say it every time. And because he would say that, that's so when you got a son, you got a daughter, you need to have, you got nieces and nephews, if you don't have a kid, you got students, you work right there. Then guess what? You need to make sure that you're speaking into their life. Y'all don't know what that lady had. That's why I see you two then change it. Now you two, y'all out here watching because I know y'all gotta watch the video to make sure ain't nobody on here doing nothing that y'all need to shut down. So since y'all on here watching the live, add back the feature where I can make it, where members only, when I'm going from my mobile, I can make it members only. I'm gonna tell you why YouTube took that off. YouTube took off the thing on the mobile where I can make it members only because they losing money. And the more chats make, the more chats make the video get pushed out more. It make the video get more, it's more interesting. So when you just have members, you have like-minded people who are supporting. When you have the chat wide open, you're gonna have trolls in the midst of the members. So they did that because again, drama always sells. So they have taken off the feature that I can make this members only. And that's why we have like the lady in here who'll keep coming to here saying stuff. And it could be somebody on a off day who work at Dawg on Google or YouTube about the thing that being funny. And that's why they need to change it back the way you can make it members only. So you can have a good conversation without trolls. And so that's all that right there is. But listen, the video, I don't know the name of the show that we talking about. So if you knew, I don't know the name of the show but you're gonna see it now cause I don't say it because your phone always listening. And so when you go on Instagram, I seen it on Instagram and it's a black lady. And she now has brought her in a third black man. And the crazy thing about it is, is some women so hurt that they in the comments saying, oh, men have done this for years. Now when a woman do it, it's a problem. And that's a really dumb take because it's really dumb to want to share in ignorance. Like if a woman, if women have been doing something stupid for centuries, I'm not finna be like, yeah, sign me up. Yeah, women been out here to catch an STD and spreading their self fear, yeah, sign me up. Women been out here with soul ties and STD and just no heart, no mind, no common sense. Sign me up, yes. That sound dumb. So to every woman who is cheering on the lady, you showing your trauma. You showing where you have not healed from your high school sweetheart cheating on you and taking somebody else to prom over you. You showing where you have not healed from that last raggedy relationship. The last thing a woman should do is think like a man because if you think like a man, all we doing is stacking on top of each other. See, a relationship is like a puzzle. If we cut the same, we can't complete the puzzle. Or we could do a stack on top of each other. It's your differences that bring strength, not your similarities. That's the problem that a lot of couples have is they try to marry their twin. And that's what they be talking about, twin flames. That's dumb. The person you marry really should be your polar opposite. The only thing that should be the same is your foundation. Meaning, what do you base your life on? What's your code? But if you trying to build and both of y'all are windows, then who gonna be the door? You can't build like that. If both of you gonna be the frame, you gonna be the roof. So this is what we have to understand. If your foundation is God, they foundation need to be God. But whether you like pink and they like blue, you like country, they like rap, you like pasta, they like steak, all that stuff don't matter. What matter is, what are the pillars that you build your life on? If you got those things in common, which I call the five Fs, and I can't remember them all, but I wrote about it in my book, single is not a curse. You go on Amazon, type in Tony Gaskin, single is not a curse, you'll see it. But I talk about the five Fs that you need to get together in your single life. That you need to identify, you need to have an order. Your faith, your family, your finances, your fitness and your friends. God bless you, LaTosha, LaTosha already read. If y'all got that right there in common, then you good. What color you like, what food you like, all that. And that's what you got to realize and understand that we right now, this world is set up to go to hell in a hand basket. And it's because of the TV shows like that right now. And now I got a TV show coming out that I'm on. And I didn't write the show and I didn't know what all was going to be on the show. So it's going to be stuff on there that I'm not even ever seen. And it's going to be stuff on there that people don't agree with. But the media gone media, the media is gone media. And to be honest with you, I'm not sure there will ever give a conscious thinking, clean slate person who wants the best all the way around and especially a devout Christian. I don't know if we will ever be given a show that it'll have eyeballs on it. I don't know if we'll ever be given a show. The show that I'm on is going to be on MTV called Couples Retreat. And I'm one of the hosts on there. I'm on there probably once or twice, but you know, on there. Trying out the TV thing, but will somebody ever give me my own show? Hey, it's going to have to be God doing. God going to have to do it. You know why God going to have to do it? Hey, don't congratulate me. That ain't nothing. That ain't nothing. I serve God. There ain't no accomplishment. To be on reality TV, that's not accomplishment. I serve God. So thanks, but no thanks. Keep your congratulations. I'm not excited about that. That's not on my, like a, that's something that you do, but I don't want to hang my hat on that. I do, I work for the Lord. I work for the Lord. Aziza, you heard me just say, don't say congrats now. He's got cool ton of congrats. I don't know congrats. Congratulate me for being married 16 years. Congratulate me for being in the house with my kid, raising my kid in the future. Jasmine, God bless you. You got to stay tuned. I don't know when I can get your notification, hit that notification bell so I go live. But again, I got to do it front of the computer, but I'm typically on my phone because they now don't have it to where you could just do a Q and A with members only from the phone. So you two, get your stuff together and fix stuff out there now. And y'all need to bring them out there to be a consultant. Come on now. Y'all got to get it together out there. It don't be fixed and stuff that ain't broken. But see, that's the problem. They sitting out there behind them computers and like, oh, you know what? Let's just change this right here. We got nothing to do and changing stuff. It's like we got membership for a reason. So people get a little perk of being a member. Y'all taking, do all that. See how all the messages right there just came in all at one time? That's cause they out there in Palo Alto, pausing the video. They out there pausing the video cause it's like, oh, oh, they about to say. Listen now, free speech now. Y'all put trumpet off. Don't be trying to silence me. Now so listen to me. What you got to realize and you're gonna have to get this in your spirit. You got to get this in your spirit. You see what's happening with this lady and these three men. It was already bad enough with the men with the, it's a young man on Facebook that be showing his little girlfriends. And the same thing with them. If you notice, you rarely gonna see people in these relationships that look like somebody you'll date. A lot of times they look chewed up and spit out. And that is the thing of why you have to be nice to everybody. That's why you got to speak life into people because when people feel chewed up and spit out, they go to the dark side. Just like when you see in these movies, when you see this in these movies with the villain, he go recruit the broken, the hurting, the lonely. And then they go up against the good guys. And that's what that young man on Facebook, I see the young man on Facebook, got him three, I think he had three girlfriends. And it's like, keep that to yourself. And now we got this lady with her three boyfriends. Like keep that to yourself. But this is the thing. They shot out and they are trauma walking. And these relationships is their therapy. They use in the relationship as therapy instead of actually going to therapy. So when you see this stuff, speak against it, speak against it, get you, most people don't kill. But if you find the link, if you find the network, go to the network site and click on the contact us and you write in, you write in and then you send that link to all your friends and family and tell everybody to write in and you tell that network, hey, take this off, take this off, this is TV show, this network. And we don't want this on the network. And if you wanna put this on the network, don't just use black people. If you're gonna put this on the network, use every race. So that you just ain't doing a smear campaign against one race. Use every race. And that's what we got to realize. Gotta start speaking out against it because people will see this and what they don't realize is young people will see this and they'll start to aspire to that. And when you close to it or you benefiting from it, you really don't know how to speak again. You can't speak against it, can't speak against it because I seen the lady daughter in the comments, you know, she on Nelka Donan and talking about free thinking. Listen, you feel to freely catch a STD. Like I ain't nobody jealous about that. Don't nobody wanna know. If that's what free thinking is, I'm straight. I'm good. I'll be chain thinking. If that's what free thinking is, if free thinking finna lead me the hell in a hand basket with gasoline draws on, no, I keep my mind chained up there. It's like we got to do better. And you got to speak against this with everybody that you know and see because it's getting worse and worse and you're gonna see it start to pop up more and more and what they're gonna do is be making money off of certain demographics. So, hey, think on it now and go check it out. You'll see it online, you'll see it online and they freeze them alive over here. So I'm finna go and get off of my phone. Might be getting hot. They start freezing you live when you start to get to real on here. But company came to me about Tony to have my own app and go live on my own app. But, you know, they taxing. And so what I'm trying to tell them like, listen, y'all when you charge me all this money if I get on y'all system, it's gonna be a whole bunch of coaches and speakers getting on y'all system. So y'all be trying to cut me a deal because right now y'all coming to me and I don't see nobody in my industry using y'all system now. So, but again, they'll mesh around and give somebody else a deal and then make me pay. So they'll take in, wanna tax me knowing that I'll be bringing a lot of eyeballs and value, but then give somebody else a sweet heart deal. Somebody else of another race. And they think we don't know it, but we learn this in sociology class where the man, where they recorded it and they went to the apartment and sent a white person in there, sent a black person in there. They went to the clothing store, sent a white person, sent a black person. They went to the car lot, sent a white person, sent a black person, went to the apartment. So it's like, we know about this and that's what these companies don't realize when they be coming to me. Hey, use our system or hey, let's do this. I said, listen, I already know you're giving me a deal that's way worse than what you done gave this person over here across this aisle. And I said, if I do some digging and I find out, I'm gonna sue you for discrimination. So I have to tell them. So we're gonna see though, I might end up doing a tone and tool that way you could go live and you ain't got to worry about, is they ain't being froze and couldn't kicking people out of it and freezing it and all that demonetizing and all that just often you having a normal conversation. And so you have to realize that. So once you see that right there, keep your eyes open and pay attention to what's going on out here because things are starting to get real sketchy. So you got to start praying a little more. You got to be living right. You got to be talking to your loved ones, keeping everybody, everybody on point. But hey, God bless you. Let me get on off of here. Wife came here a couple of times. I don't know if she's about to do up, do laundry in here or what have you. And she's showing like, being in the same room when I'm doing this, she feel like she being posing. But hey, God bless you. Hey, God bless your sister. And thank you to everybody who sent a blessing. I seen some come up there, but I was flowing in the spirit so I didn't get to touch on it. But God bless you. I appreciate you, appreciate you. If you over in London, coming over there, doing a little meet up. Atlanta, we're doing a life coach training in Atlanta, May 13th. Got to email in to support at tonigashner.com and then July trying to set up a little tour. Might just be like a little full city tour. Really it's because I want to take my family around to a few cities and just kind of let my boys, you know, hang out and have some fun in different cities. But while I'm in the city, I might as well do my little work on one of those days. So trying to get that set up. It's gonna be probably four major cities that's my largest followings on my Facebook, which is probably the same for Instagram. So I know, I think right now is New York, Chicago, Atlanta, and Houston. I think it's my four largest followings on Facebook, which I don't even use Facebook, I use Instagram, but they connect it. But Facebook, I have 1.8 million people on there who follow my Facebook page and out of that 1.8 million, those four cities is the top four American cities. Nairobi, Kenya is in there. And Nairobi, Kenya in there, but I probably try to do Johannesburg, South Africa and Nairobi, Kenya in October. Nothing in Florida. Unfortunately, Florida is not in, I don't even know Florida in my top 10. I don't even know Florida in my top 10. Cause you know how it is with Florida now, with DeSantis. People don't be thinkin' right. People don't think right in Florida. Well, the majority of people in Florida is, whoo, praise for Cuckoo. What did they say? Cuckoo, praise for Cuckoo Puffs. So it's a small minority. So if you in Florida, shoot up Atlanta, if you see me do Atlanta, just hop on that quick flight. Come on up there. Support at tonigasin.com for the May 13th life code certification. And if you don't already know that email address, that mean you might not be tapped in enough. Cause if you on tonigasinacademy.com, y'all supposed to know that support at tonigasin.com. No, I don't think Florida gonna make the list. God bless you. When I got a little more time and a little more money to invest, I start to put them other little places on there. Maryland DC ain't on there. Y'all got to get to New York. Y'all got to come to the New York stop. Yeah, if you on the academy, you get regular email. Hey, God bless y'all. We'll talk soon when we get on off the hill. Y'all take care now. I put the link in the description for the growth group as well to our monthly group culture program. I put the link in the description. It's no date yet, but again, make sure you go to tonigasinacademy.com, sign up for a course, even if it's the free one. But when you get in that free course, it puts you on the mailing list. So I share all the dates and all updates with my mailing list first, because sometimes it sell out on the mailing list so it never even make it to social media. So if you're not on tonigasinacademy.com, if you haven't signed up for a course and got your correct email in there without typos, then you might miss a lot. God bless you. We'll talk soon.