 Hi everyone, I'm live and now I can see you guys comments and answer your questions and stuff so go ahead and put them in there. I'm just gonna talk a little bit. A lot of people have lately been asking me for advice and like getting consultations and I've been giving them advice and sometimes people do not, sorry people sometimes do not always agree with the advice that I give them but you know they start following it and slowly but surely they start getting the results that they want so I tend to think outside of the box I tend to use psychology a lot in the methods that I you know talk about and I feel like those methods are you know they work because like you know psychologically you know you can change people's minds about things you can create situations you can also get the results that you want so how to get a man's attention instantly someone asked me ignore them that's how you get it make sure they see you but just keep on just keep on going yeah I'm saying they are men always want what they can't have okay that's the secret men always want was not available to them that's why married women probably get hit on more than single women because they already know it's you know you're off limits okay so so when you're off limits when you're ignoring someone when you're not giving them the attention that normal you know women will give them all of a sudden you're the target you know what I'm saying what if the guy you like is a foreigner and he does not have his yeses and shit is it a risk yes it's a risk okay I would like anyone to if I could get a green card if I want it into the country I would I have like three people who have gotten taken a badge of in that aspect and yeah they will they will tell you they love you and romance you and you know talk their language to you and then as soon as y'all get married it's a whole different story so I don't I personally you know if I were to marry someone and so they can get a green card I'm gonna make some money off of it okay look you can pretend you love me and all that but I'm gonna need some cash just in case you tricking me you know what I'm saying what do you what do you do when you have a plot to so many internships but a friend just called the company and that's how she gets the internship I'm so I'm so scared just to call companies what do I do call companies scared every job that I've gotten well 90% of every job that I got was on the spot because like when and I called and I actively pursued those jobs you know the thing because they feel like you want the job not just like you're waiting to sit back and receive now and you're not putting in any effort you know you got to put in effort you got to put in the work how to pull him back when you feel you don't pull him back okay you let him you start focusing your attention elsewhere and you start pulling back you know if he starts pulling back you start showing interest to other things and and don't even notice him you know for example if he's like well no I don't want to go out tonight and I say okay well I'll just make other plans with someone else well you have a good night have fun you know just don't even be back what other plans somebody else what you know you start you don't you don't try to get him back you let him know that you are not afraid to lose him because you know something else is better waiting and you have many opportunities okay you don't try to get him back you know you go and find other things to do because at that point he's gonna be like oh my god what is she what is she doing what's more important than me you know what if you have broken up with someone but they're still handling your finances are they still into you the guy is rich and there is no contact but he's still financially that rep that means that he is he feels guilty and he's just gonna pay for your bills you know so that you're okay and you don't have to go and become a prostitute or a stripper until you you know move on and and you he's always you're always in his back pocket if he really still wants you at a later time you know what I mean kind of like keeping someone on the back burner okay how to make a man want to come into you act like you don't want to commit to them you know you got to use reverse psychology if you want to commit with a man and he's not trying to commit with you just talk about you can't wait to get into a committed relationship with someone they're gonna be you know this this isn't that and he's gonna be like and you won't be describing him you know so automatically he's going to try to become those things because now your focus is not even on him it's on some mystery man that you've never even met and he's just there to pass the time so he's gonna feel compelled to become that person because men are always trying to please women and impress them and if that's the only thing that's going to impress you nothing that he does it's gonna impress you so therefore he's going to start acting like a person that wants to be in a committed relationship so you just psychologically trick him okay okay what does it mean you can't get your mind off an X even though you sincerely want to move on but it means you haven't moved on with life okay maybe you need to go move on you need to go see someone else you need to realize it's over when a man and a woman break up if he dumped you that means he don't want you okay um stop living in the past live in the future think about five years into the future if you keep wasting time thinking about your ex you're gonna miss your present moment and your future so whenever someone leaves me i i'm i would feel like you know what that's your loss there's so many other people that want to meet me you know what i'm saying forget that okay just move on and don't even think okay i'm talk i'm currently talking to a millionaire doctor online how do i get him to fund my life we've spoken on the phone and FaceTime however i want him to pay for my school fees upon other things well hopefully he's the real deal and he's not a catfish i would want to meet him in person first and i would want to see if he really is a doctor and really has money and um you know i would i would ask him straight up you know he has the money he can fund you i will come up with a very sad story you know i really want to go to school i really need to but my parents could never afford to send me and you know i've been thinking about working at night you know a night job just keep saying night job he ain't gonna he don't know it's like a stripper i've been really thinking about getting a second job at night and i can make a lot of money just that's what you say to pay for the school but you know i really would rather focus and study and not have to work you know i've been trying to get scholarships and grants but i really don't want to get in you know or i don't want to get into debt with student loan because that's you know that's not a good idea and see if he offers to pay you know if he doesn't offer to pay for your school or at least help you or you know get something done then he's not really into you he's not into your your being you becoming your best self he's only interested in you for selfish reasons so yeah if i were to do all that to um a guy that seriously liked me they would offer to put something on it like look i'll pay your first semester you know or something so um they can see that you're trying to better yourself okay let's see never tell a man you like their flaws okay tell like whatever you want your man to be tell him that's what you find impressive okay for example if your man is not very um affectionate and you want him to be more lovey-dovey and affectionate um whenever a movie comes on or whenever you see a couple together that is is like that or whenever you see something on tv you think oh my god that is so i love that so much i love how he's all over her i love how he's so you know because now you're fawning over another man and how he's treating his woman so so consciously your man is going to be like that's what she wants that's what she will i don't do that you know so all the time she's looking at other people in envy because i don't do that and then he's gonna start doing it you know what i'm saying so you don't put him down for his flaws you lift up other men with the characteristics that you wish he had and then he's gonna start developing them because he knows that's what impresses you okay um okay if you search them on google and he has three clicks well ask them just ask them straight up you know the only thing you're going to get is a no or yes you know okay good question i have snooped and had to facebook to find my proof that it never goes well i'm trying to read these other i have a feeling my man is entertaining other woman i want to confront him but i don't know how because i don't have solid proof help well if y'all haven't seen my video let him cheat you don't even watch that it's reverse psychology okay so you need to come to him and talk to him it's like you know what baby i think you know i've been really thinking about this and i think you know the way our relationship is going i think we we should open the relationship or you know have more um you know have less limitations it's gonna be like what were you talking about you know maybe we should open the relationship you know um come on what do you mean open the relationship well you know i feel like you know maybe there are other things we want to explore in this relationship um you know i feel like you you've been wanting to explore other you know things and i kind of felt the same way and i just wasn't sure how to approach you with it so i feel like you're already kind of moving in that direction and you know entertaining other people online and perhaps maybe in person and i i totally understand because i've been wanting to do the same thing so i figure let's open the relationship all of a sudden he's gonna get upset he's like oh my god she's talking to someone else and she knows i'm talking to someone else and she doesn't even care oh my god i'm caught but she's not mad and she's allowing me now it's taking all the fun out of it now it's not even sneaking around now he's paying more attention now he's paying attention to her you know uh i don't know if he's seeing her in person paying money to go out with her and now you know he's paying to go out with you you know so he's kind of losing while you're dating you know somebody else you could be dating someone else and they're paying for stuff and and doing nice things for you while he's spending money on some other chick and it's not and you gave him permission to do it so psychologically he's gonna feel stupid now he has to juggle to women and you know about it and you're okay with it which means you could be secretly trying to replace him and upgrade on him with someone better and you're just using him for his comfort you know and whatever he can do for you at the time until you decide to get rid of him you know this is how men are thinking so you give him permission you don't confront him i can't believe you cheated on me because that's like all emotional right he's like hey babe you know i've noticed that you've been exploring other options let's talk about let's open the relationship he's gonna think you're gonna do way better than him okay okay what does it mean when a man tells you he talked to his mother about you and then just disappears and stuff talking to you it doesn't mean anything because he stopped and he disappeared how to gain control over the situation when he's helping you financially after the breakup and not being hit that pocket get a job get a career replacing what a man with some more money use the money that he's giving you to start a business and sustain yourself you know a down size to a smaller apartment and tell him you need more money and start saving and start your own business online or something be smart use your brain okay um you know save get another man okay um how do you get a man emotionally attached with you without before having said before having said um you be his friend you be his friend you you friend zone him first remember men always want what they can't have so if you know he wants you you act like you don't want him and you friends on him and you know secretly in the back of his mind he's gonna be like oh what is she friends on me what's wrong with me and then he's gonna be trying to prove himself to you and secretly he's gonna fall for you he's gonna crush on you hard and eventually if you decide to give him the time of day or sleep with him or whatever as friends he's gonna fall in love with you okay because he knows that you're not out to get him you're just his friend you're looking for something better you know um so it's always good to make a man think that you don't want them either when you really do and when you do that you know men always want what they can't have so friends are um yeah i decided to go live today because i was bored um how do you deal with a rich man who is emotionally immature is it worth it if you're dealing with a rich man you're out for one thing his money okay get his money don't don't matter how he acts you're only out for one thing you're not trying if you can't stay in him and how he acts deal with him as long as you can get that money save it and then replace them with somebody you know more emotionally mature who's financially stable you know what i'm saying you have to have a goal in mind when you go into these type of relationships you can't look for prince charming whenever you go for money you're gonna have to sacrifice something okay so don't get caught up in all this uh oh he's not this oh he's not that if you're going after his money go after his money don't try to go after his feelings don't try to go after his heart don't try to go after all that other stuff you know unless that's what you want to do if you're if you know you're not gonna marry this person go for his money and get in and get out okay don't don't read too far into it okay how to help a man get out of his depression comfort zone and help him to be his best self you don't help a man okay if they can't help themselves they're gonna drag you down move on move forward forget him okay you that's not your job you ain't his mama okay move it on move it along you don't help men okay you can you can be there and say i'm here if you need me but get yourself together um you don't help men you don't want to be someone's doormat okay they're supposed to be strong you can't help them okay because you end up losing yourself worrying about them forget them if they're depressed they need to want to help themselves you gotta focus on you because they're not focusing on you if you were depressed and you were sad you think they would be there oh how can i help this girl she's all sad depressed i have never had any man in my life ask me how do they help someone how do they help a woman who's depressed and can't and how to be their best self why because men don't care so why do y'all i don't know no man project that's right if he's a project you know you're working for it basically what's the difference between working with him i'm not answering those questions on this channel okay how often do you call or text a man after they call and text you okay let them call first i love my boyfriend and he loves me but what's your advice on how to keep a man make sure that there's lots of peace okay if every time he calls you or sees you there's some drawball you've got to associate you with drama and then he's not going to see you so keep things peaceful fun and upbeat you know what i'm saying don't drag stuff down don't be on mopey and depressed around him men hate that okay keep everything fun and light okay okay emotions get us nowhere track uh tips on getting or seducing a rich older man um rich older men always want women who have already been with other rich men okay because most of the time um it's almost like you know a challenge it's almost like okay now how can i please her she's she's been with someone that has money more money than me even if you have to make it up and lie um and also you can't you can't be um you can't be bought like for example if they want to like if they want to fly you out and blah blah oh let me fly you out we're gonna do it say no say no why don't you come here you know because if they fly you out they have the advantage but if you say no like oh but she's not impressed by this she's not impressed by me flying her out hmm she wants me to come out there out of my comfort zone okay and once you get him in your city if he doesn't live near you then you have you you have the power you can call the shots you can say go oh i want to take you somewhere i want to show you something cool oh this place is really nice you know then you kind of impressing him you know it's not all about him you know getting what he wants you become a challenge to him and it's fun because it's not the norm most women be like okay i'm gonna hop on this plane and come see you you know you know you're making him work for you and you know that's what i was like make them interested because sooner or later they can have any woman right because they're rich the one woman that they couldn't get the one that said no come see me they're gonna be thinking about you they're gonna be like okay let me go see her you know what's your view on prenupt get a prenup and make sure it benefits you okay if you want to get money out of a man do you have to pretend that you're going to sleep with them also would you advise to never ask for money but instead tell them the problem you're going through i'm so bold i would just ask the man straight up look i want this you know i want to ask for money that's like you know what i need my you know if i'm if i'm dating a man with money and i'm comfortable enough to sleep with him or i've already slept with him i'm going to ask him for some money you know if i haven't slept with him yet i'm going to be like you know i really don't um i really don't date outside of committed relationships and i don't sleep with people outside of committed relationships you know and when i get into a committed relationship i expect you know the man to be a man which is you know paying certain bills helping me out you know doing this this and that so if he's dating you and he doesn't he knows that he's not gonna get up be able to sleep with you unless he's in a committed relationship helping you pay for stuff then either he's gonna say okay well i don't want a committed relationship i don't want this and i don't want that so it was nice to meet you but if he does want you he's gonna say okay well what do you need you know um what do you need you know so you yes you can use sex to get whatever you want the promise of sex but you don't say okay i'm going to sleep with you you say you know um you know it's a real turn on you know when somebody can just take charge of the situation and you know i i just love being taken care of and pampered by men you know don't say man it's like you know i love being you taking care of you you make me feel so safe like you make me feel so safe when i'm with you you know i feel like um you just you're just so kind and you take such good care of me even though they really don't just like as far as saying oh you take care of me emotionally and you know when we go out and then you tell them what you need it's like you know you take such good care of me i almost don't even feel like i deserve you you know just play a lot you know i'm i i really wish that you know i could talk to you about certain things and you know like what you could talk to me about anything it's like yeah well i'm kind of going through something and i really need your help okay um hi everyone what is the excuse to give a man to delay sex when dating if your man hasn't spent a lot of money on you and invested a lot of time in you you shouldn't be even trying to give him sex you know um if a man is trying to get sex on a third date and he hasn't spent over 500 to a thousand dollars on you um a week or two with you then you're you know you shouldn't be thinking about sex you know if he if that's what he's thinking about that's because that's all he wants from you you know what i'm saying so you would say oh you know what the next time we go out i'm gonna see you know because you really turned me on and i've been watching you i i i really want to but you know i feel like i think i feel like i we need to get a lot closer first you know just talk about you know um how long do men stay interested you without sleeping with them if they spent like i said if they spent a lot of time and effort with you and there's no results they get they they're probably done after a month after a good month they're probably done so if you're not trying to have sex with men after one month then just date them from for money and fun you know i don't try to get serious with someone unless they're super religious and they believe in the same thing as you do you know what i'm saying waiting and to get married you know waiting to have sex that's the type of man you're gonna have to um deal with but most men with money they're used to getting what they want so if you make them wait too long they're gonna go and entertain themselves with other women you know they might still like you and date you every once in a while but they're gonna grow bored of you quick you know what i'm saying real quick they might even think you're a man okay uh what okay what does it mean when several his friends keep confessing that they're in love with you over the years it means if you weren't that person's girlfriend they wouldn't be in love with you you know they they're in love with you because your friend has you okay it's it's just infatuation you know so i really wouldn't pay attention to that because think about it if you weren't with that friend they wouldn't approach you they wouldn't they wouldn't be with you they would be like oh she's not big deal they see all how happy you make their friend and they want the same thing it's kind of silly you know how to get a specific man without chasing him a man is supposed to chase you okay you if you don't get a specific man if that man is not chasing you that's not the one for you okay move on okay um if you if you're young and you just want to experience this certain man throw throw throw yourself at him but i don't think he's gonna marry you i don't think it's going to be anything serious because a man will only chase what he wants okay my man has spent over six thousand dollars on me provide everything but i've been delaying sex for the last eight months because i want to be engaged we've been together for three years total what do i do um do what you've been doing obviously is working some man will wait but secretly they're sleeping with somebody else okay how do you deal with lots of people wanting to take you out but you're not interested because either they're ugly and don't have a ton of money you just you come up with something okay i deal with lots of people wanting to go out but just tell them you're busy or you have a job and you're working and you gotta go to sleep or you gotta do something just make up a permanent excuse so they'll never ask you again okay um in your opinion how do you tell if a man likes you for you especially when he's been hurt and using the past if a man has come up to you and tell you and tells you he's been hurt and using the past that's game that means i'm not committing to you i don't trust you okay if you want me you don't have to deal with all my flaws that's what he's telling you he's telling you look i don't trust you i don't trust women in general and i don't want to commit that's what he's telling you you don't deal with them okay you just say okay and and continue to hurt him give add some more to that list because obviously he's running game on you okay i've met a man with money and he's willing to spend it but he's definitely not attractive get drunk get some wine they become more attractive with wine okay um should i fix my credit before dating or marriage yes because a man does not want to inherit debt when he gets married okay and that will that will stop the whole marriage if you are so bad in debt okay should you be honest with a man concerning your past been stripping if you live in the same town yes because they're going to find out sooner or later um i remember one time i had a friend and she was a stripper and um and like years ago and people will still come up to her and recognize her hey i know you you know and she'd be totally embarrassed but um yeah i would be straight up and honest just blow it out of proportion like yeah i was like i say i was a really successful professionalize yourself you know talk about it in a professional life like i was a really professional professional exotic dancer i was featured just lie i was featured and i got a lot of money to uh you know uh dance and i started off as a career and you know dancing and modeling and then you know it eventually led to that and it's something that you know i'm really proud of don't don't play it down act like you're proud of it i'm something that i'm really proud of you know i feel like um it was something that uh really gave me a lot of self-confidence you know i was even you know asked to play in a movie but i couldn't at the time because of such and such and such and such play it up don't be ashamed of it if you're not ashamed of it they're not ashamed of it they're proud oh i'm outdated and exclusive stripper who had features and was almost in a movie i'm you know get to play yourself up okay um my boyfriend broke up with me because i won't marry i won't marry but he doesn't i'm going ahead in my life but he messaged me everywhere where i blocked me remember okay some some men are not ready for marriage and they still want to reap the benefits of marriage um just totally block them you know until he comes with a proposal you don't you don't see or hear any of his messages until it's okay let's get married um how do i get my ex to want me back without throwing myself at him move on to someone better and let him see you with someone better post it on facebook do whatever you gotta do every time a man sees you with somebody better they always want you back and they're gonna start texting you what you're doing you know i miss you so always move on okay that's the best advice you can get if you want an ex back move on quick to someone better and you won't even want that ex back anymore okay if you want an ex back you have to be something better you have to be an improved version of yourself they don't want to come back for the same old things okay so that's how you get them back you replace them with something better and then they're gonna want you back anyway um when a man asks you how many men you have slept with in the past what should you answer you you would just answer um it's like oh i don't i don't i don't keep count of them i was kidding you don't tell him he's like you know what that's private information and it's a very rude question to ask a woman you know a lady doesn't discuss certain things like that you know i would never ask you that question so you answer it like that you answer is almost if you're offended you know it's like you know that's none of your business you know um i feel like that's a very personal question and i feel like you know it's something you don't ask a woman just tell him straight up okay ha ha ha okay how do you prevent an ugly guy from meeting your friends and family i can't get my friends and family drama if he's does he have money if he's ugly with money you introduce him as his profession hi this is dr such and such okay or hi this is such and such he's an engineer or hi this is because after you say that title it makes him look 10 times better okay have you ever thought of being a professional relationship coach and get paid to do what you do i actually do consultations yes i do get paid to give relationship advice i do sessions on the phone uh one-on-one with um anyone who wants to set up a consultation and i've gotten a few people married actually i've gotten a few people married engaged to rich guys i've gotten a lot of people back together i've i've gotten a lot of people to move on from their uh past into the future and getting a lot you know better life so yeah i do that already um the man in my life isn't very attractive but he's native frenchman and he has money he's willing to spend me when i don't care what his what family thinks okay good i don't care you know what ugly man it doesn't matter like men don't have to be pretty women do men have to be rich okay what is your contact info for the consultation please okay i'm gonna put it in the description box after this video is up and uploaded okay um but yeah my my email is lpadua11 at yahoo.com um you can write me there for a consultation only it's a business email so if it's not about business i'm deleting it okay um the consultation it's only 40 bucks and it's for 30 minutes and we'll have to schedule a time um yeah so what do you answer a rich man when he asks you what to do and have you been unemployed for a long time and do not do anything um tell him you're in school tell him you're studying you're learning you're making up something you know i'm in school you know i'm i'm studying to be name something like you can do online i'm in school i'm studying to be this is not you know um i'm living off of you know some savings and trust fund money blah blah blah at least he knows you you're resourceful you know um but make sure that he knows that eventually he's gonna have to help you if he's dating you know anyways yeah so if y'all haven't saw the video that i just did with ma2.0 um he's a guy and he makes similar videos advice videos that's up on his channel and uh it's just me and him talking and it's a really good video y'all should go check it out what do you do if a man asks you something if something is real such as nails breasts blah blah blah um well my nails are fake my hair is real my boobs are real if you got a bunch of fake stuff on you if this man if you want to be in a serious relationship with this man then yes you need to tell him your booty is fake or your boobs are fake because you know some men they just want to know that they're still gonna want you but they just want to know you know what i'm saying um if you don't care what they think and you know you're not going to be in a long-term relationship with them tell them it's real enough you know remember when someone asks you something that's offensive turn it back around on them say why why do you want to know you know do you like it you know it's not real enough for you um i don't give out my phone number plus i call private thanks for your help with everything you always answer yeah yeah yay um some advice for a young girl who's moving on and wants to date again start dating date a lot of people at the same time don't don't try to marry yourself down to one person how you gonna find a good man if you only date in one at a time okay when you're single you need to be dating like at least three guys a week and then narrow it down to one that you like okay um but and if you don't like any of them start over from scratch date three more the next week until you find one of them you like if you don't like any of those start over just treat them like you know you're interviewing them you're interviewing them are you compatible are you nice are you trying to impress me if not next next next you know you have to just get right back out there you know don't be afraid you don't live in the past don't think about emotions and all i miss this person forget them they're gone you know they dumped you you dumped them or whatever it's done move forward you know women have to stop being so emotional that's what holds us back okay if women were less emotional we would be further in life happier in life um and have a lot of things accomplished have the men we want stop living in emotion emotion is temporary and it will never get you what you want okay it's temporary you can't base decisions on it okay how can you make someone fall in love with me who's sexually very attracted to me but he lives in another city we don't have sex but nearly he came to my place to visit i don't believe in long distance relationships i always say this on my video either have him move where you are or move to where he is i don't believe in long distance relationships they never work out okay and if they do it's a lot of effort and work and you know communication and trust involved and you know it's not worth the effort to me if i can't see you and touch you you know i'm not in a relationship when dating a rich man should you show him that you're impressed with his stuff by his stuff it all depends like you want him to think that you're at least able to go out in public without seeming comment you know like if you're impressed by every little thing it's like okay you know like for example if you're impressed with a curate you know that's not good if you're impressed with a yacht yes that's nice if you're impressed with his cars yes that's nice if you're impressed with his art yes that's like if you're impressed by stupid stuff um no it it makes you seem like common and silly you know and he can't take you around his friends okay so only be impressed with the big things you know what i'm saying just not the little thing okay um i agree okay should you tell him in that you're dating other people if he asks nope never tell him in your dating other people um save their egos okay let them think whatever they want but never admit to cheating never admit never tell them in your seeing other people just like no i'm just going to be busy that weekend with my sister or my friends or blah blah blah blah blah and the only time you ever tell him that you're dating other people is when you get ready to break up with him and you don't care okay um what if you don't like your man's family but he's very attracted to them attached to them and you can't stand them well find reasons not to be around him you know oh i have to go to town that weekend oh i'm gonna go visit my mom that weekend i don't you know don't be around his family if you don't like him um and if you can't stand them then you know act you can act nice nasty like oh be super fake you know you know you know you don't like him so just pretend be actor you're gonna act just what if you don't like okay um what do you what do you do to show guy that he has competition without him being paranoid that you'll cheat and start accusing you of being a cheater um if you're dating him seriously if you're or if you're just dating him casually and want him want him to know that you are dating other people and he does have competition um don't be available that should be obvious okay a woman who is dating a man who's not always available they're either a seeing other people or b um seeing other people you know so if you say oh i'm busy those two days i'm busy that day how about you know another day let him be in mystery he's gonna think it anyway you know he's gonna feel like okay well how can i get her to drop her plans for me you know who is who is this person that's keeping her busy you know and it's a professional classy way to say look i'm seeing other people wait your turn okay and they know it they just don't want to hear it because it will wound their ego but they know that they secretly have okay could you tell your current date you have already been cheated on by your ex you don't bring up your ex when you're dating that's the stupidest thing you can do um because already they're gonna think you're not over them and you're comparing them to them so don't bring up your ex that's the dumbest thing you could ever do okay just don't even talk about them if they ask about them say oh i don't want to talk about them i'm over that and move on okay because a lot of guys will secretly test you to see if you're still hung up on your ex and if you if they ask you about your ex and you're talking for 10 minutes they already know you're ain't over okay should i borrow my mom's bnw to date a rich man my car is nice no if you're gonna date a rich man drive a bad car and get some money to buy a new car duh get a get a down payment for your new car tell him your car always breaking down you need a down payment you need a co-signer okay you don't you don't bring sense of the beach okay in fact if you drive a nice car you should get a a second car that's really trashy if you're gonna date a man with money so he can give you a down payment and car note payments to your new car which is really your car and you'll just be taking all the money what is your opinion on long distances i don't do longer date i don't like long distance relationships i think they're silly i think they're silly because they're not realistic and they're almost like you know um if you're not planning to move to that same city as that person and you're trying to be in a long distance relationship flying back and forth it never works out it never works out barely works out the the success rate is low so i wouldn't even waste my time okay um i hate that i'm still in love with my ex even though he cheated on me with my sister now find out hard to trust either one of them um don't trust any one of them i wouldn't trust him either you know i wouldn't love anyone that did that to me i'm sorry i'm like i love myself too much to look past you know betrayal okay i'm like you know what forget y'all and i love my sister that's unconditional but i'm not gonna love the man that cheated on me anymore i'm just done you know like your cheater you cheated on my family that's super low i don't love you i don't trust you um sorry you know anyways uh okay my ex-boyfriend is very rich i broke up with him because he wasn't spending any money on me and now i regret it as i could not find somebody with more money than him should i go back if he's not spending money on you it's the same as dating a broke man okay unless you're just enjoying the surroundings and the the things he allows you to live in whatever or the things that he affords you but for me if i were dating him i would date him and still be looking for other men you know to replace him i wouldn't you don't break up with somebody unless you have somebody better or you know you can go and replace them in two seconds you know if i were dating a rich man like super rich like super super rich i would never break up with him i would have a plan b i would have you know side dudes and i would have other men with less money spend the money on me because you know if he's not spending the money on you somebody else will and you'll still have him what you know and you don't ask for stuff you tell him what you want you know i need you know you need to buy me this you need to do this you know i need this you know let's go shopping you know um let's see how to get your crush to notice me his name is andrew how about you just go introduce yourself you know hi i'm such and such nice to you know just say hi i just want to introduce myself to you my name is blah blah blah blah i think you're a very nice person or i've been noticing that you come here or whatever whatever and i just thought i'd introduce myself to you and just open yourself up it's different with guys you know guys and girls don't it's very different you know you don't like girls have to play the the feminine role guys can just be open and honest you know they're just like hi you know and women have to play games more fell in love with a married man he loves me i confronted his wife she was pissed maybe on the verge of divorce he is pissed at me and hasn't spoken to me for three months any advice he ain't gonna talk to you anymore three months if a man does not call you in three months it's over okay first of all if he was married and you confronted his wife and he didn't leave her for you that means he was never going to leave her for you okay that means you messed up his game he was having his cake and eating it too and you called him out on it he never planned on leaving her for you that's that mean no don't move on okay um let's see my boyfriend despite the fact that i am conceded what should i do no my boyfriend despises the fact that i'm conceded what should i do um that means he doesn't like your self-esteem that means he feels like you shouldn't love yourself that much and you shouldn't feel that grand about yourself which means he doesn't want you to love yourself he doesn't want you to be all that because it's hard to control a woman like that okay it's hard to impress a woman who who thinks she's all that you know like oh i can do better uh like you i don't really need you um you should be happy i'm with you they can't impress that they can't compete with that um i broke up my boyfriend who says he still needs time for us to get married so be so i can be prepared financially i said no and left but now i feel alone most of the time and if i find somebody else okay uh keep everybody keeps asking about these exes okay if a man leaves you he don't want you move on stop trying to make somebody want you like if somebody left me i would not be trying to get them back i would be trying to go out and get something 10 times better so that when they see me they're gonna just hate themselves they're gonna hate me no more they're gonna hate themselves dang i left her for for some stupid reason and now she's with this you know this person that's 10 times better than me success is the best revenge and if you're trying to get something that left you you're trying to get a man that left you don't want you cheated on you just dropped you made an excuse to why he don't want to marry you you're not too smart okay you don't love yourself okay when someone rejects you move forward don't try to chase the person that threw you in the trash you know oh i need to throw this trash away okay oh no you you shouldn't have thrown me away you need me no you're trash they don't want you they threw you out move on okay you uh if you throw something in the garbage and it fell out on the floor are you going to pick it back up put in your pocket or throw it back in the trash okay stop chasing after these guys that threw you away it's done makes you look bad what do you do or what do you think i should do the situation stay with him or move on i think if somebody does not want you and if they're not chasing you move on there's somebody better okay if you got to be the man in the relationship then you're not gonna be happy in it anyway so move on yeah like i don't understand why so many women are stuck on their exes how many men are stuck on their exes how many men are stuck on their exes maybe about four maybe about four men out of 20 how many women are stuck on their exes about 15 out of 20 why because women hold on to emotional crap men don't they use logic okay she cheated on me she don't love me she threw me out she dumped me by i'm moving on women oh he cheated on me did this and that slept with my sister beat me but i still love him you know how stupid that sounds it sounds dumb it sounds like your IQ just went from 120 to 75 you sound really dumb so if you're stuck on your set on your ex the the the truth is you don't love yourself okay you don't get the clue you don't get the clue it's like being fired from a job is still showing up every day knocking on the door y'all need me to come back to work no fool we fired you get out okay go find another job okay yes do girls like super ripped guys only if they got money young girls probably do young girls probably go for looks and nice bodies after about the age of 24 25 they're looking for money and ugly bodies all right um what does it mean when a random guy buys you chocolate it means either a they're trying to poison you or b they're just trying to get your attention don't eat it okay um hey man who's intimidated by wonderful girl it's not one third time yeah it takes it doesn't take a lot to intimidate a man like you can tell a man by what he's intimidated by you know i'm saying if guys are intimidated by looks self-esteem this is that that means that's what they lack and they don't want you to have more than they than they do okay i went on a date last night our second date after the date he took me to macy's and bought me a perfume set oh that's very nice i love when guys gift you good good good gift okay um that poison answer surprised the heck out of me i might eat some candy some stranger gave me i'm sorry my mama taught me better than that um i'm trying to get to the point where i'm comfortable with men buying things um who isn't my boyfriend girl get comfortable it's fun um mice i well my sister was young she had all these rich guys buying her stuff taking her shopping she would bring me and they would buy me stuff too you know what i'm saying so don't be afraid and they want to spend money they're bored they have nothing to do they got so much money if they spent it on five people they still have money coming in so if they're super rich let them buy stuff for you who cares even if they're not rich if they offer take it because like if you believe in the law of attraction and you if you're if you're trying to attract a man who's financially stable and wealthy and you're rejecting gifts that's like saying to the universe no i don't want that send it back even though i asked for it you know when someone offers you something you accept it and you be thankful and you get more you attract more to you you know that's working in reverse that's like people who are afraid to make so much money i i know a lot of people who who are raised poor and once they got to a certain point of making money they felt like they shouldn't go above a certain amount and they didn't want to be rich and they started giving stuff away that's dumb you need to build yourself up build your wealth take gifts get all that stuff you know don't live in the poverty mindset you know if gifts and things are being offered to you take them you know that's that's a compliment it's just like people who don't accept compliments it's silly accept the damn compliment should you throw the gifts of other men when you are committing with someone no keep that stuff or sell it keep it or sell it get the cash for it you don't ever throw stuff away that's dumb if it's jewelry sell it if you want to sell it or give it as gifts to someone else but they traded at least get something out of it um this girl went on a date last week the dude seemed very interested in her he was trying to get her to go home with him but she refused and the next day he didn't call me okay so he was just dating you for sex okay get over it big deal it happens all the time at least she didn't waste any time i leave them when they ask stingy yep me too because i can't stand those stingy men okay it won't even work out i'm honestly afraid of getting gifts from these guys because they start expecting it for you to be serious with them that's the whole that's the whole funny thing when they give you a gift and you're not serious with them they're gonna give you another gift and another gift until you until you start to say oh well maybe we maybe i do like you a lot you can get a lot of gifts and not even be serious okay um and all you can say is if you don't want to be serious it's like you know what i wasn't you know i'm not ready who cares what are they gonna do ask for the gift back and if they do don't give it to them like you gave it to me what's a gift how do you make the first move on a co-worker we don't talk much women don't make the first move if you like someone just give them a smile if they like you they're gonna know what that smile means if they don't like you they're gonna keep moving okay you don't you don't approach men men approach you you know if you wear some nice perfume you are your nice outfit you're pretty lipstick bat your eyelashes and look at him and smile at him like you can get it and if you don't approach then you don't want you okay what if you feel guilty making a man pay for you wait for you i don't know don't feel guilty okay that's his job hi how do you okay yeah you don't feel guilty for making a man pay for you or wait for you that is his job you y'all been brainwashed it's still that way and it's done do you think women should always end the dates first yes don't keep talking and blabbing and let him say okay well it's time to go always exit first okay that means you're leaving him wanting more instead of you being left wanting more you're leaving him wanting more cut it cut it cut it okay well if a man is married you're basically you know men men flirt married men flirt with women all the time doesn't mean that they want to cheat you know if you're wanting to cheat with a married man at work um that's fine i'm sure they'll they'll give in to you maybe maybe not it's just you know but it's probably not going to go anywhere um and plus after they get what they want they're gonna start ignoring you you're gonna get pissed off so i don't know some guy says if they discovered their woman was conniving like the way i am they would drop her instantly well they wouldn't figure it out because i'm too smart for that they would never figure it out they would never figure it out men men can't figure stuff like that out because their ego will block it oh no she's not like that she's a good girl because they will never see the side of me you think i act like this in front of the guys that i used to date no i was the innocent sweet everyone's mom loved me i was just oh yeah um rock back and forth smile lean your head to the side yeah you know i you know honey i i saw these shoes that were so cute i tried them on the other day i i almost bought them and i was like no i shouldn't get those oh the shoes were they oh you know here's a picture of them oh you should have got them yeah you want to go with me and then they end up paying for them okay so basically i'm not conniving i'm just strategic how to use a man's guilt in your favor if someone's cheating if a guy cheated on you and you want stuff from him now then all you got to do is ask never bring up the past just ask for what you want you know if you're arguing or you're upset about something and he thinks you're getting ready to bring up the past bring up a sale you know they're having a sale at macy's tomorrow and i really want to go tired of arguing with you okay here's my credit card you know there's this pants that i want um you know i'm done with this conversation i got to go to the store um you know to buy some groceries can have your can have your credit card uh and then go somewhere else and buy some shoes i got you know i was thinking in the car you know um my my the shoes that i had on were uncomfortable to walk around the grocery store and so i went to go buy some different shoes and then i saw these other shoes on sale and then it was too late to go to the grocery store so i just stopped and got us a pizza bam okay that's a credit card um i went out with a guy who had a nice job car seemed very okay financially he was totally i was totally myself on the date and i told him i don't have sex with random guys he never called again why because he knew he didn't have a chance without commitment see you have to give the illusion okay if you don't if you tell him you don't have sex at random guys first of all that means he wants to spend a lot more money spend a lot more time and effort trying to get to you and if he had money if he had a good job he can go get any um chick and sleep with her on the first or second date just because of his status you know he did not want to have a serious relationship period he just want to hit it and quit it so you saved yourself a lot of time because he wasn't trying to be in a relationship anyways um okay um should guys kiss on the first date or not if you have nice teeth and your breath smells good you can try but if you if you jacked up kiss her on the cheek i remember i went on a date with this one guy and he was cute and everything but his teeth were just messed up and you know i didn't want to kiss him i mean he was nice arm candy because he smiled with his mouth closed and oh but it's not i didn't want to kiss him you know i'm a teeth person like they weren't even they weren't even a little bad a lot of bad his teeth were throwing gang signs do i believe in love at first sight no i believe in lust at first sight don't believe in love at first sight love is love is different love is an emotion that you feel over an amount of time lust is something you feel instantly it's a chemical reaction how soon or late you go to sleep over a dude's house i always say don't sleep with a man unless you spent a lot of time and money on you at least 500 to a thousand dollars and over a weaker tour of dating you know just depends on your preference but make sure he's invested in you money with money and time so if you if he sleeps with you and leaves you you left with more than he did you know i'm saying you have the upper hand you don't sleep with somebody after two days you know that means you know hooker makes more than you i look scary you don't go sleep over a man's house and not give him sex that's gonna totally frustrate him you know what i mean you don't do it um i wouldn't do it if that's not a good situation you know what i'm saying unless you're ready to give it up don't do it now you can tease him and give it to him in the morning make him wait all night that's gonna blow his mind like oh i'm ready uh-huh do i ever get in a fight with my husband and how do i deal with it i i don't emotionally argue with my husband i logically argue with my husband um if we get to a conversation or an argument i'm so quick i'm a such a quick thinker i will totally you know i would argue the case like a lawyer i would win or i would i would let him think he won so that could get my weight with something else i'm very strategic i don't argue out of i will save up stuff to argue about once i get my plan in place the month once i get my strategy once i get what i need out you know what i'm gonna need how i'm gonna get it so for example if um if we arguing about uh something that uh he wants to buy i want us to buy it because it's stupid i'll i'll have a different alternative or what's better or i'll say if you buy that you're gonna be wasting a lot of money like you did the last time and it's just going to be silly and you should really have learned from your past mistakes but if you want to buy go ahead don't talk to me about it you're on your own that's your project you know i will just totally dismiss it like you i don't care i am not an emotional arguer because it's silly and doesn't get you anywhere and you don't benefit from it at all if you argue wisely your point is going to be taken seriously by that person and they're going to rethink what they want it to do or what they're arguing about they're gonna be like maybe she's right you know hmm and then sometimes he'll come back and say you know what you know sometimes you need to hear stuff from different people and different point of views to kind of see you know what what's going on so you are right they'll come back and say you were right but if you go all off in emotional love they will never admit you are right because they hate emotional nagging women but if you sit there and present your case they're gonna listen okay i don't argue with people like emotionally i strategically litigate like have you thought about this have you thought about that god doesn't take care of his teeth i've asked him to visit a dentist but he doesn't i'm holding back from kissing but it wasn't happy bomb some mouthwash and some toothpaste and a gift basket with a free teeth whitening coupon that you can clip out the magazine and send them to the dentist make him an appointment don't ask him make him an appointment like look we're going to the dentist tomorrow no or surprise i'm taking you up somewhere it's a surprise walk up in the dentist's office okay by all the people that are leaving okay how did you become strategic though i need you to write a book more to the best way to come become strategic watch law and order y'all need to watch law and order you know it tells you how to think logically you know um women who lead with emotion they don't ever get ahead when you when you're mad at something you need to go in another room until you're not mad anymore think of a plan think of stuff that you want to say back to him that's gonna make him think you don't argue upset you argue to win okay you argue to make people think to change their mind you argue for a purpose if you just arguing to argue it's a waste of your time and you're not benefiting from it that's why strategy is very important you know what advice do you give a plus size girl for finding a man of gold gold the older you go the less they care about certain things you know you get a young rich guy they're gonna want you to be a supermodel the older you get the more forgiving they are as far as look you know i'm saying and wait as long as you make them happy and give them what they can't get you know you're good i feel like you're gonna have to make a lot of sacrifices women who go from in with money they're gonna make sacrifices and that's just one of them you gotta go older okay what do i say when a man walks up to me i always mess up you stay mysterious let them keep talking let them do all the talking you know if they ask hi what's your name just like tell them your name tell them your name that's it hi i'm whatever oh nice to meet you so what are you doing here oh i'm just here relaxing i'm just here having a good time you know how or how are you what are you doing here you know let them give them all the opportunity to take up the conversation let them talk listen to them don't don't keep talking switch it back to them where do i go to meet a man with money go to the rich gyms gyms a nice area um that's the that's like the easiest best place to find a man with money go to a rich neighborhood and go join a gym over there all everybody in there got money okay especially if it's a gym that costs a lot of money to join you know like for example i have a membership at lifetime fitness and with my kids and everything costs like a hundred dollars a month for that gym membership and yes i do go to the gym i know a lot of y'all told me like you need to go work out i do work out but i'm still gonna eat too okay um so yeah everybody in there they gotta be able to afford at least a hundred dollars a month for a gym membership okay so you know you know people that can do that are gonna have something to offer you you know they they can just throw that away because most of time people even go to the gym every day and they can just throw a hundred dollars for a gym membership you know that that means that's the least of their worries you know um and if you're in a really nice neighborhood everyone has a career you know everyone has money everyone is um financially stable you know so you're not going to run into nobody broke there even if you don't see the you're gonna be you're gonna look better than a lot of women in there you're gonna and men are gonna find you attractive and um you know you could get approached okay so don't rule out the gym that's like one of the other grocery stores go shop and very nice rich neighborhood grocery stores you always see single man grocery shopping um you can ask the questions can you reach that for me you know um where else i would say um like i always say you know happy hour and very um high profile business areas or medical centers okay yeah i go to the gym hang out in the sauna go to the restaurant get massages in my gym they got a hair salon a jacuzzi three pools um racket balls spinning class basketball courts yoga like you can hang out there all day and they even have tv and couches they got wi-fi you don't ever have to leave you can stay in there i see all these cute guys in there i know i'm married but i know they be looking at me and you know and then they see my rings but you know if i were single i probably had about a couple days by now you know what i'm saying and all got all of them got money okay so if you're if you're wanting to invest in that gym membership first of all you're getting a gym membership you're getting perks plus you're getting to be around a bunch of people with money you know so um it's a win-win you're just going to have to sacrifice you know a lot of women invest in finding a man of means you know some women invest we're getting fake boobs some women invest with nice clothes some women invest by spending time in certain areas well you can invest and still get something out of it by getting a very expensive gym membership in a nice part of town seriously i'm leaving Planet Fitness and joining a wrist gym girl i almost joined uh Planet Fitness and i was like looking at them cars in the parking lot i'm like mm-hmm i've got to go up you know i've got to i think i've got to do better because like where i live there's like um it's like surrounded by these like gyms and you got all type of gyms um so i chose the one the nicest one you know the thing um so the people that go to the gym in my area they're very well to do you know so anyone you're going to bump into deal with men or women they got money so you know anybody and it's also good for business like if you have your own business you're not trying to look for a man but you're trying to promote your business you can do a lot of networking at the gym too um somebody asked me if i did i lose my virginity no i'm married with two kids and i'm still a virgin just like mary um if you're a single mom out of shape but forget about getting a rich man odds are against you if you're over that's not true that's not true i've had so many men come on to me at my fattest like i've had so many men come on to me while i was fat it's crazy you know a lot of men like overweight women and that is crazy like especially fit men like every man that i've ever um met while i was um bigger than this they always fit with six packs and you know nice and i'm like what do you want i think they like to see you eat i don't know but you know i've been in relationships like every man that i've been with have been super in shape i don't know they just attracted to women who have some meat on their bones i don't know why so don't let people discourage you um and i think it also depends on the race like a lot like caucasian men they prefer thin and skinny black guys they they like thick okay so you know it's totally i think it's totally up to the person that you're dealing with i feel like i've i've dated personal trainers i've dated you know sick models you know it was fun but all you know i don't think that there's a problem with getting a date if you're plus size you know besides most of the guys who are super picky and super oh i need a thin woman like this thin they ain't got no money anyway and they can't feed you anyway i currently have a sugar daddy he provides me with a monthly allowance how can i get him to spend more money on me i want him to pay for my school influence towards non-surgical treatment um why don't you get another sugar daddy to pay for that or why don't you come up with another bill a fake bill and use that money for what you need it for okay if i had a boy like a child that's a boy what kind of advice would i give him work hard become a man be respectable um i would i would teach him you know you came from a woman honor women you know they bring you into this world i would also teach him how to be a man i would tell him to go with his dad follow what his dad does you know learn from his father because i can't teach a man how to be a man only another man can do that you know so i would i would let him spend a lot of time with his dad make make my make my husband take him somewhere spend a lot of time with them teach him you know the ropes you know how to how to be a gentleman how to treat other people how to work hard have a good work ethic you know things like that how to deal with a guy who's always jealous and drains you emotionally because you always have to tell him you're not even dump him because he's insecure and that's the most unattractive thing in a man is insecurity oh it's disgusting and gross and i can never be turned on by it okay dump him um that's um because he's gonna drain you he's never gonna stop that's just who he is okay why are women attracted to womanizers because we always want what we can't have fully okay just like men are always attracted to gold diggers you know you they don't they know they can never truly get something so they're going to chase it just in case they can get it you know and smart women will make them chase you make them chase them and pretend that they can't have it and then in the end when they get everything they want they'll go ahead and say okay you're gonna have it now because you've worked so hard you know sorry so yeah interracial relationships what do i think i feel like if you can't find what you want in your own race and you just think i gave up hope and the only way i'm going to reproduce get married is to get out of my race then go ahead and do it you know i feel like if you can't find someone in your own race or you don't want anyone in your own race but you still want to reproduce and have kids and have a family and get married you shouldn't let race stop you you know a lot of people will say well if you keep having kids with other races you're gonna breed out your race but you know i feel like okay and you know if everybody was mixed don't you think the world would be a better place anyway you know if if you want to mix it up mix it up if you don't want to mix it up don't mix it up you know if you have if you have a child with a white person your child's going to be mixed chances are that mixed child go marry a black person then they get it their family's going to be black again and then chances are that child might marry a white person then they're going to mix it up so it's just going to keep going back and forth like for example my mom had me i'm mixed i'm married a black man my kids are 75 percent black right so dope i don't know who's gonna marry what in the next generation but it's it's not you know people don't um really think about stuff like that but i feel like i feel it's fine i don't feel anything is wrong with it um i don't like a lot of people say well do you feel betrayed no i don't feel betrayed because um certain women have certain expectations and if you can't meet those expectations i'm not going to get mad at you for finding someone who can you know who can deal with you i'm not going to be bad so go ahead chances are i'll probably pass you by or i would have passed you by anyway so go do what you gotta do same with a man like most men most black men um would not be able to do certain things that um a caucasian a latino or an asian man can do for a black woman and they're just not going to have you know it's like i'm not doing all that so you know if that's what your standard is then therefore you can't date certain people and it is what it is how to deal with a fuck boy that don't want to let go but you just take two you know what women get women get me with this with this stuff oh we broke up but he keep calling he don't want to let me go no he doesn't want to let you go you're free sex okay so why don't you be smart and block the number okay um that's like oh i have this man paying all my bills he just doesn't want to let go of course you know if he really wanted to let go he would stop paying those bills if you really wanted to let him go you would find a job you would let him go you don't want to let go the whole point so you're gonna you're trying to flip it on him but you know if he can have his cake and eat it too he will be dumb to let it go you're the you're the only one who's not getting the benefit he is he's having his cake and eating it too like you said you're just giving out cake for free so i don't i don't i see i see straight through that um what do you do if you date a guy but see red flags and don't want to proceed on but he is a close friend of your brothers so he checks up on you through him i'm not so interested in any race start dating somebody else get caught cheating hmm tell him it's just not going to work out you're not my type um how do you get a plan before leaving and let's save up your money look at apartments um you know when you're not with that person see what your price range can do get approved put in your application see if you can live with a friend or and if you can't get approved put everything in place so all you have to do is pack and call the u-haul truck you know put everything in place first and don't don't like i said don't get emotional you have to be strategic what's the best advice for women who suffer from low self-esteem get some self-esteem you know don't care what other people think okay that's the one thing you have to do you can't care what other people think if you care too much about what other people think if you feel like you're not all that then you're not all that if you feel like you are all that then guess what people will start treating you like you're all that you know um you can be the ugliest person in the room but if you walk in like and they're like you own it people are going to respect you okay it's just all about your mental attitude and how you feel about yourself if you don't love yourself nobody else will okay how to break relationship patterns if a woman finds herself manifesting the same type of partner you need to change okay if you keep attracting the same type of person it's because you haven't changed you're the same old thing you're going to keep tracking the same old thing so better yourself better yourself then you attract better me you're gonna have higher standards once you're better okay so work on you um will i ever do more videos about self esteem self esteem is a simple thing it's very simple people complicated stop caring what people think and think that you are better than everyone else fake it till you make it okay if you think you're better than everyone else and start acting like it you're going to be acting like you're better than everyone else pretend you are in um a drama class or theater class and your role was to be the snooty person that's better than everybody else but but in real life you have low self esteem you're gonna have to act that part you're gonna have to act the part you're gonna have to be like oh yes i'm better than every one of you i'm i'm just so all of this i'm all of that you know i'm what oh no whatever i'm no i don't i'm not dealing with that you know no i don't care what you think i know who i am act act fake it until you make it you can't be a victim you have to take control of your own life you know act until you really feel that way and eventually you will because you're gonna start believing it you're gonna be like you know look how these people are treating me different look how they're really believing what i'm saying look how they're backing up look how they're respecting me oh my gosh all i have to do is act really dang i should have been doing this forever act okay you're not a victim of anything you don't have low self esteem you're just not acting like the person you really want to be how to find a plan b you should either already have one or you should keep a friend on on hold you know what i'm saying make a friend what to wear to a concert over 40 jeans nice heels maybe a shirt cardigan jacket you know bomber jacket just something cute and sport not not too dressy unless you're going to like some type of dressy concert then i don't know maybe a nice pair of jeans and a fancy top i don't know i don't go to concerts anymore i'm so old um last concert i went to i wore dress and heels because it was max well and it was like front row everybody had on their suits and stuff like that i'm trying to see i don't even know who stevie b is y'all i don't know who daddy um if you're old if you're older any man ask why you haven't been married is there a best answer um yeah a lot of guys feel like something's wrong with you if you haven't been married by a certain age um if it were me i would say like i would have to come up with a good answer i've been traveling oh my god i have traveled a lot i've been traveling i've been focusing on lots of things and you know there has never been a guy that just caught my attention you know that just there's never been a man who has taken my focus on my attention i feel like one day you know i'm sure pretty sure they're gonna come along and but you know there's just hasn't been a man that has caught this you know make yourself the pride like there just hasn't been a man that caught this you know i'm saying um so that's why i'm not married because i really haven't met anyone special enough don't put the blame on you but i have many more special yes i said lie everyone who lies is a human all humans lie how to not how to how do you let a man treat you without feeling like you owe him or a couple just do it men are supposed to court you okay see people have brainwashed these women so much that they feel guilty for accepting things from men men are supposed to pay men are supposed to court you if you feel guilty it's because you've been brainwashed that is your gift for spending time your time is more valuable okay if they ask you out and they buy you stuff thank you okay time is money you spend in time they spend the money okay you don't ever feel guilty if you feel guilty then you're never gonna get what you truly deserve never okay can you show me that's my i can't see faith i need my glasses how do you get over that feeling you get when it feels like someone is in your presence especially in the dark man's spot this is this is the relationship channel y'all come on um some girl told me that if a man beats me with a pipe it means he loves me well why don't you beat her back with the pipe and tell her you love her too um let's see uh yes okay uh i have i have real problems when asking for what i want directly from men don't ask tell y'all y'all can i have this you know when when my kids want something from the store they don't ask me they just pick it up and tell me i want this i'm gonna have to force my mouth to say no and feel bad rather than i have a choice now when they ask me oh can i get this mom no well i'm getting this you're like huh you know it's harder to say no when you already tell somebody yes someone asked me if i'm a male yes i'm a male i was born with ovaries and i've had children with another male so um do the science i'm a man i'm a man with ovaries okay someone said but chris brown loves rihanna right um i feel like abusive men are like emotional women they act out of rage they act out of emotion they don't think logically they might love you but what if they accidentally kill you oops oh i love her but i killed her oops you can love somebody after they're dead too what does that mean okay what would you say to dating a rich class a rich narcissist if you're gonna date a narcissist you have to become a narcissist as well okay that's my only advice you mirror the narcissist they will either love you more for being just like them because they love themselves that much and you can actually learn a lot from a narcissist you can learn how to get away um if you're with a narcissist become a narcissist with them okay mirror them that's the only way to survive in that type of relationship okay how do you handle females who want to pack it piggyback off your attention when it comes to like when you go out don't hang around girls out go about yourself that's what i did you think i would have met my husband if i was out with a bunch of women no no i hang up on myself i hung up on myself yes what would you say to dating bd sm white male i don't even know what a bd sm is what is that a sadomasochist like i say he better be rich and have a lot of money to compensate um yes how do you make a guy fall in love how do i make a guy fall in love with me who is sexually very attracted to me he lives 500 kilometers away move to his town or you can't make a man fall in love with you you know men are men are in lust with you then they fall in love with you so just you know watch a bunch of videos and teach you how to be very good sexually and put it on that on it what do you stay with a man you love if he has to pay alimony to another woman if he can afford to pay alimony and afford to pay all the bills and give me the life that i want i don't care if he can't afford it and he's struggling and you got a tip in no peace i don't love i'm attracted to men who are stable i'm attracted to men who can take care of their business i cannot love a man who is struggling and lacking to me it looks weak and i can't fall in love with anything weak you know what i'm saying it just wouldn't work so um i probably wouldn't be with a man who all his money had to go to alimony you know if he was rich and it was not a problem and it was just like a direct deposit into her account and you never have to see her or struggle a day and not even notice that money is gone i wouldn't care okay okay some girl says i've learned that men that are scared of me fall in love with me quicker but they always leave me when i put the gun away uh-huh that's a joke um am i a gold digger um i was a gold digger until i found the gold now i am um now i have gold i found what i was looking for yet okay i wasn't digging for boogers i was digging for gold jet pot okay if you're a man and you play the lottery you might as well be a gold digger because you're looking for something too for you know that's easy what would i can't really be with the father of my kids but my daughter keeps saying if i can't she will cut out relationship as mother and daughter she's the daughter you're the mother okay she's telling you what to do i don't know how old she is but she's under 18 then you need you got some problems with your discipline um but if she's grown and she she decides that she can cut you out of her life because you don't want to be with her dad anymore then say okay well you know what that's your decision you know that's your decision you can't make those choices for me little girl you know i've raised you you're a grown woman you have your own opinion and so do i if you don't want a relationship with me that is your choice i'll be here when you change your mind that's what i was saying because your kids cannot tell you what to do okay unless you are old lady and you don't want to go to a nursing home then you got to listen to her um should we send nudes never send nudes that is unclassed if you send nudes you have to worry about when they get mad at you are they gonna post it on facebook if you're gonna send nudes go online and take pictures of uh get pictures of someone else's nude body go photoshop your face on it make sure they have some type of tattoo that you don't have and make and you give it to them okay that's not your body don't even show your face on the nude just get a random nude offline and send it to them that's me yep that's what i would do um what do you do if the man you are with changed from being so sweet to not caring anymore but telling you he still loves you and don't want to do it anymore men will put put it on thick in the beginning they're not gonna always be like that throughout the relationship they have grown comfortable and expect you to also accept that okay if you want him to wind and dine you rub your feet every night give you this give you that like he did in the beginning that means uh you know for him he can't be comfortable in the relationship so you know men will try to impress you at first in the beginning and then he will start slacking up because he feels like oh she loves me i don't have to do all that anymore blah blah blah if you keep expecting him to do all of that the whole time it's going to exhaust him okay men are not like women they sometimes they don't really even want to be doing that stuff they're just doing it to impress you so find a comfort zone you know find a comfort zone or compromise right okay well and you don't do all that stuff for me no more let's just have date night and bring the flowers every once in a while you know how do i get girlfriend to go shopping girlfriend i don't know find somebody with some money that wants to take you shopping i don't okay she or you think men first of all and lust and then in love how do i make them fall in love by good sake okay if a man can't live without you can't imagine his life without you has had the best sex with you the most sex with you the most creative sex with you they're not going nowhere okay so you gotta keep it fresh new exciting um all that make him just feel like uh he's hit the jackpot you know uh and and eventually he's gonna fall in love okay and especially if you're not all over emotional about it and trying to make it into love you know if you keep it lust he's gonna make it love first you don't make it love you make it lust all the way he's going to have to say i love you first he's gonna have to say oh my god i love you so much while you're in that passion don't say i love you first the woman should never say i love you first if you say i love you first he's gonna be turned off it's like oh man i thought we was just having fun you know but you keep having fun eventually that that lust is going to turn into love for him don't say it first you just keep putting it on and then he's gonna realize dang this is really good she hasn't said she loves me yet i wonder if she's just using me i wonder if she's got other you know she's thinking about other people and wonder if she wants me to say that i love her i wonder if you know dang i want this for the rest of my life i love you you know so if you're going to use sex to get a man to fall in love with you let him say it first okay don't ever say it first my head is too big you can't see that's right you got a big head okay i'm getting ready to go in about 10 minutes so y'all ask me the last question um is it inappropriate to ask for money when you first meet him but he shows it off if a man is showing off his money obviously you know most men with real money don't do that so he might not really have money to give if he's trying to show it off you can test him by saying oh let's go shopping you know and if he says no i gotta pay for this and no no no that means he really don't have it to spend because if he's trying to show it to you if he ain't trying to spend it on you then what's the point you know what i'm saying so and if he's showing you his money it's like oh let's go shopping or oh you know i know a really nice restaurant let's go here name someone really specific get him to spend it if he's showing it you know that way he can't say no because obviously he has it right okay how long does it take for a love spell of having this in downtown um should you okay on my first date this guy was calling me his wife and questioning me about getting and i don't know some man will just say that to get what they want like all right this is just crazy um i'm sorry i can't help hitting the mic because okay because i have to scroll on the screen to see the comments if i don't i won't see the comments and i really hate that um so how do you not be gullible apparently i'm gullible if you're young you're most likely gullible um if you don't if you don't enter a relationship or if you're not dating with a plan you're gonna be gullible you need a plan and a goal okay for example if you're dating if you're going to first date with someone they're cute you know they're gonna pay for dinner and they have some money they could be potentially a boyfriend your goal is to see if you're compatible with this person if you're compatible with that person then you go on the next date then your next goal is to see you know what they have to offer you you know um if you don't like it if it's not satisfactory then mission complete move on to the next you know if you're dating a rich man your goal should be to get him to sponsor you in some type of way pay some one of your bills or whatever if he's gonna be able to date you and be seen in public with you because chances are he ain't that cute um so your goal is always to get something out of the person to get to the next level to get to the next level just like a video game and once you get to the level where you're almost gonna be wife if you if you're a long-term golfer and once you get there and you're ready to be wife then you know you've been following a set of goals in the relationship if you're gullible it means you had no plan you had no strategy in the relationship you just went with the flow and let anybody do anything to you okay you have to go in with a plan you know if your plan is to get a bottle of wine off this person get that bottle of wine if this if your plans to have them buy you a gift have them buy your gift keep going until you you're getting all the goals that you want out of the relationship your plan to get them is to commit get them to commit that is your focus you don't deter from it you know what i'm saying do it strategically though with reverse psychology um but if you're going into a relationship blind with no goals in mind you're gonna probably be gullible and fall for anything and become emotionally attached and probably um mistreated and all that kind of stuff you don't have a plan you'll fall for anything okay um do i have any health problems nope i ain't got no health problems at all i'm like perfectly i'm i'm like the healthiest person in my family like i don't have the last thing that i ever had wrong with me is um i had my eyebrows tinted and i was allergic to the tint and i had to go to the dermatologist and get some medicine and then i got to uh and then i had a settlement with the company that tinted my eyebrows and i got paid so even my illness got me paid okay it was actually just an allergic reaction and i even told the lady look okay i'm allergic to hair dye i'm putting it in my eyes and she did anyway so i got paid okay my mom always talks shit to me and never teaches me anything about money or love any advice uh some mothers are just very bitter and jealous of their daughter's youth and it's it's kind of sad because they never got the life that they wanted and they don't want you to have it okay they don't want you to do better than them um so i feel like it's best to come and get advice from people that you do agree with you know that's why i'm on youtube to help people because there's so many people out there so many women out there that have no idea on how to approach men um you know in a relationship how to get them to commit how to you know have them you know do nice things for you because they've seen their mothers sisters aunts cousins be mistreated so long they think that's the correct way and it's just not okay sometimes mothers are ashamed because they've done the opposite of what they really were supposed to do you know and so they don't want to admit that they were wrong but they're not going to give you the advice you know what i'm saying not all of them some of them you know how do i get a tan like yours you gotta be born with it because like yeah this is natural born tan you gotta have some black DNA okay um so i always attract guys who try to come in at folks is there anything i can do to change that okay when you go dress like a wife okay i always tell this to the way when you go out and you're you're out and about and you're trying to find men you got boobs pumped up all the way out here all the skin showing you're the type of woman that a man is not going to commit to there you're for fun you're for fun okay if you dress nice like a wife pristine classy no man who wants to use you it's getting ready to approach you because you look like a wife you look like you deserve respect you look like you deserve commitment so they're not even gonna approach you you're gonna save a lot of time if you're dressed like a whore and a slut and i'm not saying that women shouldn't dress sexy because you know i don't care but that's what you're gonna get treated like you know what i'm saying it's wrong but that's how men profile you you know um if you dress like a wife they're gonna treat you as a potential wife if you're dressed with everything showing they're gonna treat you like someone to have fun with use up and then leave and then they're gonna go get the wife okay so it's all about how you present yourself you're going out showing everything and you're attracting men who who treat you and won't commit to you it's because they don't have to you know i'm saying they don't they're not even going to feel guilty about about wasting your time because you know that's what you were for you know what i mean so you have to dress like a wife if you want to be wife okay dress classic would i leave my husband if you found out he cheated once no i would get paid i'm like oh you cheated okay guess what let's go shopping okay uh for me cheating is not a deal breaker because i can go cheat too okay like for me i would like it would be so much easier for me to cheat than my husband to cheat on me you know what i'm saying um so it's not really a deal breaker because i would just go and do the same thing i'm like oh so you want to cheat okay um we're marriage is a business deal okay it's not about emotion it's not about old betrayal you know if he gave somebody my bank account number then we gotta talk okay but cheating you know i can go cheat that's not like a big deal for me but i don't think he would ever cheat because you know he's he's a lot older than me if he ever did cheat on me it would probably be somebody he don't even want to cheat with you know like no no one's approaching him hey you won't go you won't go cheat you know no one's approaching him like that you know plus all his money is tied up he can't afford to cheat but like i said it wouldn't be a deal breaker if he did if i found out he cheated i probably wouldn't even tell him that i knew until like i wanted something you know for me it's like wow free pass you know i would never break up over any type of thing like i don't care um to me sex is not why people get married okay to me it's more of a business deal it's a coming together of finances it's how to grow it's what you can build and accomplish and what you're what you can leave your kids okay to me that's what it is um if i had married um someone that i was head over heels with who gave me butterflies who i dreamed about and and just obsessed over i would probably be taken advantage of all the time but since i married someone i don't care they don't even try to do nothing to me it's it's it's hilarious it's like i don't care what you're doing there i'm not even worried about that it's it's hilarious because um it's not a deal breaker for me i wouldn't care i'm like okay do your thing i'm glad i want to do it okay yes would you leave your husband if you hired a prostitute um i don't think my husband would hire a prostitute i think that um i think he would try to cheat before he hired a prostitute you know what i'm saying uh because i feel like like he doesn't even like um women who've been around a lot that would turn him off to sleep with someone who slept with everything so um i don't think he would hire a prostitute and if he did i wouldn't know about it because i wouldn't be looking like if he came out and said i heard a prostitute yeah i'd be mad but i'm not i don't search through his stuff i don't care what he what he's doing i don't think he he doesn't have the energy to go hire a prostitute you know he works all day long he comes home watches tv goes to sleep that's basically what you okay okay ask your question again you said i keep missing your question hold on let me scroll back god these people cheating is a big deal when women get your information and start start stalking you women have never stopped me my husband don't he ain't trying to have all that drama okay he's very like very low profile try to find this question i keep telling him he says he doesn't want to change you can't change a man okay men don't change unless they want to change you can't change a man either deal with them how they are or move it along okay you can't change them you can deal with them you can change how you feel about it but you can't change them okay okay your boyfriend it makes a lot of money four hundred k but dresses like a bum you don't like it should you leave him yeah go ahead and leave him because somebody else is waiting on him girl let's let your man dress like a bum as long as he's paying your bills let him wear what he want okay you can't control what a man wears that's crazy look i'm sure as soon as you dump him somebody else will be ready to dress like a bum right with him yes yeah um if a man makes all that money and he's paying your bills he can wear whatever he want to wear okay he can wear a clown suit okay if if you want him to dress better why don't you just dress up and make him look and make his bum clothes look bad dress up everywhere you go with him and make him look like he's a bum maybe he'll start trying to or maybe you should go buy him some clothes and give it to him like hey baby i thought about you here's some clothes you know if you want him to dress better buy him buy him clothes buy buy him clothes and see if he puts it on if he don't put it on that means he don't want to impress you he's not trying to impress you okay okay yeah buy some clothes like my husband he's older right he's gonna be wearing some old old fashion clothes i'll buy him a shirt and a hat every now and then when i go shopping i'll pick something up and now he's hit like now he got a work roll you know buy one piece at a time just one piece at a time don't try to give him a whole new outfit buy him a t-shirt buy him some shoes buy him a hat you know buy him some pants don't don't buy him a whole outfit because that means i don't like what you got on change your whole outfit just buy one thing at a time and eventually he'll start wearing it and he'll start liking it oh i look good in this you know you know and then like when you buy him a shirt oh my god you look so sexy in that and just like be all over him and to him wearing this shirt equals six so he's gonna be wearing it okay you gotta use psychology with me if you think he can get more from you if you wear this shirt he's gonna wear that shirt okay what if he pays a $25 credit card bill and says he needs to be paid back for it oh my gosh if somebody asked me for $25 back that would be the end of our relationship i'm so sorry i give my kid $25 for free and that you know they even do nothing um no i don't i don't it will turn me off like so bad i'll be like okay you'll get it back never how to tell friends to leave you just say get out get out um like if you have some friends staying with you or if they're over your house or you don't want them there no more make everything uncomfortable you know don't flush your toilet make everything uncomfortable for them so that they won't stay long you know what i'm saying make it hot in the house like we're super hot or super cold just make everything uncomfortable so they leave on their own if they don't get the clue tell them okay well you know what it's time to clean up everybody gotta pitch in now let's clean up this house okay you got the dishes you got the floors to start giving them jobs don't have food or drinks okay that's how you get rid of people don't have any food or drink turn off your tv disconnect the cable all that so we forgot to pay the bill i'm pretty and dressed well but men never approach me always the friends i'm with who i feel aren't more attractive stop hanging out with women women who hang out in groups it's harder for them to get approached by men if you're prettier than the other girls haven't y'all seen a beautiful mind the the men have more of a chance with the girls who aren't as attractive as you so they're gonna go for them first they're easier with you they might have to work too hard you know what i'm saying so if you are by yourself and they're the only you're the only one they see they're gonna work hard for you if you've got a bunch of girls with you who are easier than you they're gonna get those okay it don't matter if you look better they're easier okay certain men only want certain things so stop going out in groups i tell y'all when if y'all trying to meet a serious date you know if y'all trying to date seriously you meet a man stop going out in packs okay okay yes there's such thing as being too mean i once told what i mean um it is a such thing as being too mean um you have to be sarcastic if you really want to be mean and you know and say what you want to say be sarcastic about it you know at least you'll have wit but um you know say things in a way that make people think instead of feeling you know what i mean um say what you like rather than what you don't like you know if you if you if your man does something that you don't like say what you um admire about him instead you know like i don't like okay you don't like the fact he leaves his underwear on the ground okay i love how when you do laundry and pick up and put clothes up i love that it's so sexy as a child next time he dropped his underwear on the ground he's gonna remember you saying how you love how clean and he is and doing laundry he's gonna pick those underwear up okay that's how you do it it's positive um it's a very positive way to get people to it's positive reinforcement to get them to do what you want without being demanding and you know like when i want my kids to clean up their room i was like you know what fascia you make up your bed so good oh my god i wish i could make up my bed like that um you know your room you keep your room really nice when it's clean that room could look like a tornado hit it okay next time i asked her to clean up her room she's gonna clean it up and he's like oh look you like how i made up my bed mommy i'm like yeah i love it teach me you know so it's all about the reverse psychology and the positive reinforcement rather than the negative reinforcement you know um because people like to hear good things about themselves you know it keeps them going okay i've been out with girls and the girls will ask guys which one do you want and they always pick me which made me so uncomfortable well those are stupid girls like which one do you want which one of us do you want oh i want her you should be flatter and i should teach your friends not to ask that question anymore because you know how do you deal with mother-in-law's how should i act when you meet them just act like they're your like they're your new friend like act fake and bubbly they love that hi it's so nice to meet tilt your head because it shows um humbleness hi nice it's almost like bowing like hi nice to meet you i've heard so much about you yes you know such as such as a great guy i've been wanting to meet you for a while blah blah blah you know act be fake be humble like kindred remark says be humble um be the good girl be like you know innocent and sweet and smile a lot um moms want to know that their son has picked someone that's not trashy and he's gonna abuse and use them you know so act if you take someone back after them cheating on you should you act the heck should you have access to all their accounts for a while if you take somebody back after they cheated on you you're taking back a cheater okay if you need all their account information it's because you still think that they're gonna cheat on you which is silly because you took them back um i feel like you're gonna be more like his mother and he's gonna start treating you and seeing you as the mother and he's gonna cheat on you anyway okay if you need all that access and information you don't need to take them back um i feel like if you're taking a cheater back you have to be getting something more out of it than just the relationship you know what i mean that shouldn't even be a factor you know i feel like if if you're having to monitor your man's phone and computers and stuff like that you're now his mother and he's not going to be attracted to his mama okay so get ready to be cheated on again is he testing you when he suddenly asked to borrow money from you um even after he's been spending his money on you for months and months it could be a test it could be a test so what you do if a man asks to borrow money from you what you do is you go get a prepaid card and you get a prepaid card and you load it with some money and you give him the card and you get a birthday card and you write happy birthday uh even if it's not his birthday okay this is what you do and you write happy birthday happy new year merry christmas give it to him okay um then when he asks you you know what his card for oh well these are all your presents for happy you know for your birthday for christmas and new years i don't have to buy you anything now um you don't have to pay me back either you know and so when christmas rolls around when birthday rolls around when holidays roll around he's gotta buy you stuff now okay if you don't like that idea then if he asked to borrow money say oh you know what i'm gonna have to ask i'm gonna have to go ask my mom because i'm kind of short this month too if a man lets you go ask your mom to borrow money so he can borrow money he's not mad he's not gonna let you do that he goes like oh no don't worry about it anybody so always put it back on your mama like okay or your dad oh my god you say you gotta go ask your dad or your mom for somebody to get let him borrow he's gonna back up oh no no no no okay well let me ask my dad if i can borrow some money so that i can lend it to you let him know that you're gonna go and tell your mama you asked he asked you to borrow money he's gonna be feeling real ashamed he's like oh you didn't say no he was gonna try to get it for him but now he's ashamed because now mama gonna know you dating some bum dude that's asking you for money and she's gonna say to dump him and then you're gonna dump him and he ain't gonna get the money anyway so you know put him back in his place um how do you tell how do i tell this girl that all i want is to be friends with benefits just tell her hey you want to be friends with benefits most girls will say yes and then get emotionally attached and then figure out how to try to make you her boyfriend so what you got to do is um i'm looking for my stop job because i'm getting ready to go what you got to do is say oh you know i want to be friends with benefits no strings attached i don't want to be in a relationship with you i don't want a girlfriend i don't want him that if you're going to get emotionally attached let's not even do this i'm not changing my mind you just go straight up with it you know because i had a lot of women who i do consultations with they agreed to be in a friends with benefits situation and then they fell in love with the guy and he don't want to i'm like look did he tell you that he don't want you in the beginning they just want sex you know did you fall in love you i say didn't he tell you not to fall you know but i did anyway now i want him how do i get him you can't he don't want you you're just sexed him so women stop falling for that and stop trying to be force somebody to want something that they never wanted in the first place okay how to how do i get my boyfriend to be more okay with spending on me he makes a lot and gets me things but it's never really expensive just wandering yes tell him what you want say look i want i've been thinking about getting a Louis Vuitton purse but i want you buy it for me so that i can brag to all my friends just tell the truth if that's what you want it's like you know what i've been wanting this Louis Vuitton purse for so long i want you to buy it for me um you know all my friends boyfriends buy them really nice purses and i'm the only one you know i'm still waiting you buy me Liz Claiborne i'm trying to get some Louis Vuitton you know you buy me nine west i won't you know this other stuff you know i don't buy me something i can buy for myself you know what i mean um if you're gonna save up for about 10 purses and then buy me what i want you know um just tell him to save up stop buying me the little crappy stuff and save up you know tell him what you want an advance for christmas so he can save up and um you know in october tell him what you want for christmas okay you know what this is what i want for christmas i want a Louis Vuitton i want a fendi i want a coach whatever you want i want this he has time to save up for it he has time to go look at it he has time to you know figure out you know how to get it so give him time you can't just bring something on somebody maybe they are on a savings plan or a budget so tell him what you want an advance like um when i first met my husband i met my husband in november my my birthday was in march i told him three weeks before my birthday what i wanted i said i want a Louis Vuitton purse for my birthday and i showed him the one i wanted on my birthday i opened up a present it was Louis Vuitton purse you know and i'd only been dating him since november you know so you have to tell people what you want and they have to know that you're used to getting it you're not used to getting it it's like okay she wants me to you know upgrade her and what is she doing for me if you're already used to it they're gonna have to feel like they they're doing it to keep you you know so um make sure that you just tell them what you want an advance don't be ashamed why should you be ashamed of something that you want would they be ashamed to tell you oh i want some air jordan's or something like that you know is it wrong for not want to date a male kid no because all the attention is going to be taken off of you and put on them so if you're if you want attention you shouldn't date male with young kids you know it's a preference you don't have to date male kids you know anyway i was supposed to be gone like 10 minutes ago y'all keep asking questions i'm trying to find my missing stop okay made a mistake and contacted a guy on social media how do i fix damage stop talking to him ignore pretend like you forgot all about him make another facebook page and stay off that one for a while and then you know uh if you want him to be more into you than you are into him um just don't answer any of his messages you know the thing until he's practically begging for your attention then you have the upper hand okay make them wait girls make them wait they might go and talk to other girls but when you text them back or when they finally see you online they're still going to try to text you because you're the one they can't okay you always want okay y'all i'm gonna go okay how to deal with mother-in-law i just told you act act act like you're their friend act humble be nice but don't smile be sweet um they're just people you know they just want to make sure that you're not some crazy person that's um using their son you know talk about how how talk about how wonderful her son is talk about all the nice things about him talk about him that's how you deal with mother-in-law just talk up the son you know he's so great he's the perfect guy he makes me laugh along okay how can i can i have rude look what i don't even write some phrases um i don't know some people can't even write correct sentences that i don't know what they're saying um well i guess i gotta go so i will see y'all in the next one um i'll probably be live on my other channel um sometime this week i don't know probably friday oh no wednesday i'll be live on my other channel if y'all have questions on there i'm gonna be that's tomorrow all right i'll see y'all 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