 Hello. Welcome back to Y254. This is why in the morning, and we are in the discussion of the day. The discussion of the day today is WCW, that segment that you've been waiting for. And as I told you today, we are discussing, we are analyzing what Valentine did to you and me. Whether positive or negative, we are in analysis. Kamaila post much analysis, those who watch football. So we are here with Warembu. I know, I know whether they will tell us whether they celebrated Valentine or not. But there are people, young people who I know really cherished this day 14th of February 2022. And my name is Sankara Kaisu. I know you need to connect with us. If you need to connect with us, we are at Y254 in every social media platform. And if you've lost the house so that you want just to stream us through your phone or through your tablet, you can also do that at www.kbc.co.ke forch last Y254. I said I'm not alone in studio. I am with Warembu being a WCW. And they will introduce themselves. I know them. This is called FANIS and this is called Branda. But now you will tell us people about you, things that maybe people don't know about you. And I know majority don't know you. I'm the one who know you. So you will tell, let's start with FANIS. You tell us everything that you think we need to know about you, FANIS. Here is the comment. You are 18 years old. I am FANIS here with you guys. And as you stayed, you are going to be talking about this Valentine's Analyze. Analyze is. I love you, your son. It's sweet. Yes, it doesn't sound good. And I've never heard such a name. So you're blessed to have such a name and I'm blessed to have you here. You're welcome to Y254. You're a training journalist. Yeah, sometimes maybe you'll find yourself in this seat. Yes, you never know. Yeah, welcome to Y254, a coming journalist. Yes, Brenda is here. Brenda, how are you? I'm fine, thank you. Yeah, welcome to Y254. So you can tell us about yourself here. Hi guys, my name is Brenda Nyarebo. I'm glad to be here. This is my first time. And about me, well I have a YouTube channel. It's called Life of Nep. Let's meet over there when you're from this video and I hope I'll impress you enough to subscribe and join me. And yeah, I'm glad to be here. Say the name of the channel again. Life of Nep. Life? Of Nep. Life of Nep. Yeah, what does that mean? N-E-P-H. What does that mean? My name is Nephael. That's what my mum calls me. So my friends gave it a short name. They shortened it to Nep. Then because on my YouTube channel I speak about my... Okay, I don't speak about my life generally but I put bits of it on my YouTube channel so I decided to just call it Life of Nep. You come from Nyanza? Yeah, Mama Kisi. Abri Nyanmeira? Yes. Okay. You have a brother in the house and we introduce you to him immediately. He lives, he's called Obama Cowboy. Yeah, you did say you are a social media handle. Okay, my IG is Deril Brandanyaribo and my YouTube is Life of Nep. Same case to TikTok. Life of Nep. Although I'm not that active on TikTok. Fani, did you say you are a social media handle? No. Yeah, show them out. Mama, so I need that. We have content creators in the house, yes. So my Instagram is find.nm, find me the pH. My TikTok is find.nm, pH and then my YouTube channel is Fani Mimi. Oh, okay, okay, nice. So both of you are welcome 24. Let's have this conversation about Valentine. Who celebrated between you? I did. Oh, oh, you did, Nyeribu did. Nyeribu did and we'll soon get to her. Did you also celebrate Valentine? No, I did not. Yeah, I'm the perfect. I have one person who celebrated and another person who did not celebrate. So maybe now we will get the positives and the negatives. What happened wrong, what happened right. So that we analyze, it's called post-march analysis. I was reading somewhere and I found a bunch of boys saying that they went to far much expenses. They spent unexpectedly. They are crying that this day was about girls, that they didn't see anything good in it. There are people who even saw a meme. Somebody said that whoever scrapped date 29th and date 30th and date 31st out of February, please scrub also date 14th because they are seeing that it's a burden to them. So I want your opinion from you first to celebrated. Do you think this place will be scrapped out of the calendar? Well, I don't think it should but I don't think it should be given the kind of hype that it's given because if you're going to do something amazing for me to show me that you love me try and do beats show me everyday in your own way and then on Valentine's you can make it not amazing but if you were just no effort, nothing and then on Valentine's you want to show me that you love me it won't mean as much. No, that is not possible Brianda because how can I celebrate you on Valentine's if you are not in a relationship to show between like from January see, we must be in a relationship so for us to celebrate ama kuna weniwa natakatu ya one day love just one day for that day alone. I don't know may I prefer it if I feel the vibe throughout and then Valentine's it's now amazing but if it's if it's dry and then Valentine's you're looking for me you probably won't find me. Okay, let's know why Fani's didn't celebrate Fani's what happened ama tuachare na maisha ya kwa ya, misi panguini aya panguini niwa ama aku celebre kukuana mtu ama did something happen just before the day or things have not been happening for some time. In my defense I had something set up for that day we had something but to my mom I don't know if it's a pre-question she took she just said on Monday that's the day she wants to take us out so she said my brother and I have to be there with her she takes us out so me I didn't celebrate did somebody else want to take you out somebody wanted but now you didn't go with that somebody because your mom took you out did you love the fact that now it was diverted from him to your mom because my mom knew what she was doing oh did this person complain? no they did not did you postpone now they did to another ya has it happened no, not yet you know why I am asking all those because Valentine I don't know whether it's only me but it's miscontribute to mean those other things I don't know whether you also mean that by Valentine must people get intimate on Valentine day okay I feel like that depends on how your relationship is because sometimes you might you might want to just spend time together have a good moment because you do it every day that is getting intimate but then some people they might take it like tonight is the night you know it's Valentine's they go out but now things happened now we have people are lucky you come September, October you could have gone out doing you up here I don't know if this you think is the case or not what you want me put up on right now you only obvious you only obvious I don't know whether this is why there are so many September babies September, October babies because you know people now I am getting into this you know girls are the people who fantasize Valentine a lot while they are the worst victims of Valentine only work on the receiving and so many bad things happen on that day and the girls are the people receiving when you say that we over rate that day I don't think it's men over rating in fact most men don't want it because of spending on that it's girls who want to be treated that day and all that but now they are the most victims of the flip side on things that happen as a result of Valentine day I don't know why this is the case okay I feel like that's true for one but in my own opinion I feel like girls especially younger ladies are supposed to be more educated and sensitized on matters involving sex and the repercussions of it because a lot of girls they involve themselves in sexual activities but the problem is they don't know how to protect themselves generally from the consequences things like pregnancies diseases someone just goes out there gets all into the act but then the aftermath comes and then they don't know what to do so I feel like if they were told things point blank this is what you do after you've been involved in a sexual activity this is what you look out for this is how you watch your health it's very important because they are younger generations they are already into the sex activity but they don't know a lot about it we were here just a week to Valentine we were here with the guest from Samorganization New Teacher Contraceptives and all that and they were really questioning girls on how to behave on that material day but let's now get from Fennis Fennis what do you think about this same matter of girls getting too deep into this Valentine thing while they are the victims the worst victims for that matter the worst victims yes I wouldn't say they are victims who are the beneficiaries yeah because see that's what they want that's what they want see that's what they've been meeting for Valentine all this time so when it reaches kukunywa tu ga shere alafu naizu zinginezen ya tutasema pasivi you said you're 18 I'm 18 yeah, that's how it will reach 20 yeah, so it will be it will be better you will be learning from your older sister you can be her follower so she has said I listen for you that you should not get into this thing too much because it's a future breaker yeah, some things can happen on February 14th that can see you not finish your compass so she has said she's the one who has said this is peer to peer that you should not involve yourself into things that may break your future so that's a lesson let's get to the next type of things of this thing and the things that happened we have talked about expenditure men are complaining that there are a lot of expenses I think we have not exhausted this let's just talk a little more about it do you think men are justified in complaining about spending too much on Valentine or made to spend most of them is not their will to spend but demands do you think they are justified to complain let's start with you Phanis do you think they are justified to complain about the expenses personally what I think is Valentine should be a day where it's like 50-50 we meet each other halfway if you buy me something then I buy you a pair of shoes or I even also buy you a flower how come suddenly you've become wise in 3 seconds I'm telling you because I've seen my male friends going out of their way to do stuff for their girls and at the end of the day the girls are just on their receiving end they're not giving as much you're 14th Valentine it's not the day for girls to be celebrated with love which is being celebrated then all of you should express that love so if men are complaining that most men are complaining that they are spending way too much okay that's okay if you are spending way too much but ladies should also up their game and also spend too much on their boys oh that is so wise that's so wise of you because there's one thing that Phanis has said that I want to take into your head that that day is not a day when girls are being celebrated girls are being celebrated on women's day but this love is being celebrated and love is shared between the two people I am just amplifying what you said yeah so that is why so aschana piya wajaribuku changa let and let to go kwa like mingi to me sisi zote sisi wio you take on this men are complaining that you made them spend especially you, where will you end where will you end okay me I feel like I don't know what she said because she is so right I feel like valentines how you spend depends on what kind of a person you are because you can't come and force me to spend on you yet to me valentines doesn't mean as much or I feel like I could do more on any other day and it would still mean a lot to either you or me so I feel like on the matter of spending it's about you and your spouse how you guys are what you guys like doing and because valentines is a special day and you want to make your partner happy you save up for it because those people are complaining kumumi jipanga you wanna meet your woman or man happy you organize yourself save up you make the day amazing for the both of you and also the other person does it for you so you encourage just as she did encourage girls to also be chipping in with this project but now that is just gone on paper mostly was chana on ataka treat no, to sise me was chana because kuna wengi mewituwa nye tunapenda ataka treatia did you spend? you spent this valentine on him or on yourself on him and also on this I tell you maybe 1% of you can do that most people on ataka the same genes in a guy we also have those chromosomes yes, yes it depend on us with val there is a couple percent I and I travel used to just to tell me that some men are like rats they just come to your house eat your food and walk naked around after eating your food and then they do nothing for you yes they do nothing for you and they still complain about valentines mnuna nanda jabu na mocha apu puna rudi puna pata padoa na nalaka nye mekuja nise apu tu apu valentines is special atasu nanyu muhiyu ya you are abishing it you are abishing it okay let's go to another level we discussed the consequences people have sent me and would encourage you that if you have a comment go to asachia omidiya handoff drop it there we will read them at the end of this show they are such white fife this question of the day that has been posted there after matheh relationship we will pand another level we discussed that after some type relationship we will end another level ama i me back itu apu tungoji next year even do to me ulaza so kuna weni wame tutakupia shout out there is another thing about breakups kuna wana wume wakona multiple partners ama mathe wakona multiple partners so they could not divide themselves this day wakuna one of them so in yosiku dema ligundo kumesikopu kia and don't know whether to say this esagai who was to come here to celebrate the valentine day here on set life so when we invited him he sent me a photo of a lady that was to be with him here and then after some 30 minutes he said wacha we wacha tufanyana wume wengina wume wengina sasana sama wume wengina sasana sama wume wengina ni second so we were first ni ali kuja wume wengina ni tumapichi ake ya kwanza aku kuja but ali wacha esu ali wacha esu aki wana wume wengina nili commit sama kama wume wende wana londi nani sama wengina nani sama wengina so wengina nani tekstaka sama so your friend say wana wengina ali kuwa heart broken baya nana kama isi situation sili kwa mingi just start with me this case to rikama iyo kifanya kapa enjoy your siku siku sike siku siku drama oma nili anakwa simu demu flani ali pata boi wakena demu wengina ali kuwa mingi piga bi baya ali piga bi sosa uumunyali kwa naia valentimes ali wapata naia nanda jahendo de undi chik sosa aka piga wengi shana bi zudi iyo ndo videnya mimi nili wana peke siku wana eni stingu o on valentine day aka piga mi shana wengi siya uu demu sali kwa na boi wakena sosa siya aka piga uu dem like demu unyali pata na ui chani aki piga li kuwa singu so the girl bit the other girl but i feel like that's stooping so low but sadly for the other girl ami chapa valentine una samasuri alafu na tekelia una samasuri alafu na tekelia the situation funny, that's what happens when you have triangles but sosa sii puwapu chapa if you are still beautiful still there and look for another man usi chapa mstana mingi nili jaya tijana juwata kumchapa ita fanya atisasa sasa indi o sasa wu pendue ama una kumandoski lame na chapa wu dem na nili kuwa na pendasa hidi so umemha to pier so it's good for both of you ama di na fanya pendewi o sasa sana there are so many ways to solve this I saw a similar scenario but this it's still girl friend and boyfriend but they had issues na na vilewatu wana kusana before februari 14 that team and I don't know what went down between them waka kusana and then valentines no because they don't want to I don't know what their deal was but we end up at the same party together now the guy was interacting with another girl but I don't know if the girl knew that he was with his girlfriend there then his girlfriend wasn't interacting with other guys of course because we were doomed but then there is not to add on her point stooping low you're not supposed to go and fight someone because of your spouse just try and be mature about it so what she did was when the guy turned around I don't know she started beating the other girl now his real girlfriend she started beating the side chick she wasn't even a side chick they were just vibing for valentine but when she was winking she was also single with the guy kumbe so anyway we'll talk about single people we'll talk about single after maybe we exhausted this so to me agree kwa kuli kwa na lots of breaks drama lots of kwa kuli kwa kuli kwa na we got a job Hii Iteri Di Tyra, kura jamal isu kia kua naa sayina, anandikia bed message on 13th. Tili kwa na kuletia mahuwa, alafu nyuki, kana kwata. Eka niu umawu maa, sayi niu kuspitali, alafu maa dhakeri warase ma nii kupundish on piya, siyizi toka, warase ma naza toku after 2 days, yu ui naa miin ui sesame. I still don't understand. I think happened on the 16th I have a lot of problems. Ya really? I will explain it in the next video I have some excuses. If you know that man wants to maybe it was used on him or maybe it was used on your friend plus you were intimate I didn't kind of career if I can think of any like the funniest situation. Okay, so my friend, they were supposed to have an amazing valentines. We were ready. So not just him single. No, but I was not sure who I was going to spend my valentines with, but of course things like those sort themselves out. Two relaxed cons. But anyway, so my friend Amidipanga, they were not in a relationship, but they were vibing and valentines were supposed to be amazing. Do you know, the guy came on the team. They hung out on 14 basubu ya ni omkaka enda. And we don't know. At that one, they were going in. To me, he even got too funny. My friends, they were not even a couple. They were not looking for a couple so they were hanging out with them. Because some girls were even going for girls, girls dates on valentines. Girls for girls? No, not lesbians but you just decide, let me spend valentines with my friends now because I don't have a date. A team of single girls? So, you see, I'm like, be happy with y'all. They belong, they have the same problem. So, you know, in Arudisha Ile story, my name is Kuliko Machali. Made on belief, that's true. It's statistical. It's statistical. Google differs. When you Google it says that actually it's the guys who are a little bit a little bit... I don't know whether you are using a gadget or not. Let's get back to Fani. Fani, excuse me, you know, do you know any Fani occurrence that happened in your Meskiyama or Meswama? In Ile Skiatu Jama, a friend of mine had a guy friend, who looked like the world. He looked like a serious man. In a pub. So, he looked like a serious man. He looked like a serious man. He looked like a serious man. He looked like a serious man. But in that evening, and on a beshtake mingine, while he looked like a serious man, then the friend says, ah, me and you have a valentine. So, she's like, hey, who? The photo. So, when she sells the photo, it's the guy, the guy that she thought was the one. Exactly. So, even though, I left a brand out herself, and there was no desperation. Yes, that level of desperation. Like, when you have a valentine, the photo you have to make is what you are proposing. Let me tell you, you'll be classy about your heartbreak. That's my advice. How do you do that? Let me tell you, he's just ruined one valentine. You can even just go hang out with your friend. Or even take yourself out for a date and pay yourself. But then people bought themselves flowers. And then they were posting. And then they took what you were doing. So, you posted it and you paid? So, I'd also do the same by the way. I was laughing. I was laughing. What happened to you? I went back to the gym. I was so nervous, I was like, nobody would know, it was such a hard time. So, you must have been in dire need of a baby. But, there was a desperation in the crop up. The foundation of the sale was just the position of the party and the catch. So, after the sale, you paid the flowers.heard kwa kona, ala Fongu wasa kupega, Sasa may be가� demands na wándi Kinglewa utweetесa wando binme pa haba bes서 I'm sure, kwa ki kuni kema hitu, ndi online niya mena daxili tokiha. Nya, kiko hiiata, ya, kwa man kandu peter. We can do what a woman can do better But it's not always Una jwezu tunima consolations Sivyo Deep down in your heart No But when you're with your friends it feels better because you feel like you're not alone You only know how important it is for girls getting together Jwadi when you're going through tough moments and then your girls come through You don't feel as downcast You don't feel as downcast But if you're alone now Hey, now you'll feel the weight of the situation By the way, it's not just situations You can fall for anybody Ya, because you're vulnerable You can't keep it around To fundisha, you can't Una wakiawa kwaia situation Just compose yourself Say, you tell yourself I'm still young People are coming to you The fact that I don't have somebody today Somebody, a better person will come So that when you're going through tough moments and you're going through tough moments Just say this is not meant for you That's what I was saying That on that point you're taking yourself out after heartbreak a example in Nyamitupia That's the importance of valuing yourself more than someone else As you may come say, on a pedestal Allah forna ku disappoint And then you go As you let it ruin your mood Sometimes have this mentality Let it go Isha happen, isha happen Know what's your next move A professor gave me a formula Ask yourself, you need to matter in 5 years Like what has happened today In 5 years, 5 years from today is 2027 We need to matter in 2027 If it won't, brush it And you'll actually look back and laugh about it Yes, just laugh about it So you should stop laughing about it There Don't twist your tears Imagine So imagine I knew a person, a girl They were together with the guy At the beginning of January They had invested their time in Looking for attires for Valentine's Day And stuff like that Then this guy was found in his room With another girl And then they broke up And this guy was saying the way I'm never going back there Because I've been That's like trashing me and something And then she was saying that the girl wasn't even like Her standard class Actually how you name it, chip taste So she was saying that she's disgusting So I don't know if it's like The pressure for Valentine's money I'm just working And from nowhere I don't know if it's like that I don't know if it's like that But personally I don't know I don't know Why would you go back there Just around Valentine's Day It doesn't change This is also what You need some good Part or so and you don't know I don't want to break up after that I don't want to Okay, I've been there I'm normal Don't hate yourself if you find yourself Going back to your ex But just know you're wasting your time It's wasting time Going back to ex Yeah, because the same reason you left Is probably going to be the same reason You will leave again Or even add to more reasons Do you believe that people can change? No, I don't believe in that Okay, I know people can change But not change as in change They can only get better That's my opinion I don't know why I'm taking it positively But when Fanny says That somebody went back to ex Because of Valentine That is positive Yeah, Valentine She took off her analysis She took off her analysis Valentine in Meru Disha 1 2 Let me tell you Let me tell you You need to know But this guy takes the girl at night And says I have looks I have money And tomorrow evening I'll have another chick by my side And then This girl goes back to the same guy Who told her that You need to be very offensive To me personally At the time of Valentine I said Where's the Nyanbe Ivo? The day we break up You can't tell me that And then I come back to you So you need to come and get downgrade Because Nyanbe Ivo But you know There's something in the Bible called forgiveness And forget Like If you beg on that And say that Because you said this I won't forgive you forever It's like Like What was Sam Heane Ataka mule When surambaya Kukiru diyo siku Ka mule wawana Ali kwa nambia But when I said You're surambaya Very beggar At this minute So please just come back to me I still love you I love you I love you I love you I won't forgive you I won't let you down But Okay That story for another day Let's talk about Over expectations That happen during Valentine day There are people who are expecting That what I propose Say wow Sikuya Valentine In fact, that is what formed the big basis Of our question today We asked to the proposer Amma relationship And another level Amma Tungoji next year Sadly, unfortunately 90% of those who have responded Are saying Tungoji next year Next year similarly Tungoji next time So people are expecting That what I propose Say wow What I love Relationship And another level But it has not happened Jesus Siku console what you brand Mimisina consolation I tell you the truth Okay, let her you too Let her you too So I feel like First of all propose Valentine in Newark But that's just my opinion It depends on the person you are But that's just my opinion Propose Valentine Newark Because This is the reason According to me I feel like But Let Valentine's be Valentine's Let's Propose all day Because it's something so special To the both of you Just set another time for it Lakin you say keval Siku yok celebrate kitwingine Ati that's when you're coming to propose to someone I say my plane I say my Karajok too Lakin ni amma say I tell you clearly she consolation I say my it's bad to To expect A proposal For Valentine's day So it is even Even if it counts it's bad It should be left for Valentine's day Because that is too obvious Severe Proposals should be like Discrete Something thoughtful Don't be too plain about it Very creative So mtu akiku proposal For Valentine's day Uta skia Well I feel like It's so special But I feel too ill-exatement I am now Your level Opinion Fun is Kuna Sai badawa naliyama Kupropose Amma wali propose Na wali rejectia What can you tell them? I can see a ring on your hand Did somebody say something? Vinya skwingine I don't know what you are going to say But we can jump that So when you are a proposer That guy is being creative He is creating Just as Brenda said He is creating another day A special moment Uta proposer Like it is too obvious There is something that we Kusagusa kidogo But I want us to touch on it Kidogo about singles Being ignored There are so many single people Who Like Kiana watua na tenbe Apama waja Kiana watua na post na bae Wana feel vipaya sana I have a friend Who is still very young Around your age mate Brenda But she is widowed Yes Widowed at your age So I saw her post And I was really heartbroken She said Today I just feel like Lying on my bed Eating lots of chocolate But there is nobody to do it So she felt sad Don't you think when We don't think about these people We are being insensitive Okay I don't think we are being insensitive Because At that moment We are not thinking about them To be honest Everybody is thinking about Their love Their love life And worrying about What is going to happen to them Nobody has time to think about Someone else who is single And probably you are also single Or you are on the verge of being single You know But let's say You see your guys starting to talk to you Weirdly When it's around the corner You don't start thinking about your friend Who is single somewhere So your message is Single people You are so brutal Right The message of Brenda is Single people That day we are not thinking of you Sorry So you should think of yourself Can you be more kind to them Please families Can you be more tough You count on Brenda Brenda may be too brutal to them Personally I feel I think Valentine It's a day for expressing love Not just You and your guy Me And I don't want you to spend time on your family As you see As you have no option Why do you force me Because you just start dating But But do you need my pain Genu in love So I What you when you are single Kuna What you when you are single When you are not Valentine I know people who went out together Male, female And they are not dating So you come here and move Boy and a make But they weren't dating I just ok Like Mepeleka na 2 out Eh Joa na dates Just as we are on dates So each other Yeah But Valentine 2 of yourself Valentine Inafawakwa sikia kwa express love Acha kama You are single You To your Mother You to your sister You to your Eh, niwa siku Na, vila mese Valentine Oboho Ni kitu wak Seti ni skuia 2 A couple Na vila o na Refind ma painzin do Vila o taiselibrit So si mambutu na Like people who are Kafts Oh Ok I get it So your point is Atafutu wile na Za onye shana Na painzin Sila zima hindi Na onyeswe ma painzin Tafutu wile na Za onye shana ma painzin Ok That is a bit balance For her We don't think about No, she makes my point better Yes She has added flavor To your point My brutal call Yes And I agree I really agree I think let's also Now Lastly Discuss about What people do that day That is open display Of affection Wotu wana tenbea Kubarabara wana shkanan Kono Watu wana kiss In public Watu wana That places That konosu Kiana you can run And close your eyes Don't you think That is a bad influence To the society Amma watu Watu wana tenbea