 Hello everyone, welcome to another video just out here chilling by this river as you can see starting to rain a little bit But I wanted to do This one so here it is Yeah, the obsessed narcissistic stalker That's the topic for today and I know I have Touched on this a little bit of the last few days as well But I'd like to go more into it now so Yeah, you may find that when you're with them They do a lot of creepy things Like they're always going for your stuff if you're out of the house, they might go through your drawers your cupboards They might search your underwear drawer As weird as that sounds it's something that they may and Yeah, they will go through your phone maybe you're in the bath or shower and You leave your phone outside They'll be going through that If you have a password on it, they will try to guess it They will go through your laptop or computer Again, they will try to guess your password If you have one on there Yeah, they'll just go through everything They'll try to find out information about you Because you have to remember the very paranoid and hyper vigilant They always think you're hiding something from them because they're hiding something from you. I just like to show this little pond here as well Got the lilies there Some flowers. I always noticed the little things like this Always seem to grab my attention really nice pink flower there Very bright colors. It almost doesn't look real, but it is and yeah, many of you are wondering What the narcissist is doing after the relationship If you've left or if they discarded you And actually If you want to know what they're doing It follows a pattern So it tends to carry on from whatever they were doing while they were with you They don't just move on and stop doing that It's an obsession. It's an addiction So they will continue Doing that even after you're gone and as I've said in some of my recent videos They will Track devices on your car They will put Spyware on your phone or on your computer surveillance cameras in your home There's no limits to what they will do and of course the old-school way is just to follow you in person On foot so by car or they will get someone else to do it for them They will get someone else to follow you around And it may be someone you know Or it may be someone you don't know. This is what I'm driving now As many of you may know C63 s. It's a great car. I'll probably have something else in a couple of weeks But for now, this is great for Traveling the only downside is the fuel. It's very expensive to run you could just Drive for maybe Three hours. That's half a tank gone but it is a Good drive and also I Came out here to see this the largest tricycle this country. It's very big It doesn't actually drive, but it looks cool. So let's go on here for a minute. And then I will Continue with the rest of the topic. Here we go This is it. This is not survivor. How about that? Yeah It's not as high up as it looks on camera, but it is pretty big Considering I think tricycles are normally quite small. I just love this little river here you go the palm trees there and The water has like a Deep green color. It's really nice I'm not sure if there's any fish in there, but I'm sure there are Anyway back onto the topic We've had a little bit of fun there so Yeah, they will Go the old-fashioned way and follow you around in person Or they will get someone else to do it and they will show up at your home your job or wherever they think you're gonna be and They may make themselves known That depends really on Whether or not they think you'll be intimidated by them They're not gonna come out of the shadows and expose themselves If they know you're not even gonna react to it Because then they would just look like idiots they were like stupid But if they know that they can scare you then of course they will use that They will use anything that they think will give them leverage over you So be aware of that Otherwise they will just stay hidden And actually I think that's even more creepy is when they just deliberately try to hide from you especially when you catch them and it just looks really weird because you know they're watching you and It's like you know they want something from you Even if it's just your attention Or they want to find out information about you they want to know what you're doing Yeah, it can be really bothersome It's not nice when someone is stalking you. I mean it's It can cause you a lot of anxiety a lot of stress I Mean most of us we have enough things to worry about in life already Then I've been to worry about something like that. Oh, yeah, I mean there's a reason why in the UK Stalking is punishable By up to 14 years in prison because people know They understand the effects that this behavior has on people Okay, it's your turn now. I want to hear from you. Let me know about your horrific experiences With stalking Harassment, let me know now down below In the comments on the live chat And I will read it out and respond to it because I know what it's like I have been Stalked myself on many occasions Especially gang-stalking which is another thing that I talk about on here sometimes They may talk about that more in the future. So, yeah, let me know down below Let me know about your personal experiences With the stalking Angie says I have a stalking now I can't figure it out yet, but I'm getting warm. Yes, it will take time to Fully develop an awareness of what is actually going on. I Remember with the gang-stalking in the early days. I was very confused as many of you know, I Considered myself to be an empath So when people were stalking and harassing me I wasn't going around pointing the finger. I'm blaming everyone. I Was looking at myself and thinking What's wrong with me? What am I doing wrong? And what can I do to change it? So that people stop stalking and harassing me But of course narcissistic stalkers they will see that and they play on it It becomes a game where they keep making you think all of these things are wrong with you and you have to change it This is what narcissists do to make you feel like you're never good enough Yeah, it will take time to fully understand and develop an awareness of what is actually going on Alexander says flying monkeys Poisoning track and phone Around them fly monkeys for hire. Yeah, that's Often who is stalking you is the narcissist fly monkeys. They will enforce other people to do their bidding And the scary thing is sometimes it could be people who you thought were your friends family members They can get them on their side But that's some real betrayal there and It just makes you feel like you can't trust anyone. So yeah, it's not nice to do that, but That is something they will do Big D business says I deal with obsessed people Who are really nasty daily? I do not get a break from them very often Ah I'm so sorry to hear that big D business I know it feels to go through that well, it's like they demand all of your attention and You have no time to just focus on your own life, which can cause even more stress then Because it begins to affect everything in your life A electromagnetic bliss says they have a coworker stalker Who feels it necessary to try to catch me doing something wrong? They have flying monkeys and the company who also spy Yeah, that's it. That's their excuse is that Something is wrong with you You're doing something wrong But how they're gonna fix anything By stalking you Why don't they actually attend to the things that are wrong Instead of harassing you I mean even a self-righteous person Who feels that they always have to do the right thing How can they possibly justify Stalking and harassing someone in their minds. I mean anyone should know that that is wrong But of course they do justify it and that's the same with any abuser really is that they always have an excuse They've always got some reason for why they do what they do Well, that doesn't excuse it. It doesn't matter what the reason is My phone has suddenly gone really dark. So it's hard for me to read these messages now I'm not sure why these iPhones do that. I don't know if anyone else has that issue or is it just mine there's a lot of comments about No friends Can't trust anyone sad, but that's really a Common thing these days that people say is that They have no real friends No one that they can really turn to No one that they can trust It's sad, but I understand I think the reality is that these days a lot of people Are just in it for themselves. We see it all on social media people just Seem to be more focused on Just broadcasting themselves And how great they are How great their lives are? And actually connecting with people We seem to have lost the connection in the world today And I think that's the real problem and now it's all about popularity and relevance and And That alienates a lot of good people Because sometimes a good person who you can trust is not going to be Everything that you want them to be I mean if you're looking for someone to To be there for you to help you They might not always look like James Bond. That's just the reality of it They might not always look like how you want them to look they might not have tons of money They might not be everything that you want them to be and that's that and I'm not saying that for Just the people here, it's just people in general need to understand that This is the idea that people have in their heads You know, they want this perfect person to come and rescue them Or they're looking for a perfect person that they can come and rescue it goes both ways and No one's perfect We have to accept that people do have flaws It's just social media and society has ingrained this thing in our heads Well, you're either this or you're not it's like if one person just does One little thing wrong Then suddenly they're no good People make mistakes If someone makes a mistake that doesn't mean you shouldn't trust them anymore Unless it's like a repeated pattern and you know they're going out of their way to betray you then I can understand Yes, of course Like with what we're talking about here Narcissistic stalkers, I mean it's clear that you should you should definitely not trust them That's the last thing you should do You should be very cautious around them But that doesn't mean that you should stalk them. No, that's definitely not something you should do Trust is a big thing. It can take years to build trust with someone And yet that trust can be broken In an instant it can be gone and then it can be very hard to get that trust back It can take a long time But if you have broken someone's trust and you really care about that person and you want to be there for them Then you will be willing to take things slow. You won't rush it. You will wait until they're ready Just give them time, but at the same time you should observe what they're doing in that time as well To know whether or not you should trust them Don't just listen to a person's words. Watch their actions Their actions will tell you who they are The things they do in their spare time That will tell you who they are The people who they spend time with You have to observe all of these things But yeah, these narcissistic stalkers are out there and they're watching you so Be aware of that and protect yourself Maybe keep your social media accounts private. Be careful when you're accepting any requests be aware But there may be trackers or spyware on your phones and your cars Be aware of that. You never know what they're doing these days. There's so many gadgets Technologies become so advanced now. So you just never know Don't let it make you paranoid Don't over think about it because that will be Even more damaging to you Than the actual Stalking. This is an important thing to remember as well is that Your own thoughts Can end up destroying you If you let it play on your mind, so even if they are stalking you don't let it get to you Don't think too much about it Remember this video is not to provoke fear in anyone This is just to make you more aware You don't want to become hyper aware Because then that will affect you so don't let it get inside your head Don't let it affect you Remember this is their sickness not yours It's meant to affect them and drive them insane make them crazy and obsessed You're not the one who's meant to become obsessed and paranoid So don't let it get in your head. Yes, they may be watching you Yes, they may be following you and that may affect you But don't let it dominate your thoughts to where you are then Affecting yourself more than that affecting you Because for many of them that's their end goal They want to get you to the point where you become your own worst enemy you're affecting yourself More than that affecting you So that they don't even have to do anything anymore They could just watch you destroy yourself That's the ultimate goal for many of them So don't let it get to that point anyway I'm back in the car and I'm gonna start driving again now Onto the next place so Thank you all for joining me 91 live viewers, please give this video a thumbs up if it resonated and I'll catch you again in the next one