 Hello everyone, welcome to another Narx Fiver live video, as you can see I'm out here at this cool beach today and in this video I am going to be giving you four words to win any argument with a narcissist, but these four words will really shut them down because you've got to think about what they're trying to do when they purposely and intentionally have to have a difference of opinion. It has to be something in contrast to you, to what you think, believe, value or stand for. They always have to be in opposition to you, they always have to go against the brain, they have to go against social norms and why are they doing that? It's just to gain power over you so that they can feel like they are in control and yes I do have four words that you can use against that. These words when you separately they may not have any meaning or power, but when you use these four words together it is very powerful. So yeah I'm just going to give you the four words right now. When you're having an argument with a narcissist and it's clear that they're not going to change their mind, they're not going to change their opinion, they're not going to listen to your perspective or value your ideas. You have to be indifferent, you have to care less and the way that you can express that to them is just by saying have it your way. Have it your way, that's all you've got to say whenever you have any argument with an artist. It's showing them that you are different to English showing them that actually they don't have any power over you and it's letting you keep your power and that's really the goal of using these four words because that's what you want to do whenever you are having an argument with a narcissist you want to keep your power. So anytime that you are having an argument with them you're experiencing a disagreement and they're going to constantly try and fight you, they're going to try and win. What you're going to do is just stand back and say have it your way. Let them have it their way if that's what they think is right, if they think that's the best thing to do when you know fully well that that's not true. You know that they are very impulsive and reckless and it's only going to win. You can just take a step back and watch, grab some popcorn and just see what they are trying to do because you already know it's not going to win well. You should already know that if you've been with them for a long enough time you've already seen the result of their actions and their failure to deal with the consequences, the effects. They refuse to take accountability for anything that goes wrong. They always have to shift the blame onto someone else and accountability is the key to our success. When we look at ourselves we can accept that we made a mistake, we did something wrong or we could have done something better then we can do it better the next time we're learning from it but they don't think that way because they can't deal with the shame, they don't want to deal with the consequences of the of the actions, they'd rather just pass the blame onto you or someone else and yeah maybe a much better situation and a much better decision if you are in control of that, if you were the one who was in charge, if you were the one who had the authority or the principles of things going wrong but now they they want to have the control without any responsibility, without any accountability and that really is a recipe for disaster so all you got to do is just sit back and tell them how they're your way and when you say that you've got to mean it, you've got to really feel it from your heart because at this point you just don't care anymore. You've said all that you can say, you've done all that you can do and there's nothing left for you to say it would do other than this and to just release the resistance, stop trying to fight back, stop trying to prove your point because you know they're not going to listen just tell them how they're your way, do what you want to do because you're going to do it anyway no matter what I tell you so just go and do it and have it your way that's why we say that because we know nothing we say or do is going to change anything it's not going to make a difference they're still going to do what they want to do so just let them do it let them have it their way and let's see how it turns out because you should already know it's going to end up in a disaster it's not going to go well they're not going to get very very far with it I'm trying to look at the live chat but for some reason even with a brand new wife home when the sun is shining the screen goes dark and I really don't know why it makes more sense for the screen to go dark when it's nighttime because then it's not so blinding on your eyes when the sun is shining you need the screen to be as bright as possible so you can see it so I don't know what they were thinking they made it like this but I am trying to read the comments here Janie says thank you so much for this absolutely amazing you are helping me more than you 11 know I'm struggling at the moment but I listen to your videos constantly you're helping me and so many others you are very welcome Janie I'm glad to hear that my videos have been helpful to you and if you would like to give something back all you have to do is give this video a thumbs up down below helps the YouTube algorithm and it gets this message out there so everyone please give the video a thumbs up right now and also if you'd like to make a donation you can do that for my PayPal it's paypal.me slash not survivor let's see what else we got here Rosanna says like Burger King have it your way yes that's right I was just driving down the road and I saw the the slogan have it your way and it gave me this idea so I hope you like it and I think it is very effective so let me know try it out see how it goes and share your experiences down in the comments section below I'd love to hear from you and I do read your comments every day yeah I'm just enjoying this beach right now and then I'm gonna go and have a manicure this really is paradise I'm hoping to go for a swim later it's quite hot out here right now I can't find a car wash round here though car is very dirty but it's still a great drive Range Rover great car all right I'm gonna go and get a manicure now but I'd just like to thank you all for your support to appreciate your wall and if you'd like to book a one-on-one session with me you can do that for my website it's narks5 at the code at UK again thank you all for joining me and I will talk to you in another one very soon you will have a great day