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We are live streaming on Twitch, Twitch.tv forward slash Chichou live. Elder God, how are you doing? Hope life is well. Interesting times. We are live streaming on Twitch. So if you want to participate in the chat, Twitch is where you want to be at. Gina, good morning, good morning. How are you doing? For those of you who've been here on Twitch, supporting this work, following, subscribing, using bits, using points, now that we got them up, commenting, liking, and just participating in the discussion. Thank you very much for being here and mods. Thank you very much for the support. Ding Bobber, how are you doing? Do be kind to Chichou. Don't be cruel or unkind to Chichou. Thanks Ding Bobber. And let's say to the rest of humanity, do be kind to others. Don't be cruel or unkind to others, right? Twitch and Discord sent awesome. That was speedy Gonzales style. I do announce these live streams 30 minutes before we go live on Parlor, LoMines, VK, Gab, and Twitter. Hi, finally catch a stream. Glad to have you here. GrantO3, hello, hello. How are you doing? Ding Bobber, by the way Chichou, your compliment on my music this morning was super thoughtful. Oh, brother, that was a great and I try to like it, but I couldn't do it. I couldn't hard it. Almost. Did I get it almost? I tried. We've been a johoff. We've been a johoff. I do it. How do you pronounce that? What's up Chichou? Little sticks TV. How are you doing? I like the shirt. Thanks. One of my favorite shirts. One of my favorite shirts indeed. It was private at the time. It was private at the time. Okay. I love their lyrics, by the way. The lyrics were fantastic. The delivery was really good and it looks like someone put a baseline on it, but I didn't, I was going live like two minutes beforehand. I just checked it really quick. I was like, oh, I want to, I want to hear it, but I couldn't hear it. Do I have to be kind to reset enforcers? No, they are, they, they, yes, be kind to them. Unless they cross the line and you must protect your own, right? Cho Santh. Hello. How are you doing? It's Dutch. Hard to explain. Oh, it's Dutch. I've been to Holland. I try to get into, uh, uh, watch a football game, but it never happened. It was all sold out. Olive, how are you doing? Long time, no see. Welcome back. Hope you're doing well. Yeah, somebody sent me a baseline. Nice thing, bother. Starsky, how are you doing? H-E-Ch-O. How's it going? Doing well, man. Doing well. Thank you. Lonely piggy. Lonely piggy. Snacks. Same question as always. More, uh, no. We're down to our last little bit of olive, autumn olives. I had some with my cereal this morning. I've been having, having it with cereal every morning. So I'm saving the last little bit. We've gone crazy for two months now, month and a half at least. So I'm saving the little bit. Uh, but what I got? Apples and peanut butter. Yeah. Apples and peanut butter, baby. Delicious. I like apples and peanut butter snack. It's super good. And the apples are just local apples. Uh, we get from our CSA and the peanut butter is like organic, uh, like nice peanut butter. It's pretty yummy. Deckman, how are you doing? Rittie, 1,000 points. Ah, my tongue is all cut up. Gina, do support your family members when some cycle starts stalking them. Indeed. Don't victim, blame your family member and show very little support. Indeed. Indeed, Gina. Yeah. For some reason in our society, we victimize the victims or how do we say that as Malcolm Axe would say, uh, he said it regarding mainstream media, saying, if you're not careful, the mainstream media will make you hate the victims and support the, um, the oppressors, right? And our society in some way, you've seen people, people who have been brutalized by others and you blame them for being in that situation or dressing a certain way or saying something or it's very weird to me. It's very weird to me. Didn't mean to redeem those. Oh, Deckman, you didn't need to read. I can read. I can, I can, uh, uh, put them back to you. I'll go into my, uh, uh, the point thing. Uh, just send me a reminder on discord and I'll do it. Olive, long time indeed. Glad to be back. Glad to have you back, Olive. Sean, yo, how are you doing? Do you read a lot? I read some, some flames, flames, flames of war. The victims are the new perpetrators. Fear. People are overwhelmed by fear. That's because they can keep their eyes on the prize. They got lost in the noise. We will be uploading this live stream to soundcloud, soundcloud.com, forward slash chicho, CHYCHO as a podcast and it should be available on your favorite podcasting platform, including Spotify and iTunes and hello, Cheryl. How are you doing? And all the links will be in the description of this video. Of course, gang. Once it's uploaded to the YouTube and bit shoot. And this video, most likely we will also upload to YouTube as well. Uh, but it, we are uploading most of the, all the videos to bit shoot most of the videos to YouTube and in 2000 and early 2021, we should be adding a third, uh, video hosting platform at least. And, uh, we'll see where that goes. And again, all the links will be in the description of this video and we do have a discord page where people are sharing a lot of information and, um, taking part in discussions, right? Uh, just to see how the world is and where we are headed and sharing music and movies and quotes and advice and whatnot. Okay. Let me take down these links. CHYCHO. Fear is one of the lowest vibrations only superseded by guilt and shame. If I'm not mistaken, really guilt and shame is more might be vice versa. Still, a lot of people experience many negative emotions due to all this and don't know how to, how to heal or promote healthy emotions. Yeah. The first thing to do is, um, especially if it's coming from corporate propaganda, if it's coming from centralized power that's inducing fear on you, tune out at a centralized power. That's one of the initial things you should do. If you hear stuff coming out of, I mean, me included, if I induce fear on you, turn me off, right? I try not to. I try to be more strategic and explain how we have come to places we have been and where we are going and stuff like this. But if there's anyone, anything you're consuming that is like fear, fear, fear, fear, fear, turn that crap off, right? Little sticks TV. We're so close to 2021. Doesn't even seem real to me. Haha. Yeah. Crazy. Crazy. Elder God. I don't have any fear. I'm an instrument of retaliation. I should write that down. Fear is the mind killer dune indeed. Fear is the mind killer. Fear is the mind is the fear killer. Ah, that's a great saying. Awesome. A fish named squish. Mine is the fear killer. Knowledge is the fear killer, maybe. Mind is the fear killer. Fear is the mind killer. I don't think that was in dune. Even better. Sheryl likes to. Supermanic soul. Supermanic soul. Hoff. Hoff. Women. Women. Fear is a matter of gaining power for those inducing the fear, right? For those inducing the fear is a way to control you, right? If you're, if someone's bombarding you with fear, don't give them that control. Fear is a matter of gaining power. Yeah, yeah. Olive. Sometimes the victims themselves turn into the bad guys indeed. And at that point, although it was someone else who made them that way, by hurting them, people are responsible for their actions. And at a certain point, there is no excuse. I 100% agree with you, Olive. People make a lot of excuses. Oh, I was abused when I was a child. That doesn't give you the right to abuse other people. Oh, I was bullied when I was a child. That doesn't give you the right to bully other people. People talk shit to me. That doesn't give you the right to talk shit to others, right? You have the right to defend yourself, but you can't go spreading the poison, right? If someone dumps poison on you, you shouldn't go around doing the same to others. If someone's feeling you full of fear, don't go propagating that. Mind is the fear killer, I guess, right? Deckman. What are we talking about relationships today? Any topics lined up, or are we just going to see where it goes? Usually, we just see where it goes. I have a times a laid out things that I wouldn't mind talking about. But then every time I do that, we never end up going in that direction anyway. So I want to be more malleable, more flow, whatever people want to talk about we can talk about. In general, for me in regards to relationships, what I try to do is get the most I can out of all my relationship. May they be intimate, may they be friendship, may they be business related, school, may it be student-teacher relationship, whatever it is. As long as I'm learning and we're growing in that relationship, it's beautiful. When a relationship for me becomes stagnant, and stagnant is not necessarily bad, it's a comfort place you go to and you're familiar with it and stuff like that. But stagnant waters are, you don't want to be too stagnant in your life. You want to keep the flow going, right? The only, as the saying says, the only absolute in life is change. That is the calculus of existence really. So it's good to embrace that, right? Dingvao or Chico, obey out of fear and we will create order out of the chaos we created in the first place. Sincerely, the elites, yeah. And by the way, relationships is not just about relationships between human and human, it's your relationship with institutions, it's your relationship with your surroundings, it's your relationship with nature, it's your relationship with your government, it's your relationship with communities, right? All of that. Chichonians, the sleeper has weakened Dingvao. When victim becomes a victimizer, the cycle continues. Yeah, we have to end that. We have to end that, right? What do I do after a breakup, brother? Matthew, mourn if it was initially as a mourning period, isolationism to a certain degree. You're going to have regrets, you're going to have this, you're going to have that. Embrace that, embrace those feelings. But then don't hold on to them, let them go, let them flow through you. And just think about the positive aspects of that relationship and who you were when you started that relationship and who you are after that relationship. Hopefully it is positive, right? If it's negative, ask yourself why it was negative, right? But for me, I try to think about any relationship, maybe intimate or not, right? As sharing our knowledge, our experiences. So I try to learn something from all my relationships and I have in the past and it's beautiful, right? And there is sadness when certain relationships break up, right? I've mourned losses of partners. If you haven't had your heart broken, you haven't loved. If you've had your heart broken, be grateful because you have loved, right? And time, it just takes time, Matthew, really. And it's sometimes very painful, man, very painful. To break the cycle of insanity and abuse, Stingbobber says, and come home to love in the heart is a noble thing to aspire to, in my opinion. Yeah, Dekman, Matthew. Advice to Dekman. I advice to Matthew from Dekman. I know everyone already always says this, but focus on yourself, man. Get active, eat good food, be creative, doing things that are good for you will make you feel better. Yeah, agreed with Dekman 100%. And I appreciate that if you, anybody's going through a breakup, appreciate that this is just a moment in your life, right? Time heals all. It really does. It dulls the pain, right? And introduces new loves and new passions into your life. Let time play out. What you're feeling right now is not going to be what you're feeling five years from now, 10 years from now, even a week from now or a month from now or a year from now. Embrace those feelings, by the way. Appreciate the intensity of those feelings. There are people that never, never have that intensity. That's sad, right? Benjamin Clement quote, quote, What is about relationships that we just don't get? What is it about relationships that we just don't get? I don't know. What is it? Have a date with a drink? Ah, Elder God's advice, break COVID regulations, have a date with a stranger. Free as such, free as such, free as such. Hello from the home office, Gicho. Cool, Leo. How are you doing? I heard you were working out at home. Fantastic. No driving nowhere. Ding Bobber. I've heard of people lowering, lowering a mask to drag a cigarette, then lifting the mask back up. Like, I don't know. It just seems silly. Weird, right? Well, maybe they blow the smoke out of their nose, but then you have to cover the nose anyway. I don't know. Weird. Island King Divinity. How are you doing? Chico. Hey, Chicho, it's been a while. Finally able to catch one of your streams. Awesome. Glad to have you, Island King. Welcome, welcome, Olive. Making friends is difficult for me. Find it hard to figure out what to talk about to new people in my life, except when I'm drunk. Then I'm very talkative, but I can't go around and drink all the time. No, any advice for someone who is quite shy? Olive, you don't necessarily have to be talking when you're with someone, right? Quiet time is good. Being just in the presence of someone that you like is a good feeling, right? So if they're new shirt, you need to break the ice a little bit, talk about, you know, just to see who they are and whatnot, right? You can talk about music, movies, food. Food is huge, right? If they're not into food and you're not into food, then music, movies, entertainment, books, you know, what they like to do as a pastime, go for a walk. One of the things I've done in my life when I'm meeting new people, like really, this sounds, I don't know if it sounds weird or not, but for me, I go on walks with people, right? If we're meeting new, I say, Hey, listen, I'm going to go for a walk. Want to come along? Sometimes people think I'm going to go for a half an hour walk. I've gone on walks with people brand new, right? That sometimes we only met once, maybe because we went on such a long walk. They're like, that guy's crazy. I'm going out with that guy again. But there's been times where I've met new people and we've gone on a walk like for four hours, just walking beside each other through neighborhoods, through the city and just talking, right? Pointing out, Oh, that's a beautiful house because you're in motion. So you come across things that you see that are interesting so you can talk about them, right? People watching is amazing as well. So those are some of the things I do and all of I feel you. I've known people that are very shy, that don't talk very much. I've seldom been that way. You know, I'm generally very outgoing even though I'm an introvert, I do put out as well. It is exhausting for me when I interact with people. After huge gatherings, I need time alone. There's too much energy around me personally. But and keep in mind, my initial statement holds, you don't need to constantly be talking about small things, right? Chitter chatter. You can just be with someone. And during a walk, you don't have to talk during a walk. You can just walk and appreciate things, maybe in the forest and nature. I personally, I love nature like trails and stuff like that. But being a geophysicist, I've been in nature a lot. For me, that is the jungle. And I also consider the city to be a jungle. So I really appreciate walking around the city. There's a lot more to talk about. Fish name Squish. That time play out is a great advice. You may not make good decisions when you're feeling raw upset. Indeed, indeed. Coolio Olive. Advice from Coolio Olive. I'd recommend getting involved in discord communities for the time being. It's a lot easier and there's a number of communities for every interest and hobby. I started discord book club on one server I'm on. Awesome Coolio Olive. Then you can perhaps meet up some people from those communities in person if they live near you. Think Bobber. The emotional body gets cut open when you break ties with someone who you let influence your emotions in the first place. I quote let because it's not like we choose who we love. It just happens. I disagree with that statement. Suddenly, all the positive emotional situation, stimulation is gone. That part I agree with. But I disagree that I quote that because it's not like we choose who we love. I disagree with that. We can choose who we love. That happens sometimes that we end up loving people out of sheer circumstances. All of a sudden you love this person either intimately or you really really like them. You want to be around them. But you can choose to fall in love with someone as well. Start really looking in-depth into them and appreciate the little nuances that they have. As you get to know them more and more, you fall in love with them more and more. Have you guys ever had someone where you might have liked the person? And then as you get to know them, you start liking them more and more and more. That's falling in love with someone and as you're choosing really. That's my opinion. Squish to all of, be genuinely interested in people and ask them questions about themselves. Yeah, and that indeed for sure. Get to know them, right? Like quitting Oxycontin cold turkey thing, Robert says. It could be. It could be. I don't know. I've never been on Oxycontin. I don't plan on being on it. But sometimes when you're with someone for a long time and they're gone, the void in your life is insanely painful. It drags you down a lot, right? Breathing is important. Breathe. Spend time. I think it was Squish that said, spend time. Get to know yourself more, right? It takes time. It takes time. That amount to all of. I agree with Squish. If people think that you are interested in them, that will make them interested in you. Perfect. Coolio, Ciccio. In Albania, every night at around 6 p.m., everyone steps out of their house and goes for a walk to talk to their neighbors. Really, I don't know if COVID changed that. Those things are largely back to normal for them last I heard. But it's one thing I'm really looking forward to. That's fantastic. Coolio. That's super cool. Dingbobber, advice. Use this as an opportunity to heal those shadow emotions that are not popping up for you. Not bad. Walking for four hours, that's at least 10 miles. Yeah. I've gone, man, one time I won't want to walk on a first date with someone and it was the only date with this person. We just met online. We went for a walk. We went for an eight-hour walk. Just talked. It just happened that we needed to cross paths for one day and we went for a gigantic walk and that was it, right? Then talked about, I don't know, everything and anything. She was having certain, anyway, it was interesting. Olive to squish. That's the thing. I'm more of a listener, but at a certain point people want you to say something and I just find it hard. You know what? Olive, just be straightforward with them. Ask them what they would like to know about you. Directly ask them, what would you like to know? Ask them if they want to know what your favorite movie is. You'll tell them music, what you love to eat, some of the good you've done, some of the bad you've done, some of the painful stuff you've done you wish you didn't do. Don't share that. Don't share that with people you've met in you. Sometimes don't share that with anyone ever again, right? Buried that deep and let it go. Sort of. Cheryl, while on the road for a survey with a young colleague last week, she apologized for not talking very much. I felt badly because I wasn't talking either. The mutual apology sparked a great discussion about the benefits of a companionable silence. People rush to feel a sound void, especially when you don't know people well. Yeah, I'm with Cheryl. And that's the saying that goes, I've read this quote somewhere, what's music, right? And people give different definitions. It's a way to speak to the spirit and stuff like this. But music, I've heard one person say, I can't even, I can't even attribute this to anyone because I don't know who it was. They said music is the silence between the notes, right? So music is the silence between the notes. Conversation is the silence where being with someone is a silence between the conversation or something, right? Silence is powerful. Thanks. I'll give it a try, all of Sister Kulio. Cheryl, but when both or all are aware that it's okay, if it's comfortable, it can be amazing. Just being aware of and enjoying their presence can be huge and helpful. Yeah. I'm 100% with Cheryl on this, right? Cheryl, I actually find it flattering when someone is comfortable in silence around me. I used to be a sound void filler myself, admittedly. Oh yeah. Kulio, I've been around people like you. It could be very noisy. That meant all of, it's an old trick, but ask the other person a question you like them to ask you. If there's a topic you're generally comfortable talking about with anyone, ask them a leading question about the topic, and they might finish with something like, what about you? And then you have set yourself up for a comfortable topic. Great advice deck, Matt. And by the way, Olive, you mentioned drinking. You become more talkative when you're drinking. Reduce your drinking. Become more comfortable in your shell when you're not drinking, when you're around other people. And like seriously, it's very difficult to do all of, like I've gone through it myself, right? Very difficult to be around people that are drinking and you're not drinking. And, but try it out. It'll challenge you. Okay. Ding-ba-ba-chi-cho. I suppose that's true. I was mostly coding Jamie Lannister, haha, from Game of Thrones and my, haha. Awesome. I'm capable of Elegant. I'm capable of talking to complete strangers right off the bat. You just need an icebreaker for some people. Yeah. Matthew, it really was a phenomenal breakup. We're both students and she has a lot of trouble, troubles, and it became too difficult for us this year. I think that's why it sucks so much. Previously I'd fallen out of love big time before the end, but this time I didn't. It just is not the right time for us. Yeah. Matthew, I feel you. I've been in those relationships. It just wasn't the right time. It just wasn't the right time. And there's nothing you can do about it, right? Maybe your paths will cross again. Like my partner right now, the first time we met each other was 20 years ago. We didn't get together until nine years ago. Ding, Robert, Chichou. I meant Oxycontin, which is the cuddle, cuddle brain chemical or the love chemical. All toxin, oxytoxin. Is that what it is? Tink, how are you doing? Long time no see, man. Oh, hi, Chichou. How's it going? Doing good, Tink? Hope you're doing well and staying safe, brother. Hello, God. I have a void right now. I've recently lost my greatest love. The cider keeps texting me now. Sure. 100% Culeo. That said, the struggle not to feel silence in text, weather in chat, discord, elsewhere, more than in real life out loud. It's such a weird contrast for me. I think it's hard to have the same presence as you would out in the world. I get depressed when studying. What to do about it? Find things that you love studying. Listen to music while you're studying. Go to an amazing place to study. Like if you're studying something and you're finding a depressing sitting on a table chair, sitting on a chair, working on a table, working on a table, if you're in a room, go to the beach and study there. Gtex2k. I have a playlist on my YouTube channel called How to Study. Okay. It's some of the tricks I've used in my life or some of the tools I use in my life to learn new things. Right? Take a look at that playlist. There's a whole bunch of videos on there. One of the videos talks about, specifically what I just mentioned, find your happy space. If you get depressed studying in one location, go somewhere else in nature maybe and study there. Go to a cafe and sit down at a cafe and study your work there. You won't be as efficient, but the depression, the association of a bad feeling to the studying will slowly go away. So what you want to do is introduce, train yourself, program yourself to associate whatever it is you're studying with being in a place you want to be, in a happy location, doing a happy thing. And slowly what you're going to find out is you can start studying that thing that you're studying while you're at home, while you're sitting on a table, where you're sitting at a on a chair, on a table studying. Right? So you want to start associating love with studying. I know it sounds weird, but it works. Right? I created a lot of content, a lot of the math videos that you see. I laid a lot of that stuff out at the beach, at the park, in cafes, in restaurants, at bars. Right? Kulio Chicho. I may have mentioned on walks as well. I may have mentioned this previously, but I once did a 30-day challenge when I talked to strangers every single day for 30 days. Wow. If I skipped a single day, I'd start over from day one. Oh my God. I kept the journal of my interactions and had to start over two times, but I did accomplish it and it has basically permanently cured me, cured my old fear of approaching people. Very cool, Kulio. I've never heard about this. How far behind chat am I? Gang, I'm going to scroll down. Apologies if I'm going to miss stuff. And I'm going to look at stuff that says Chicho on it right now. That way I can get caught up with chat. I don't want to fall too far behind. What's your thoughts on falling in love with people? Do you think it's only built up over time or perhaps when you get to know the right person? I'm not feeling a spark with my girlfriend of six months and feel guilty about it not being there. I think it can happen both ways. You can fall in love with someone right off the get go, or you might have to spend time with someone for a long time, for a while, to fall in love with them. And that builds, right? Hopefully it builds anyway. Six months is a while if you've been with someone. I don't know how often you guys meet. Some people say, oh, I've been seeing someone and they only meet once a week. So that's the same. If you say you have a girlfriend or boyfriend or a partner that you only meet once a week and you've been dating for a year, that means you've been dating for 52 days. And then you meet someone that says, oh, I've been with someone for two months and they meet every day. They spend every day together. That's the same intensity of a relationship as a full year. Sort of, right? Because you could be texting and messaging. But for me, when it comes to relationships, I like to, I don't like to, I like to spend a lot of time initially together. And later on as well, probably, if I like them, but initially together, that way you optimize the amount of time you're spending with someone to see if you will like them, if you will fall in love with them, you will like their, the way they move, right? So I'm not sure how long six months is for you. If you see them every day, if you're living together, then that's a long time to be someone without feeling that powerful love, right? So I, you know, that's, that's all I can say if I, you know, we don't know anything else. Other people might have other advice. Squish, as Chicho said, though, some people are more introverted and social interactions can be draining. Society tends to price extroverted characteristics, which can make introverse field deficient. But one is not better than the other. There's nothing wrong with not always wanting to interact with other people. Yeah. And that's what Squish said. Everyone listen to what Squish said, right? Like, I can honestly tell you, I may seem fairly social to everyone and I am, right? But there are times where I don't interact aside from students, even in the summertime, if I am very, very happy, not talking with anyone for two weeks, really. I'm totally okay with it. So you can be both. Just balance yourself out, Olive. I've never found silence awkward. Some people even start humming. It's kind of funny. Yeah. And humming is okay. Humming is vibrations, Olive. Humming is amazing, right? I should do, I used to do it a lot. I haven't done humming for a while. There are certain times where I do meditation, I would hum, vibrate, try to get my chest, get the tummy to vibrate a certain way. And that vibration is amazing healing, right? So humming is a good thing. I don't know if I want to be around someone that hums all the time. Be a little crazy, right? But the humming is not bad. Amen, not nightbot. Free Assange, free Assange, free Assange, right? Lonely Piggy, Chicho. I've recently gone through a breakup myself. I did not feel sadness or regret because I had it in mind for a while. I always had to be careful of what I said, what I did. I can never have feelings of my own or opinions during argumentative discussions. After a while, feeling like you have no voice or that feelings don't matter at all, it takes a toll. It was the best thing for me to end it. Turn the page and move forward instead of being perpetually stalled. Lonely Piggy, good on you. And gang, if you're in a relationship where you constantly feel like you're walking around eggshells or walking on eggshells, very careful, that's not a healthy relationship, right? That's not a healthy relationship. You shouldn't feel like you're walking on eggshells with someone intimate or with a friend. I've had friends where, man, it's constantly if you're afraid that if you say the right thing, they're going to explode, right? Maybe I'm guilty of it myself too. I know in regards to politics, if someone says, you know, if someone turns to me and says, oh, Julian Assange is a bad guy, I'll flip out. I'll rip them a new A-hole, right? And there are people that I've interacted with that that has happened and they don't interact with me very much anymore and I'm totally okay with it, right? And that goes for you. If you feel like you're walking on eggshells and something important that you think you're aware of, because to them it might be, they might think they're delusional, they might think that they have the right perspective on what's going on. I think they're insane, they're dumb-dumbs, but that's my opinion, right? But if you feel like that's happening to you, then it's not a healthy relationship or you're completely mistaken. Sit on a table and work on it, Jericho. I know. Greetings, blessings, Dr. Pete. How are you doing? The quote also made me think of John Cage's. I don't know that. I'm scrolling down, gang, to see if there's anything directed towards me. I realize I might be as... Okay, gang. I came all the way down just to catch up and to have an apple and peanut butter. Look at this goodness. Very nice, very nice. Cheers. Squish says, what if you're walking around eggshells around your boss calling sick? Might be time to change jobs. And don't, by the way, right now, as long as you're... if you're not financially secure and you don't have another job lined up. Padre, padre, padre. How are you doing? As far as the introvert thing goes, I feel like there are a lot of us out there that I can only explain as a left hand. There's living in a right-handed world. So the world is more extroverted, just like being left-handed. You will have to adjust to the world, but don't let that stamp out who you are and what makes you special. Southpaws are beautiful, man. They shake things up. They do indeed, padre. And if I remember my boxing stats well, there's a lot of southpaws that do extremely well in boxing because people are not ready for it. It was the most famous southpaw. I can't remember. It was a heavyweight champion, I believe. Me and my ex, G4F, me and my ex agreed to distance ourselves because we kept getting into fights. So after three weeks, she called and I didn't pick up or call back until a month afterwards. And this time she didn't ask for a call back. It's been a month. Should I call her? Are you really Mr... Yeah, if you miss her, give her a call for sure, G4F. For sure, give her a call, right? But be prepared. She might have moved on, right? Put it towards lesson learned. If your girlfriend that you're taking a little bit separation apart calls and you don't answer, give her a call back in a couple of hours. Just say you were busy, not a month later. It's a long time. Call and dead every day. Yeah, if you're squishing every day, no. If you're walking on eggshells around your boss every day, something has to be resolved around that. That's not a healthy situation. Call and dead. AutoBots710 says, did you make that peanut butter? No, I didn't make the peanut butter. Hazardous. HDTV. How are you doing, by the way? I didn't. It's really good peanut butter, though. Organic peanut butter and stuff like that. It's nice. Felix, how are you doing? Felix, not sure if you caught my message. I didn't when you were scrolling, but hey, what's up, Chicho? And everyone in chat, hello, Felix. How are you doing? No, I didn't catch it because I was just looking for stuff that said Chicho Live just to get caught up, right? And welcome to another live stream. Glad to have you here. Bipster. Hey, Chicho, I'm at work and I just listened to the audio. The problem with the other people is that I'm really independent and I don't really need people in my life. Also, there are a lot of people who are going to hurt you and I'd rather be alone. My spiritual animal is a spider, so I feel good alone. Okay, but don't isolate yourself because you're worried about being hurt, right? With hurt also comes love. The only reason you would get hurt is because you cared and caring is not a bad thing, right? So if you're isolating yourself because out of fear of being hurt, that's not as healthy as isolating yourself because you're very comfortable being alone and you don't want to interact with anyone. Not too many people anyway. But we do need others to bounce off ideas and whatnot, and this is fine. You're coming on chat and you can just interact with us and chat while you're isolated in your own space, which is totally okay as well. For me, I'm not one of the people that says you have to interact with other people. Absolutely not. If you are okay in your shell, in your life, just living a solo life, kudos to you, power to you. Just make sure you're not doing it out of fear. You're doing it out of love because you love being alone. Padre. Rocky. Was Rocky left-handed? Left-handed? I forget. I'm scrolling, scrolling, free assange, free assange, free assange. When it comes to relationships, Felix says, for me, my problem is overthinking. I think pretty fast, which is good for some things. I do like mouth and chest, but when it comes to relationships, both platonic and romantic, it can be a problem. Felix, I feel you. I feel you. Learn to slow yourself down. Don't, and you don't need to slow yourself down in everything you do. Slow yourself down in certain things that you want to savor. For example, if you go out to a restaurant and you order an amazing dish or you cook for yourself, you order amazing food, just because you think fast, it doesn't mean you should go go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, eat it, speedy Gonzales style, right? You savor the food. When you have an amazing wine, you smell it and you sip it, right? That's fantastic. Don't chug it down. There are certain things you should train yourself to savor. Eating should be one of them. And usually, sometimes you're in a rush, you want to wolf it down because you need the energy, right? Relationships too. If you enjoy being around someone, you don't need to make that interaction rapid. Just breathe. Enjoy the silence, right? But I guess it depends on the length of the book. Oh yeah, this is the book club talk. Felix, there's a girl in a math class I have tomorrow that I like, but because of COVID precautions in class, I'm not sure how to approach her. Write her a note. Hi, thought I write you a note because of COVID precautions instead of coming too close to you because I don't want to get into your space. But I think you're pretty cool. Would you like to talk? She will love it. Well, or she will go, what a creep. You're on your own on that one. Felix, take Chicho's advice with a gigantic grain of salt. That's why Apollo's trainers didn't want him to fight him. Too much of a wild card. Oh, really? Is that why? In the movie? And Rocky. Richie Shad. Hi, Chicho. My name's Richie and my spirit animal is my refrigerator during COVID. I've gained it in weight. Is that okay? I have gained about 30 pounds. Oh, 30 pounds a lot. Pounds in six months. And I'm stress eating. Any advice for me, Chico? Dude, I feel you. I did go through a period in my life where I did exactly what you did. Stress eat. And I was about 40 pounds heavier than what I am now. Right? Difficult to break. Okay, easy to get into. My advice is it's really difficult to break. But when you feel like eating, drink a big glass of water. Sometimes the sensation of hunger, you get the sensation of hunger because you're thirsty. You need water. Drink a big glass of water. The second thing you need to do is don't eat late at night. Don't eat late at night. Okay, that'll knock. If you don't, right now, if you're eating late at night, stacking late at night, cut that out. That'll, that should reduce at least five to 10 pounds on your weight. Right? Drink glasses of water. Start doing exercise. Start doing exercise. The other thing, if you're going to eat, eat healthy food. Right? Like seriously, like people don't emphasize this enough. Crazy. Healthy food has more nutrients that your body can use to fill that void, the hunger that you're feeling. If you're eating garbage food, that's got a full of calories, full of sugar, full of salt, whatever it might be. Your body doesn't recognize that as food, as chemicals. Right? So your hunger doesn't reduce. You're still hungry after eating this. Right? Healthy food. Huge, huge, huge. So if you're fridge, if you open up your fridge right now, it's full of pop and cake and pizza you bought from somewhere, throw that crap away, put fruits, vegetables. If you're a meat eater, meat that you can eat, that you can cook yourself, that you bought out of butcher. Right? Not processed sausages and stuff like this. Right? Fill your fridge full of good, healthy food, fruits and vegetables and herbs. And slowly do that. It's going to take you time. Time. An exercise is huge. Cheryl, chronic over thinker club present. Felix, welcome to the club. Cheryl, I've been a member for quite some time, Felix says. The tiger butt, how are you doing? Doing well, man. Thank you very much. M.G. M.G. Solo. That's the way I've got to pronounce it. That was beautiful, Chicho. To many of us, including myself, live in fear when it comes to social relationships, situations, and we convince ourselves that everything is fine when in the back of our mind, we know we want to conquer that fear. The day we conquer this fear is the day we can truly be happy with ourselves. Baby steps are okay as long as we improve, we do not have to be perfect. Yeah. Well said, brother or sister, of course. Right? Super spread. Just got to whisper that. I'm the exact opposite. If I'm stressed, I can barely eat. Oh, really, that man. That's not good either, by the way. That's not healthy. Right? Felix, Chicho. Maybe I'll try writing a note. Worst that can happen is rejection, and the short-term pain of rejection is better than the long-term pain of regretting not trying, I suppose. Why not? But please, I hope it works out. I'm all nervous now. I'm nervous. Rich. Intermittent fasting can be helpful. Yeah, intermittent fasting is good too. Don't eat between 7pm and 11am. Good. It prevents you from eating late at night, provides clear rules, and gives you some license to eat what you want during the rest of the time. Although, as Chicho said, healthy food is good. Healthy food is good. And for me, I'm okay with not eating after 7.30pm. Right? But because I wake up early, I wouldn't wait until 11am to eat. I would eat earlier. Right? The tiger butt. Glad to hear that, Chicho. I hope you're doing well. I'm good. Thank you. Ah, there you go. Good, good, good. Welcome to another live stream. Question. How to bag a rich guy, petite female life, become rich yourself? And it depends what you mean with rich. What's your definition of rich? Rich in humor? Rich in social relationships? Rich in knowledge? Rich in experience? I don't know. Rich in apples and peanut butter? I got a lot of apples and peanut butter. I'm very rich. Felix, what's your thoughts on the no fab movement, Chicho? New thing that's beneficial or pseudoscience? I don't know what the no fab movement is. I feel like what's a no fab movement? Rich equals a short guy standing on his wallet would make him 6 foot 3. Really? Man, you could just fill it full of dollars. No fab means stop touching your willy. Oh, is that what it means? What the hell? Ah, that's part of life. No fab has given me so many bans. I'd be shocked if Chicho knew what that even was. Not that I knew the movement existed. Rich in comic books. I'm rich in comic books. Not as rich as some though. But if I stood on my comic books, I'd be really tall. No fans, stop touching your willy. Why would you? It's part of your body. Do you touch your ear? Is there a no ear? No ear thing? Does this make you feel good? Yeah, you know what? It's nice. Yeah, that's nice. Why would you stop doing something that feels good? Right? That being said, there is a certain amount of chi in your life. Right? So be careful. What did Allah God say? I tried that. Only God. Hilarious. By the way, Petit Fem, your comment got blocked. They picked it out. Automod, okay? I guess automod doesn't like mofo. Just a way to practice stoicism, Padre says. Felix, no fab is a movement that believes in abstaining from masturbation, more specifically pornography. I personally think that porn is pretty damaging to a lot of areas of the psyche. It could be, sure. It's like any addiction. If you're addicted to something, kill your addiction. Stop your addiction. Everything in moderation. Yeah, or extremism in moderation. That's my philosophy anyway. Extremism in moderation. Yeah, the abstaining from pornography part probably has some benefits. Probably, yeah. If you're addicted to porn, yeah, stop that. It's like being addicted to anything. Stop it. Right? Dekman, I totally agree. Porn is so bad for your brain. It's like any other addiction. Dekman, it really depends on what type of porn. Have you guys watched some 70s porn? Pretty damn cool. Right? Not that I'm promoting it, as Bill Hicks would say, but I'm not denying it. There's some amazing movies that I've seen that some people will consider porn, especially back when they were made, right now that would just be risqué, right? Oh, risqué movies that were considered hardcore porn back in the day, right? Or porn back in the day, which are pretty damn cool. I agree with porn hub and all that just to a certain degree, right? Because all of that is centralized control. And what you're seeing is programming, right? So it really depends. Look, number one rule. Don't get your information from centralized institutions. If you find that what you know in life, who you interact in life, how you feel about life, all of it has been programmed into your psyche from centralized authority, you need to reprogram yourself, right? It's like social media. If you only go to, if you only get your news from Facebook, you're a dumb dumb. If you only go to Reddit to get information, you're a dumb dumb, right? So if you only get sexual pleasure from going to a porn site, you're a dumb dumb. It's simple as that. Dragons, how are you doing? Hey, Chih-chou, loving the recent content. Been watching a few days after during downtime. Awesome, awesome dragons. I'm going to release the cooking one today after this stream. So I've lined up the next few to release. And the current events that we did is definitely not going to go on YouTube, right? It'll only be on BitShoot. So if you like the current event stuff, you have to watch it on BitShoot, okay? Or watch it within two weeks on Twitch before they take it off. Poor defender. Socrates said you're only supposed to have sex once with your wife in, in, in your whole lifetime. Socrates was a little confused. Coolio. Well, battling addiction is a lot more complex than stop it. But I get what you're saying. Yeah, agree. You know, I'm simplifying the matter a little bit, right? But I can honestly tell you I've been addicted to things, right? And I've been able to break those addictions. And they were difficult, right? But the more addictions you break, the easier it becomes for you to break your addictions, right? So stop it. Kebabs. Sorry, Chicho. I got rid of all my other addictions. What porn is there to stay for me? Well, if it's there to stay for you right now, then, and you know, it's an addiction, then so be it, right? It is what it is. That's fine, right? But make sure it doesn't stay with you for your whole life. Move on. There's better addictions out there or other addictions out there that might give you just as much pleasure, right? That might be less destructive, right? It's better to love one woman a thousand ways than love a thousand women once. Someone should tell that to, what's his name? Lead singer of Kiss, Richard Simmons. No, Richard is Richard Simmons. I forget his name. He was surrounded by Greeks who had sex constantly. I guess he was turned off. He was surrounded in pornography. He lived in the porn world. Caligula for the next movie club. Ha-ha, dragons. I've seen Caligula. It was interesting. Felix Chico. I think that porn desensitizes you to a certain extent. That I agree with. I personally experienced it myself, and that's when I realized there was a problem and decided to quit. Awesome. Good on you, Felix. And I agree with you. It can't desensitize you for sure. But if it's something you want to participate in, for me, I'm an anti-provisionist. People, adults, should be allowed to experience life how they want. If people want to have sex in certain ways, they have the right to have sex in certain ways or watch certain sex for sure. But understand that you are being programmed, especially if that is coming from a centralized institution. If you're watching Hollywood, let's say Hollywood porn, they're programming you. There's a dictate at hand. If you only watch Hollywood movies, you're being programmed. You have to expand outside of Hollywood to really appreciate what theater really is. Watch Korean movies, watch Japanese movies, watch Chinese movies, watch Persian movies. My God. Amazing. There's a Persian movie. Oh my God. Amazing. Watch Arabic movies, watch French movies, watch British movies, watch German movies, watch European, watch Russian movies. Watch African movies. I don't seem too many, but there has been some. If you're in your life, you've only watched movies coming out of Hollywood, man, you got a lot of living to do. You got a lot of living to do. Gang, I'm scrolling down to see if there's anything. Cheryl, one of the keys with porn is understanding the potential disconnect between the appearance of the bodies or display of those you encounter in real life. Not being constantly disappointed that most men and women do not meet up to poor standards in appearance and likely in action. Yeah, agreed. And to tell you the truth, you really don't want your sex life to be only the action you see in porn, right? Like a lot of people that read glamour magazines and stuff like that, if you think that is how human beings should be, you got a lot of growing up to do, right? Kebab, porn gives me ideas to try with my girlfriend. Good on you. Awesome. Okay, I'll stop now. Are you Persian? Armenian, Persian, Canadian. What I've realized about life is that as long as you don't hurt anybody, you should essentially be able to just do what you want. Deckman, 100%. I'm with Deckman all the way. Olive Ciccio. What exactly are they programming you to? It really depends on the type of porn. First of all, it's disconnect. They're eliminating intimacy on a large part, a lot of pornography. The love is not there. It's more of the physical than the sensual, right? There are sensual porn out there, right? There is. But you have to really, it's a small percentage and you have to really dig for it, right? So there's a lot in it, Olive. But some people just want to do, won't want the physical satisfaction. So be it, right? Yeah, Cheryl says to Kebabs, wash together. She might get some ideas as well. Yeah. And Kebabs, don't be afraid if she wants to try certain things out and you might be like, wait a minute, if it gives her pleasure, right? Why not? Elder God, porn for me was a technical manual very much. But in my time, there was not real internet. Thanks, big H. Big H, big H. What's the big H? Big fan of Korean filming, yeah. Filmmaking, Korean filmmaking is powerful. Snake, I do it yourself. A competent judge would have a wide variety of experiences. Yeah. Hello, Crafter, how are you doing? I got no time for relationships. You got no time relationships. Oh, you for sure, you must have relationships. You have work relationships. You have family relationships. You mean intimate relationships. Question, the simp loves me. Should I marry him? I don't know what a simp is. Streaming. He found out I stream any simps to me now. I don't have no idea what simps is. Cheryl to Cabos, but if she's never watched or says she hasn't, choose carefully or in me backfire. Indeed, indeed. And the other thing is you could ask her, have you watched porn? Is there certain porn you would like to see? Have you watched people being intimate or being very physically active together? Punisher Max live. Hello, hello. In your honest opinion, if you break up with someone, would you get back together with them later in life? Is it possible? It is possible. I haven't. Okay. For me, I've never broken up with someone. No, no, no. Not true. I was, I was with someone where she left the city. She went to the other side of the country and we broke up for the period that she wasn't there. She wasn't here and when she came back, we got back together. But we've never broken up and then gotten back together. So I've never done it, but it is possible. I know people who have and sometimes it is much more powerful. Vigage. Hugh Hefner. Elder God. Vigage is Hugh Hefner. Playboy. Man, I kick, I'm kicking myself still from back in the 90s when I had the opportunity to buy a complete Playboy run for $500. It was less than a thousand and I didn't go for it. Some guy had an ad in the paper and classifieds. He was selling his Playboy collection and I didn't buy it. I can't believe it. Oh my God. Every time I think about it, I kick myself. Like, let's say it was a thousand dollars, the complete Playboy run. Playboy number one right now sells in good condition. Sells for like thousands. Man. Not that I would sell it, but it's good to have. This is a guy who cheats on one like a goddess too much. Oh, is that what it is? That's what a sep is. He becomes a kerf. I don't know what a kerf is. So if you choose someone like a goddess, so you want to be, you want your partner to be a dom to a certain degree. Yes. I just generally don't like sex anymore and that's okay, defender. If you don't like sex, you don't like sex. I guess I still like romance though. Romance is fantastic. Crafter. Well, it was kind of a joke, but with online classes, I've got a lot less meaningful interactions. Yeah, in crafter, you're not alone. A lot of people do, right? Like seriously, just imagine being single, which I'm not. Just imagine being single and trying to hook up with someone. Very difficult right now, right? And that's stressful. So don't be too hard. Squish. You can definitely suffer from sunk cost, fallacy in human relationships where it's not healthy working, working, but you feel because you have invested so much time getting to know the person. You don't want to start over, even though that's the right call. Getting out of an unhealthy 10 year relationship was very hard to overcome. For me, I've never been there, Squish. Whenever I've been in a relationship, so when it's gotten stagnant where we didn't enjoy it, we usually ended it. But I've known people where they're in a relationship where it's totally destructive and they stick with it. It's sort of a clarification here. Some people stay in those relationships because they can't afford to break up, right? The cost of break up is a lot, by the way, gang. If people are living from paycheck to paycheck, if you're living a place together with someone and you're paying rent, you're doing all this stuff and whatnot, you don't have enough funds to move out, right? It could be a difficult trap. And there are a lot of people in these types of relationships that, unfortunately, because of the lockdowns and stuff like this, they're going through some serious hard times, right? So we have to keep that in mind. That collection would have gone for so much these days. I know, that man, like a full Playboy run up to the 1990s for $1,000 right now, probably would have sold for like 30 grand. I don't know what it would have sold for. I'm kicking myself, man. My aunt has like 40 plus years worth of Playboys. Take care of them. Make sure she knows what they're worth. Some people dump their collections without knowing what they're worth, right? Oh my God, I might have a few copies hanging around. Whatever doesn't make you money. Don't do it. Ha ha. Simp is a gimp. But watered down for today's youth. Is that what it is? Oh my God. A keff is like a voluntary slave, like how monks are to monasteries. Okay. So basically, being in a relationship with the Dom, which is fine. If you want to be, that's okay. I don't agree with that kebabs. You have to make time for yourself outside of the rat race. That I agree with Kulia. Are monks slaves to monasteries? Never mind. Yeah, I wouldn't call them slaves, but they've taken certain vows, right? There are people who take vows of silence. Apple and peanut butter. Delicious goodness. Oh, almost got it focused in. Difficult. A loveless partnership. That's tough. Indeed, Padra says. Yeah, I got dumped by my boyfriend of two years. I suffered a lot from psychological abuse. I did a witch love spell, wishing for a simp. Be careful what you wish for, because you just might get it. Indeed, a simple week after the breakup. Olive, Chicho. What's the topic for your next stream? The next one is on Wednesday. We're talking about privacy censorship. Privacy censorship surveillance. So mainly sort of censorship and privacy. On Wednesday, I believe at 7 p.m. My time. I've been live. Oh, I've been live for an hour 15. Okay, cool. Introducing internet terms to Chicho is hilarious to me and Kulia. The kicker is, I've been online since like 1990. Right? It's just the social places I don't go to, because I guess my age group or whatever it is, right? But I've been online. I'm online more than anyone I know. Like, like really. But there are certain terms I just don't know. Chicho societal issues. Societal issues or perceptions also keep people from getting counseling early enough to help. Yeah. If something isn't working and you either can't find a way to talk about it, or just don't communicate well, get help. Get help. Free assange, free assange, free assange. Case of simp, anyway. Punisher max. I hate to admit this. I was with my ex for five years. We mutually broke up. Then two weeks later, she's dating someone else. It hurts like hell. Yeah. I know people that do that. They jump from one relationship to another. Punisher, I would feel sorry for her. Because that would be my take. I feel sorry for people who jump from one relationship to another relationship. Because if they live their life that way, that means they will never know who they are. Right? They will never know who they are. If people don't spend time alone, how are you going to know who you are? Right? That's huge. So I'm pretty sure, like Punisher, I know it hurts. Right? But look at it from a different angle. Right? Feel pity for her. And maybe the relationship was over between you guys for a couple of years beforehand. And she just wanted to, you know, bounce out of that. Right? Maybe for you too. Go find yourself a nice squeeze. Right? I can't speak about my experience in sex here, but I have tried the serfdom model. Serfdom model. Oh, I think I know what you mean. The other side of the dom? Squish. If you respect the person and you mutually agree, they want to be dominated and you want to dominate them, that's fine. If you see them as a deficient because they want to be submissive, that's going to be a toxic relationship. It could be a toxic relationship. But doms and subs, it doesn't have to be a toxic relationship. It really doesn't. It could be a very powerful relationship. Right? What's Madre's definition of? I missed it. Naked Gimp. Padre. I like that definition. Naked Gimp. What was Padre's thing? Padre. Simp equals Gimp with no suit. Oh, wait a second. Oh, yeah, yeah. This is my first time watching your stream. This is great discussion. I look forward to more of your streams. Petit Femme. Femme Alive. I'm glad you found us. And yeah, we have really fun discussions here. Sometimes pretty intense. Sometimes nice and chill. We go all over the place. We do comic book readings. We do mathematics. We do mathematics. We do cooking. We do eating. Nek Man. I'll have to tune into that stream on Wednesday. I've been wanting to get your opinion on some censorship questions I have for sure. Censorship is huge right now, gang. One of the most important things that we should be talking about. Olive Chichou. I'd love to see the next stream. It will be 4am for me though. I'll try to drop by regardless. Interesting topic, yeah. It was requested of us. And I'll have that video up on Bichute for sure and most likely on YouTube because it needs to be on YouTube because YouTube is censoring like mad, right? So we'll see. We'll see. Proof Defender. Your previous point was finding a new partner is difficult. Then you said the cost of a breakup is too much. I would have to say finding a new partner is part of that breakup cost. Indeed, I agree, Defender. Finding someone else that you can care about can be very difficult, but very important to find things that you love about someone else that aren't the same as the person you broke up with. So don't do a replacement of, you know, if you like the way they giggled, you're trying to find someone that you're going to like. They're giggles, right? Don't look for those specific traits. Look for things that is genuine to them, to that new person that you're looking for. Aligato Chichou. I will get an Urban Dictionary together on Discord. Okay, thanks brother. Kulio Chichou, la, la, la. Some of this talk has got me thinking maybe we can have a bit chute exclusive sex stream. Oh my god, we could. But I think I have to read Elder God's Dictionary first. Kulio definitely being sarcastic unless it's something you think you could stream on for a couple of hours. It depends. We could, I have friends that are sex therapists and stuff like that. So unfortunately one of them was actually, not last year, two years ago, they flew over from the other side of Canada here and they had a conference here, not a, well a workshop here, sex therapy and they did a whole bunch of sex therapy workshops and we'd sit down and talk about it and stuff like that. And she's a therapist and I mentioned to her that a couple of years ago when they were here, if she would be into doing a live stream discussion and she was, maybe we could do it online actually. Let that, let me think about that for a second, for a little bit of time, Kulio. I'll get in touch with them again. I'm going to talk to them for a few months and maybe suggest it and see if they would be open to doing a live stream discussion with her regarding sex therapy and she's an RMT massage therapist that specializes in releasing sexual energy. And I learned from her just sitting there talking. I haven't taken her workshop but it would be cool. And that I would be okay with loading on YouTube. YouTube is okay sharing certain things. They're just not okay with sharing thoughts, freedom of expression. They're not okay with free speech. All right. Okay, gang, I'm going to scroll down. I'm going down. Thank you very much, Elder Gough for taking care of business. Punisher Max. The thing is, last time we spoke, she was kissing me and telling me she loves me and that if it's meant to be, we will get back together. Oh, yet she's dating someone else. It makes no sense to me. Brother, keep your distance from her. She could be just a user. I don't know who she is. I don't want to, she could also be very confused herself. She might not know what she's doing. So she was confused herself. She wanted you. She didn't know. I personally would stay away from a toxic relationship like that. You don't need to put yourself through that, right? Or allow someone else to make you feel that way. G4F. So I just messaged my ex. It gnaws on me why she called weeks later. Well, because you didn't call her back for a month. She called you, but you didn't call her back after until a month later. You can't hold it against her, brother. Isn't that famous Dr. Ruth from Canada? I don't know. And I used to listen to the Dr. Ruth, not Dr. Ruth. I think so. The radio thing every now and then, the talk show she had way, way back in the day. Petite femme live. After the breakup, I realized after crying the logic of why heartbreak causes sadness. It's not love to the other person. It's the feeling of loss, of compensation, revenge. Telling my ex, I have a new guy, aka my sim, cured the heartbreak immediately. It was amazing. It made him jealous. It was my first relationship. Always your first relationship. Yeah, in general, I don't think it's a good... I wouldn't say I'm okay with making to make yourself feel better. You have to make other people feel bad. But sometimes that is the situation. Right? So, but it is your first relationship. So, that's understandable. Okay. But don't make it a habit of I was, oh, you were abused and yeah, lay it on. Right? But that is on you as well, by the way. If the relationship stayed long time and you justified staying with the person because you liked it that they cooked for you and whatnot. But yeah, if they didn't treat you well, you could do what you want. Exactly. Bipser. Sorry if my message are late, but I think getting hurt and dealing with it makes you stronger indeed. And there are three types of relationships that I see. Family, friendly and love. I think the most painful thing you can get hurt by is a relationship is about family. I told you about my biggest pain a long time ago that my father father do Alzheimer's. They're more, but I'll keep that one. Yeah. Bitser. Family, yes, but love can hurt as well. Friendship can hurt as well. I know people who, in my life, who were extremely distant with their family and they didn't really associate with their family and they considered their friends to be family more than anything. So, you know, the friendship crossed over to the realm of family. So it suits your definition as well, right? But, you know, there's a saying that says we don't choose family. We choose our friends. So families are the burdens that we come into this world with. We have to deal with that and all that jazz. And one other thing I would add in the types of relationships you have. I would also include work relationships. Work relationships are important because they're not friends. They could be friendly, but they're work related. You keep them at a distance. This is only about work. And that also could include relationships that you have that are specifically genre-based, right? Petit Femme. I put a lot of effort, being caring, karma to him. Okay. I hope my simp is rich and provide nothing about super attractive compared to my ex. So you're going with the opposite of your ex. That's okay. Go with extremes. Things are rarely completely one-sided. Things are rarely completely one-sided and usually they're not. Okay. Usually they're not. Oh, my father has revealed himself as a vaccine supporter. Oh, no. I need a replacement immediately. Well, if he gets the vaccine, you might need a replacement immediately, right? Hate to say it. Free as such, free as such, free as such. Bitstorm. Not massively keen on the language simp, to be honest, especially within Twitch context. I feel it just feels negative perception, stereotypes about female streamers and the value of their content. Yeah. For me, I still can't associate with, I'm associating simp with a subdom relationship. That's the way I'm associating to it. I don't know if that's true or not. But for those of you who've been here, you know, I associate words not exactly as their true definition. So maybe I'll have to explore this more. I don't know. It's not really something that is pulling me towards, towards it. Patricia Max. Okay, she showed. That is the best thing I could do to move on and forget about this person who hurt me. Yeah, and it's not about the hurt, because they can hurt you. It's about the lie, right? Like someone can hurt you unintentionally and it's painful, sure. But this person, I'm going to use a word here. Now, don't take it too hard, right? But this person played you. For me, I've had people in my life that have played me. Once I realize they've played me, they're done. Like they're done. And I make sure I let all my friends know that I'm done with them. Like they're garbage to me, right? So I don't know if that's your situation, but if someone's played you, gang, cut your ties with them. G4F. And take my advice with a grain of salt, of course, right? The reason I don't call back, the reason I didn't call back was to process the breakup and we kept getting into fights, not because I like to, but because she has BPD and narcissistic trait. We agreed not to talk anymore, so when she called, I was afraid of getting into a fight again. Our relationship was hectic, okay? But you didn't call back for a month, right? Now you're saying she hasn't called you back for a month, so you want to know why? Toot for tat, maybe? Toot for tat, maybe? It doesn't look like it's a good relationship. I don't know G4F, but you just want to know and know this G4F. Sometimes we won't know. We won't know why a person broke up. We won't know why a person did this. We won't know. You have to be okay with not knowing, especially if you're going to let go of that relationship. Don't let it eat you from the inside, okay? I do think simple is used as a pejorative, more so than sub. Simple equals simp. Sorry. Oh, that's what it is. Simple means simp. Oh, okay, now I'm getting a better definition of it. It's okay. Like in my day or the terminology I know, you call them bimbos, right? Mambo, bimbo. Girl, some people just dated someone, maybe a man or a woman, doesn't make a difference. I've had girlfriends that or friends that were female that dated men, not because of their intellectual dominance or their brains. They dated them because of their physical attraction and was just about the sex and have known guys that have done the same thing with girls. And I've had friends that were in the LGBTQ community, that they had partners that was just about the sex. It wasn't about intellectual stimulation, right? Coolio. Feel free to question the validity of COVID vaccines, rushed COVID vaccines, but please don't become a blanket accident. We'll leave that alone, because YouTube might kill us. Oh, I didn't mean the subdom. My simp literally treats me like a goddess. I am not sadistic. He likes the name. Oh, yeah, I was played by Max, okay? Yeah, being played by a partner, no. That should leave a really bad taste in your mouth, right? And if someone treats you phenomenal, more power to you, awesome, right? By the way, gang, thank you for the follows. Thank you for the subs. I'm sorry if I'm not noticing them. I'm trying to stay out with the chat. Paudre, have you heard of someone being a Karen? Yeah, yeah, yeah. I feel like these memes are meant to divide and conquer. Yeah, in large part. Yeah, Paudre, for sure. But you know, I know people that don't like the word Karen. Some people are okay with it. For me, like, I have friends that are their names are Karen, I'm pretty sure they're not okay with it. But I can see where they come from. But yeah, central power is trying to divide, right? Divide us. Don't let them. Don't let them. That's fine. I'm just pointing out I do think is used derogatory a lot at the time. For sure. If someone has proven to be maliciously manipulative, don't give them a second chance. Sociopaths are real. Sociopaths are real, right? All right, God slang, a man who foolishly overvalues and defers to a woman putting her on a pedestal quotation slang by extension, someone who foolishly overvalue someone else and the first to them putting them on a pedestal. Yeah, I don't know if that's to me, that's not derogatory. I think what do you call it, that could be a real relationship and could be something that both people need. And that's okay to me. 100%. Right. I agree with you 100% Chichot. Thanks for being real with me. For sure, Punisher Max. I wouldn't give them time a day to tell you the truth, right? Like I wouldn't. It hurts. Maybe I would want to, but I would really refrain from it. Padre, when you think of another person, a simple or a caring or whatever, you're dehumanizing them to a certain extent. I may be looking too much into it. That's just what I see though. But the kicker is, Petit Pham says he loves being called a simp, right? Who are we to say that word is derogatory to them? They love it. I'm okay with it. There's a spectrum of simps, Petit says. But then again, like Chichot says, got to call a spade a spade sometimes. Yeah. This is the money stream. Sex ed from Chichot. I don't know what sex ed is. Just talking about relationships, right? All of spayosexual, plural space sexuals, a person who is sexually attracted to a person's intellect or mind before appearance. Oh, is that what it's called? Spayosexual. Cool. And I think, I think that is 100% okay in there. It exists for real, right? It's a trait that you find extremely attractive, more power to you, right? Grow a forest. People cling to trendy rhetorics, simp, caring, lit, hella. Now you guys got to tell me what lit and hella are. What about a vampire? A new urban dictionary word for a maximum supporter? You can call me Karen. I shop at Costco and drive a minivan with my five hyperactive kids. Oh my god, you got five hyperactive kids. Petit Femme Live, more power to you. You found someone that treats you like a princess? Like a goddess? Hell yeah. Right on. I'm super happy for you now. Damn right. Fantastic. Make sure he gives you foot massages and rubs your shoulders and gives you like little temple rubs and brings you delicious food. I need a beer now. Oh my god. Yeah, he literally called me that as well. Princess. Sorcery works yo. I want a beer now. I'm five. Where is my liqueur, man? Squish. Simp can function as a nut premise insult, just like Vim, where you are skipping over the assumption that vaccines are bad or that deferring to women is bad. You assume everyone believes that and then use it as a yeah, any word can be used as an insult, right? I did a honey jar spell. You did a honey jar spell? I like honey. So 69 viewers is the nice number. Do we have 69 viewers? Right on. For an open discussion on relationship that is seriously focused on sex. What's your opinion of COVID vaccine? I wouldn't be lining up to take it. No, they'll have to knock down my door, hold me down, and it's going to take a few of them to hold me down to give me a jab. I would not be taking, putting any chemical in my body that is rushed to this degree. Why, Olive? Because I do not fear COVID. First of all, okay, it is a virus. If it is a virus or it could be a whatever. Okay, we're talking about COVID. We're trying to make sure we load this on YouTube. So, Olive, because I, okay, let me rephrase it, because the data is problematic, okay, I do not believe the information coming from centralized power, not all of it and not neither the information that is dismissing all of it, right? I'm on the sidelines. I want to, I'm a scientist, right? Or let's call me a scientist as I studied science and I did geophysics for 10 years, right? And I love data, right? I approached things from the realm of mathematics. For me, we haven't had enough time played out with whatever is going on, right, for us to make a decision of what it really is. There's a lot of unknowns and someone from a sort of a mathematics-scientific perspective, I think rushing into things creates way more damage than sitting there waiting to make sure we have enough data and information to figure out what's going on. And I don't trust the pharma companies. They're evil. Ah, Cheryl says, foot massage. Guys, without a shadow of a doubt, foot massages are the key to many, many things, many, many things. Temptress witch that controls them. Whoa, cool. Supreme leader of Twitch. Are you an anti-maxer? The massacre. Right now, they passed a mandate in my part. I went to the bakery and I didn't have a mask. And the night before, the government said everybody that walks into stores now, indoors, you have to have a mask. So I went in there to get my bread and the girl working behind the counter and she was wearing a mask. Everyone was wearing a mask. Said, oh, sir, you have to wear a mask. And she knew she knows me. And I was like, oh, because I hadn't heard about it, the mandate and the owner of the place knows me. It's the bakery that I've been, been going to for a lot of years, right? And he loves me, right? And I love him. It's very important relationship that you should have between yourself and your baker. You should love each other, right? Important relationship advice. He loves me. And he goes, turns to the girl and says, it's okay. It's okay. It's okay. Serve him, serve him. So I told her what I wanted. And I said, wow, I guess I can't go to my second place I needed to go. And he goes, I got a mask for you. He brought over a mask, gave me a mask. A good relationship can give you a lot. If people don't believe in vaccines, please don't cough on me at the shop. Yeah. Don't cough on anyone ever, right? Not a good idea. Yeah. You want a proper trial. Yeah, I get that. Yeah, I, I, this is, we need science doesn't work or based on economics, right? Politics, fear, science based on works out with time. You need, you need to run an experiment for a certain amount of time before you get the results. It's just the way it is, right? I've separate issues, but I'll just leave this, yeah, politics on politics. Unless you have a personal relationship with a global magazine. So if you have to show proof, okay, I'm going to skip, I'm going to skip all the COVID talk gang. Hi, this girl started messaging me a few, do, dig, digger, redo, dig, dig, digger, did you redo? Did you redo? Hi, this girl started messaging me a few weeks ago, but then randomly stopped replying. It's been three weeks. Should I message her again? Were you, has she replied to your messages? If she was messaging you and you were replying and then you guys stopped texting and you want to know what's going on, then yeah, message her. But if you've been texting her in that three weeks, constantly saying what's going on, stop texting her. She's not replying when you move on, right? I remember 1976 vaccine disaster in the 2009 dead children of Sweden from the, save that, okay. I'm skipping over these vaccine talks gang. Love your, love your baker. Where can I buy the T shirt? Squish. What is the ethnic background? ethnic Armenian, Iranian, Canadian, free as such, free as such, free as such. Grow for us. Interesting how new, okay, vaccine. I'm skipping, I'm skipping, I'm skipping. I'm all the way down to the bottom gang. I'm all the way down to the bottom. Did you redo as an instrument? I actually play it as a kid in school. Awesome. Awesome. Who's Assange? Oh, who's Assange? Julian Assange is a person, journalist and publisher, that created a website called WikiLeaks, where whistleblowers could release information and we, the public, could read that information and try to hold power accountable. Julian Assange is a person, is a publisher that created WikiLeaks for all of humanity so that we could have transparency of power so that we could hold power accountable. Right now, that power is trying to crucify and they are crucifying Julian Assange. I highly recommend that you look into who Julian Assange is and we do have a playlist on YouTube that goes over some of the documents that WikiLeaks has released to benefit humanity. Very important. Gicho, all this talk of baking. I need a cake. Oh, I need a cake too, Elder God. I need a cake too. WikiLeaks founder Kulio says, who currently wrongfully imprisoned in UK prison. I have been living under a rock. Petit femalive? Yes, it is your duty and because you seem like a seriously intelligent human being and I love you. It is your duty to find out who Julian Assange is and what is being done to him in our name. Very important. All this thoughts. Supreme Leader of Twitch. I've never been in a relationship and I'm 23, yet I feel like I don't really need a relationship right now. Why is there such a stigma in society against single people? Give me your answer. Oh wise bearded man. Supreme Leader of Twitch. Society sucks in that respect. For me, my longest relationship all the way into my mid, late 20s, my longest relationship to my late 20s or mid 20s was like month and a half. I don't agree with people saying, oh, you have to be with someone for a long period of time. Oh, how come you're not in a relationship? No, man. Single life rocks. Enjoy it. All those people that get hooked up with someone else for an extended period of time. I've met people and I knew people that in high school, they were in a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship for like three years in high school. Oh my God, what a stupid thing to do. During the time when they're going through puberty, when they should be trying to find themselves, figure out who they are, they're hooked together with someone else. Not only that, some of those people that came out of high school, they got married right away. Sure, sometimes it works. Really, sometimes your first love is your true love. Sometimes your childhood love is your true love. But man, I've known people that have never been single in their lives, right? Right out of high school, in a relationship for 20 years. And then after you see them 20 years later, they're like, they don't know who they are, what they are, what they're supposed to do, how to think. They just don't know. Gang, spend some time alone. Find out who you are. Okay, don't jump from one relationship to another relationship. I'm scrolling down, gang. Whoa, guy. Cheecho. Cheech. These puttos. Antifa terrorists don't understand economic hopes. Mira simple para antifas, estuvidos ese. Because you know, ese antifa got to prison and they join the gang and they become, this is what you posted last time. Ironical hopes, just like the polar bear and the Bee Gees. Bee Gees rocks, man. Don't trash the Bee Gees. I don't know what the Bee Gees are. Man, spend some time alone. Find out who you are. Indeed, I needed that advice 20 years ago. Yeah, a lot of people, man. I'm sorry it's coming to you a little late, Squish, but it's never too late, right? Supreme Leader of Twitch. I definitely agree with that. I enjoy being single as well because you have a lot of room to explore and learn. Indeed, like I've known people, right? Like there's a party going on and I'm going to the party. I turn to my friend, hey, you guys coming? Oh, I got to check with my girlfriend. What? Oh, I got to check with my boyfriend. What? This is a once in a lifetime party. Let's go. Let's go. They're like, oh, no, they're not up to it. They got a headache. They don't feel good. I'm like, oh man, get a life, right? I knew a couple in university. Check this out, right? So I go to their, when I was studying geophysics, this group that we're living together, right? So I was the sort of outsider. So I went to their house and this one guy there living there was a friend of mine. I knew everyone else from the same program we're in, right? So we talked and a couple of us, three of us, me and a couple of guys, we're about to go out and do something. We're going to go play pool or something like this, right? So one of the guys comes down and he had a girlfriend, right? And his girlfriend was there that we're living together in the house. And I said, hey, I forget his name. I'm not going to say his name. I said, hey, listen, we're going to go play pool. Won't you come and shoot pool with us? And he goes, no, no, no, no, I can't. I go, oh, how come? He goes, oh, I got to go do laundry. I go, oh, you got to go do laundry. He goes, yeah, yeah, me and my girlfriend are going to go do laundry. I go, well, why don't you come and play pool with us and let her go do laundry? She goes, no, no, we want to do it together. I go, oh, you like doing laundry? He goes, no, no, we both hate it. What? I go, you both hate doing laundry. So why don't you come with us? And she can do the laundry. You have a great time. She doesn't, you know, you both hate it. So she won't have a good time. But the next time she can go do something she loves and you can do the laundry. She goes, no, no, no, that's not the way we're going to do it. Okay. Walked away. Back up slowly, back up slowly. Right. Crazy. Forest. Yes, been alone now for 50 years and couldn't be happier. Right on, right on. Felix, do you play chess? I have in the past a lot. I actually brought it out. Me and my partner are going to start playing. I got a teacher really gone into it recently after watching the Queen Gambit. Oh, Queen's Gambit. Dude, three episodes away from finishing it. What a fantastic series. Really loving it. Fiction completely, but fantastic. And the moves, my partner watched it when I wasn't around, right? And then she's told me she watched it. I was like, oh, we're going to watch it together. She goes, I'll watch it again. It was that good. So when we were watching it, when they were doing certain moves, I was like, oh, she would ask me. She goes, oh, Chicho, do you know what they did? I go, yeah, yeah, yeah. I go, do you want me to explain to you what just happened? She goes, yeah, yeah, yeah. So I would pause the video, bring it back, and I will show the board. We'll show the board. And then I told her what was going on. She was like, oh, cool, cool. And she's super excited to play. So I'm going to teach her chess. Gambit on Netflix. And I found that I'm pretty good at it. And I'm having a lot of fun. Awesome Felix. Fantastic. Chess is fantastic. Chicho, you got to watch blood and blood out. Dude, I've seen it. I told you that yesterday. Orale, orale, orale. Keep it to barrio, I say. Keep it in the barrio, I say. How'd it go when BSM to a woman who was chewed and spat out by a child? Yeah, olive. I've never been in a relationship. Now I'm sort of in the beginnings of one. However, although I do like him, it's more platonic for me. He wants something more though. What do I do about that? Don't want to lose him as a friend. Just tell him, look, you're not ready to go there. You want to be friends and hang out. And you hope that's okay with him. Okay, olive, don't be forced into anything. Really, don't be forced into anything. Take your time. And petite fem life says it a little more harshly. Olive, don't open your legs, wait a while until you know them. Do a background check. Petite fem, I like you. I like you. Laundry together, GF4 says. Straight up, straight up. Not that buddy. I know a couple like that. It's a cult. No worries there. Keep it to the barrio. Okay, gang, I'm scrolling down. Sorry if I miss stuff. Oh, we're almost at the two hours. We got to call the stream for scooper. I really love this. But great conversation, gang. Great conversation. A good idea. What did olive say? Cheryl, for now, it's a maybe. He knows. I've told him. Awesome, olive. You know where it's at. Take your time. Go slow. Take your time. Go slow. In my time, we call this, uh, that's Elder God. I'm not going to say that word. But if I'm associated with a better terminology than that, God, I missed you all the, all this, but what you just said, man, that's the term I know. And I know, I know that term in Farsi as well, in Persian. In Persian, what you said, I'll tell you what, I can't say it. I won't say it. I won't say it. But I know it in two different languages. So now I have a really good definition of what a, what a simp is, but I don't associate it with that. Felix, about 10 minutes ago, my chest rating passed 1000. I've only been playing for a week, so I'm pretty happy about it. Awesome, Felix. Awesome. Gang, thank you for being here. Great stream, great conversation. What a fantastic way to start the day in my part of the world anyway. We will be doing a live stream on Wednesday on censorship and privacy. 10 p.m. PDT in my time, if you want to drop in to see what this is all about. Okay. Aside from that, I'm on Patreon, patreon.com, slash chico, CHYCHO. If you want to follow this work, if you want to know what this work is about, it's all layered on mathematics, you can check out Patreon. I don't put anything behind paywalls. Everything's creative comments, share and share alike. 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