 how much do you love your kids i said put a number on it and he said i can't i said is it important instead of courses it drives my life you know if you can't put a number on it it's not real which i think i've heard many many times there are gaps there are things there which you can't put down like this i mean if you saw this person around his kids you could see how much he loved them yeah you can express these things in words if it's a song or if it's a novel or if it's a play getting it down to that sort of business reports nugget type tweet context is so so hard and i think it does hold us back yeah we somehow feel that words and verbal communication are sort of predominant holding us back like what scratched the itch for you