 Jeff writes, been dating a man for a year. I've seen him making effort to grow, but he still doesn't fight fair sometimes, low emotional maturity. How long should I let this behavior continue? So I'm a big, great question, by the way, and it's not letting the behavior continue. I think what's important is to actually talk about your relationship at a much deeper level than the surface level. So what you could simply say is, I recognize that whenever we're in a disagreement with one another, you seem to take the position that you're right and I'm wrong. And I can certainly understand that why you would do that because it's very natural for human beings to operate from the premise that they're right. But isn't it possible that I might also be right as well? Isn't it possible that my point of view has value? So let's say your boyfriend's name is Tim. Say, Tim, is it possible that we can listen to each other when we have a disagreement and accept each other's point of view being true for each one of us? Can you accept my point of view being true for me? I'm not saying I'm right, I'm just saying can you accept that it feels true for me? And can we maybe come at a challenge or a difference from a place of how can we both win? How can we both win? Instead of how can I win? How can we both win? Because there's an old saying, I would rather be happy than right. I would rather be happy than right. So my invitation for everybody is to start leaning into a deeper, more authentic conversation with your partner and simply say, hey, just the way I laid out, is it okay if the next time we have a disagreement that you hear my side and acknowledge and validate that my side feels true for me? I'm not saying it's right, but I'm also not saying you're right. I'm just saying I will accept it being true for you. Can we both agree to do this? And see how he responds. Does he respond with guards up? Is he guarded? Or does he respond from an open heart? Because if a person cannot respond from an open heart, how much deeper an intimacy can that person go if they're always not going to appreciate your point of view and accept your point of view as being true for you? Does that help, Jennifer? I hope it does. All right, big thumbs up, great question. Thank you so much. All right. Oh, another super sticker. Thank you so much. I really appreciate that, Jenny or Janine. Janine, Jenny, oh God, I'm terrible with names. Please forgive me, everyone. I so screw this stuff up, but thank you so much. Big hugs to you. Okay, question. Is it really about being right or, okay. So let's go back to this idea of when we have disagreements. Oftentimes when each person is defending their point of view, there's this natural inclination. The ego wants to operate from the place I'm right and you're wrong. This is usually what happens. Not everyone, an emotionally mature person doesn't operate from that place. They express their point of view. They ask their partner to accept their point of view as being true for them. You listen to their point of view. You accept their point of view as being true for them. But most people operate from a very egoic place or a fear-based place. Either I'm right and you're wrong or I'm always wrong. That's the fear-based place. So I think that's why I said it that way. Is it always that way? Not always, but typically when there's contention in relationship, people go into their corners and they operate from a place of I'm right and you're wrong. And like I said, it's better to be happy than right. At least that's what someone taught me. Okay.