 What can I do for you? Okay, go ahead. It's me or the men that I'm dating but um They kind of make it seem like my attitude is like a bit difficult Okay, I'm not really sure if I have like an attitude problem, or I just have like low rents for vs. Oh No, I just turned 27 27 How tall are you five foot six dress size How much you wait the last time you wait yourself I'm definitely on a weight loss. Did you wait last time you wait yourself this morning? Yeah, it was this morning. I was 189 Look, man That's not a dress size eight. I'm an image consultant in real life Let's try that again dress size See, I'm not really sure so you like whatever my say I don't like I don't like people to just come out and make Up stuff your five foot house off. I mean your five foot house on right 190 pounds That's yeah, um, and I'm being honest, man um If me and are telling you you have an attitude first off, you don't you don't want to be reading the comment section That's not going to help because I'm having a conversation with you and um What do you mean when guys tell you you have an attitude problem or maybe you just have low tolerance What do you mean? No, they just make it seem like I really can't take a joke Or um, I just tend to have like not the best patients but basically they just make it seem like i'm the issue but Sometimes I just really feel like like I know I have things I need to work on but I just feel like Sometimes they're just like not man enough To handle you Yeah, like But the thing is like I know I have things to work on like I don't even work on my patience and Maybe my attitude a little bit who you live with I live alone I don't know why women feel like somebody has to put up with your edit Well, I don't know why ladies like women in general in particular. Why shouldn't anybody have to put up with your attitude? That's a good point. I'm seriously. I'm being dead honest. And what state do you live in? I'm in Kansas Kansas, um It's good to you know think highly of yourself But um, I'm going to ask you a hard question Do your attitudes match your looks? I think so Okay, what would you rank yourself skilled the month of 10? You can't use seven just right here It's natural right now. So I would say um an eight I'm being honest, yeah And when you're when you're made up, what would you put yourself? So you put yourself up there for Beyonce and kelly robin And yes, I mean, I know like beauty is not beauty is very beauty is very formulaic It's not that subjective. See people women who tend to have attitude problems tend to overvalue themselves That's why I went directly into something you can't lie about your height your weight your dress size your looks See those things are static And what you what you told me Is by five foot five one hundred ninety pounds. You're not hot enough to have an attitude And to rank yourself as eight or nine You can walk out into the world and nobody if if if somebody puts you in a line next to Beyonce and kelly robin age adjusted There's no way that they would say you all look like y'all match You can't you can't honestly believe that You nailed your head saying yes, you do or no, you don't I understand what you're asking. What do you think? I'm sorry. Can you repeat the question if I were able to Take Beyonce and kelly roland age adjusted and put you all Side by side People would not say you all look like you match They would say this one is better than that one that was better than this one and this one does not match But do you do you agree or disagree? Okay, kevin So like I know you want me to just answer the well, I want if you give yourself an eight nine or ten That's pretty beautiful or gorgeous If you're an eight, what is Beyonce? Beyonce is definitely very gorgeous. Like I obviously know Beyonce looks better than me, but Okay, I But what what is she though? Is she a nine or 10 12? What? She's a 10. She's a 10. You're an eight. Um Then let's see. Who can I use? What would k michelle be? Um, you said k michelle I would say like a seven or eight What would fantasia be fantasia in my opinion, I would say maybe like a six So you look better than fantasia and you are you look better than k michelle Yeah, I I think I do I mean kevin kevin you're asking me I I need Okay, but when I'm asking you to what I'm trying to understand is if you ever I'm asking if you have any humility an accurate Estimation of what is And you have proven even by whether you agree with my skills or not you ranked yourself Higher than k michelle and higher than fantasia You ranked yourself a shade below Beyonce And you are nowhere close to being You're not you're not hotter than any of those women And you damn sure your your figure Come on. We know that's needs work Why is all this important because if you actually people who actually are humble Don't have a lot of impatience or low tolerance of people but people who think they're more than they are I mean, you may be there's I don't know. Maybe you're a pure. I don't know a part of kansas you in But maybe you're hot for that party kansas I mean, I've definitely traveled. Uh, well then you should have a better estimation of yourself Barely only date black man. It has nothing to do with this dating black man Your question came in saying that you People told you that you have an attitude And I'm trying to understand. What is it based on great question? I honestly if I have to say what my Attitude is based on I would say my past and it's not an excuse, but I'm definitely still trying to No, no, no, no, no, no your attitude for being low tolerance of other people I think you're trying to give me to say because I'm not good looking enough You know what don't try to figure out what I'm trying to do to say if I want you to say something I'll ask the question I don't I'm not trying to get you to say anything other than what you really think I don't know why people I think you're trying to I think what is this? Oh, man, um Well, here's the net net of it. Um, your if your attitudes, um Give me your problems Then even the guys in Kansas will tell you give you problems Then you need to change something but Oftentimes when women or people have an overinflated estimation of themselves They tend to not have much tolerance for other people And based on what you told me you have an overinflated sense of yourself Ask you what makes you think that um your five foot five 190 pounds And you're cute, but you are nowhere close to being An eight That's not rude Okay, if you went out for an audition to be a model right I don't know if you've ever I don't know if you or anybody in the audience has ever done this But if you guys think what I'm saying is tough Go out to a cattle call Where they say we're looking for the prettiest girls in town And watch have you ever watched American Idol? And you know, have you ever seen some of these people on American Idol and you're like these people cannot sing But they but they got up there anyway But then there are people who didn't think they could sing and they could blow It's the same way it looks You get a bunch of women in anywhere and There are women who think too high not high enough But when you get in there with people who judge looks for a living They go through a very formulaic way of looking at things And if you think I'm tough Especially if you're going to do modeling work, they would say come on in okay strip down to your underwear And they will begin to this is wrong your hair is wrong You need that thing out of your nose or you got a pimple there or your elbows out Look at her toe. No, that's not work A lot of people can't handle it They could not handle being scrutinized from head to toe Just because When you're judging people's looks you have to be honest with what you see because it's going to be put before everybody else The thing is You may not be fit ready to listen to that level of honesty, but in the world It's not much different People are just polite Now imagine how somebody walking into American Idol or somebody who really thinks they're talented You can rap I can rap I can sing I can whatever you ever seen somebody jump up like they really had talent and you're like, oh my god They're no good, but you couldn't tell them shit That's how a lot of women are with their looks They really believe this shit until somebody sits down and say you are not talented You can't sing you can't dance. That's trash. That's garbage Because they have told themselves that there's something What happens with many women today why you feel like you're dating down is the world Western world has not given women an accurate estimation of yourselves. We've removed competition We've removed beauty standards We don't want to judge we got 350 pound women on the cover of cosmopolitan So it makes sense to me that ladies are having a problem estimating themselves And it's frustrating to a lot of women because if you think you're here then you want outcomes that are up here But if you're getting outcomes that are down here That means what oh, there's just something wrong with the market. No It's because you're down here. That's what tends to cause a lot of disconnect That's why I started right where I started if you're saying these are the issues you're having with men They're saying your dish of that it's because It tends to be with women because you think you're up here and because if you had respect for these guys You wouldn't talk to them that way pure or false So anybody in the comments think i'm just being harsh on me. No, there's always a reason Get this more become more realistic about who you are Not saying you're not saying you're an unattractive woman. I'm saying, you know Think you're right yourself. Hi Um And when you start estimating yourself easier, it's a hell of a lot easier for you to be Reasonable and patient with other people does that make sense? All right, have a good night Thank you Some of this stuff is not easy to hear man But i'm honest if anybody has ever Think simon cowl is tough on american idol You guys will not be you guys will not Do well going to hollywood or getting in front of an agent or they're like, oh, no