 What happens when you apologize to the narcissist? When you apologize to the narcissist They don't see you as being upright and upstanding They don't see you as being good or moral It doesn't make them admire or respect you They see your apology as a sign of weakness It causes them to lose more respect for you It makes them treat you even worse Because when you apologize to the narcissist You're just giving your power away to them and the narcissist will only use that power to abuse you They will only take advantage of it Whenever you give in to the narcissist They might appreciate it initially But then they will begin to treat you even worse They will have even less respect for you Which is why you cannot apologize to the narcissist Even if you did something wrong Stay in your frame Do not make excuses Just be honest about it and then if you want to You can try to make improvements in the future But you don't have to explain yourself Because if you do that You will only be digging yourself a hole You will be making the situation even more difficult Because when you apologize or try to explain yourself to the narcissist They will just see it as a sign of weakness And there's nothing they hate more than what they perceive to be weak people People who don't have a strength of character They may say that it's something they like or prefer But really they hate it Which is why you should never take a narcissist's advice Instead You should observe their behavior You should observe their actions You should observe what they do Because anything they say to you Is just a part of the manipulation Which is why you should watch what they do When you apologize They will just see it as a weakness They will just see it as something for them to exploit They might act as though they appreciate it But deep down they will resent you for it Because really They don't care if you're wrong or right They're only looking to see If you will stand your ground or not Because morally Narcissists don't care Narcissists lack morals and ethics That's something that only people with empathy will experience And it's not something that can be only reserved for whatever whoever they choose It affects every area of their lives If they have no empathy for you They have no empathy for anyone So morally The narcissist doesn't care if you're wrong or right They just want to see if you will collapse under pressure They want to see if you will give up your position to please them Which is something that you should never do When you are dealing with a narcissist Because it's a trap But when you stop apologizing to the narcissist They will start to treat you differently They may even have more respect for you Once you stop apologizing to them So many people who are with narcissists Are apologizing even when they're not wrong They apologize just for being alive Because narcissists will brainwash you into doing that If you let them There are enough people apologizing to the narcissist They are the victims in every situation that they encounter So stop apologizing to the narcissist Even if you did something wrong There are other ways to do that other than saying sorry Never apologize to the narcissist Because they will view it as a sign of weakness They will see it as something for them to exploit They will see it as you abandoning your reality In exchange for theirs Which is why you have to stop apologizing to the narcissist You have to stay in your frame And then you will demonstrate strength Then the narcissist will see That they can't pull you into their reality Which means that you will then be able To direct the course of events You will be able to steer the ship So that it goes in the direction that you prefer Rather than in a direction that is unfavorable for you Thank you for watching I hope this video resonates with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching inquiries You can email me at coaching at narksurvivor.uk Thank you for watching and I will talk to you soon