 Alright guys, the men's conference that will change the world. Man, really, really good to be here. This is actually one of the most interesting intros that I'm going to do because I've been involved in the scene of social dynamics, sexual dynamics and all that sort of dating lifestyle forever and worked with some of the best people and this next guy I haven't met but always heard about and heard about in amazing ways. I was talking to some guys privately about it but it's like the industry has such a doubting mentality and this dude over and over and over again whether it was clients or just videos that you would see would prove to be just such an upstanding guy. Now what's interesting about this he's actually going to talk to us about business, adventure, life and living a true lifestyle and so this is a true kind of parallel to the message that the 21 convention is sending. I'm happy to have him up here. It's Timothy Mark. Come on up man. Steal the show. Can't wait to see it. Thanks mate. Much appreciated. Cheers. It's a good little intro there. Thanks heaps. So guys, yeah, I'm running a little blog right now called freedombusinessblog.com and also used to, and that's all about building a little online business just with your laptop or whatever and living a life of freedom, fun and adventure and previously to that I was working for a company called Real Social Dynamics and still a little bit involved in that stuff. So hands up if you have seen some of that stuff, RSD or some of my stuff or whatever it is, yeah cool. So a few people in the audience. So a few nights ago I'm chilling out and went into all the new Bond film. I'm sending you a little skyfall and sitting there I'm like alright it got me thinking after, see I've been doing this or teaching like this personal men's growth movement type stuff for pretty much the last 10 years or so. So it got me thinking I was sitting there I'm like skyfall Bond. This is very, I was like guys in this community they're very much like mini James Bond. Now obviously though we're much more attractive and better dressed and more ripped than James Bond himself but it really did, it struck a chord with me. I'm sitting there I've got my little popcorn, I've got my little drink and you know he's pulling guns out, this fire, he's like falling off shit, getting back up. I was like this is very much like our little community here. And the reason why I feel like James Bond is very much related to this little community. It's one little thing that while watching his halfway through he might have got run over or something. And I'm thinking there's one little thing that's missing in most dudes lives. After 10 years of this after taking guys out showing them how to say hello to girls and after getting a bunch of guys together and showing them how to build an online business I was like there's one fundamental thing, one little tiny little thing that guys are generally missing in their lives and in normal society. And that one little thing and the one little thing that I kind of want to discuss and share and talk about today is a quest. And this is the body movement of a quest by the way quest alright. So every man on this planet I feel needs personally deep down his own personal quest. And hands up if you sort of feel like you know what your quest is all about. Alright stand up for a second. We'll get everyone standing up, we need a bit more vibe in the room, need a bit more excitement, need a bit more energy, everyone's like after lunch like I've eaten subway and I'm all lying down. So the body movement of a quest is and this is how it goes. The right foot goes forward first okay you might kick a chair or something that's okay. Right foot goes forward first and then the quest like there's a flex of the right bicep. And you've got to say quest like you mean it like from deep down right. So quest alright so we'll do it on three okay it's good. I know we're all eager here but we've got to get the quest thing right okay. You know James Bond that was not James Bond. Alright so on three we're all going to do our right foot plant. You can do it too that's alright I know you're a girl but it's okay. Right foot quest flex alright so on three one two three. Quest alright excellent good stuff give yourself a thought. Have a seat. So that's what we're going to be talking about today. Quests. And there's three key important areas of a quest. Three I guess distinct little things tool box if you will that you bring on your quest. So whether you're going out and you're picking up girls or whether you're creating a little online business or whatever it is that you're attempting to do and get better at men's personal growth all that sort of stuff. These three little tools will help you. So first little tool I want to talk about is boldness okay boldness entering with boldness okay it's just discovered this little principle reading Robert Greene's 48 Laws of Power hands up if you've read that. That book actually messed me up for a few days purely because it's like pretty dense I'm like wow do I have to be this power focused and power hungry and this is pretty much the only law that kind of stood out for me boldness and entering with boldness means in anything that you're doing be it business be it you know relationships or whatever it is it's your responsibility to be entering that with a certain sense of boldness now do you guys know what boldness feels like if you felt boldness before in your own life in certain things that you've been doing you might have been scared but you had to step up and do it yes or no yes okay yes or no okay excellent so boldness is the first step I mean a couple of weeks ago I did my back playing golf I found like now that I've created a little online business a lot of golf okay so I'm out playing golf and hurt my back and you'll meet actually on the golf course you'll meet a lot of like interesting business people and stuff like that they're all sort of plugged into the matrix though and you know they ask what do you do so what do you do with your days I'm like oh well a lot of golf going on a lot of hanging out with friends and stuff but anyway so playing golf hurt my back had to go see an osteopath so when in the osteopath and you know cute little reception desk girl some more here like oh geez cute little hello what's going on and I thought she was just the receptionist and she's like oh you can go through the room go through the room turns out sure enough hotty receptionist is actually the osteopath so she's walked in like oh this is alright and then so it's like take your shirt off please no problems alright and we're going back and forth a little bit of banter a little bit of just nothing talk like what do you do cool and then she proceeds to do some kind of weird stuff osteopath or a merge of like chiropractors and stuff like that so I had to sit there like under this pillow with my shirt off she's like now I'm going to come up behind you with my hands and like put my hands here I'm like okay some weird technique she's going to crack my back or what's going to happen puts her hands in and and then proceeds to like sit there I think she was like channeling in energies or something sits there for like what felt like 10 minutes of awkwardness so I'm like trying to crack jokes and she's like no sh you got to be quiet I'm like okay and it's super awkward and weird but anyway something happened with these energies I really like this girl so I'm like I've got to like ask her out or something I've got to do something here so talking around whatever and then I'm like okay so when do you need to see me next she's like oh I probably need to see you next Friday like we'll have out tomorrow she's like what I'm like we'll have out tomorrow we'll go for a drink tomorrow or something or I'm like you got a boyfriend don't you you know pre-emptying like I could see the shift so you're a boyfriend don't you she's like oh no but we're not really supposed to do this I'm like oh that's cool I'll get another osteo drink tomorrow she's like okay I guess we can do it on the sly alright so right to number down gives it to me off we go and we end up on date times last week actually but that whole thing I feel happened because I've trained myself to kind of enter with boldness and if any opportunity arises and of course I was like do I ask her out we just did the weird like energy thing like do I do that or do I just see her next week or whatever but the whole mindset shift of boldness definitely definitely helps and so that's a little relationship area that's a couple of weeks ago that one happened but let's take like I'm supposed to be an awesome pickup instructor man boldness thing for a second so one little story that I remember when I was over in Vegas I met up with like this or I had to I was coaching this like multi-millionaire guy like it's worth millions of dollars very what you would say alpha very like you know I'm the shit fuck you fuck everyone you know I'm the man right that sort of guy so I come into this thing and there's no way I can be like okay let's go talk to this girl now you know there's no way I can be like that with this guy you could just tell you could see the vibe it was just like this guy knows his shit and I'd been worded up it's a millionaire he's not going to take your shit so first thing I do no little pre-game seminar nothing alright I'm like straight to the club with you let's go he's like oh no one really speaks to me like that alright let's go and here I am I'm thinking inside I've got a voice saying you're going to get owned on this bootcamp this guy's going to just think you suck he's going to he's going to see right through you he's going to think like you're a fake and you suck right hands up if you ever felt the people are going to see right through me type thing yeah this is like the antidote to the bot the boldness right but chances are people don't even see it so