 Whoo What's going on you guys welcome to the single guy channel my name is Lloyd today We're gonna be talking about how to introduce yourself to a woman that you like Basically most guys when they introduce themselves they usually do it wrong Okay, like they usually come in with too high energy too low energy They don't convey the confidence that women are looking for an attractive man And so right off the bat the woman automatically discounts him as like an available suit or she puts him in the friend another dude That kind of category and she doesn't see him as a man So in this video what I'm gonna be talking about is I'm gonna be talking about them the things that guys usually get wrong When they introduce themselves so how to introduce yourself like a man that's gonna be the second part of it Okay, how to do this right? And then the final thing that I'm gonna be teaching you guys is how to introduce other people the right way to To convey that confidence Because women are definitely paying attention to how you introduce other people You know they show you how you behave they they want to see how you behave towards others because that's a good indication About how you're gonna behave towards them Okay, cool. So before I get into this you guys if you're wondering how to do this I have an eight week program coming out that's gonna be more affordable than the my weekly one-on-one coaching program So if you think you're gonna be a good fit put send me an email with the words team in it I can only take about a couple more guys in this So if you want to get in that I would recommend you email me very soon. Okay, cool So let's talk about the first few things that guys get wrong now Typically when guys come in they introduce themselves to a woman that they like that are coming too low energy. Hey, how's it going? I'm Lloyd Are they coming with too high? Hey, what's up girl? How's it going? Hey, you know like that's a little too much too Now it depends on the context too if you're going in to introduce yourself to a woman You kind of want to be somewhere in the middle But you want to be at a similar energy level that they are and I would pick slightly higher Okay, because you want to raise the energy up typically now if they're running around like whoo having a good time like okay, baby Maybe we don't want to up it too much But if you come if some girls are like dancing around and they're like high energy and you come in just hey How's it going? I'm Lloyd. Well, you're you're killing the vibe You're killing the party so they're probably not gonna want to talk to you as much Okay, so make sure you come in at their level maybe a little bit higher But if the energy is way too high maybe uh, they'd be not so high for that But you want to come in at a similar energy level The other thing that guys do too is they hesitate when they come in like I see this all the time You if you especially in an environment like like a high-volume churn party environment like a bar or club or Social event or something like that if you come in with to like you just start hesitating the girls It's literally just gonna turn to the to her friend and then walk away like that's what happens like 90% of the time if you come in Hey, how's it going? Okay, she's already left So what you want to do is you want to come in kind of like hey, how's it going? I'm Lloyd. Nice to meet you How's your night been? So basically you want to come in with a some authority some Love I would say relaxed authority meaning that you're coming in firm But you're not being like overbearing or aggressive So you kind of want to find that mixed in between and I'm gonna talk about how to find that Okay, the other thing that a lot of guys do too is they come in and they end things with like an upper inflection So they'll be like hey, how's it going? I'm Lloyd Ending up. Hey, how's it going? I'm Lloyd That's what you want to do you want to come in when with the tone being like you don't want to end up Anytime you end up that's permission seeking and she's gonna throw you into the friend You know boy, you know, I'm just another guy category not a man And the other thing that a lot of guys do too is finally it maybe they might talk with good tonality Maybe they might come in with the right energy, but they don't come in very Personably like they make the person feel like they don't care about them They'll just they won't give them eye contact. They'll kind of look to the side You want to make that person feel important anytime you make a person feel important They're gonna really like you remember that it's a huge motivational factor for why people do things So the right way to come in when you're introducing yourself is to come and make it personal dude Like sometimes I like depending on if I'm coming in with a handshake or a hug I typically like to do hugs, especially if it's you know I'm living here in Latin America and a lot of more people do the hugs here Or in you know really in any part of the world But if it's a more formal setting I might do do a handshake or something like that So let's say it's a handshake So I'll come in with the handshake and I'll like say hey, how's it going? I'm Lloyd nice to meet you I'll give good eye contact. I'll make sure the handshake is firm Not as firm as it would be for a man's or not as firm as it would like it wouldn't be the same as like a business meeting handshake I try and show a little bit more affection. I try and make it more Charismatic when I'm talking to a woman that I like at a party or something like that. I'll be like hey How's it going? I'm Lloyd nice to meet you. How you doing? You know, I'll make it a little softer than that show a little bit more affection Because business meetings and social events are slightly different Okay If it's a hug what I'll do is I'll make sure that I'll hold her like I'll be you know I'll show that I have strength But I'm not gonna hurt her So like I want her to feel when she gives me a hug or she shakes my hand that I'm very capable of holding her and keeping her Safe, okay You want it to feel warm relaxed and secure when a woman shaking hands with you because that's the man that she's looking For like a lot of times when a woman meets you She's deciding can this guy protect me does this guy have the confidence to do so and if you demonstrate with a handshake or a hug That's a great way to do it. Okay. So remember a good eye contact safe and secure When you're coming in with assertiveness, but not aggressiveness one thing that really helps this you guys is I would recommend that you hold it for Hold the eye contact hold the smile for just a little bit longer speak slower too many guys when they come in I find that they like hey, it's going on Lloyd doesn't sound secure. Hey, how's it going? I'm Lloyd Speak a little bit slower Don't try and rush through things and take your time with each individual person if you show that you've taken the time to meet them They're probably gonna like you a lot more now when it comes to introducing other people. Let's talk about that You don't want to do a lot of the stuff that I said before again So if I'm introducing my buddy over here, I'm not gonna be like or this could honestly be somebody that I just met I mean a lot of people when I'm out too I'm just like hey, here's my buddy or I completely ignore him. I don't even introduce him. What's that gonna tell her it tells her that I don't really care about the friends around me I don't really take the time to introduce them to other people if she becomes one of those people She's gonna be standing next to me and I'm gonna be ignoring her as well But if I take the time to introduce my buddy. Hey, here's my buddy max He's an awesome dude like he has this in common with you blah, blah, blah Like I've obviously taken the time to show her like that I like my friends that I'm leading them to introduce them to other people So I'm a guy of you know I'm not some pushover and I also care about the people around me, dude And if you're a person in my life, I'm gonna care a lot about you as well That gives her a lot of great information that makes her want to get to know you more that makes her want to like you Go home with you date you do whatever Okay, so introducing your other people is an extremely important thing something I do a lot when I'm out, okay, too Now I know a lot of you guys are watching this and thinking hey Lloyd It's great that you're teaching me how to introduce myself with confidence that at the end of the day I'm not a very confident person. How do I introduce myself with more confidence? Well, one of the biggest tips that I can give you for this is to master the conversation After introducing yourself if I introduce myself to someone I've done this thousands of times man Like however poorly it goes maybe our hands slip. Maybe the hug gets a little weird and we banged cheeks I've done this so many times that I can handle the conversation afterwards I can make a joke of it or and I can lead straight into getting to know them. Hey, how's it going? My name is Lloyd. Nice to meet you. How's your night been? Oh great. Awesome. Yeah We were just at that bar over there. Where you from me from the area, you know I can lead into it very easily get to know them So I have ultimate confidence when I walk up And if you're wondering how to master this conversational framework at the end I suggest you watch my five questions. I ask every single girl when I'm out Also, I recommend that you check out my how to talk to girls playlist and finally dude Like check out my new program that I'm coming out with we're going to spend a bunch of modules Covering the start to the finish once you even before you leave the house Introducing yourself having that man-to-woman connection keeping your interested and leading it into a direction where you're actually going to make some progress with this girl Okay, all that stuff is going to be covered All right, guys So that's how you introduce yourself to a woman that you like remember don't come in with too little like confidence Don't be hesitating. Don't be coming with a hundred percent. If you come with 98 or 99 percent authority It's still a failure. Okay coming with 100 percent. Thanks a lot you guys. Good luck out there