 It starts with a mindset from the very first date. And that mindset, this is what I invite everyone to pay attention to, is am I with a giver? Am I with a person who has good character in their lives? Now, we need to be able to financially take care of ourselves, not necessarily have to take care of everyone, but take care of ourselves. Do we have good character? What I mean to say is conflict resolution skills is one of the number one fundamental aspects of a healthy, happy, successful relationship is conflict resolution skills. This requires a level of emotional maturity, a level of relationship skills, a level of emotional IQ, EQ, emotional quotient.