 There is a state in which you have been put, which is the ego, which is the society you've grown up in, which has taught you to want to grab the best possible, wherever possible, give as little as possible and get as much as possible. That's the fundamental posture, which is why the whole system is under attack by the ego. You always have to give as little as possible and take as much as possible. But there is an entirely different way of living, which will relieve you instantly from all of that stuff. And that is to see that it is not about what you get, it is only about what you give.