Tell me why the narcissist doesn't see a future with you the narcissist will often pretend as though they see a future with youThey may even tell you that one day you're going to get married and have children together But that's only because they know that's what you want That's only because they know that will keep you around It doesn't mean they're about that for real Those could go by and you're still in the same place doing the same thing. Because they're not really serious about you. They avoid meeting your family. They never call you their boyfriend or girlfriend. They never invite you out with their friends. You rarely go out in public together. You don't spend birthdays or special occasions together. They avoid any serious conversations. Because they're just not serious about you…! Does everyone think you are technically serious? Mae'n gweithio draw chi'n rhoi byw, mae frany�wch ychydig yn iddyn nhw. Mae'n ddod i'ch wneud hynny i chi'n tyfu, ddod i'w ddechrau'r wych, gyda'r ddaf i rywbwch i'r cymhwyllt yn lwyddo, iawn yn ddiddorol, mae'n gweld i'n ei poppingu astud am oed. Mae'n gweld i'n gweld i'n gweld i'n gweld i'n gweld i'ch gweld i ddod. Cyd-d peechio'n gweld i'w gweld i'n gweld i'ch gweld i ddod, 5 i wych i chi, hi fod yn eich amlŷwch gan y sgllれi gyda'r sgllUD nm authority o'i wneud digon i gael gyda definiwn i hollwchol. 5 te是不是 hyn archifau'u gwneud chi'n gweithio hwn ydy'ch chi'n cael ei sylfa chi'n gweld i gael gael'u chyflwyntiau. 1. Ddi oes ei ddaw i'r ddweud o'n ei wneud i chi ochr. 2. Ddi oes ei ddweud y byddai chi'n gael ei tŵr i gael a chyflwyntiau. 3. Y cwmp y gwaith yma'n gwylltio chi'n gweithio i chi'n gweithio. Ac mae genna ddim yn gwybod a gydigon, esa翽au a'r athwymoon, alech y bydd yn mynd deddlu y bydd argyrchu. Os y cyfnod mae'r trafodaeth i'n gweld fwy Friedr Hynny, mae gynnwys yn gweithio defnyddio yn nhw'n'n meddwl. Ac wnaeth yr arddangos yn nhw'n gweithio yn y cwm yw'n siaradau. Mae gynnwys yn gweithio nhw'n gweithio ar y cwm yw. Ar tref posiwn nechwch ei foblu ddim, ar tref posiwn nechwch ei foblu chyflon. Mae gennym ni oedd eraill i'r byw, boi ddiwrnodd i chi'n gwybod, mae gennym ni, mae'r pwg o'r gweithugau, ac mae gennym ni bod nhw'n gwybod. Mae gennym ni'n mynd i chi ddefnyddio'n gwahanol yng nghyrch sy'n tuithio'n gwahanol ychydig ym mанаidd a os bydd yna fath o'r prifetog i ddechrau shares wedi g cirlonau, felly mae'r bwysig i ddod i gynnwch i gyd. Mae'r gwahanol e wedi gwybod ddim yn cyfynnwch ein defnydd. Mae'n gwneud o'i adrenylwyr, ddwy'r unig o gweithio, oedd y gallwch chi'n gweithio'n gwneud o'r llwythau. Ond ydych chi'n gweithio nid o'r ffrindiau. Mae'n dweud o'r byd yw o'i gwneudio, oedd y gallwch chi'n ddim i'r rhaglion gyda'r ffyrdd. A dyna gtodd y narhysau ond gallwch ei wneud o'i gydweithio. Fy gydrwydd yn ei wneud hyn yn ysgrifws, rwy'n gweithio'n gweithio. ph zmell yn deall arch Thankfully they know that at some point they were going to get bored of you and therefore карfiol need supply it needs constant attention and admiration more than what one person is capable of giving, so you could never be enough for them you would never of being able to start by the narcissist over a long period of time. it was inevitable that they were going to get bored and move on to someone else they have these ddweud o'r mhwyl sydd. Rwy'n dechrau yn ddweud. Nid oedd yn fyw iddyn nhw'n fydd yw'r byd. Rwy'n dweud i ddweud yw'r byd yn ymddangos i'r ysbryd, a'r byd yn ymddangos i'r ysbryd. Fy hwnnw'n ddweud i'r byd o fe wnaeth y bydd. Yn bod hynny'n ddweud i ddweud i'r byd y fydd yn ymddangos i'r byd. Yn ymddangos i'r byd yw'r byd yn ymddangos i'r byd. fel y gael y cael effeithio, Ile ni'n bwrdd yn ffordd ac yn bwrdd, ac mae'r bwrdd yn ffordd. Mae'r bwrdd yn ffordd a'u cyngor. Mae'n bwrdd yn ffordd i'r bwysig o'r newid yng Nghymru. Mae'r bwysig yma, fel y gweithio ar y ddoedd yn ffordd, a'r bwysig yma ar gyfer. Felly mae'n ceisio gyd. Felly yma gyd amser. a that is why they didn't see a future with you. They will try to morph into whatever they think you want to see, to try to keep you around, and they will try to assimilate into societies or cultures by seemingly participating in whatever is deemed to be appropriate, whatever is considered to be desired or expected. But they're not really about any of that. They may have no interest in marriage or having children, but they will pretend that they do, and some of them will even go that far, just to portray an image to the world. But deep down they know that's not who they really are. Deep down they know they're never going to have a future with anyone because they get bored very easily, and they need constant attention, but whoever they're with, it's only a matter of time until the supply loses its potency. Every supply has an expiry date. When you're with a narcissist, the clock is constantly ticking, and once your time runs out, it's over. Something else catches their eye, and they're on to the next one. First they want to be admired by you, but then they want to be admired by anyone but you. Because your supply loses its potency, they no longer care what you think of them. You become dull, boring, because they're used to you. They've learned you now. It's inevitable that this will only repeat itself. With everyone the narcissist meets, every supply has an expiry date. The narcissist gets bored very easily. No one person or thing can keep them entertained over a long period of time. It would be like eating pasta for lunch every day. It might taste delicious, but at some point you're going to get sick of it. At some point you're going to want to try something else, and it's the same thing with a narcissist. After they've tried you enough times, it's inevitable that they're going to want to try something else because they get bored easily. They have this insatiable need for constant attention and admiration, which one person could never fulfil, and that is why they could never see a future with you. Narcissists also assume that people think in the same way that they do. They think that if they could get bored of you so easily, then you could get bored of them. That's why they're so paranoid and hyper-vigilant. They assume that it's only a matter of time until you get bored and start looking for someone else because that's exactly how they feel. So even though they may not be bored of you just yet, they will still start seeking other sources of supply because they begin to see you as a lost cause. They begin to see it as though, even if they were capable of giving you their devotion, even if they were capable of giving you all their love, loyalty and enthusiasm, it would only be a matter of time until you go running off to someone else. And that's why they hold back. That's why they always had one foot in, one foot out because they never really know where to stand. They never really know what's going to happen. They just know that they don't want to be the one to get the short end of the stick. They don't want to be left in that humiliating position of you leaving them for someone else. So it's often just their idea of getting you before you get them because they believe that it's only a matter of time until you get bored and start looking for someone else. They're anticipating this to happen and their fragile egos cannot stand the thought of it. They connect this with the fact that narcissists get bored very easily and it should be no surprise that the narcissist doesn't see a future with you. They don't even see a future with themselves. They don't even know who they are. They never took the time to get to know themselves. They were too busy getting to know what they thought everyone wanted them to be because all that really matters to them as their supply, getting attention and admiration, even at the expense of love and connection. Their main objective is to feed the false self even if they lose everyone around them in the process. And while it may look like they've moved on to someone else, no one ever had the narcissist. You never had the narcissist. It was just your turn. There's no future of the narcissist because they know that no one would want a future with them. But they will stick around as long as you're willing to play pretend. But as soon as your actions begin to reflect back to them, how they really feel about themselves, they will drop you like a hot potato because they don't want to deal with reality. They don't want to deal with anything serious. That would involve them looking at themselves, making changes or improvements. Something that no narcissist is going to do. The only thing they'll work on is their false self because all they want is attention. All they want is to feel like they exist and there is no existence in the future. We are only existing right now. Thank you for watching. I hope this video has it with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. Click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future videos. Check out the new Narc Survivor website at www.narcsurvivor.co.uk where you can read my blog posts, book coaching sessions and join our support forum. If you are interested in it, my PayPal link is in the video description. 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