 causes of individual differences yes there are many causes of individual differences and that the way that people are behaving with each other in front of other people and they can show the different behavior at house they are showing different behavior and in public they are showing different behavior and sometimes you know we see a contradiction of the behavior in one person that he is very nice outside of the house he is very you know very bad attitude showing at house and people always complaint against his attitude that he is not nice at house and with family members so what is the reason behind basically the environment behind is the reason that house environment always the male person is feeling that it is very stressful because always the wife is demanding new things children are demanding something else and always they are demanding but they are not relaxing the person that who is coming to the house and they are not arrange making arrangements to make him please so that's why people and generally males they do not want to you know come to house for early early at early time but they want to just house to just to to get bed and to sleep and they don't want to just spend more time with the family because family is asking and asking and not you know giving rest to the person not giving the satisfaction that of being here at house so these are the reasons that attitude matters a lot and how why people are becoming aggressive because of the environment so this environment and they are showing negative attitude towards things what is attitude attitude actually the feeling about something so how can we promote positive feelings in our children that I am again and again you know revising this thing and telling you that people can make a positive attitude of their children when children feel secure they feel secure at house that parents are with them and whatever the problem they are facing parents will guide them parents will facilitate them if you are taunting them then children will not share with you and they will get the different personality so this is also a cause to bring change into the personality so when children are very much sure that parents will take care of them whatever they will share they parent children should not you know have the fear to share with you and don't taunt them and don't you know discourage your children you should develop the habit to ask them to tell you the story of the day then by you know coming to know the story of the day then you will come to know many things that child has done and by this way you will come to know the problems of the child as well so the parents think that it is just to provide food how are you how are you this time you will be with your children so the child you don't know what crisis is going on these days so it is a challenging environment so we should definitely do a good friendship with our children and a story of the day that mother or father should definitely ask father with his son 10 or 11 years old age in which he is going in teenage age should be very close and mother should be very close to her daughter this is the time with which the child is automatically changing in their personalities physically mentally emotionally socially so now you should be with them as a shadow not that you will tell them he will grow up he will learn by society will teach him time will teach him so I am giving you the same example that a plant that you can't stand to make so beautiful a plant that itself grows in it and there is a big difference so this is the responsibility of the parents that they are their children's personalities for them that environment their study habits their attitude to make their aptitude to give them full attention when their personalities are growing especially teenage time in which the children are very free they want they want a lot of sharing with their friends and at this time the opposite gender is very attractive these are normal things so parents should accept all these things and they should be very good friend of their children then children will be you know close to you to share with you everything or behavioral obviously when you have such a good relationship with family members then the behavior will also be positive then teacher friend peer group parents teacher me teaching method or language itself these are all those factors which bring a difference in the personality of the child and they change their personality so if we improve all these factors then that change will become positive