 Hey everyone, welcome back to the channel, this is Kelly from House of Virgo. Hope you guys are doing well. All right, um, let's just get right into your reading Virgo. Everything you need is in the description box below and be mindful. I'm here every night 10 30 p.m. Eastern Sunday through Thursday. So the messages may change. They may be the same. Just keep that in mind. It may not resonate with you. It might if it does just take what fits. Leave the rest. Okay. All right Virgo. Virgo sun, moon rising, or Venus. You've got the runner just flipped out right there out of the blue. Runner in a codependent relationship, fear of intimacy, listening to ego. So you got somebody here who's very codependent and is runs away as soon as the opportunity for closeness happens and this is a, this feels like someone who, this is like the, a pattern for this person. All right, let me see. Let's go on Virgo. Feels like a pattern. Okay. Hmm, but you've also got love calls. So someone expresses their love. You're getting a phone call or a message of love. Someone letting you know, thinking of you and letting you know, and then they run away. Okay, so this is a kind of an in and out energy. Maybe you are already experiencing this with someone. You could be experiencing this November through December. Somebody touching base or they're on the run or they're very busy and they're just calling to let you know that they're thinking of you. That kind of message going on here. Okay, golden mirror. So you're dealing with an arc, self-absorbed person, one-sided relationship, love bombing. Oh, see these messages, this is how the, this is how the readings sometimes go, Virgo. So you've got someone here who is giving you that intermittent reinforcement. Or will be. They reach out, express their love to you. A little bit of love bombing going on. It's all on their terms. And then if you try to call them, and then they're not available, they run away. Virgo. Seriously, if you guys have something like this going on, don't gaslight yourselves. Just keep it moving. Just keep it moving with someone like this. Okay. True love showed up here in the reverse. And so this is not your true love. Okay. It might be a fun romantic kind of thing, but it's fleeting. I feel like it's fleeting with this person. And then separation in the reverse, which means that they come back. So yeah, Virgo, you've got somebody showing up here, coming back in, reaching out to you. If they don't have a way to get ahold of you, they find a way to get ahold of you to let you know they miss you. Um, you know, they're expressing that they love you. They want to talk to you. They just wanted to hear your voice. They were hoping, they're hoping for a reply back. Okay. Um, all right, let's get into this. Let's see what's going on. Because I feel like for a lot of you, if you already have, like I said, some situation like this, or you experience this, you know, I understand sometimes people get busy, but you know, there's really, I mean, you sit on the toilet and you know, you're in there for like 15 minutes. It doesn't take long to reach out and talk to somebody. I mean, you don't have to talk to them while you're on the toilet, but you know, it's just to give a text and then say, Hey, I'm busy, but I'll call you in like 10 minutes or something. I feel like, you know, you've got somebody here that is either going to leave some kind of message or voicemail. If you don't answer the phone and it's going to be, you know, all these hearts, all this love energy, are you their true love? I mean, I feel like somebody here is like, they're just very self-absorbed. If it's convenient to them to reach out to you, then that's what they'll do. And then they'll be separation and then they come in and out of your life. Okay, so watch out for the holidays, especially if you've got somebody doing this because it's, you know, unless it, so the other thing is if you have feelings for someone and, but they just view you as a friend, then technically that's on you to, you know, kind of take a look and say, okay, maybe I'm over-invested and this person's not. And so maybe they're not doing anything wrong. They're just being a friend. But if somebody is love-bombing you and giving you some kind of, I don't know, trying to, like they're an opportunist, they're trying to sell you something, this person has an extreme fear of intimacy, very codependent, can't let you go. They run away, but then they always come back to try to control the situation. Okay, I hope that this is not your story, but it's, must be for somebody. Okay, hold on a sec. Let me breathe because I feel like, hopefully I'm not doing the Darth Vader breath thing here in my microphone, but I just feel like a caution is needed. Okay, let's take a look. Okay, yeah, Wheel of Fortune in the reverse. So this person, like they come in and they disrupt. I see somebody coming in here and disrupting. For some of you, might be an unwelcome change, and then they, but then there's delays and setbacks from this person. So that Wheel of Fortune in the reverse is like not making changes. This person is like stuck on you. Okay, they're stuck, but they're stuck to the point where they make you stuck. You might have felt that way or you may feel that way going forward in the next 30 days. Okay, yeah. Oh my goodness, Page of Swords in the reverse. So this person is stalking, stalking, spying. They come in with some kind of message or, you know, if you answer, or you talk to them and you ask them like why you haven't heard from them, they'll give you some kind of like, oh, I had some bad luck or some stuff was going on out of my control, external forces, unwelcome chains. I've had some delays and my life's been in upheaval and I've had a bad run of money, you know, and I haven't, you know, I haven't reached out, you know, because I've had all this other stuff going on. It's someone who comes across as like, they're very defensive. They don't really come in and tell you exactly what the truth is. They kind of are like a player. Is this person like a narcissist? I mean, we could just say they're self-absorbed and they come in showing up here as like a bit of a player with the Page of Swords reversed. So it's weakness. If this person is weak, they're weak for you, they can't stop, they can't seem to, I don't feel like this person's ever really experienced true love. I just don't, you know, but yet they can't keep away, okay, because the separation is in reverse. So there may be time apart and then they come back in. Then let me say, okay, the devil in reverse, wow, are a bit of imbalance, self-indulgence, excess, lack of perspective, antagonism, and a bit of recklessness. Okay, this person has a very reckless heart. That's what I feel like the energy is with them. They're very reckless in their heart, you know, they're restless as well. It just feels like they can't, it just feels like very unstable with the devil in the reverse, you know, and generally, you know, the devil in reverse can be a good sign because it's like recovery or leaving an abusive situation. But it's also all about having fun, sexy times together. So, you know, where is the commitment from this person? And I feel like some of you ask yourselves that or you will be like, where is the commitment? What is this just reaching out? I feel like this reading is more geared for some of you who were led to believe that a relationship was going to come out of something here. But it feels like somebody, whoever this person is, we have Capricorn, we have Gemini, whoever this person is, Taurus, Leo, Aquarius, Scorpio, whoever they are, they can't seem to commit. They're committed to self. But they're also an opportunist is how I feel. They might be coming in to ask you or reaching out to ask you for money too. So be careful with that. Okay, the star in the reverse, this person is not shining bright in their life at this time. They're full of despair. Maybe they had somebody else that you might have known about and they're coming back in to get their, to dip their, you know, their toe in the water to get a little, to get re-energized. But I feel like this person is bored in their life at this time. They have nothing else going on. They have no inspiration. This person, I'm just hearing, they just said, they have no purpose. They're not on their purpose, which is why they can't commit in a relationship because they're restless and reckless. They don't know. I just feel like when someone's on their purpose in life, it's not a problem to commit to a relationship when they have their goals and they're trying to achieve. People who don't have a purpose, don't know what they're calling is. People who don't know what they're striving for in their lives will seek out validation or some type of purpose in others. You know what I mean? They seek out a purpose in others. I feel like this person, maybe at one point, was on their purpose and they knew what they were doing and they kind of like had a lot of hope and very creative and inspired. They were content at one point in their lives, but not now. No, that's star in the reverse. That's like a falling star. Depression, some illness, maybe a sense of arrogance, maybe even impotence. They feel like they're being ignored, maybe by you and that's why they're reaching out or trying to reach out to you in this time period. That's Aquarius energy there. Let me see. I mean, all these cards, they're all in reverse. Nine of Wands in the reverse. Sagittarius. No, I'm sorry, Leo. Well, it could be such, but it's a Leo card. So this person's defense lifts when it comes to you. I mean, it's like, it's just like should or could off the pod already. I don't know if I'm saying that to you or if I'm saying it to this person, whoever they are. I just feel like they can't let go of the attachment. They try to let go and then they'll be reaching out to you again. And when that nine of wands is in the reverse again, that feels like a bit of a player, you know, they try to end something because the nines are about completion and they come in and start over again. So I feel like this person, if you're resonating with this, I feel like this is cycle is just coming into repeat from this, from whoever they are, whoever your person is or whoever this person is showing up in your life. If you don't know them or haven't met them yet, this is a pattern for this person. And you got to be very careful that you don't get your, be too open and vulnerable with anybody right away and that you don't lay down and create a soul tie because I feel like you might get really hurt. I don't feel like it's connected to the reading that the singles that I did yesterday. For a lot of you, this is somebody you already know. Okay, so yeah, this person, they're, they've been in isolation and now they're coming out of isolation. It might be a holiday thing, maybe around for in the US Thanksgiving, maybe, um, or for others November 24th or sometime going into the Christmas holiday. There's just this comeback around reaching out kind of thing. But this, I don't see change with this person. I see a very similar pattern in a cycle just repeating. All right, give me a clarifying card for this devil. I feel like they're coming in to satisfy self with that self indulgence, but with that devil in the reverse. Okay, maybe it's a friends with benefit. Okay. The emperor in the reverse. So there you go. I mean, the reading is just going the way it's going. This person lacks discipline. They're very stubborn, maybe an absentee parent, paternity issues, abusive power, nasty ego type of a person, big nasty ego. They poor planner. They don't make future plans or they do and then they don't follow through just very immature. You know, this feels to me like it's like a grown girl or a grown boy kind of situation, not a grown woman, not a grown man. It's a grown girl or a grown boy. So this person might be older or be ended to be like up there in age as an adult, but they act like they're still, I don't know, very, very young, temporary, very like temperamental. If they don't get their way, you know, it's just Merry Christmas. There you go. Five of sorts. So abuse. Okay, this person, a little bit of an intimidate, some kind of aggressive disorder. You know, I don't know if you will experience this or you experience it with this person. If you know who they are, again, with the Aquarius, some Aries here, there's just this, come in, get what they need, get what they want and then do the shutout and shut you out. And then they and then they shut other people out and maybe reach out to you. And so all right, let me just ask, okay, because this person's coming in tremendously unstable. Let me ask if there's going to be at any time, any shift or change in the future with this person, is anything going to cause? Well, let's ask, how about this? Will this person ever be ready for a true loving relationship? Okay, wow, the moon in reverse, I do feel like, yeah, at some point, releasing fear unveiling their secrets, because I feel like there's a lot of secretiveness and they're very possessive and stalking and spying, subsiding anxiety, they're fierce. Yes. And what is going to lead this person to that? Huh, you, there's something about, you see, you, you're very stable Virgo, King of Pentacles energy, you are very stable. And I feel like when this person is around you, they can't get anything over on you. Definitely not. You know, you're mature, you're a grown man, grown woman, successful, wealthy, I feel like this person feels like you're out of their league. But they keep trying anyway, but then they fail because they know they can never live up to like, neutral baseline. You know what I mean? I don't know that some of you might be like, exceptionally wealthy, or exceptionally have high status and others, you just might be, you know, just good. You know, but I feel like this person, thank you. You're like an, you're like an empire, you're like some kind of a conqueror Virgo. I mean, you're not a risk taker in the sense like, if it doesn't make sense to you, or if it doesn't show good results to you, you won't take the risk. It wouldn't be worth it, because then that would just be stupidity. I think for you and this person, they see this about you. I was just thinking that is so crazy. I was just thinking of the full card in the reverse when I was saying that recklessness, fearlessness, risk, dumb risk, the full in the reverse is always someone who is like takes unprepared risks, you know, like a risk to take would be like if you're going to invest in stocks, you watch it for a while, you see how it does, you take your time. Yes, it's going to be a risk. You could invest and then something else could happen that you can't see. And then it all falls apart. But an un, a careless risk is where you just like you're not even being accountable. You're not even looking. You just drop in dimes here and there. You know, so I feel like this person, this is how they live their life. And compared to you, you know, you, you have your, your material things you have, maybe you have investments or you have money saved up or you have nice things, quality things, you maybe have, you make a good home, you know, there's stability around you. And this person is all over the map, all over the map, careless, apathetic, unprepared, and mostly absent, not present of mind. So yeah, I, so the question I was asking, are they ever going to be ready for relationship? I think that at some point, yes, but I wouldn't sit by that phone and wait for that love call or go, you have got to keep it moving. You know, and if somebody's coming in here, that's, you know, you're very attracted to, and you get along with, like this is someone where they come in and there's chemistry that's like really off the charts. But chemistry is not all there is to a relationship. There has to be that love feeling. And there also has to be compatibility. You know, we can have chemistry with, you know, the grocer. And they, but the grocer could be married and you could be too. And so therefore you're not compatible. You know what I mean? Like, you have to think about not just the chemistry, not just the feelings and the attraction, but the compatibility. Are you compatible? Are there obstacles? Can they be overcome? And if not, if you might have to say to somebody, listen, we're not compatible. It's not about the love. It's not about the chemistry. Yeah, that's there. But this can't work because we're not compatible. Why aren't we compatible? Because you can't, you can't sit still and be present here. You know, and that's the, that's the conversation I feel like if you're going to have any kind of conversation with someone, that's what you have to say to somebody. You know, because if not, you'll get stuck on that chemistry thing, and that soul tie, and that is a dangerous place, you're going to lose time with something like that or a person like that who comes in and then runs away. Yeah, it's like you got to put an end to this here, Virgo. So I feel like if you did say to this person, like without anger, but just gave, just dropped a truth bomb, I mean, they're going to come in and drop a love bomb. And you, if you're going to pick up that phone or respond to this person in any way, however they reach out to you, you need to drop a truth bomb. But like, you know, consider it one, no revenge seeking, nothing like that. But you do it for yourself. And maybe even some of you need to help them to set you free, because I don't feel like this person can set themselves free from you. However, you dropping that truth bomb on this person when you come in with your stability and your articulation and, and, you know, you're very aware, Virgos are very self aware and, but they gaslight themselves because their emotions get the best of them at times because Virgos feel things very deeply and don't often share. And then that kind of energy gets stuck within them. And if they don't release that, then it actually like gets behind the wheel and starts driving the love car for Virgos. And then, you know, but a lot of the time Virgo will just have like a, well, they'll hit the brakes and say, wait a minute, getting out of control here. So what will this person do? Yeah. I mean, look, I'm not trying to give you false hope. Can people change? Yes. Will this person make changes? Yes. But you got to let them know you got to call this person out on childish behavior, behavior, childish or childlike behavior. You, you have to. This just, they're giving me this image of like child coming home from school and then going outside to play and then running back in the house and then running back out and running back in and running back out. And then, you know, the parents like, you know, stay in or stay out what you keep coming in and out of the house and you're dragging mud all over the place, like stay in or stay out, pick a lane. And I feel like some of you got to say that and you telling this person is going to cause them to have some kind of transformation because, you know what? Children are not self aware and they don't, often I don't feel like this person is even aware of what they're doing. And even if they're only being a friend, but if they're leading you on or making you think that there's going to be more, then you got to call them out. Okay. If they're unable to fix themselves, you cannot fix them because this is not your child. Okay. So Scorpio Virgo here, I feel, did I say Pisces? If not, here you go. And also Taurus. And I did say Taurus. So I feel like this person is going to make a change definitely. And it's going to be really, they just said the 13th month, there's no such thing. What do you mean? Oh, the 13th month. I think some, I think I have like a jokester spirit guide here because I just heard it clearly now. When are they going to change? Yeah, the 13th month. It's like, okay, well, when cows fly or when pigs fly. Okay. So I don't know. I don't know. I feel like there's, there's a spirit guide with me who's like, don't, don't hold your breath. I feel like that's the message here. Yes, they're going to make those changes, but don't hold your breath. I do see this person, that's what I was seeing. They have a lack of foresight, three of ones in the reverse, a lack of foresight and a lack of planning. They come back or they, they're returning, moving home or they're returning from travels when they make those changes. I don't know what that means. Okay. Well, and then Queen of Pentacles again, look, the only court cards here are the King of Pentacles and the Queen of Pentacles. Virgo, you're like bookending this person. I feel like it starts and stops with you what the situation here, what's going on here. Let me take a look a little bit more at your energy, how you're going to be, what you're going to do. I mean, I was asking if they were going to change and how that was going to happen and it'll be because of you, but what is going to be Virgo's, what actions or deeds or what's Virgo going to do? Oh gosh. Okay. You've got the Knight of Cups. Yeah. Virgo, I think your energy is basically going to be this person. Listen, I have affection for you, but I don't have affection for that lying, cheating, running away behavior. So I think you're just going to tell them, listen, you keep making this decision to leave and then coming back, you got to choose a lane. And if you can't choose it, I'm going to choose it for you. If you haven't done that already, okay. And you might do this going forward. Now we have the King of Cups here, Cancer Scorpio Pisces. Man, Aquarius keeps showing up a lot. Heavy Aquarius. I don't know if there's Aquarius somewhere in this person's chart, but I do feel like for you, it's also going to come down to like, listen, if you don't propose or like you saying to this person, if you don't propose, if you don't make this offer, the offer that's take the action that I need you to take, I'm leaving. That's what that's seven of swords. I'm making a break for it. I'm out. Yeah. So you guys might actually experience this with someone going forward up until, you know, the, from now until the 14th of December. And um, whether you know this person or you're already dealing with them, like you talk to them every day or there's an in and out energy or you just meet this person coming up, I think for you, it's about like, you're not taking less than you deserve, right? What you, because I feel like you need to get your needs met just like everybody else. Everybody's out here in life trying to get their needs met. Everybody is out here in life trying to get their needs met. We don't go through life, not trying to get our needs met. We do, right? And everybody's trying everyone. It's the way it goes. So you have every right to ask for your needs to be met. I mean, listen, Virgo, you go to the supermarket, you're trying to get your needs met in the grocery aisle and you're like looking at all the macaroni and cheese and you just like, I don't want that. I don't want that. All right, I'll take that. That'll work. That's how you kind of have to be here in this relationship with this person. You know, yes, I love macaroni and cheese, but not any mac and cheese will do. It's got to be specific. It has to be where I'm going to be satisfied. Do you know what I mean? So I feel like, will this person make those changes? Yeah, but I don't really feel like they are even fully aware that they're doing this or maybe even how you feel. They might, I feel like this person does have love for you, but their fear of intimacy keeps them from moving forward because, and I'm not making kudo or kudo, I'm not making concessions for this person, but I feel like they aren't sure if you really love them or won't be or they can't detect it, which is a really weird word. Why are they saying detect it? They might be on the spectrum. It might be difficult for them just to detect if the feeling or the emotion they might have. Okay, there's a sign right there. They might have like some, they might not pick up on social cues. Okay. Wow. Okay, this reading is getting deep. So let me just take a couple more things here for you, Virgo, and see your advice here. Okay. So some of you need to grieve and let go of Scorpio, and some of you need to accept an offer from Capricorn. Okay. A lot of you need to just have your grief, continue in bereavement, mourning, experience the heartbreak. Don't focus too long on the loss, but feel the feelings of sadness, abandonment, or things like that that you, if you know, because I feel like, yeah, this person won't make the change. But like I said, when pigs fly, you know, I just get a sense that it won't be right away. I mean, you might plant a seed in this person's brain, but you, I don't, yeah, see the ace of cups here in the reverse. So it's going to be delayed. It's going to be, the new love start with someone here will be a bit delayed and you need to get back on your routine and get back into doing what it is that you do every day. Get back up on that horse and continue striving. I feel like that's your, that's your message here. As far as like your advice goes, yeah, I do feel like this person will make the changes, but nothing's going to happen. And you have to nip it in the bud with this person. And you have to tell them, you know, if you have feelings for them and what you want from them, and if they're not able to move something or even just dating or have affection between you or even chivalry or, you know, take some kind of action with you that you're going to just walk away for good. Now, I know some of you, you've already done that with someone and this, this might be a new start here with somebody else, but I feel like this is more about you, like nipping things in the bud. Don't get, don't get your feelings, don't get too attached too quickly to anybody because you got to kind of find out what people are about. You know, everybody comes in with putting their best foot forward, they do the love bombing, they do trying to impress, you know, they're in their best clothes, they're on their best behavior. And then it's after you're dating for a while, how much time goes by and then it's like, Oh, some true color is shown here. That's why you got to like, you got to have an objective view of who you're getting involved with. If your feelings start, you know, clawing into this person before your head has even made the decision, that's why you guys are listening to the tower of card readings because you're trying to find out what's going on. But it's just, it's about getting realistic with yourself, you know, and calling a spade a spade and seeing something for what it is. Because some of you are just kind of caught up in your feels and that's okay. You know, what was done was done. You know, if this is a relationship that you've had in the past and somebody's reaching out again, listen, you have to be realistic with yourself here, Virgo. Okay. Okay. Deeply loving male. So King Cups. A win situation. Somebody here, I guess this person, like, like I said, they're a player. They do kind of, they might seek attention from others. They do a lot of flirting. They have a tendency to overindulge with others, party in a lot, that kind of thing. And it's a struggle. I feel like this person is very unsatisfied with what they've been coming across. It's just not satisfying for them. You know, when I was like 18, 17, my best friend, Steve, he's passed away. But he, gosh, back in the 80s, he was our local Bon Jovi. All the girls, all the girls. He was a singer in a band and all girls would flock to him. It was like, he had this magnetism. And we were best friends. And I remember sitting with him one time and I said to him, Steve, why did you, why did you get into all this? Like, why did you start this? He was like, I only got into music so I could pick up girls. Now, by this time, he was like in his early 20s. And he said to me, you know what? I'm sick of it. He goes, I'm absolute, I'm like, I'm sick of it. They're all fake. They're all chasing after me just because they think I'm Bon Jovi. And of course that's how he got, you know, he used that to get people to his shows to make his money and everything. But I remember him telling me such young, he's like, I'm sick of this lifestyle. And eventually he got married and had children you know, and he eventually kind of got out of that, you know, that entertainment life. But I feel like whoever this person is, that they were living their life as a player, it just feels to me like it's unsatisfying. Maybe they might be a lot old, they might be old now. It's just finally hitting them. But yeah, I just feel like this person is ready to start a new chapter in their life here, but it's not something for you to wait around for seriously. I mean, I do feel like this person wants to conform and settle down at some point. Yeah. But you know, Virgo, is that going to be with you? Or is that going to be with somebody else? I don't know. But if they, it seems like if they're going to continue living their life that way and just calling on you like you're a fan girl or fan boy, then I mean, you got to cut that off because you are a grown adult. You know what I mean? So this anger, no in situation in reverse Virgo, I feel like for you, no matter what happens, it's a win-win because if they get it together, I don't see them going towards anybody else. If everything is so great in their life, why are they still calling you? If they have another person in their life, why are they still reaching out to you? I mean, it certainly can't just be because you're available. If that things were so great for them, why did they keep reaching out to you? Did you ever ask yourself that question? Right? Because if it's great, you wouldn't be hearing from them ever again. And that's why I feel like this person comes in, they reach out, they do that love call, and then they run. Like there's some issues. So yeah, I do get a sense that at some point, they will connect with you. But Virgo, you might already move on or you might just decide now, you're not going to do this going forward. You know, if you've been dating someone for a short while, and they're doing this energy, and then they're coming back around the end of November into December, I feel like it's a win for you because if they straighten it out, then, yeah, then you can move forward. But if they don't straighten it out, you're free to find somebody else or be available for somebody else. Okay. Ghosts that are blocked in the reverse. So I feel like they're going to come and make a decision. They will. But you know, I don't want to say that you're going to be gone. I don't want to say that 100%. Because I know there's a percentage of you that are going to give them a chance to see if they come correct with their bloody stomp. And then there's others of you who are like, no, not waiting around for that. I have other options, you know, and are just like what's done is done, and you're going to move your life forward, you know, and that's good. That's very good for you. So it's individual. What you choose to do is what you're going to do. Although I do definitely feel like your energy is going to be like, you know, bloody stumps or keep it moving. Come in and meet the need that I'm requesting and that I need to have in order for this to be something or don't be friends. Don't want to be friends. Don't want to be friends. Okay, let me see what your message of love is. I mean, like this whole, oh, let's be friends thing is such a load of crap. That's someone's way of saying, it's just a way of saying, well, can I still do what I'm doing but call it something else? No, you can't get the F out and don't come back. Go do what you need to do and straighten your shit out. And then you can come back and we'll talk. All right, messages of love. Okay, stability. This relationship can stand the test of time. Sure can. Can anything change? Can anything be healed? Absolutely. Yeah, it can, it can, it can, but both have to want it. The compatibility has to be there, which means somebody has to grow up here. And for some of you burgers, it might even be you. I'm just saying, I'm not trying to call only the other personnel. Some of you lessons learned as well. Some of your growth is going to come in the form of putting your foot down and saying, listen, this is what needs to happen in order for this to work on my end, what I need from you. Listen, I'm going to say this and maybe I'm going to be the only one in this community of tower readers and spiritual who's going to say this, but love relationships, unless you have children should never be unconditional ever, ever love relations, romantic relationships are transactional. The unconditional part is where you're getting confused. You can have unconditional love for your children, your immediate family members, but even still you have to have boundaries with some, but you have to have boundaries period, but romantic relationships are, they're not unconditional. They're transactional. That's why we're getting our needs met. You do this for me. I do this for you. It's reciprocal. That's what it means. It's charitable. It's giving, but it's also receiving as well. I mean, there's some people who are like people pleasers and they give and give and give, but you can never give anything back to them. Giving is a form of love as well as a form of loving someone. And if someone is always giving but never receiving, then they're not participating in the relationship. And if someone is always taking but never giving, they're not participating in the relationship either. It's a, it's a beautiful dance. So I am, I'm saying that straight out and some people might disagree with me and that's fine. You can go to another channel, but I don't believe, you know, romantic relationships should be unconditional. I think that's extremely unhealthy. Okay. Finances, financial challenge could be affecting or will be affecting this connection. Okay. I'm not really sure what that means, but you might have a financial connection to this person. Okay. That could be an obstacle of why there's a lack of compatibility here and now. Your true love is already part of your life, Virgo. So you, for some of you, you might already know who this person is. You might be like, okay, yeah, I know who that person is, but things aren't working out. For others, they'll be showing up definitely, but I feel like you may already know them. Okay. And you already know the answer. You seek your intuition. So some of you are going to make a decision to, you know, put your foot down and give them one last try. Others, you've already done that. And now, you know, they might be resurfacing again around the holidays, because like I said, there's codependency. This person can't seem to give up. They don't want to lose you, but they're too fearful to get close. So they kind of keep you at a stalemate and no one can keep you out of stalemate unless you let them. So you're partially to blame because you, if you're recognizing that that's what you're in, then you have to be the one, they don't have to set you free. You have to set them free. They can't get free. And if it's not working out and they're not changing, you have to set them free. Okay. Let me see. I feel like I'm preaching. I'm not trying to preach interference. Okay. There might be a third party. This person might have a, like a spouse as well, but they are secretly longing for you. But you know what? That's what I was saying. If they're involved with someone, you know, why are they reaching out to you if it's so great? You know, they could just be lying. So you have to figure that out. You have to sort that out. Okay. Let me see. What is the Chinese sign for this person? Okay. Or you rooster, the dragon, year of the pig, year of the rabbit, year of the dog, year of the snake, year of the monkey, and year of the goat. Okay. All right. Let me see if I can get some names for you guys. And then I got to go watch this Eagles game and make sure I don't miss this. Okay. Names or whatever information spirit wants Virgo to know. Huh. Somebody's got like an orange and red tablecloth or curtains. Okay. All right. Now that I'm giving me, maybe somebody drives a red sports car. Somebody has a red sports car. They just said, okay. Oh, I'm seeing camping or a campfire. People sitting around a campfire as well. So Reggie Regina Eugene also. So okay, hold on. Okay. Somebody's got a really horrible headache. Oh, almost either someone has a headache right now and it's just so painful or my or had a migraine. I'm just feeling like pressure in my head, like a headache or migraine. And like somebody's either rubbing their head or someone's rubbing their own head right now. Okay. Somebody's born in 1975, September 1975. Now, Jessica. Oh, gosh, why is that song coming into my head now? I wish that I had Jesse's girl. I wish that I had Jesse's girl. Okay. Interesting how the star showed up twice in reverse. Okay. All right. Somebody is has a very dark skin and very dark hair, very dark skin and very dark hair. And then they're just giving me the name George or Georgia, something, some of the very dark skin and very dark hair that lives in Georgia or it's the name George or Georgia. Okay. All right. And somebody wears vans, vans, sneakers, vans, or Tom Hardy, Tom Hardy's. I just heard vans or Tom Hardy's. Somebody's in Arizona. Just heard Arizona. All right. Somebody has their hair up in a bun, hair up in a bun, light colored, light brown, maybe brown, hair up in a bun. Okay. Somebody's rolling a joint on a book, an open book, rolling a joint on an open book or reading about marijuana or CBD or something or studying something about it or business kind of thing. And that's weird. I just saw a timer that you plug into a wall, a timer that you plug into a wall or maybe like a kitchen timer. Okay. All right. Hold on. It's weird. I just said the eagles. So I'm picking up the eagles again. And an eagle in a dove. That's so strange. An eagle and a dove and a marshmallow on a stick. Just giving me a marshmallow on a stick. The Middle East. Someone's from the Middle East. Also, I'm going to do two more. Okay. Oh, somebody's like looking at their Christmas decorations, looking for their angel. If someone puts an angel on top of a tree, can't find their angel or they're looking at their angel or they find it. It's an angel, an angel topper on a Christmas tree. Okay. Oh, okay. And there's someone, two people who are going to have a baby within two years. There's a baby conception is going to happen or pregnancy. It's either going to be a conception now and or soon, not in two years, but within two years time, there's going to be a birth of a baby I'm hearing. And I feel like it's going to be a little boy. Okay, let me get a charm for you guys. Oh, okay, you have lipstick. And I just saw Saturn. Are we in the Saturn return? I don't remember. Okay, somebody likes if you wear lipstick. I mean, maybe some of you guys do. If you wear lipstick, and somebody likes pink lipstick, or likes your pink lipstick, if you wear pink lip or pink lip gloss or something along those lines, there's a dragon, and we also have a ship wheel, a ship's wheel, charter, maybe you're going on a ship or on a boat, chartering a trip on a ship, or you're at the at the helm, you're steering the wheel on a ship, you're steering the navigating through the emotional abyss of your life at this time, or somebody works on a ship or is in the Navy or somewhere at sea also. So this dragon, okay, I'm just hearing House of Dragon, maybe you're watching House of Dragons, or is that a show or some kind of show, but a dragon, I don't know where else you would see a dragon, except for maybe a show like that, but I'm just picking up a dragon. All right, you guys, I'm going to leave your reading there. That was a nice long 50 minutes. I hope that that was informative and helpful. And yeah, I will see you all back here tomorrow. Don't forget to click like before you leave on your way out. And also, you guys, never mind, if you want to get a personal reading, I'm sorry, there's a link in the description box below, and I'll see you all tomorrow. Okay, bye.