 Welcome to Psychic Medium, Tony G. I'm a psychic, a channel I've been for as long as I can remember, all the way back into my childhood. I've also authored four books, The Ever-Evolving Journey, and am about to publish my fifth book, Messages From Above. I have a radio show that airs every Wednesday evening, and I've had that show for three years. Simply put, you have questions, I have answers. The answers don't actually come from me. They come from above through me for you. Today's guest is somebody that I hold very dear to my heart. Nancy has come in today to ask questions for herself and for everybody listening as a whole. Hi, Nancy. How are you today? Tony, good. I'm really good. Thank you for having me here. This is so exciting. I'm so happy to have you here. So Nancy, you know a little bit about me, but I know you have questions. So let's get started. The first question I wanted to ask you was, are people chosen to have this gift that you have, or do you do anything to be able to have this gift that you have, or how do you get it? Or how did you get it? That's a really amazing question. For me personally, I've had it for as long as I can remember. There are parts of my childhood I don't remember, so I can't say during that time I had it. But I've never lost the gift. Now I am going to tell you, all of us are born with all of our gifts. Seeing, hearing, sensing, feeling, knowing. When you see a child and they don't want to go to somebody, that's because they can feel the energetic difference between them and that person. They can be just, yes it is, right? They can feel if that person is, I don't want to say a lower vibration, making them sound like they're a bad person, but if somebody's angry, a child can still feel that, especially toddlers. So many of my friends and my sister's friends, they've had children and one of my sister's friends, children said was talking to her mother and was saying, oh, grandma said such and such and such and such. Now the interesting part about that is that grandma has been passed since before this child was born. So children still have it and if they keep it, if they stay strong in it, they'll have it in a very powerful way throughout their whole existence on this plane. If they don't though, if people say to them things that are often said, no that's not real, be afraid, it could be something bad instead of something good, then it shuts down. Or if they have an experience where they see something that kind of freaks them out a little bit, then they shut it down really quickly. But I believe and it's my understanding, we are all privy to everything that this beautiful plane has to offer us. So some people just excel in certain things or certain gifts than others? Absolutely and some people close it down. Like that one, yeah. They close it down. Because they're afraid of it? Absolutely, they're afraid, they're taught it's not normal, they're taught it's not real, they're taught something evil could get in. That's huge. Yeah, oh my gosh, I can't tell you the number of people who don't wanna meditate. And meditation is the fastest way to raise your vibration and become one with all that is good or God. If you use the word God, if you use Buddha, that's okay too. I respect whatever you create or source. If you meditate, if you go into that place of silence, you are opening up your own God center so it can connect with the whole. And so many knowings will just flood into you in that moment, beautifully. If you quiet down and let it come in. Yeah, but you know, here's the beautiful thing that most people don't realize. It's always there waiting for you. It's like knocking on your, what we call the third eye, but really it's just knocking going, hello. We've all had that intuitive moment where we've known our child or our pet was in trouble where we've known we should go this way instead of that way and we go, oh, it was just an intuitive moment. I don't know how I knew that. That's your intuition, like really screaming at you, hey, do this, hey, do that. And if you tune into that more, if you trust it more, you'll really take off with it. That's huge, though, trust. It is, it is. So my second question is like when you have meetings and stuff like that and there's people that ask you for people that have passed on. Correct. And if they're okay. And what I believe is that when you pass on, you get closer to God. So I always had a, not a problem, but I always like, why would you think anything bad would be happening? So why do some people think when their family members or friends pass on something could be bad? Okay, so. When they're closer to God. So here's, this could be like, this answer could take like five hours, but I'm gonna break it down for you and really quickly explain, as we're growing up, and especially if you're brought up with religion, you are taught there is a hell and there is a devil. It's not true. There is no hell. There is no devil. Believe me, I have had three near-death experiences and during my last one, I was not always a good girl. I was not. I have done things that people would for sure say, you are going to hell. Well, guess what? I didn't. I didn't. Oh, look at you. I started to ascend. I absolutely started to ascend and I know for a fact from my personal experiences with near-death experiences and everything I've read about near-death experiences, everything I've heard about them, there is no hell. But people ask because they have been brought up to believe there is a hell and there is a devil and... Like certain religions do that. A certain religions, absolutely. And here's what I'll say. If you believe that in the Bible, then you have to believe this. It says that God is all-loving. Get ready, here it comes. All-forgiving. What part of all do you not fall under? Boom, boom. That's it. Mic drop. That's it. If God is, if you're to believe that, then we are all-forgiven and we do all go home. We do. But most people don't, they haven't had... Because of the way they were brought up. Right, and they haven't had a near-death experience. They don't know what happens when our spirit or our soul leaves the body. There's so much mystery around that. And they're so concerned because they don't know. But I see some loved ones, I hear some loved ones, I sense some of them, and they're all like, we're good. We're more concerned about you. You're the one who's struggling. We're good, we're happy. We're a piece because this little thing right here, this flesh. Human. Human, and I call it the flesh because the flesh is what brings us fear. We're so afraid something is going to happen to us. We could be hurt. To the flesh. Right, right, because the spirit can't be hurt. The spirit lives on and on. It goes back to the whole to become one with God or creator, source, Buddha. It goes back to become one with again. So we're terrified though that we're gonna lose this. We're gonna lose this life that we are currently incarnate in. Right? So the fear comes in, and as soon as the fear comes in, then it's fearful of everything. We forget that we are everlasting. Ever beings. Ever flowing and going and learning and growing. There is nothing that can yield that except for our fear. Except for our fear. Okay, so how do you get rid of that fear then? Well, first of all, fear is an illusion. So, and- You're so good, Tony. Hi, that's not me, that's them. They are so good. You guys are so good, you rock. And those are the guides, the channels, angels that come in and are giving these messages actually. The first thing to understand that the fear is an illusionary aspect that it does not really exist. You do not really have anything to be afraid of. Everything that you think is fearful, and I know that some of you are saying right now, I do have something to fear, something bad has happened. Well, guess what? That thing is never going to happen again. You are never going to experience that thing in that way again. And if something bad happened, you have to change your, something bad happened into, I've learned a beautiful lesson. I've learned an amazing lesson because this is a school. So thank you for having it come into my life. Exactly. And if I don't get it, it'll come back louder. Right, and if you wanted perfection, if you wanted that life that was pure perfection, where nothing went wrong, you would not have left home to come here. That was perfect, thank you. You are welcome, love. There is only one thing in this world. Can I see something, did you say it, change your voice? Yeah. There's only one thing in this world, and the only thing that truly exists is love. You come from love, you go back to love. You are love. Your purest essence, your truest being is that of love. Everything else is an illusion, an illusion that you've bought as real. To be in that space of love is to have what you call faith. That knowing that everything will always be okay. And the funny thing is, most of the time, throughout most of every day, everything is okay. But there's that one little thing that happened two months ago that makes you say, but it might not be. And instead of grasping onto everything that is okay every day, your mind reverts back to that one thing that went wrong. Because we're human? Because you're feared. You have fear in you. And you want to be cautioned to never get hurt again. Do people that have a lot of fear is because the way they were brought up? Yes and no. To have more fear than other people? Sometimes yes and no. It is the experiences that you experience and the things that you hear and see. So yes, of course, somebody who is brought up in a fearful being, here's a good one. I'm going out to play. Be careful, don't get hurt. I'm going to drive to California. Oh, be careful trucking. It's always that caution. Not like, oh, have a great trip, have fun. We always put in that caution of be careful, right? So that is ingrained in us. Even if you haven't experienced hurt, pain, or suffering in your childhood, there's always that caution of be careful. And we're taught that maybe people aren't honorable or loving or somebody's out to get something. And then we get into relationships of our own. And when we get into those relationships of our own, then maybe something goes wrong. It doesn't go perfect. And we end up ending those relationships, whether they be with friends or partners. And then we say, oh, what a failure. Why would you say that? You were with somebody for a certain period of time. Isn't that in itself a success? And maybe you were only supposed to be with that person for that long and learn those very valuable lessons. And the only lesson there is to learn is to love yourself regardless of what happens outside of you. Yeah, that's really funny. Is that sometimes when I'm gonna ask you questions like when on Sundays and when you would have classes, I didn't even have to ask you because what you would say already was just answered. Like that was one of my questions. So, yeah, it's amazing, isn't it? It's amazing. It's amazing. I just love them. I love this. I love them. So blessed. But I love you. Hashtag blessed. I love you too. Okay, so now this is about me. Good. Okay, really? Yeah, of course. So which way am I like, especially in relationships, what am I limiting? I'm limiting myself. And what is it that I'm limiting so I don't let anybody into my life? Did that make sense? Absolutely. So, dear one, you have a tremendous amount of fear. There is something you do not want to repeat again. There is a circumstance that happened that you want to never experience again. And rather than allow somebody in and get close to you and trust that that happened, you would rather say, I can be alone. I am safe like this. I am safe this way. But then your heart is lonely. And you're tortured because you want to be safe but you want to love. How can I love? How can I get rid of that fear? Just end up start loving myself. Absolutely. You have to know that first and foremost, when something happens, it's not to punish you. It is to help you understand all of this dynamics that can come into play, okay? Somebody coming in and if something happens during a relationship that it doesn't go perfectly or maybe the person isn't who you thought they would be or maybe they're not as stable as you would have hoped they would have been, then we take that on. Like it's our fault, we should have known that. And then we don't trust our choices in the future. And if you can let go of that and say, okay, I am now going to project because we create our life as we go, each and every day and every single way we create via our thoughts, whether they are of faith or fear, we are creating the existence that we live in. And I know that. Yes. And it's so hard to get out of it sometimes. Well, because we have these little mind, these little mind things that say. That we talk to ourselves. Right, we have so deeply programmed certain things like, oh my God, here's just one that I hear from a lot of women. And not to be insensitive, it's just a general statement that people make. He was crazy. I don't ever wanna end up with another crazy person again. But the more you think about the he was crazy, the more you're drawing crazy to you. So if you take that situation with that person and you say, okay, yes, this was one aspect of it, but these were the really good aspects that I liked. And you only focus on those good aspects. You are without a doubt going to bring in those good aspects then. So did you learn from that situation? If you learned, then you know. If you go to first grade, you don't have to repeat kindergarten. And once you make it to high school, they're not sending you back to third grade to learn the new crazy math that all the third graders have to learn now. Every parent with a third grader is saying amen right now. Kidding. So the main thing they want you to know is once you have learned a lesson and look at it as a lesson rather than something that happened to you, cause sweetie, nothing is happening to you. Everything is happening for you. Why? Because we're human. We forget that because it's so true what you just said. It's happening for us. Everything around us is happening for us. But we always pick out the negative that's in front of our face instead of all the positive. Cause we're human that we do that or what? It's just a trained way of being. If you look around in society, it is a trained, it's a programmed way of being. We have shows that come on during every commercial, they're showcasing the worst of the worst to get you to watch them. It's the shock syndrome of it. We have, everybody is always watching out or being cautious or being careful for what might go wrong. I was watching a show the other night and it was raining outside. Like the Bachelorette? I'm sorry? Like the Bachelorette? Well, never mind. I was watching a show the other night and it was raining outside, nothing bad. But every five minutes they came on and said, oh, storm watch, storm watch. I'm like, it's raining. It's simply raining. This doesn't require you to interrupt every five minutes and tell us where the rain is. We know where it is and we know where it isn't. You don't have to come on every five minutes and say, it's still raining. So that's the same thing, it's like alarm. It is, we are B, we are. So we do it to ourselves? Well, it's a lot of society. And there are many people who are now trying to turn this around and say, you know what? I'm going to go to the side of faith. I'm not going to watch or listen to these types of things anymore. I'm taking them out of my existence and my programming. I'm going to go into things that make me laugh or things that bring me joy. Cause I really don't watch the news that much anymore. Cause it makes me sad. And it's designed in a way to get ratings. It's kind of like alarm. Exactly, exactly. So now if you think about with a past relationship. But that relationship that you're talking about was probably like 20 years ago and I'm still caring it. Cause I had talked to you and he came through cause he just died. And so he had come through and apologized for what? You know, how I am with relationships. So why am I still caring it? Because you're afraid it could happen again. You don't want to go through it again. The apology doesn't take away the cell memory. The apology doesn't remove that from our programming. It's not what you go through in life. It's how you perceive it, look at it or understand it. So five people can go through the exact, I mean exact same thing. And each of them might have a completely different perception of it and survive it or thrive from it in a different way. Interesting, which is true. Which is true. Yes. What does God want me to know right now? You are loved. Okay. You are very loved. And that would be what God wants everyone to know. They are loved and you are not alone. Although you feel very alone, very often. And you feel like you've been kind of abandoned here. You are not. We are here, we are with you. We are helping you through each and every day. If you knew even in the bathroom you don't have as much privacy as you think you do. That's how much we are with you. We are kind. But how come I can't feel it? How come I can't hear it? Or because Tony, you know me because I wish I could. Why am I, why don't, why the, why don't I? Well, many of you do not feel or hear the guidance that we are continually giving unless it is of utmost emergency and we are yelling at you and then you finally hear turn left or do this or call so and so. And most of you in so many ways do not relax enough. Your mind is always going. And I will tell you personally, me personally, I used to ask question after question after question. I mean after question of God like, why this? What about war? What about this? What about that? What about this? And finally I heard shut up and let us answer because I was asking questions but I never zipped it and listened. Interesting. So so many of us don't take that time again to become quiet in our space and listen and understand. And it doesn't sound like somebody having a conversation the way we are. It's sometimes you sense or see something. Sometimes it's a vibration that comes through and then the words come out or the understanding is there. It's not like I hear voices in my head. No, it's not like that at all. Sometimes I will hear a word or a statement, right? But that is not, it's not like a constant dialogue back and forth, not at all. That was good. So we have about three minutes left. Did you have one more question? I don't. That's okay, that's okay. So one other thing that they want to say to you is I love them too. They know, they know. They want you to know that you are going to be, oh, this again? Okay, you are going to be relocating very soon, much sooner than you think. Get ready. It's okay if you even start packing some things now. It's going to be a very long process for you to go through this relocation process. There are going to be things that you are going to let go of and things that you are going to keep. It's best if you do not have to do this all in a mashed up timeframe. We want you to have the time to go through things so that you're comfortable with what you're letting go of and what you're keeping. This relocation process is going to be exhilarating for you. You are going to find your new location to be very exciting. Am I going to do it? But of course. Okay, thank you. But of course, but of course you are. Because I have a fear. Because relocating by myself isn't something that I would do. Right, so I have learned this new healing process and I am going to help you with this new healing process to help you release some of this fear, okay? We're going to do that later on this afternoon and it's going to be amazing for you to do. Nancy, I want to thank you so much for being on this show today. It's such a, I love the questions that you brought in. I think everybody has had these questions at one time or another and everybody struggles with past lessons. So thank you so very much. Thanks for having me, Tony. You know I love talking to you. Oh my gosh, I know. And I love talking with you too because you just, you have some of the greatest questions I ever get asked. You really, really do. So. And I want to thank you for watching Psychic Medium, Tony G today. I am so grateful to be invited into your home to help you and you with these questions. You can connect with me on YouTube, Twitter, Instagram, or you can go to my Facebook page, Tony, T-O-N-I-G, dot info. I look forward to being invited into your home again. Thanks and have a great day.