 But when you're autistic or when you have sensory differences, sometimes it's a lot of the time it can be quite hard to tune that stuff out and actually focus on someone that's speaking to you. You know, I also discovered that when I used a certain tone to my voice, it literally caused pain for my ex-husband. And he got special earbuds that were fitted just for his ears so that he wouldn't hear the things that were, you know, painful to him.