 When the narcissist realises that they are the narcissist When the narcissist realises who and what they really are When they believe and come to recognise the truth that they are the narcissist For this to happen there has to be an epiphany There has to be a moment of sudden realisation There has to be a moment where they become fully aware of something as a fact For this to take place they would have to recognise that their behaviours are narcissistic They would have to recognise that their behaviours are extremely self-centred with an exaggerated sense of self-importance They would have to recognise their characteristic of excessive admiration or infatuation with themselves They would have to recognise their characteristic of entitlement and lack of empathy towards other people This could take place when the narcissist is experiencing some form of crisis A time of intense difficulty or danger Which can then be the turning point of their disorder when an important change takes place Which will either result in recovery or death In these rare cases at that moment of realisation The narcissist will develop some level of awareness of their behaviours And the effects that they have had on the people around them This will either cause the narcissist to self-destruct Or to live their lives in a way where they are more conscious and aware But in most cases when the narcissist realises that they are the narcissist This will not take place In most cases when the narcissist experiences a crisis And they become aware of their behaviours and the effects that they are having on people This will not drive them to want to change or improve anything about themselves They feel no need to change Because they are self-absorbed and lack empathy So even if they do realise that they are a narcissist They are not going to have any desire or motivation to change their behaviour The disturbing part about it Is that most narcissists will never reveal this information to anyone once they become aware of it They will live the rest of their lives pretending to be normal Acting as though nothing is wrong with them And not only that But they will also use the awareness of their disorder to their advantage They will use it to become even more manipulative To develop further control over their victims Because the true nature of the narcissist Is that they do not care about anyone but themselves Their behaviours are self-serving They are only concerned with their own interests or needs And they will do whatever it takes to get their needs met So when they finally realise that they are the narcissist They are not going to make any positive changes They are not going to gravitate towards unity or oneness Because if anything This realisation is just a reminder to the narcissist That they really are in this on their own No one is coming to help them No one is coming to save them And if anyone really knew the truth about what they were They know that no one would ever love or respect them So in their minds They see no reason to ever state what they know to be true about themselves Because a person would only speak truth If they desire or expect to find unity or oneness Love or acceptance And since they know that no one would ever be able to love or accept them If they ever know the truth They assume that it is in their best interest To keep the truth to themselves At least then they can focus on their own advantages At least then they can have that upper hand Over people who are lacking awareness or knowledge By not putting their cards on the table When the narcissist realises that they are the narcissist They may be fully aware of what they are doing And the effects that it is having on the people around them But that does not mean that they are going to care That does not mean that they are going to have any desire or interest To make any positive changes That does not mean that they are ever going to tell anyone That they realise that they are the narcissist That would only put them at a disadvantage It would only make it more difficult for them to get their needs met And whether the narcissist knows what they are or not They are self-absorbed and lack empathy All they care about is get their needs met If they were to be open and honest About what they are and how things are going to be No one would want anything to do with them If you already knew how they were going to be How they were going to treat you Before you ever got involved with them You would be running in the opposite direction No one would knowingly put themselves in that position Knowing the damaging effects that it would have in their lives And narcissists are fully aware of this Which is why when you first meet them They will be very covert They won't reveal their true intentions or objectives Because they know that if you knew what you were dealing with You wouldn't want anything to do with them So the high-doer they really are They put on a mask and act as though they are good people They act as though they have your best interest in mind But secretly, they are only planning to exploit you And they discard you when they are done And even when they know that they are the narcissist That doesn't change They just become more deceptive and manipulative They become more difficult to detect When they know that they are the narcissist They may even study this information to improve their tactics They don't want to make any positive changes The only thing they want to perfect is their craft of manipulation Because the only thing that matters to them Is get what they want Attention, admiration, money, power and sex Superficial things Because they cannot experience the deeper, more meaningful things in life And when they realise that they are the narcissist That's just another thing that they have to accept That they really are alone in this life They lack empathy and compassion They are incapable of sharing another person's experience They are unable to experience oneness or unity And so they find themselves trapped in a world of desire and self-seeking pleasures Never knowing what it means to give or share Because the only thing that provides them with any fulfilment Is taking it all for themselves But know this When the narcissist realises that they are the narcissist Their world only becomes darker and more meaningless They only become more miserable and depressed As they begin to realise that they are trapped on an island of their own making Separated from the things that really matter in life And there is no way for them to go back Thank you for watching I hope this video was neat with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe Click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future videos If you liked it tonight My paypal link is in the video description CoachingInquiries can be with me And I also have a coaching at Juma.com Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon