 So this is kind of a Magnus answers not specifically, but Let me explain so Got a friend named Linda and Melinda posted on her Facebook today this This okay, and If you are educated with reading and writing it says oh Shit, she's pissed better ignore her for a few hours and make her even angrier like every fucking guy I swear to God And so I comment lol because I had to laugh at that shit because I Know something of it her friend post it. Well, seriously, are they stupid and then Melinda says to me Tyrone is it true? It's that you know you men's logic. So let me explain this to you first off, okay? Dives into the realm of the differences between how men and women communicate Okay, if you ever read the book men are from Mars women from Venus He hit the nail on the head a few times with few different subjects with men. It's it men and women It's a pretty good book. I agree with everything, but it's pretty good. So One of the things he talked about is that when men have a problem they go into their cave When women have a problem they talk it out So you got women that are angry at you that want to talk And chances are they have pissed you off if you if you have pissed them off They've probably pissed you off. So then you want to go into your cave. You don't want to talk This is the reason why men I shut down in the middle of an argument So usually the argument sees it will start off the discussion and it gets into a heated argument in terms into you know, just all all out chaos and The men shut down because at this point they're like, okay, well apparently I haven't solved the problem So I need to think about this. I need to actually calm down and not be pissed We're actually trying not to be pissed anymore. I'm a guy. I'll tell you I'm gonna fight no more Because I'm trying to stay calm. I'm trying to keep from blowing my stack But women need to talk their problems out, which is the opposite. So y'all want to keep me hammering on When we don't that's why girls have their little therapy sessions And they meet out with their friends for lunch at Panera Brad and they talk for eight hours because that's their therapy session Men don't need to do that. See women. I know that a lot of times in arguments Sometimes we're texting and we're arguing you'll send us three pages and a half of what you had to say and we'll say okay And we know that y'all that pisses y'all to fuck off, but We answered you We're saying we understand Like it's just y'all use so many more words than us per day Like it's something like y'all use like four to six thousand more words than we do per day That's a lot of fucking words when men are pretty simple Okay, because men will say like for example, we see each other in the street if I just see a dude I ain't seen in a while That said everything that I had to convey not seeing him in a long time, but you're like oh my god Kelly I've seen you in a long time since your mother in the party. You know so much way Oh, you're so pretty as a baby Y'all got a whole lot to say That's your way. I'm not saying it's wrong. I'm just saying it's different So when you get into this whole ignoring thing like for me, for example I'm a calculated arguer so I was told by a boss one time that He used to call me lawyer because he just told me that I like to argue I don't like to argue. I like to get an understanding of a situation, but I won't lie I'm not flawless. Okay. So sometimes If I know what your weakness is I will exploit it Okay And if I know see most men do know though That if we ignore you That's gonna piss you off even more But you you have to realize that You do know that we're doing it because you've already pissed us off So we're sitting there like, you know what? I don't know. Look, this this is the exact Reactment re-enactment of a man getting your text and not talking to you So I already fucking told her like why is she going over the same shit again and again? We just discussed this I'm not talking about no more. I told her I'm gonna argue Not to fuck it Yeah, and they won't talk to you until they're calm enough To talk to you. Okay. So In my opinion The best thing to do whenever you have an A disagreement whether you're married with a budding couple whether you are together for a little bit Is you need to be able to On a serious note sit down and have A calm discussion letting each person Uh convey their ideas to each other without interrupting And being able to have the patience And the mild temper enough to take Um constructive criticism and listen I think that's bestly that I mean bestly the fuck did I get that word from? I think that is um the best Way Uh to handle it. That's what I think so Keep that in mind ladies that when a man Man Starts to ignore you. It's because he's getting angrier and angrier and he's actually trying to stay calm Okay, I'm not saying either side is right or wrong. I'm just trying to give Understanding to that particular thing and I laughed my ass off when I first saw it because I was like It's typical men women stuff. It's typical men women stuff. You know what I mean, you know There's like guys like cars women like jewelry. I mean, it's just this is age old thing that goes on between men and women all the time so Um, I hope I've helped I've rambled enough Maybe you laughed and smiled and had a good time listening to this, but yeah, so I'm gonna post this on her page So you can get some under you and your friends can get some understanding of the male counterpots of this species One million subscribers