 you don't want to be qualifying yourself to her. And this is one of the things that guys, when they first start off in game, is they make a lot of mistakes about because they're out trying to impress girls and be attractive. And while it's very important to understand what is and isn't attractive, at the end of the day, if you're just focused on being attractive to a woman, then you are completely in her frame. You're like a dancing monkey, you're a clown because you're constantly trying to show her, hey, look at me, I'm attractive. Look at me, I'm attractive. And after 15 minutes or so, 30 minutes, certainly, she's not going to be interested anymore. When you start to qualify her and look at her and try to figure her out, is she good enough for you? That attitude, that mindset is much more effective. And so what you do is you make her go a little bit on the defensive. So she's now qualifying herself to you.