 I'd say the time I really felt like a failure was when I came back to school after my son was born and I was so worried about disappointing him and disappointing the people I work with. I felt like a failure as a teacher, I felt like a failure as a mom and then I finally talked to my dean about it and when she and I talked it wasn't the conversation I thought it was going to be. It was a loving and kind and supportive conversation where she helped me figure out a way that I could be happy here and happy at home and if I could say anything to our students about failure I would say ask for help because there's so many people here who want to help you and want to be that kind and supportive person for you.