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In the name of deputy Rikade Gashago. And that literally informs the topic of discussion right here today. To nongelia, kama moa naume. How do you first live head on? I don't know why exactly it happens. And remember before we exited the show with Ram, we were talking about, should a man cry? How should a man deal with their pain or deal with their problems? Does society give us a space to actually have room to actually shed some 2-3 tears? If you can go here like Ram had said, then it can work if it works for you then. You can embrace it as well. So I leave that assignment back at home for you. Do you feel as a man, should you have room to actually, it could be in public or in private as well. Because at the end of the day you're human. And joining me right now on set are two powerful gentlemen. One has been here before. Hallukuin, good morning. Thank you. Good morning. For coming back again. Thank you. And the one and only Brian of Barga, my namesake as well. You're also a two operator, but I'll let you introduce yourselves again. So introduce yourself and what you do as well and then as you get to Brian. Oh, thank you so much. My name is Hallukuin Oteeno, my G-quad 2nd year student and I'm an online content creator. All right. Content creator. Welcome. Okay, my name is Abrano Barga. I pursue the diploma in tourism management in Eldorate International Polytechnic. Now I'm a tour consultant to operator at Safari Updates. Wow, amazing. Two operator, content creator. I hope that's how you say it. Mbuyamono, right? Absolutely. You say Mbuyamono in your language. Yeah. Inu is Idinadi. Idinadi. Idinadi. Idinadi, right. Thank you so much for coming through. Now guys, actually before we get got back to this segment, I and my co-host Ram, we were talking about how as a man, you know, just dealing with the generalities of life, kuna kongana obstacles, mingisana, for the boy child. When it comes to even, you know, discovering yourself, how do you know that this is who I am? And again, I was looking at it from, you know, stemming it from a family perspective. Do men come from families where they have been nurtured as a man? Are you given an example as this is how you should follow? This is what you should follow. Am I even no Baba na Fakwe? Even no Mama na Fakwe? Do you feel like in our lives, especially for African society? Tu na pwao anga yu example ababa zetiru mama zetiru mbaio, inatweka tuwa space yambayo tuko so strong to deal with the life obstacles as well as many other struggles that come with life. Oh, according to me, you see being a boy child or being a man in a family, things are really changing so fast because you find out in that time my dad can sit with his son, tell him son, I want you to do this, this, this and this. But then even in the background that I grew, it was really rare but your dad told you that. Unless you went against the rules. So you do something that is not supposed to be done, that's when you're told this is bad, you need to do it this way. But in just normal circumstances it's really hard for them to take you down, put you down, tell you this, this and this. So it's something that we just observe. Mama should do this, she will carry themselves in this particular manner. So for you, you had to learn it? I had to learn it my own way. Yeah, right. And I don't know why it's so common like every boy child has actually had to figure out a way of actually living and doing something for themselves in their own way. I'm not saying the culture that I've been empowered more but I feel like it's something that's so common. Now, Brian O'Bagger, thank you so much. Do you feel like our parents actually give us enough examples of how you should conduct yourself as a man? This is how you first life struggles. Wakatu kipiguna, made nukoko, shule nini, nini situation, nimbaya. This is who you run to for help. Do you feel like even in your experience you are nurturing from your own dad as well? Okay, yeah. In my perspective, you will find that when you consider a lot of things, you will find that women we are strong in nature and ladies okay, ladies out here are weak in nature. So when you observe in my career that is when you observe even to the nature I want to to bring any illustration. You feel like when you go to the savanna you will find that now most of the people say that the lions are the king of the jungle and you find that lions are so much territorial and now lionesses are the ones that hunt on behalf of the lion. Right. So you will find that men their work is just being territorial. I can't tell you. They are just being territorial and now when it comes to women they are just submissive. So we have to portray our character as men. Right. But now when it comes to learning how to take on life struggles who gives you the example to do? Because let me take you to let me take you to a certain therapy session I watched online and this is from Oprah Winfrey's best friend. She was counseling an ex NFL player and this guy is 39 years old. He has come from a familiar his dad never supported him. His mom actually never told him that the neighbor cross was your father. So this guy ended up dating his half sister not knowing that the person who was their neighbor was his dad and his dad had abandoned him. So this guy grew up in bitterness. He had no example of a father figure or a man figure and the things he has had to go through throughout his career including having problems with women not knowing how to stay with a woman in the house let actually all his finances being exhausted are kona for baby mamas and he can't even sustain them and he is a Hollywood celebrity. So in that therapy session the therapist was telling him that because your dad was not there in your life to actually during your hard childhood years how many examples what are you commenting life as a man because the person who was supposed to give you the example are you could fail already so you have to blame him but now how do you take responsibility as a man as well to create that example so that you use it for yourself that was my question now. Okay just self acceptance and cope up with life regardless or Godful or whoever you should consider or observe to you just have to do your things on your own way as a man. Right. Okay. Interesting. Halikun. On Yukiwapale campus situations in as a kwa triki san in the name of in the name of who is this songster in very the storyteller situation in kwa triki pale you need help you need urgent help and you know sometimes onaji pataku situations as a man where onaji 5k agently and your dad can't give you your mom can't give you who do you run to for help when things are falling down Okay there I can remember the other time we were here talked about something like sometimes it's really hard for family to come up to because of their situation maybe but then we have people around you in Kama Paesapo your friends you have like we don't want to close now but then you'll find out that okay taji help this just specific person that you'll always go to fast personally like you can't be always up all the times there's a time that you go down and things are really messy but always I do always have that one person like Nikua so low he or she will be the person they I'll go to fast then because he was a Kana sorry he was a Kana we'll find another option but then focusing on your background you can't always like you know you are the person when you they still need help from so you can't just go you tell them I need this kind of they'll be like oh I was telling you my mom can send you 200 and she'll be like that's too much that's too much for her but you know this thing can only take me half a day if so much just in one day so you just understand their situation they never got this experience so you're the one now to man up like you have to do it your own way because you say the story in a dad and all that you are your family all that not everything you'll be told because after all you have to survive Samanga the strong if everybody was being given the platform until you have to live this way you have to do this you have to do this then I think will be so much well of but then which is a good thing as well it's a good thing it's a good thing but then I do feel sometimes really need to struggle you know there are some people who are men because their situation forced them to be okay yeah that struggle forced them to be their nature is not just to be to take responsibility and all that but then Ashafika Palin now they have to do this so it's not because they want to that is because they were never given that that privilege so the best way is to man up and it's really also good to struggle you know you you find a survival mechanism right excellent I love that now Brian we have this conversation with Ram and we were asking should a man cry in public can you are you allowed to do that in public or like I said take your time off go in private cry dust yourself up together and come back keep fanging okay basically in Africa uh when a man cries publicly it shows weakness and uh but everybody has a weakness as well yeah it's just you're hiding it but you have it anyways yeah okay despite the difference crying in public or not crying no I should not encourage a man to cry in public in public yeah what if you are experiencing a death situation going on your mom is dead your wife is dead should you just be strong and then when you've done buried him or her you go back in private and now you can bust into a whole room of tears okay there is a difference between crying and mourning in mourning you still cry yeah but uh now when you cry you make that loud voice okay and uh when you mourn tears just drop and uh you make it silently so there's a bit uh you've not attended Luya Fenroz my friend I'm attended I cry like like it needs an award ceremony for crying they even hire people to cry so I don't agree though but yes true but now here in Africa when you see a man crying publicly and then it shows a point of weakness so the people depending on you should start questioning themselves if at all now we are depending on this person and he cries on publicly now where are we heading to right so it is advised yes we are human beings as men so whenever we are frictioned by either or either way or either activity in this world that makes us to appoint to cry so it is advised we just go in a silent place we whip then come back strongly and another fact that you borrowed my idea go back in private cry dust yourself of come back and keep thugging now back to you Halakuna I don't know you are a content creator as well would you someday one day do content about your most painful encounter and be like this one it broke me I didn't have anyone to support but look at me now right yeah yeah would you do that as well because still crying still crying if suppose men want to cry when I don't think God could have given us tears that is right anyways Jesus weps that is the shortest boss in the land I guess in case you had no idea so okay you see there are some people who are so emotional like when somebody cries beside them they start crying you see there are some people who depends Brian Shade there are some people who depend on you and when they see you crying they'll be like now what will I do but then as a man everybody has a weakness or everybody has that point you are so like you are so down your soul can be so depressed and you have no control over that but the moment you receive you have that and you see that you have people beside me why don't you excuse yourself excuse yourself yeah you just to go because me personally when I raise that point I just have to leave any place in Niko so have you cried at some point yourself I have countless times a million times a million times but then just in your own point because there are sometimes you feel now I just need this wanna this meme that is going around like I just need my my zahus nani ambetu niliye like another pig in Nuru but venu ndia kuna you have to look for your venu right yeah don't must you shout but at last sometimes kili on yida hawa though yeah it's it's somehow relive yourself your soul because even when after Jesus swept is when he went to to give a Lazarus so sometimes you need that to to calm down your soul right yeah it's real necessary that's why we were giving tears right ah brand have you cried yourself at some point in life absolutely I'm on jail here I'm sorry we'll be like me I'm a thug niger I'm a thug as hell kuli nalazi ma so you've cried right absolutely but in private yeah now a baka situation here you have to acknowledge how you feel that's what they say for you to be a true and authentic self you must acknowledge how you feel sometimes your emotions really matter and like we we we said with Ram I I told him the more you continue piling up and expressed pain and sad feelings the more they keep on piling up na utakuta kuna mwa sayako resentful towards you know ushesi came to ako abused ame pitiya through trauma maybe ali repiyu let's live alone rep ali kutu brutally treated maybe with their mum or it could be a stepfather or stepdad so they never had a platform to actually express how that hurt nata ja ambiyam tiyo story so una kute in life ana muvalona ke kwa so angry and so sad to appointed in and a kua relationships now for us men how do you relieve yourself let's say the worst thing that has ever happened to you in life maybe u li putezam tu lacha tuwa chana atana storyak putezam u li umizuatu u li titiwa vibaya u li grow up hako una pendwa ni ni ni ni ek affect self-esteem yaako but when you look at the other side of the coin society na zema as a man you should always be polished akuna kusho any science of weaknesses but indeed your weaknesses will be there whether you like it or not how do you polish up yourself and come up with a masterpiece because there's pain in there there's emotions there's everything in new experience koneza fanyaje do u toko kwa this fine man you know wanaku ona tu palu kofiti but they don't know the story behind the profile okay according to me now the first thing is acceptance right and you mentioned that somewhere right yeah acceptance is it accepting or acknowledging it happened yeah you acknowledge it happened and now okay when it reached at this point you will find that okay we do make mistake as a man and we make mistake in order to learn okay so at this point like in my scenario the thing that made me cry so much is this relationship thing boy boy boy boy boy relationships are low you guys are crazy mukhafanya mamo is one of you boys boy yeah okay true true so continue it is like see relationship moja ama ingene so you find on each and every relationship you at least have to learn something right you see so as a man in order to cope up with that you have to learn you have to accept yourself this is what happened and these are now my resolution henceforth all right lemme throw it to you bak halakun okay in every there's this line we're saying in in every problem what is important is the solution so number one by the music is a really good it's a really good thing music really really really good thing it's pieces of the soul so my on my point of view number one when i'm in distress or anything one thing i have to look for is my phone my playlist mi na kuna playlist ya ya kujiri live it's my own triangutu so i i have to standard that by the way on a simple testimony there's a time i was sold down i was facing a lot of stuff and i went to sleep i couldn't sleep kutoka kutoka ten i did i did four just listening to music and i don't know what was happening i was not crying but i ate yes i left when it was happening to you in life that's the best that's the one for another day star so kufika four i was one music one song kutoka ten p.m. to four a.m. i was just replaying the song kufika four i left the house and walked around juja when juja until six so it reached a point that you just have to you be alone find your music ya i just i take a walk it helped me relieve myself so just being a learning think of them at least i'll start thinking now this has happened now after this what next but before that i just have to to let loose myself ya i cry myself and listen to music a lot be alone you know what you're saying is not just common exactly to find them and as a knolej just say e mi manzen nili liya ama ikituli numiza kus you know for us men we are always told to be strong kwa polished manzee you are an example of this family now when it comes to parents i think i'll bury it up from that story i told you this guy grew up without a father the father atali kwa cross lakil hako anambiwa ni babaki so ali grew up without a father and then a kuna iyo beaten us here like he has never had a man i'll say a father figure or a manhood kind of a figure to actually show him that this is how you stay masculine or this is how you stay feminine as well so umeguwa puko confused how do ya diata kudetini nini you don't even know how to treat a woman as well nesovitu zotezima kwa affect nahazita anda until you solve them now if you come from such a background my brother Brian how do you tackle it and find yourself umesetoladi kondawume fanyawedi umeka finger kuri bali that's the scenario is very tough but as men you have to be risk takers personally you don't have the same okay okay okay risk you work glory to god okay risk you fail then keep on keeping on la vitu ziki for la part bro ushe skia like somebody things fell apart henei from one failure to another failure rejection to another being kicked out to another adi umefukatua place you have no one else to turn to nobody to call nobody to talk to niowa na good naikenda uisha nivo and you are this man everybody is looking up to you people have expectations and you still have to maintain how do you even go forward man okay in this world we were brought alone at the same time we grow with friends okay so whenever you are you feel that now you are fixed to the corner you just have to consult wasn't ni ambunezakosa marafiki moja amawiliwa nini jenei brokuna aseo mekosa marafiki kulam tu uji skia amtua kusama e nime kupigia manzei jwata si trusti wa seo na kwa now ame pigi adi stranger and it happens every day and right now as we speak aseata ambia otewa na jua kusakia oambia ota mjaad na maybe it's something that's so shameful it causes that guilt and how takimitum gena jui adiume kusakwa ambia adiunona na msemenda church adiata at trustpasta kumambia iso issues na lazima isi si etiata end life yaake lazima end the life what do you do now we just keep on keeping on we keep on keeping on keep on what do you do bro kus it's a dead end it's not a way I wouldn't be ashamed of that maybe you can now but you don't trust them oh by the way me I know more than a thousand people like when you can join we just keep on 300 contracts on your phone but you can't even call one me kuna 1500 na the people when you know to call I just if you can I can only imagine like okay to cause to cause up we can talk like we talk a lot to cause up but kusisa na personal life always fika detain like even five or seven or four that intimate relationship so you find all that you know a lot of people but your friends are really really small for example the boys the boys na na kutana to pig a story like to toongi to kunyue to pig a shere roto kapwa dujum to moja right atum juijina atum juijina ma rimi li kakwa counter muka chapa ma drinks muka sampo ma dem nini nini iwa sasa atia atum kuna context ma naongiya naongiya to naongiya like to juijina aum juijina kus wala mimi is it because you are not socialized how to actually interact ama kus ma dem nira isi uta schedule na itana beb nini nini dya nini nini but rarely will you find even men calling each other they'll be like hey hey hey hey lai mi na izaka na Brian Apar bila mikum jua to pig a story adi 3 days mi siyezi uliza ma lume jinaaki I can't like it's just an issue so you know she didn't have a nini literally ama niku ugo patuku ua vulnerable kus why should we talk to a stranger for a whole week not a stranger adi nina kwa party by the way una do kwa zadi kus juijinaakia by the way bro by then kuna shida flania panata kwa on the side and all that the bro will come through to go to fortna ladies ya yata nia bi by then nisa ona kwelewa acha chatumit paliflani tuonge tuone venya kutakua muna kwa iwo bro mor yo nini nini nini and it happened so I was saying kura to forti really really big difference katikatia kujwana na kwa marafiki na mitu that relationship ziko ziko difference ju kujwana nia watumana unge ya hi hei yuko ajin kofiti nini nini nini pig a story 1 2 but then kupata that person mu nyanaza kwa mbe by then we need to talk really really really hard very very hard for men it's hard isn't it? for men it's hard so you'll find man should confess to a woman as well lemi ask lemi throw it back to you before you finish should men seek female therapies amal they should go to male therapies if you if you have the datiest thing that ever happen to you would you trust yourself to tell it to a man therapist or you go for a female therapist or whoever will be there okay basunali niki wana niki wana niki fil niki niki wana niki wana shida fly nini and I know myself kuna point I'll go to a man kuna point I'll go to a lady reason being a lady will somebody mwene atilewa situation ya ako because me basunali yes I can sympathize with you nani na wene na zoxidia lakini miss juinku empathize lakini wamiya taniya wamiya kitu kafiwa kaniwa kaniwa kaniwa kaniwa but I don't know how to to go through it I can talk to unique advice but sasa somebody na kwa mbe ilu empathize nae of which mi I don't know mi I taku mbe ya you need this one I'll give it to you but I don't know how to empathize but a lady atakupati that's motherly support right so when I need this I'll go to that just understand your sickness then know the best doctor to good okay that's how it's done so just know what what you need to approach literally or what makes you feel better what works for you because I've had situation where somebody say e mwene nae nae mbaba man nae mmama like if it works for you then go for it it's well and good if that's the best thing for you ya but first you need to know ilu simesimes ilu simesimes usijue oe ume na kwa uyu kumbe ume na kwa social media all right ya find somebody mwene aja kukipi secret kikidogutu all right Brian who would you go to would you go to a man would you prefer telling your datiest secrets to a man therapist or a female therapist and why I'll just like to conquer with my friend here ono jwa shi de nyokonayo ono jwa doctoria mbo nae nae so when it comes to ladies you'll find that when you share a problem to her wana pata hau kwa emotional papu hapo and if she has capability of assisting you at Oxidia hapo well and good but now when you go to a man a man kuna watu zingine wana ignore niyo tu awe bana amkabana piga aso nae nae nae nae yei iwi nae nae but kuna wana mepiwa zuri wana wana kugaituru at the same time they assist you right yeah so in short whoever works whoever it works whoever works now kumsimanya na face rejection to say mama apply my jobs and it's all on you you have to take care of yourself as well or maybe you're married and in your situation you said you are in a serious relationship and this chick is dependent on you as well so I don't know if if at all it's also right to have a chick who is dependent on you financial I don't know if it's a problem but some people they said no me have money I'll just give you take whatever you want baby girl but there's also say e mimi niku pa pesat after zako and then we can bring something on the table so I don't know if it's a problem though do you feel like it's a problem would you date a chick who is dependent on you financially yeah but it is very encouraging whereby you find someone who is who is very supportive okay like a good example is me niki pigahasol at the end of the day nia pigahasol okatunaka kumesa then tuna sema he endo to kona uti lambu bring me on the table yeah so when you want to plan to to plan he nahivi maybe ita itaji by itaji a nyumbani nahi nahi let us treat for ourselves so it is good to have a supportive partner partner yeah then uh someone who depend on you fully all right cause ita kwa nagi in other terms right now halekun uh misimonyana first rejection na ita bini you'll have to do it anyways ita bidi umefunga verago meru diushago like uh there's somebody who told me that omefka troplis dadu omeshina kumisistein ame jeribu kwa pulaikazi hapati dem amem toroka nuna jii kifika kwa yu situation inye dem ame henda kumibaki pekiako na mongo heu na ita you need an ambulance so just care there ring the alarm you need to ring that alarm cause you need help serious help how do you go about that ok lemite kwa baki dogo uh personally me me grow dikwa na lot of trust issues trust issues hei misi is trust trust issues in a stem form is this something that was done to you as in I don't know come on ame experience you had from your mom or your dad mini kichiku nani angu misi is trust them although imi nipatia she died in a lot of relationship in mekua so ok yes I can't trust someone so I didn't make a point I lower my expectations so nambuan ilu kwenam to you know personally me I don't have a stable job a machinabado kazi and I don't have an income in kofiti and you expect this lady kukuwa nawe a kuna mitaji a kiespia na kazi kamawe anatak nemaza ziwa ke and you expect this person kukuwa nawe besides na adi adi you don't even have a ring so you see like there's a point where we go around like bro we need to lower your expectations lady spear just lower your expectation on someone cause after all we are only one being there's no one who is going to stay besides you forever add your parents add your mam na kuna 9 months then the ambili kwa kuli na katoa there's no point but then me na kumuka kuna 2 only like the situation me kuna my mam pa moja kuna kwa function flani as the pita 5 ono na we can talk home like vidu na tunganisha pa mojas to say me for example to meenda kwa ceremony flani all that like kuku kwa iwali solo what you do just live to the moment kuna u benawalisa na sama live to the pullest like wei furahia maisha yaa kuhu bena kithika pointo mereziu expectation on so high that's where the supplements come in let me interrupt you kuna mtu ana kitu chachatia kufurahia as inata haoni rizo niya kufurahia maisha jwa na ana ilesosia kotoa inspiration asema ei me na filaikata kwishi pekiake is already a blessing haez yo na heo cause you're so blinded by your situations to a point you can't even see any good thing happening you're so blinded unless mutua kudia kwa mbe ei bro kuhishi ni blessing kwa live ni blessing haez yo na what do you do now okay um me na sama at this point though i'm young but like i've seen it all what do you mean you're young you've seen it yes just yo na sama have been there countless times okay even a fika pointo na sama na adisi yo ni like now forward easy view na fanya anini i i me like point in the cut of everything can't go to collapse i can't do anything i'm just there what i do is listen to music sleep and all that cause ono jua like life is so sweet at times i don't know say might really need to live this life bro kuna time una fika muna sama why is death delaying oh no that that's some people are experiencing that not want to feel like there's no reason to live all right but then you think of your point depressions in anzaku anzaku come in yeah depression avuna asha ki shash palle uki anzale you're going to do everything una pan kuna this guy kuna sama tika uko juja na u a u stone una choma wow wow wow la van life okay so like uh dewa in kuna sama you really need people close to you beside the fact that by then me akonga introvert like in a very extrovert akonga very social like in a bi pola bro uki kujya sasa a mi na wambia I really see bi pola whatever bi pola bro bi ba do any extrovert see bi pola na wambia okay mi mi I'm a very social person but kujya kwa personal life yango mi na akonga tu kwa nyumba mi ni always believe that kus most nuna ni opa screen niko wendik mi niku toka inji naina do YouTube niku apo rooftop na shoot ama niko chinu uko I'm shooting beside that mi na niko kwa nyumba na kaa tu uko so like but besides that you really need people close to you somebody uni nuna zambia by the way uni na pichya kontaktiyako sometimes nuna pitu na sema wala akonga si nama doko pigia adi mohaja so you really need that person nizama wambia adika is kus idea but you know this person I can tell them these nizama wendia adika simza zewa kujya so tell them but they adika ni stranger adika ni stranger there's a friend of mine who's gonna name them it's easier to seek help from a stranger u confess to wambia your datist things hata kujya as compared to wambia close friends wakuni ni ni ni do you agree do you agree Brian or so yeah I really agree you'd prefer to even tell it to a stranger the craziest things you've ever done as compared to telling your dad, your mom your siblings your auntie your cousin okay they used to say that now blood is thicker than water but currently or recently the thickness is no more so you prefer like okay na chapa na drinks pal na maisha na zasonga bila kukosaana right but misemina juwana relative yeah but uh to u kinda kwa maybe the other gender maybe ladies ningumu sana wapate kwa make up a moja for a long period of time uta pata simple mistake kwa make usana maa chanisha wana beef kubifuka like ass men mi ni kana uyu tu kwa kwa moja maybe atakama atoke inje apate soks komlango apate baby nyu mbe ko disorganize tutakatu badu but iyo in other gender ito a piece of okay okay the other thing kuna mi muena trend that uh nowadays kama uja faulu atarelati wakume niya wazi shikafon koliako two why is that so soko man by the way sok a wazi shikafon wana kuhana tuiskutaw moa ka sozwa suku eje utaw moa ka that list wataza kukusumbuwa flana flani midola kikisha bana kukwebi ukaze how are you when you went so lalak seza wana za kukuklei maa po but before akunam tu alukwa na kujali yeah so for man for man it's like five times hard yeah but you know they said the ladies hadn't do five it's 10,000 so i don't know do you think boy child wakuna support more especially kikudiako empowerment as compared to gacha because what we're going to say maa we men do support you isana ni but i don't know just as we finish up three seconds broz you say your social media oh okay men and women like venil kwa na say maa boy is okay the last time we kwa apankwa kwa mbi ya 99 percent 0.9 percent of success is there too let me talk on myself it may depend on strangers strangers the people i know okay so in afikanga point this this the agenda why coming and gonna be in a relationship ya muntu muntuna and all that but me feel the ladies who me paywa so much more priority and support yes ilikwa the other way round because the ladies who are coming are chanishwa okay but though they started coming in adisa waka waka overdue like ika pita the point take over yana fa kufika so in afikanga everybody is coming in it's about the ladies ladies ladies adisa boy child wana umia like they are not being looked into that maa your social media because i'll move to brand your social media as you exit my social media youtube it kenyan stick tells instagram kenyan stick prints itikto kenyan stick prints or halequin and facebook kenyan stick tells ya brand you are lost sentiments do you feel like a man tunapatanga support enough a man kudikazad okay support tunapat okay ladies have more support than us men okay reason being sisi watoto kumela zima tuji tume kila mbachotumepata is not only mine but ours reason being niyat siyangu siyangu niyatu there is a lot of people who are depending on us so tuji tume right our social media sasa penyatone is a water social media ni oba geza brayan oba geza facebook then currently i'm marketing for safari afrika updates travel email ni info at safari update dot c o dot k e web page ni w w dot safari safari update sorry dot c o dot k e book your safari today and 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