 Hello family, welcome to another NARC Survivor Live video. In this video I'm going to be giving you information that reveals if you have hurt the narcissist because you may be manipulated, gaslighted and to always look at that yourself and blaming yourself. I mean they're always provoking you, they're always trying to irritate you to get under your skin and somehow you remain disciplined, you remain calm, you don't react no matter what they throw at you because you're strong, you're grounded from within and that is why you don't do that. As for the narcissist, they're like loose cannons, they can't control themselves. You don't even have to do anything and it sets them off because they can't regulate their emotions from within, they can't control themselves around you and the reason why is because of your light, you're so full of positivity and optimism and not only that but you're just a one-full person inside and out. You're beautiful, you're very sweet, you're very kind, giving, generous and you would think that they would appreciate these qualities about you especially since you're often displaying those qualities to them but no in fact it just makes them even more envious and jealous to where they want to lash out at you. That's all that does when you do that, they don't like it, it really irritates them, it really winds them up because you're just reflecting back to them everything that they're not, they don't even see you as except a person, you're merely a mirror to reflect back to them how they want to see themselves and that is all that you are, that is all you're ever going to be to them, you're never going to be anything else other than that. They view people as extensions of themselves, you're just a mirror and they manipulate you, they plan and coordinate the elements of the situation to produce the desired effect, they arrange it, they coordinate it so that it reflects back to them how they want to see and feel about themselves because you see all they're really trying to do is manage their own out of control and unstable emotions and they are especially unstable when they are around you then they're really out of control because you really stir up these emotions inside of them it really provokes and entices them when they see you and it's like you don't even know what level you're on but they do and when they see that it reflects back to them their own insecurities, it reflects back to them their own self-hated about themselves and that is why they hate it when it's just you being you when you're comfortable with yourself they do not like that because it reflects back to them how they're not comfortable with themselves how they have to create a false character but then that's how they feel with you as well they don't really believe that you're real I mean they see your light but it's difficult for them to fathom to comprehend to understand how can you be that way and it's not manipulation they just don't get it because it's like the way you just naturally behave and conduct yourself I think you don't even see it but it's just you being your natural self it makes you so desirable so attractive and they just don't know how you do that and they try and take bits and pieces of you and incorporate them into their false character which they made used to manipulate you or other people but deep down of course they know that what they're doing is fake but they also suspect that you must be fake as well because it's like how is it even possible for you to just be your natural self and you still managed to get what you want when their entire lives they had to cheat lie and deceive people to get anything they just don't understand how that's even possible for you to do that because it was never like that for them they had to cheat lie steal and do all of these immoral and corrupt things to get anything in life and get for you it was never like that and as for me as well I mean at any time of the day I could just get on here and make a live video I don't have to put on an act I could just be myself and still attract a lot of attention and spy a lot of people and I don't even have to put any effort into it I don't have to manipulate anyone and people are just drawn to me like a moth to a flame to Narcissus of course it seems egotistical but that's real that's just how it is I can just be myself but it is not like that for them why do you think they hate you why do you think they can't stand you because it's so easy for you so effortless they had to live a hard life they became like hustlers they had to create a false character they had to manipulate people deceive lie cheat just to get even a fraction of what you got for you it's so easy you can just get whatever you want and even while they're trying to devalue you and keep you down you're still getting something it's how they see it and they don't like it to just reminds them of how they have to create a false character and manipulate people they have to do all of these things behind your back they have to try to bring you down and even then they're not even close to you and they can't just bring you down and leave you there they have to come back and keep you down for as long as they possibly can of course all of these actions these behaviors that they have to do it does reflect a message back to themselves of how they're not good enough of course it does so you are constantly hurting the narcissist 24 hours a day seven days a week constantly causing them pain and you don't even know it you don't even realize what you're doing and I'm not blaming you it's not your fault I mean you're just being yourself I'm telling you it is wind them winding them up it's driving them crazy and many of you can't even see it but it's because they're so narcissistic they view you as a possession as a as an extension of themselves as something that belongs to them so anytime you try to be yourself or you try to pull away to do your own thing they get very envious and jealous they want to own you like a puppet on a string and they are the puppet master so you are constantly causing narcissistic injuries because they just want to possess you continue they want to own you and you won't let them do that even if you wanted to you still couldn't you still just couldn't be their possession you're just you're born to be yourself but yeah it's constantly irritating them and you will know that because this reveals if you have hurt then I'll assist if you have hurt them it's going to stir up certain emotions inside of them and they're going to want to hurt you they're going to lash out at you in some sort of way they're going to try to bring you down they're going to protect their insecurities onto you they're going to shift the blame onto you they're going to talk about you behind your back they're going to spear your name they're going to triangulate you with someone they're going to try and make you envious or jealous of the new relationship they're going to become very negative to where they're trying to take something away from you even if it's just some sort of experience even as even if it's just your happiness peace and contentment they're going to feel this uncontrollable desire to do that because they're very envious because they're hurt because they see that you've got something and they don't and they want it they want to control you they want to own you they want you to be theirs but you just want to be yourself you want to be authentic you don't want to be owned you don't want to be controlled so you're constantly pulling away you're constantly resisting you're constantly doing everything you can just to be yourself and every time you do that every time you try to establish your own identity your own separation your own whatever you like or interested in whatever you believe in anytime that you try to do that it reveals to them that there is this separation between you and them and the reason why they hold on to you is this extension where they view you as their possession it's because they believe that they are not enough if they believe that they were enough why would they try to attach to you why would they try to possess you to own you they do it because they don't feel like they're enough on their own they've got to bring you into it bring you into the chaos the drama the dysfunction bring you into all of the things that you don't even want to deal with and try to get you to identify or relate to it even though it's got nothing to do to do with you yeah that's why they have to do that that's why it's because they feel like they're not enough on their own 234 live viewers if you're finding this video helpful please hit that thumbs up button down below show your support it will take you two seconds I appreciate it but yeah this reveals if you have hurt an arsesist they're gonna reveal it to you in some sort of way you just got to pay attention to it the problem is on where it gets confusing is that when they're hurt they will try to hurt you in some sort of way and then because you're an empath it triggers you it keeps you to look at yourself to where you question your qualities or abilities with there's something wrong with you when it's got nothing to do with you you need to disidentify from it and instead of looking at yourself question why they're doing that in the first place because they recognize they may not know that you're an empath but they can identify your personality and what sort of person you are but you're the type of person where if someone says or does something to you you're gonna look within and question yourself and if there was something wrong with you well if you could have been better you're not gonna look at them and realize that it's because of them there's something wrong with them but once you become aware of this and you become an awakened empath then you can disassociate from it instead of identifying with it as what they want you to do because they want to deflect their shame they want to shift the blame and avoid accountability for their actions and how they're feeling about themselves because yes they do feel inferior and inadequate when they are around you but they don't want you to know that but luckily you've got me and I'm here to tell you that I don't feel like I'm losing anything by lifting someone up by giving them props giving them credits that they deserve letting them know just how great they are because I have that to give and the reason how I have that to give is because I realize just how great I am based on my accomplishments and success and everything that I've worked on on myself so I realize my worth my value and that's how I'm able to realize yours the problem with narcissists is that we realize value that isn't even there it's all manipulation it's a false character it doesn't even exist that is why you can wait around for a song as you like nothing's gonna come out of that they're just gonna drip freed from you as much as they can they're gonna milk you for all you've got and then they're gonna walk away and find someone else and do the same thing all over again so yeah hope this helps you to realize your worth your value by just me telling you and noticing that process of when you begin to look at yourself and question your own worth your own value because that's what they want you to do they want to keep you looking at yourself they don't want you to look at them as they actually are they want you to see only the false character because then it benefits them if you validate the illusion because they've got this character that's meant to be something special it's meant to be perfect superior to you where it's everything they wish they could be everything that they think people want to see but again it's not even real and honestly from what I'm seeing in my own experiences an empaths real just natural character it's far more attractive far more desirable than the narcissist false character and then you got to look at it like why did they target us in the first place because they see your natural authentic self and they like that they want some of that because you're very pure you're uncontaminated and you don't even see it you're just being you but they see you and yeah they like your authenticity but they also view you as a mirror and it reflects back to them how they're not authentic so then they want to destroy you they're not really going to value and appreciate you 339 live viewers it'll take you two seconds just hit that thumbs up button down below to show your support it helps you YouTube algorithm to get this message out there to other survivors as well I appreciate it again I'm just sitting in this garden here it's quite a hot day the sun is shining and I thought I'd just get on here to share this message because I know a lot of you you look at yourself and you question your own worth instead of looking at this person that you're dealing with and how they're causing you to do that because they're insecure they're uncomfortable and they want to project that on to you they want to make you feel bad about yourself and it's because that's how they feel whenever they're around you they feel inferior they feel inadequate they feel like they're not on your level and you will know that by how they treat you they will devalue you they will disrespect you they will disregard your boundaries they will do all of these things because they feel inferior to you that's why everything they do after the love-bombing phase it's because they hurt they devalue you they degrade you they publicly humiliate you they shift the blame on to you they project their insecurities they use denial gas light in giving the double bind they cheat on you they lie to you they steal from you they discard you they triangle it you with a new source they try to make you feel like you've lost something or you're missing out on something in this new relationship that they're in as though there's so much better now for this new person when they were never that for you and then they talk about you behind your back they start a smear campaign maybe they try to get you fired from your job they target you financially they take your kids away from you all of these things are to punish you and it's because they just feel completely inadequate compared to you they just feel like they can never measure up unless they bring you down even then it's still never enough they never satisfy they got to keep bringing it down for as long as they can because they're constantly being triggered they constantly feel like they're nothing in comparison to you but we just don't really think of ourselves like that I mean even myself even though I've got like over 170,000 subscribers on YouTube 40 million views and I think I got about 18,000 followers on TikTok I actually don't even care that much about it it doesn't really make me feel like I'm that special even though there's like 296 live viewers right now watching me listening to this message it doesn't inflate my ego in any way at all I still feel like I'm my normal natural self like I don't have to put in an act I don't have to manipulate anyone I can just be who I am but that's just it just you being yourself they look at it like so easy for you people love and accept you for who you are like that's a big thing to narcissists that causes an injury more than anything else and the reason why is because it's not like that for them that's why it bothers them so much that's why they try to change you and erase you because a long time ago they felt unloved they felt like they were not accepted so they abandoned who they really are and created a false character or stay already used to manipulate you and yet they look at us and it's like it's so unfair how we can just be ourselves we don't even have to do anything we don't have to put in an act we don't have to try to impress anyone it's not like that for them if they did that you never would have noticed them to begin with and they know it that's why they had to manipulate you that's where they created a false character that's why they devalue you try to change your view about yourself so that you adjust and coordinate yourself with their distorted views and perceptions because that's really a big part of the problem it's like they look at it like you're loved and accepted for who you are just by you being your authentic self I'm not and it was never like that for me is how they see it and that's why it's so painful for them that's why all they want to do is hurt you and cause problems for you because it was never like that for them and they can't stand it they hate it it really winds them up that's why when all is said and done they triangulate you with a new source they try to make you feel insecure because that's exactly how they feel that's how they've always felt they abandoned who they really are a long time ago and created a false character because they believe that who they really are is not good enough and they go from one false character to another one with someone else but it's always fake it's never real but this was their choice that's what they chose to do we made a different choice we chose to hold on to who we are even if no one liked it although those of you I'm sure if you're an empath you were targeted by a narcissist you must have had someone in your life who validated your authentic self for you to get as far because I know I did and I'm very grateful for that but yeah this reveals if you have hurt the narcissist they're gonna do something to hurt you it's like they say hurt people hurt people you're never gonna see a happy person who is going out seeking to hurt someone that just doesn't happen I mean sometimes they may look happy they may be smiling laughing joking doing all of these stupid things you got a look at it like this person belongs in a mental institution because they're crazy they're psychotic because you can't do these things and still be happy that's fake it's a lie they put on an act and they can switch characters whenever they want at one moment they're this false character who's attractive and desirable and then they're punishing you and they're powerful and they just switch back and forth and then sometimes they'll play the victim as well it's whatever they think is going to summon the most amount of power in that moment that's what triggers them to switch characters and you may also do that when they deplete you you may find yourself falling in and trying to please them and yet they will take that as genuine interest that's how delusional they are when all you want is just to be left alone and deep down they know that but they don't want to accept it they want to validate that false character at all costs even if they do have to be completely delusional but yeah I don't want to stay on you too long it's quite sunny and I want to protect my skin the sun is one of the main causes of aging for our skin so of course I want to protect that but yeah thank you for getting on here with me today you are my youtube family and I do appreciate you all and you can also show your appreciation and support down below by giving this video a thumbs up let me know your thoughts in the comment section I do read your comments every day and I try to respond to as many as I can hit the subscribe button and click on the notification so that you will be notified when I upload a new video and you can also show your support by donating through the super chat or the super thanks in the comment section or you can go to my paypal it is 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