 Hey Tony Gaston's here. Let me Try to make sure this internet is working Just wanting to pop on here I'm my wife is getting her facial and I just got off the plane And so she picked me up in but she had a facial appointment So brought her to the facial and when you out and about when you're not on Wi-Fi If you shoot a video if I shoot a video in the car and try to upload it It take forever to upload if it's especially if it's longer than like five or ten minutes. So YouTube need to do like a little type of airdrop type thing, which that'll be a thing one day But um, you took similar check But for now, I just try to go live to shoot the video And so it's not a Q&A, but want to pop on here and talk about this because I was talking to a young man last night and He was talking about like wanting to fit in and wanting to be liked and wanting guys to know That he cool and that you know, he's not judging anybody and I gave a speech yesterday and I told the team like I'm not here for you to like me I'm not here to be your friend I'm here to tell you the truth and I know it's hard to hear the truth from someone that you don't really really know and That's hard to do and after I told the truth you know, I was regretting it all throughout the day I was regretting telling the truth and I did an interview recently and I spoke on the truth and I did a real analysis and I had them remove the videos just because they were stand alone and I didn't feel like it moved the story forward and It wasn't good enough just standing by itself But really it was because the truth the truth hurts and when you tell the truth and When you live the truth and when you walk in your truth It's hard to be understood and it's hard to be Accepted the truth will separate you It'll separate you because Very few people Want to be confronted by the truth and oftentimes we don't want to confront ourselves ourselves with the truth because the truth requires change and Change brings pain but that pain brings growth and That is why they call it growing pains but see We don't want to hear that and It's hard and that's why I'm trying to get people to embrace the pain of discipline and to embrace the pain of separation and To change it in your mind to where you stop seeing it as painful and You start seeing it as purposeful And when you see the separation or the isolation as purposeful Then that's when you truly Receive your growth. That's when you go to the next level but see Your grandma your grandmother knew right from Rome and Your grandmother taught you right from Rome Because she had lived long enough to see the good the bad and the ugly and she could decipher between the mess She knew better than your mom and your daddy Because they were still young when they had you So your grandma she really knew the truth, but nobody want to live like grandma No, nobody want to live like grandma From when you too old Roman, you don't know what you talking about grandma times and change But as you live your life under this son You have to come to the resolve that There is nothing new under the sun That nothing has changed everything stays the same. We just have new technology To do the same old thing But see the truth is Like a lighthouse and the lighthouse you could see it from a distance But that lighthouse stands alone It's not in the middle of the city crowded by the skyscrapers inside by itself and It shines in the darkness And that's how the truth is the truth stands alone My daddy told me he says son The truth pressed to the ground Will rise again You can't run from the truth and The truth only steps on our toes when we are walking out of line But see there's an internal compass That knows the truth That knows right from wrong your internal compass knows what is do north and It knows how to get there. It knows where to go but see The problem with going do north is that nobody wants to go with you Because when you just go straight With your eyes on the prize You're gonna run into the roadblocks You're gonna run into the detours You're gonna run into the potholes. You're gonna run into construction You're gonna ride right into the storm So see when you go and do north Nobody want to go with you because they say hey, why am I gonna go that way when there's a shortcut over here? But what they don't realize is the shortcut is a dead end or it lead to a cliff But it's so beautiful on the way because when the people found the shortcut They started dressing it up and making it immaculate because they thought they found some special so they built theme parks and clubs and Restaurants all along the shortcut Until they got all the way to the end and realized that they had walked themselves to the edge of a cliff And there was nowhere else to go and that one day there will be a shift and whatever sitting on that cliff Gonna end up in the ocean and That right there is a metaphor for life Because when you doing the right things and you going the right way Don't nobody want to go Because it's the long road and on the long road. There are always tolls It's always tolls on the long road on The long road you're gonna go through periods where there is no service on the long road On the long road it gets lonely Because why you driving those who ride and will fall asleep on you even when you tire on the long road The long road it get dark It gets scary and ain't a lot of street lights and ain't a lot of service for your phone It ain't a lot of food. It ain't like gas. It ain't a lot of water The long road is gonna test you It's gonna stretch you It's gonna beg for you to turn around and go what is perceivably an easier route But see it's the long road that's gonna help you reach your destination and Many people do not want to travel the extra mile because there's no parties on the extra mile There's actually no traffic on the extra mile So I can't hear the day to tell you as we getting ready to go into 2023 we got a real class tomorrow. It's just like love YouTube stuff Class is tomorrow 9 a.m. on zoom You could grab your spot on Tony gasses Academy.com. You got until 1159 p.m. Eastern time So that's 859 p.m. California now Florida New York time 1159 p.m. The night you grab your spot in class gonna be a long class tomorrow We're gonna take breaks though as we getting ready to go into 2023 You got to start preparing your mind And you got to prepare to walk along see one thing I've learned One thing I've learned is That people who say oh you never have to walk alone They never took the long road People who say oh the top ain't lonely if your brain people with you They ain't never seen the top of nothing Because see you can't carry people that's unwilling to climb for themselves Especially if they able-bodied When you care somebody who can't climb for themselves you receive a supernatural strength because you serve it in your purpose So you could carry your child to the top because your child is a dependent You can't carry a able-bodied adult to no top Because it's gonna deplete you because there's places in the climb Where you need all your strength and If you holding dead weight You can't keep climbing But see people who ain't never really climbed no well They'll tell you that the top don't have to be lonely It's gonna be lonely in seasons other people gonna get them But they got to know how to climb on their own Based on what you didn't share with them what you didn't talk them what you didn't told them if they don't want to Implement and take action based on what you didn't share it with them You're gonna have to eat alone And you got to be okay with that see I Brought I bought a suite at the NFL Stadium and the suite It costs roughly $100,000 a year But what I learned about that sweet and probably why I'm gonna let it go with my contract up Because can't nobody afford to sit in there with me So whenever I go to the suite Every time I take somebody with me. I'm giving away a thousand dollar seat So if I'm in there with seven guests, I didn't gave away seven thousand dollars that way And guess what nobody offers? Maybe one person nobody offers Tony. What can I pay you for this seat? Tony what can I chip in on the food Tony? Can I rent the limo for us to get there? Can I pay your driver who drive in the sprinter Tony? Can I do something around your house? See what you're gonna realize about the top In your life Because everybody mountain top gonna look different Everybody mount top gonna look different But what you gonna realize about your mountain top in your life and your purpose and your business and your walk with Christ wherever it is is that You're gonna be hard pressed to find anybody That's willing to pay the cost You're gonna be hard pressed to find anybody that's willing to pay the cost because It's a sacrifice It's a sacrifice To get to the next level My friend was telling me about when he got on the road to drive trucks He driving trucks after having played in the NFL And he's saying one part of West Virginia they got this hill That's called dead man's hill or something like that And he says he was going down the hill It's so fast that he lost control and he was going down the hill backwards About 75 to 90 miles an hour One mistake and he going off the side of the mountain He say when he got to the bottom of that hill He said ain't nobody getting a dime from me Because I almost lost my life and ain't nobody willing to sacrifice their life for the money that I'm out here to earn And I say man that right there was it was life and death, but it was a microcosm for life in a hole because When you are sacrificing Very rarely will people be willing to sacrifice with you when your car get repossessed Ain't nobody chipping in to say Can I help pay your car note when your house get foreclosed on? When you facing eviction on your apartment Very few people gonna say can I chip in to help you pay? But on the other side of that loss When you turn the loss into a lesson and then you receive double for your trouble Everybody gonna want a ride and it's in that moment you gonna realize Wow Everybody won't success, but not everybody won't sacrifice Everybody want something for nothing See sacrifice comes before success even in the dictionary Look it up if you think I'm lying But see that sacrifice is painful People want to live and people want to have fun and people want to party and they want to party while you sacrifice it and Then they want what you got See their separation before elevation Under one made that quote up everybody using it now don't worry about it. That's the point of the message Lord gave me that and Lord gave it to me because I thought about how he would send people to the wilderness before they elevation They had to go to the wilderness before stepping into their purpose They had to go to the wilderness so that they could be away from everything to hear from God and That's why I wrote the quote separation before elevation now as you see his whole sermons on it now Because people get it because now people understand that it's true because Somebody listen to my spoken word eagles and turkeys Because see People understand now because I would always hear people say oh You could take everybody with you Oh and lift as you climb listen Why are you lifting as you climb the person you lifted still got to be climbing? Because if they just sitting there and they just suspended in L and They able to climb and they ain't climbing cuz they think you strong enough to pull them up Guess what they finna do they finna pull you off the mountain They finna disrupt your climb You finna be out of luck You hear me? Listen what I'm telling you now So I need you to understand Like the young man said everybody can't go Everybody can't go Need you to understand that and anything you look at You go on a job. They ain't got a thousand managers. They might have a thousand employees But they ain't got a thousand managers Everybody can't go See the managers them supervisors Showed up early and left late That's how they got that promotion See you got to have devotion before you get promotion now I'm past the finna take that from me Lord just gave that to me Lord just gave that to me Y'all see how Lord work ain't never said that before in my life somebody might have said it And I ain't never heard it though. You got to have devotion before you get a promotion now see Now if in the hill Past the flowers past the jakes past the Hennessy with with my saying And I mean boy, they be up there in the pool preaching like They don't follow me online like God just like listen to hold on now I had I had to go through mess to get that message At least say brother Tony mess Had God deliver him the message. Let me say let me share with you what brother said Like listen now. Don't be plagiarizing the mess. Don't play around the message if you don't want to mess But see that's the thing I want you to look at it God bless her soul God bless her soul Got a family member She wrote me Geez Tony Only been the one game in the suite Now if I call out she'll say she was joking She wasn't joking Because guess what happened? I gave her the suite one day. I was out of town by me giving her that suite. I gave her $8,000 I ain't get the suite offer talk game. I had to spend money on it Then on another trip they took us on a road trip to a way game. I took a whip me on that game But yes, she said I only been once But see when people think you got it They don't think the offer Listen Everybody need money I went to have a meeting with a billion now And took him two bottles of red wine because I heard in an interview he say he loved him a red wine And one of the bottles of red wine cost 750 dollars or something to the likes Do you think that man told me Tony Keep your red wine. I'm a billion now I could buy 15,000 of these bottles of red wine No, thank you Tony It no matter what the lord engaged somebody everybody appreciate a love offering Everybody appreciate gratitude Everybody appreciate some help Everybody appreciate that But see what you're going to understand is is that when you start making strides in your life Your family going to start to think you don't need no help Because you suffer in the darkness alone Because God didn't call you To the place that you understand that when you in the darkness you call on God You in the darkness called on God instead of calling on man And so people see you as strong and they feel like you don't suffer They feel like you don't struggle because even when you struggling you make it look good So they never think to offer you anything But they always think to receive from you or they always think to take from you See they come into your life To do withdrawals, but they're not coming to do any deposits And that's why you got to understand You got to understand the difference between helping And hindering You got to understand the difference You got to understand the importance of refueling You got to understand the importance of self-care You got to understand the importance of self-love and this the other thing is why you understanding this You still got to understand you ain't resting See Rest is productive So even in your rest your rest ought to be your priority Your rest ought to be your job your rest ought to be scheduled for you And this one thing that the lord has shown with me tony Don't let your good be evil spoken of Now see It's a double meaning in that right now It's a lot of people who sin with a free time So therefore because they sin in a free time, we're afraid to have free time Knowing that we're going to use our free time for productivity See is one man who could get him a second home And he go and start another family in that second home and he cheat on his wife It's another man that'll go sit in that beach house And a write a book unto the lord Is it fair for the man who is working for God Not to have his beach house or his vacation home because another man sins in his beach house or his vacation home See a lot of time we held captive by other people sin We can't even live in our blessings because we're afraid somebody gonna ask us for a handout. Oh Uh Was looking at your story last night and seeing you was at The steakhouse Well, am I able to hold something? I just asked you can I borrow $20 and you told me no and then I go on your story and you at the steakhouse So it's like well, hold on not hold on, huh? So I can't see After my sacrifice But you got your hat done You got your nails done And you did not sacrifice And now you coming to me for alone And I'm wrong For living while you struggling But you was perpetrating while I was praying Hold on now Like y'all say the math ain't nothing Like y'all say make it make sense Hold on now While you were fornicating I was on my knees Not in fornication, but crying out to the lord So now that you struggling And i'm succeeding I'm supposed to fake a struggle So that you feel comfortable Hold on now You watch me cry out to the lord You watch me sacrifice for the lord You watch me change my life You watch me consecrate myself separate myself Sacrifice dedicate myself And now you got to watch me succeed because in the moment when you saw me Sacrificing and you weren't willing to sacrifice You should have joined in See we got to understand it's going into 2023 See it's time out Or feeling sorry for ourselves when we got to go through See when we got to go through It's time out For feeling sorry When we got to go through Because on the other side of going through Double for your trouble A blessing for your stressing You hear me You got to understand it but see Very few going to understand Very few want to sacrifice and this what you got to understand too Is certain things That will titillate Your senses I guarantee you That if your sacrifice yields fruit You will be happier in paris On a solo vacation Meeting strangers Then at the house faking a struggle so that you don't make somebody who was unwilling to sacrifice feel bad When you was about to get put out your house When you about to get put out your car or when those things did happen And ain't nobody Make themselves available for you to call You got to remember that When it's time for you to vacation You got to remember that when it's time for you to get your blessing But see listen In all your stressing You got to understand There is a lesson You have lessons and then you have blessings y'all thought that was steve harvin Steve harv producer stole that from me Somebody gonna be doing one of the little mocking video mocking me Because y'all swear I'd be swearing everything come from me, but listen, I know what I toil far I know what I went through mess far I know what the lord gave me and when he gave it to me Lessons and blessings don't even rhyme, but the lord gave that to me Long time ago And I tweeted it Whoever steve harvey whoever on steve harvey account follow me on twitter Next thing I know I seen stay he's standing up on the end of the show said lessons and blessings I say boy and my exact quote. I say boy that sounds gentle But that's my exact quote now god can speak to both of us now But this is what I want you to understand so if god gave to him and he gave to me now That ought to be confirmation But what the confirmation ought to be Is that in your stressing There is a lesson But after that lesson comes a blessing So what I need you to understand Is that you cannot lie down And keep crying for yourself You cannot allow pain to break you You must allow pain To take you to the next level Allow it to make you to mold you See I heard Tony Dunge tell the story of his son Who didn't have pain sensors In his hand He said that the part of his brain that senses pain did not work All the way So because he could not sense pain He would go to the hot stove when the cookies just got done being cooked And he would reach in on the hot stove and he would grab the cookie And he would grab the cookie and it would burn his hand But because he could not feel the burn His body would not heal the burn So what Tony Dunge see how I'm giving credit what credit is due this all y'all got to do this all y'all got to do Because that man had to have a son Who had special needs to get that word from God? I'll be wrong to take that word like it's my word when he had the mess that produced the message That's all we got to do is give credit what credit do Because somebody had the toil through a mess to get that message Now listen to me Tony Dunge said He said because his son could not feel That he could not heal So he said what I learned is that pain is a healing agent So when the brain can sense and feel pain It sends aid to the wound It say hey We need to coagulate On that cut Then we need to form a scowl Then we need to produce new skin But the new skin gonna leave a scar The scar will be a reminder Don't do that again See this what we got to understand It's so many people That are sitting on their hands And while they're sitting on their hands crying Some people then stick their thumb up their booty And try to get pleasure in their pain Let me explain to you what I mean Some people at the bottom Get comfortable with food stamps and welfare Some people at the bottom get comfortable poor mouthing and begging Some people get to the bottom and ask for help Get some help and get complacent With the help Don't ever get complacent with the help God ain't sending you the help for you to get stuck God sending you the help to be inspired To get the work So that you in the place That you could help one day and that's what we got to understand See some people Are sitting and they crying I heard a pastor say he passed away His name will pass the pole in Tampa, Florida He said it ain't expensive you just can't afford it That stuck with me Because when we are poor And when we have a scarcity in mind We get mad at people who got things that's out of our price range Oh We got to get a good smite You shouldn't be charging that That is ridiculous People is struggling How dare you Pastor Paul said it ain't expensive you just can't afford it Because what you call an expensive somebody else calling cheap So what that means is you need to pray For the wisdom to get wealth so that what is expensive today could be affordable tomorrow Man that thing changed my life That thing changed my life and I have to tell my wife Don't look at nothing online and say it's expensive Don't pull mouth around me Don't speak lack around me Ain't nothing out of reach Ain't nothing out of reach for the mind that garden gave me Garden gave me the wisdom to get wealth Listen to me Lord showed me Tony you could sit home And be a man about your family Fly when you want to fly On your own schedule on your own dime if you need to and earn a living Lord showed me how to be a family man And make more money Then I did when I was traveling the whole world To the point that I didn't got spoiled Lord if I could do your work from home Why in the world I'm going somewhere To be touched on and hooked on by all kind of spirits That may not have my best interests at heart Lord, I thank you See you got the wisdom to get wealth You got the wisdom to crawl out of your situation, but here's the thing When you got legs You ashamed to crawl But sometimes when you fall You got to crawl And while you crawling You regaining your strength so you then can stand And then when you stand You might need a little help to take your first steps But then you learn how to walk on your own And after learning how to walk You then learn how to run Then You get in place to where now you could fly but see In so many people That sitting on their hands And they crying out to God But they're not using The mind that God then gave them to get wealth Because There's something you can do That you feel is beneath you Is something you can do That you feel Is too much work That's why I tell people listen Don't ask me for no money If Mike Donald's hiring Don't ask me for no money If Walmart hiring See a lot of time We don't want to suffer in that season But we got to suffer if you got the clean floors if you got the clean toilets If you got to walk people dogs If you can't go work a job Then you could create a job If you got to take and Spend your last five dollars To print up a flyer and make copies at kinkers That say you do dog walking You do babysitting You do meal delivery You do grocery shopping You do email answering Whatever you got to do You got to do it So listen I don't want to coach I don't want to do one-on-one session But Lord say Tony listen Your email filling up And at the same time when you give your time It's still going to add to the bottom line It might not be what you feel you worth But it's still something And something better than nothing And you live in your purpose at the same time. So get over your ego And open them sessions back up Is it draining? Absolutely Do some people sign up for coaching with nothing to talk about? Absolutely But is it serving a purpose? Yes it is Because the person who actually need to talk to me Or be able to talk to me So Lord say you got to do it You got to do it I said Lord Such such ain't doing one-on-one session Such such ain't doing one-on-one session Such such ain't doing one-on-one session I said Lord now who online with three and a half million Supporters online doing one-on-one session Lord who is accessible one-on-one after a million Followers online Lord saying call you to be like the people of the world Lord say my son Was perfect on earth And still could be touched Lord saying call you to be a pastor with 12 armor bearers Standing up begging for tithing offering But can't be accessible Even to a few Lord saying call you to that So you got to do what you call to I said Lord Okay, and what he said hey Make it worth your while Because you can't be And this a lesson for everybody now This ain't just talking to me now Chan with you what the Lord told me Make it worth your while because you can't be accessible to everybody Because see It's some people who like low hanging fruit And then some people that understand you're gonna have to climb You're gonna have to climb To get to some places You can't be accessible to everybody Because it's steps that need to be taken Before somebody could reach you Your products too expensive Guess what It's somebody Who just started their business And they are ahead of you And the price is affordable You got to wear microcores Before you could wear Louis Vuitton You got to get a Louis Vuitton purse Before you could get a Chanel purse You got to get a Chanel purse Before you could get an Hermes Kelly Or Hermes Birkin Do you hear what I'm telling you It's steps you got to take When you go see Cherie Gaskins And you see her with Chanel The very woman that you see wearing Chanel purses that you say is beautiful and classy that very woman wore $40 knockoff purses from the swap meet with pride The very woman that you see dripping and draped in gold Cherie Gaskins That very woman got married to me in a courthouse With a $69 fake three-carat cubit zarkonia ring That come from the home shopping network HSN HSN simile check So now when you see A rock on her finger Understand that that started at $69 and I ain't lying to you. I paid $69 dollars for the ring That I married my wife with But see people don't understand the process people just understand the product People people don't understand that I heard that from Anki Johnson People don't understand that And and now think about he might have heard from me He probably on Twitter I might have said Listen though before I said it listen People just see where you at And believe what they want to believe You might see me in a luxury car You might see me in a luxury car, but guess what I had a 1994 Lexus That was my first luxury car I had a 1994 LS 400 In 2007 That lessons gave me 365 days of service On the 366th day I went in the crank it and that lesson said nope Not the day partner and never again So when you see me in some luxury today understand that I had to push my car Understand I had a car repossess Understand that I had a car that got stole And I didn't have the insurance to get back I had to walk away from my car that got stole after they found it Because I didn't have the insurance to get the car out the pound And that's when I had to get into that lessons Old lessons, but I got me a lessons Because I wanted some nicer I wanted luxury So the day I got it, but I had to crawl before I walked And I had to walk before I run And I had to run before I fly I had them flew on the buddy pass Back in the day when you used to be have to dress business casual And you get on the plane last And they know about how you sit on the toilet in the lavatory To be on the plane I had to do that before I could get in first class And I had to ride first class before I could get on a private jet See every single one of us got to understand that it steps in life And that sometime you got to lick gravel Before you could eat caviar But you might not want to eat no caviar, but You might can afford it Sometime you got to kiss the concrete That life to knock you down on And you got to say thank you I saw a quote and I don't know who wrote it Saw it on the quote out and the quote says The quote says Success is how high you bounce After you hit rock bottom A lot of people don't know rock bottom But if you know rock bottom You got to appreciate rock bottom And you got to get every lesson from rock bottom And it can't be nothing above you See it's sometimes People are calm I see people They'll start a business And because I look like I might be Successful like I might have a little bit of success They want to give me a price based on my success Instead of based on their success And it's a listen I listen I I've been doing in 15 years So don't charge me what I could pay Charge me what you worth Because you just started this year So don't call Hollywood you do social media management for $3,000 You just started When I started doing social media management I charge $400 a month But I was getting people thousands of followers real followers because I had them built the following And so I was building the following for pastors and charging $400 a month when people was charging $4,000 When I started doing PR I hadn't got myself on Oprah Got myself on Tyra Banks and got myself on tbn the 700 club Three globally televised shows in consecutive months Guess what the PR Companies that get you on opera back then was charging 10,000 to 20,000 a month You know how much I charged $150 $150 a month See a lot of time people see where you at and they don't understand where you started I might charge $50,000 now to ghostwriter book But the first book I wrote I wrote it for free For xnfl player the next book. I made probably 1500 So see people don't understand that Right now This is what this how they tell you to get your This how they tell you to get your coaching your one-on-one consulting price This is how the industry said it. This is a sauce company That they started up. They got a fame for people who are coaches So if you a coach they got a uh, they got a system for coaches Where they got a system for coaches where You could do your course online So I looked at it because I got courses online. So I wanted to see them See what they was doing because it was marketing to coaches Hey, your expert make money online. It was marketing and they said this how you get your coaching rate This is what I want people to understand About the process and about humility They said you take your annual salary And you divide it by 40 I mean you divide it by 52 weeks And you get that number So let's say you make a thousand dollars a week Then they say you divide it by 40 hours So a thousand divided by 40 Let's change that to 50. No, we'll do 40 Let's say you make 30 dollars an hour They say you take your hourly rate And then you multiply it by three So if you make 30 dollars an hour when you become a coach Or a consultant In that industry You you can't charge three times what you make On a job doing it if you're going to be a relationship coach Because you ain't made nothing as a relationship coach But this what they tell you because you post a coach in in your expertise So 90 dollars is what you're charged I did the math And when I did the math when this came out, this was some years back At that time I was making 2400 dollars an hour So based on what they said I was supposed to be charging 61200 I was supposed to be charging 7200 dollars an hour for coaching Guess what Guess what did you hear how crazy that sound? You hear how crazy that sound But that's what the algorithm is for setting your coaching price So when people tell me oh Tony you charge 450 dollars an hour that's a spousal I say do you know what my market value is? See everybody don't know your market value But see sometimes When purpose is greater than profit You got to get into purpose And you got to understand that God going to add to your profit And even in that people not going to understand So This what uh But here's the thing Everybody on move the same So when I went to this one White gentleman He's told me If you want one hour of coaching from me On finances because he wrote a book on finances that was like a bestseller He say One hour in person A cost you 20 000 dollars And he said if you want to do it on zoom One hour make a cost you 7500 He write books. I write books He got a major publishing deal. I got a major publishing deal. I know how much money you make So I know Off that book That's still on me now But he was charging me now prices for coaching Went to another man He said 30 000 dollars for an in-person session 20 000 dollars for one hour session on zoom See what you got to understand is Everybody ain't gonna move the same Everybody ain't gonna move the same everybody ain't gonna understand purpose and then some people They're gonna want to do what they want to do And take advantage of you Because some people it's more about the money than it is about the purpose so they'll charge an astronomical price Knowing that they really can't Deliver that much value And that's where you have to understand your morals and your values And where you stand that and you can't be afraid to start somewhere We're afraid to start somewhere and I deal with so many people who when they get started They start at the mountaintop Instead of starting in the valley Making connections building a network learning the lessons and then climbing They just get somebody to bring them right to the mountaintop Just a throw them in a rope of hope and just pull them all the way up And I'm finna charge this right here I'm finna move like this right here You're gonna have to be willing To walk your own path To create your own blueprint And to do things your way Now if you in class tomorrow, you're gonna hear some of this but because I don't use note cards And I don't use power points The spirit will flow differently So you'll hear stuff. I ain't never said and you'll hear stuff that the lord and gay tell me to hold on to That's gonna stay with us But I need to get on off here because I've been on here about an hour My wife told my whole facial is about an hour. So and I got my phone on do not disturb So she could be actually Get by done and then I don't even know and boy listen here that turn a good day into a bad one She getting here with that attitude So let me get on off here so I could catch her a listen If you missed any part of this And you just not coming on live go ahead and When I'm done and they upload going back to the beginning and watching to get in your spirit Because it's a million different messages in there and I'ma tell you something don't let nothing step on your toes Don't let none step on your toes everything that you get let it be getting for your good Don't let don't get offended by nothing don't get in your feelings about nothing sit And listen and when you feel triggered when you feel offended That's when you need to dig deeper. That's when you need to listen to that sentence three four times That when you need to get that all in your spirit You want to tell him get that all the way in your spirit And understand that and uh, some of y'all sent a blessing on here. Hey god bless you God bless you And i'ma tell you something That's why I call this the bless try Because it's something beautiful It's something beautiful about When you elevate to the place in your spiritual walk To where you understand the needs of people What I mean what I what I mean about that is people hear me talk about the blessings of god But it's certain people who They don't let my blessings Make them hinder their blessings It's certain people who If They heart say let me be a blessing because you blessing me they do that And I don't ask for that. You don't see me on here asking say hey Send this right here. Send this amount send this amount. Hey, you want me to acknowledge you? Send a thing up there. I don't do that but it's certain people who And I got to that place and I know the place in the space That that feel like And that's honestly why I receive it Because I told My barber before when I try to bless him and he said no man. I'm good. I'm good man. I'm good I said, bro, don't block my blessing I understand you might not need it But I'm sowing So will you not receiving it? You kicking up my seed Don't block my blessing And so I want to say thank you to the old people Coach amber She might not want nobody to know this in case one of her friends or family on here been asking them for some money And uh coach coach Jessica got mad at me when I told that she uh joined the coaching program Some people don't like to know Don't like people to know That they how they spend their money that they bless Some people want to keep that on the routes and I get it But that's what I was talking about today. We can't even live in our blessings because The opinions of other people But the world could go living they bless us The world could just floss and flaunt and show you everything in the world and we just Yes I love to see it But little child of god get a blessing You can't get enough spit in your mouth to get that smack on They they be smacking That ain't of god I say boy, we can't walk in our blessing Coach Elmer sent my wife $500 for Christmas The other day I said it was my mama birthday That's all I said. I said I'm going to my mama's for her birthday. Do you know? One young lady sent $20 And one young lady sent $5 and said tell your mama happy birthday. It's for your mama's birthday I say Right now in this very moment. Lord bless. Lord bless every last person That's moving in their life like that. That's blessing. They enable blessing. They this person they see over here in need Blessing this person that's been a blessing of them blessing this person right here. It's something about an abundant mindset That when people get an abundant mindset, I talked to a young man last night And I say I say my thing is about abundance Stretching my mind I say so I tilt 30% I tilt 30% But I say never once Have I looked at a receipt? Where they have it broken down and it go all the way up to 30% It normally stop at 22% or 25% I say but this restaurant Got 30% on here So I say that mean they expect Some people to give 30% I say that mean I got to tilt 40% Because I got to go above and beyond In my abundance I got to go above and beyond I got to stretch my mind If they say that it's people that's walking this earth with average minds And tipping 30% I got to give 40 because I got to have an abundant mindset And so that made that tilt Uh 40 dollars And the way the lord had me look at that Is tony Is this 40 dollars Gonna hurt you more Than it's going to help your waitress So when I look at it like that I say okay Okay That changed my mindset And from pouring out From pouring out my cup never empty God has sent a blessing out of nowhere I might be in gay gay gay And god has sent somebody that blessed me And somebody will bless me and don't even know I needed the blessing don't even know I was about to get in the welfare line Don't even know her but that's still god keeping your cup full Don't even know how about to get on the internet and log in and hit that Need to skip a payment And then somebody blessed me It's been times and I tell people to honest to god truth as my business started to elevate My bills got bigger And it'd be time to wow I need $6,000 for a bill I literally would pray And I would get a check For $6,100 Or $6,200 I remember the time that that happened That thing floored me I ain't know where that check was coming. I ain't know that check was coming. I'm like what in the world I needed $6,000 and this check came like the date of That's why the pan africans And he five percenters and he Atheists and at not sticking people who don't believe in jesus christ You can't tell me jesus ain't real You can't tell me jesus ain't real. I know lord real because I'm testing to try to meet the showed up And when he don't show up with things or material Money opportunity he show up with peace And at the end of the day, that's all that matter if you ain't got bread to eat but god get you peace That peace gonna hold you till you get you a piece of bread Atheists on the gas and god blessing why it should be about done with her facial So got to hop on off of here. I know I know I already said that but god bless the spirit had one more word for you God bless you. We'll talk soon One of my clients Y'all forgive him Hey, god bless you now somebody say I'm blessing on y'all Forgive me. I they deleted the other one where I can't see it, but god bless y'all Appreciate you Talk soon And I'll see y'all in class tomorrow Got a good amount of students in class tomorrow. If you ain't in class you'll see it It's on tonigastonacademy.com and say 2023 You'll see it on now Talk soon