 What's going on infinite fam welcome back to another video if you guys are new to the channel make sure you guys hit that subscribe button Turn on your post notification bell leave a positive comment down below for chance to get a For chance to get a shout out in the next video. That is right babe So um if you guys notice we are wearing the same clothes as the previous video And that is because today we have a doctor's appointment for baby girl over here So babe let him know what's going down today because we are currently on the way guys today I am going to my gyno because I have some concerns with As you guys know I have endometriosis So I am basically going to ask the doctor. What are my chances of being able to get pregnant last time? I went to the doctors They did an ultrasound on me and they found a lot of scar tissue and they pretty much Gave me medication for it to basically I guess help the situation When I asked a nurse practitioner if like I can have a baby She was kind of just like that is more so for the actual doctor to answer And I've been on this medication for about a month now so I just want to see like what are my options and What are my chances as well and yeah, that's pretty much what I am going to tackle today And I wanted to bring you guys with us because Obviously, this is a big deal and we don't want to like leave you guys out of it So what all that being said guys, we are going into everything with a positive mindset All right everything that we do we always leave it up to God and God's hands and all that so Irregardless of what the doctor says Ultimately, I leave everything up to the man above and that's just how I like to live my life Anything else you want to say? Nope, so we'll catch you at the doctor's office Made it we are actually in the waiting room right now baby Why you're nervous I got like a slow zoom going on right now This stress Yeah, guys, we're just waiting right now for him to come in and then We're gonna ask him if he wants to be on camera because we want to ask him if this whole conversation If he's like comfortable with just it being on camera and whatnot, you know Obviously, we like to ask people before putting them on camera any last words All right, love what is Tell me what's going on. I mean I read about you. I know about your history of Endo, right? And I actually read your Ultrasound lap was it last week? Yeah. Yeah last week But tell me what this is about what's going on. Come here. So this business is pretty much pertaining to just like my I guess if I'm able to get pregnant and kind of just like If it is going to be difficult What are going to be my options as far as being able to have a baby? Also, just like my timeline because when I got my surgery They had told me that it's gonna be harder for me to get pregnant and I would have to get immediately after surgery Just in general. Oh, okay And like the average person as well as like if I do want to get pregnant that I should start now because if I Want to wait a couple years. I won't be lucky That last sentence I don't understand What they meant by that unless they're just saying that if you're going to have trouble you should start sooner rather than later Maybe that's what they meant So I mean the true true true nitty gritty of it is no one can tell you Whether you can get pregnant or not With you having all of your parts intact We can we know that you have an ametriosis your ultrasound Showed and suspected that you still have either some scar tissue or New scar tissue because it looked like on the ultrasound that your ovaries were kind of stuck behind your uterus Now that again, that's just an imaging. That's not me live inside of you knowing, right? And so there's no way to really know your fertility state 100% Unless you're going to go through a full fertility workup Which is possible, although I am not a fertility specialist per se I know how to do a lot of the lab work that they do I can order a lot of the tests that they order, but I am not a true fertility specialist So if you want the best of the best which would be a fertility specialist And they can take you through that and what that's going to look like is it's going to be a decent number of visits with blood work It's going to be a analysis from this young man. It is going to be potentially a saline sauna where they inject your uterus with some saline to see whether there's any Pollups or anything like that sitting in the cavity. It will be potentially what's called an HSG which stands for a histro-supingogram That's where they see whether your tubes are open So I mean it's an it can be an extensive workup And each one will give them information now what one of those things can I do? I don't do saline saunas, but I do histaroscopy. So to me it's actually a little step above I actually can put a camera inside of your uterus and see is there something there that doesn't belong and you can get a Tissue sample to say hey look her endometrium is healthy I Can order a histro-supingogram? Instead of doing it with them you can do it at a radiology facility So there are things that we can order without them I can give you an order for analysis for him to get his sample to make sure because 33% of the time It's male factor induced If all of that comes back as normal Then it's you know then the blood work that is more in their realm So I know how to do some of the blood work and I know what blood work they're looking for But there's very specifics when it comes to that some of the labs I can't even draw here. You have to have them done at the lab Okay Because they have to be immediately frozen So saying can I get pregnant is kind of a Loaded question because Anything is possible But you need to you know unless you guys are just going to dive into it and try the definition of infertility is one full year of actively trying to get pregnant without Getting pregnant That is when most at your age will say that warrants a fertility work up Now you should not be trying to get pregnant while you're on the medication that you're So remind me when was surgery a Year ago, okay, okay, but and you started feeling things kind of flare back up immediately after Do you know Like how well or not well they were able to clean Things up. I was told that my surgery was very difficult What was it done at remind me it was in New Jersey, okay, and it was in New York City But that's all that they really told me was that they have to get a general surgeon to help. Oh Because it was like it was my colon and everything was like mixed in Yeah, but that's pretty much all that they told me okay, okay So, you know without that operative report to see how much they did or didn't do or could or couldn't do It's impossible for me to know what your baseline was I mean if your colon was involved Do you remember them ever giving you a stage of your endometriosis Joe before okay? Okay, so your colon was 100% of all yeah And it basically means that the area underneath your uterus, which is called the cul-de-sac is gone It means that your colon likely was just stuck to your uterus. So you were the case that I had yesterday I mean it is unfortunately endometriosis is a it's a nasty beast Yeah And so that's why they probably need a general surgery to kind of push down your colon and detach it from the uterus Yeah, I think that's what he said actually and so then you know the The downside to any surgery is that with each surgery with each tissue that you touch This you can stick back together So whether your ovaries were stuck where they look like they're stuck on ultrasound now or whether they Restuck there is impossible to know but if they stuck With the tubes then it can be blocking your tubes That's where the HSG would come into play But they inject you someone to die and see whether the die comes out the tubes to see whether the tubes are open or not The tubes aren't open then you can't get pregnant without IVF That's where that those brilliant fertility doctors come into play So you guys have to make the decision of when are we going to try and whether you want to do the conservative route and Not do all of this crazy testing come off the my femur II Try and if you'd hit pregnant great, then who gives her then you know, right? Yes And actually getting pregnant helps and be sure this is what keeps it quiet Which is a great which is a great thing Or you don't get pregnant and you're ready for the work up Or you can stay on the my family and we can do some of the work up so that you know Exactly what's going on so that you know You know when you come off my family how difficult or not difficult it may or may not be questions Does that all make sense? Yes, everything makes sense. I'm very informative Incited a lot of like my worries and questions I Feel like the only question that I have is if I do have another surgery would that help me or harm me? It depends on what we find when we go in to do the other surgery You know sometimes doing surgery can cause harm, okay, right if I I may have to damage your tube in order to detach it from something You know and whether it was damaged already before we start versus not is going to always be a mystery With each surgery just like I said it create it can create new scar tissue Which can actually make you worse than you were before surgery. So I'm not opposed to surgery I do surgery all the time every week but Patients with endo you have to be very careful and weigh the risks and the benefits to taking them to surgery every six months to a year Versus knowing when to say you really should stop and see if the medication will treat you and see if we can do a Non-surgical approach first because if not before you know it you're 40 years old and you've had 40 surgeries And each one gets more and more potentially complicated I guess um, I'll just continue to take the myfembrie How are you doing on it? I actually like it. It's helped a lot with my pain. Awesome. I'm glad it's helping your pain Yes. All right, love. We are not going anywhere. We are always here for you Um, I'm sure you're following up when it comes to the myfembrie Yes, um, if you guys get home and you have questions or you change your mind about anything I'm always here. We can start to work up Whenever you want we can refer you whenever you want. It's easy peasy. Okay. Thank you so much for Pleasure. Do you have any questions, sir? Um, actually one. Yes, if we did want it to start trying to get her pregnant How soon would she have to stop the medication? I would probably recommend three months three months. Okay. Gotcha All right, that's all I have for three months for her Um, but I mean, you know we want there is no real hard fast rule But three months not only gives time for the medication to be out of her system But it also gives time for your body to kind of reregulate itself Because one of the very important things in dating a pregnancy and figuring out how far along you are is what your last menstrual period was So if you're just like constantly spotting And we don't really know when your last menstrual period was. Yes We can eventually figure out how far along you are by ultrasound We're accurate to know it based on your last menstrual period that it is to date you by song note. Okay. Gotcha. Okay. Thank you What other questions sir? That's it. I'm good All right team. Thank you so our infinite fam So that was probably the most personal. I think we've ever gotten on this channel as far as like In depth with my I guess endometriosis Definitely don't want to put everything that was said in there because I'm a little embarrassed Not gonna lie talking about all my surgery and all this stuff But I feel like after that conversation. It's definitely a lot to think about. Um, man, I'm ready to start Are we trying tonight? He said three months and that's if I'm off my big off my vacation. You hear me off of my medication I see where my brain's at. Um, okay, so let's go home. Let's throw out your medication We're not gonna throw it out. Let's like put it in the back of the cabinet where it's not seen All right, and then we'll wait three months and then you know, we'll get the we'll get the party started Absolutely not. That's crazy. Um, I have to give myself three months get used to the meds I'm on And I've only been on it for like a month and a half. So I have to like get on that Hopefully it'll help Like I said, um, everything's still up in the air With as far as my timeline. So I don't know. I think I just have a lot to think about and yeah What do you have to say about all of that? You learn something new every day when he said 33% of the time infertility is caused is because of the man I was like, wow I was actually very surprised with that. Yeah, I know every day. So 33% of the time is the guy's fault. See 66 67% it's always the females right you guys you guys just always causing problems. Shut up. You're just being toxic and just You're just being yeah girls being girls Are you done? Yeah Anyway, yeah, so we'll just wait it out and uh, see what's gonna happen from here Do you think he was judging our lisp? Yes, I could tell he was looking at me while I was talking and I could tell like he was looking at my lisp But I was getting like mad self-conscious about it. Bro. I hate this lisp so much. I hate it too Like I don't I don't want to wear liners anymore I don't I honestly just want to get veneers, but I'm scared with veneers because like sometimes I don't know it just doesn't end up going well, but I rather just go the natural way So we're gonna go the natural where we already started. Yeah, we already started. It is what it is came back out now All right guys, so we finally made it home fast forward about a half hour that traffic was insane Florida is becoming more and more populated. I don't know how I feel about that I think it's the area that we're in honestly. I feel like I think it's just florida in general everyone wants to come down to florida because everyone just hates the cold Yeah, pretty much, but all that being said guys, that is the end of today's video So overall a pretty much positive outlook on everything that went on today Anything else you want to say before we close it? Nope, I think that's it. Um, he answered a lot of my questions very informative and concerns and yeah, that's pretty much it So overall that being said guys, it is not time for today's post notification shout out today's post notification shout out goes That's who Amy Hernandez shout out to you girl. Thank you so much for the love and support If you guys want to post notification shout out all you guys got to do is like comment share and subscribe Turn on those post notification bells So you notified whenever we post a new video and with all that being said we will catch you in the next video