 Hi, my name is Lori Alexander and about five years ago, I think it was five years ago I should have checked but not any Wi-Fi or cell service in this Cabin, and I just decided to make this on the spur of the moment So I think it was five years ago last July. I published a post called Man Prefer Debt-Free Virgins Without Tattoos And I knew it was a catchy title and I'd had it in my My blog for a while before I published it kind of working on it figuring it out. Do I want to publish this? Do I not? But I had no clue that it would take off like it did as soon I was outside on my deck trying to find cell service to publish it you know and as soon as I published it it got hit it was slammed and And The women about an hour later a woman in chat room shared When the first I don't know if it's the first right up out of hundreds By a woman named Felicia something starts with an H her last name and she just blasted my article and Lindsay one of the Administrators of the group shared it and said it's like she didn't even read it and then another one Another famous marriage blogger's daughter Ranted and raved she did a YouTube video on the on my post and said I'm crying I just read the most horrible thing. I've ever read in my life He was like are you kidding me with all the filth that's going on in our culture. This is the most horrible thing she's ever read in her life and And before I published that post I didn't take surveys or even researched if Man preferred debt free virgins without tattoos, but I use common sense Why wouldn't why would men want a wife? Who had loads of debt and to bear that burden and I know a lot of men take that on and it's hard God calls debt bondage and he tells us to owe no man anything So it's much better. I think men much prefer to marry a woman that doesn't have debt common sense And then a virgin why do you think Muslims are willing to sacrifice their own lives to get 40 or however many virgins? It's common knowledge that men want virgins to marry and even I guess to sleep, but I don't know I don't research that kind of stuff, but they want to know that a Woman that they marry when she's having a baby. It's going to be her baby They want to know that they're going to be their wives are going to be faithful to them And it's a lot easier to be faithful to one's husband if one was a virgin before married for marriage And God commands older women to teach women to be chased So I'm commanded to teach women to not to not be sexually promiscuous at all before marriage And so this is what I do and that's what I was doing in this post and then with debt-free virgins without tattoos. I Wasn't you know, I didn't research that either but after I read the Went so viral and all over the world. I was talking about it. I did research it and men do prefer those things debt The majority men do not like tattoos on women. They get gray with age and wrinkled skin they just like the way God created us the flesh that he created us in and and so I had to try to figure out a way to make To justify that all of these positions biblically I'm afterwards since it got so huge, you know and so many Christians just wailed on me For posting that and I still don't understand that to the day to this day because Dead is bondage. I am so but we are to teach women to be chased before marriage Because that's God's will for us and it's his perfect will and it protects women in so many ways There won't be the abortion the STDs the broken hearts I mean, I think it even leads to divorce the divorce mentality and then the the Tattoos once you get them you have them for life And I think a lot of young women that's the thing now so they get the tattoos and they most people do regret them as they get older and so I Didn't understand the outrage. I understood the outrage from unbelievers and Why that would offend them, but I didn't understand the outrage from Christians And I know a lot of women were saying well women who would have slept around that doesn't mean that they don't deserve to Not get married. I didn't say that I said men prefer and This is what God commands to that you remain a virgin before marriage But if you did not which very few women are being taught to remain chased until marriage And so they sleep around. It's even in the church. It's rampant So then they even if they become strong believers in Jesus Christ repent become new creatures in Christ Walk in newness of life and are transformed often. They still have scars Oftentimes sleeping around before marriage women have abortions. They get STDs And it's a any that's why God tells us to flee the youthful the desires of Lest away of youthful youthful Desires of less. I can't remember if I go something like that He tells us to flee that he also tells us to flee fornication because he knows the sins that we commit in our youth Can harm us for life. They leave scars. Yeah, we're forgiven. Yeah, we're Made new creatures in Christ every single sin we've ever committed or will commit is forgiven the moment We believe in Jesus Christ, but it still doesn't mean that older women like me aren't supposed to warn women about fornication and to teach them to be Chased and sexually pure before marriage and I want to do that and I will continue to do that I wrote a post to the day on my Facebook page and said two things I learned from posting this post Well, um, you must not teach women to be sexually before before marriage because it completely offends those women who weren't sexually pure before marriage And I was just saying this sarcastically in someone women say, you know, if you believe that it's like, are you kidding me? I still teach it all the time, you know, and I also learned that you can't teach women What men prefer because that greatly offends women Well, you know what? I'm not in the business of catering to women's emotions And I or and I don't worry about offending them if you're not offending women women who teach Truth, you know, you must not be teaching truth because truth will always offend Jesus Christ as he walked this earth Offended many people John the Baptist Paul's writings the apostles They all offended people truth will always offend people because we live in a wicked wicked generation who hates God who hates truth But truth needs to be said people need to hear truth because it's what changes people. It's what transforms them It's what saves them when they repent and ask for forgiveness So no, I don't regret publishing that post one bit because if I did I would have taken it down My husband was a real surprise. I told him when upstairs and told him You won't believe what's happening Like when I heard him when I he heard the title of the post He's like, oh no, you know because he knew that it might deeply offend women But a lot of women loved it a lot of men loved it Met all throughout these five years People have told me that they found me through that post because people were ridiculing it and I don't care when People ridicule my post because what they intend for evil God uses for good a lot of people have found my post Through people ridiculing it and that's okay with me. That doesn't bother me As long as they find truth my job isn't to not offend women. It's not to cater to their emotions It's to speak the truth and I do it in love truth is I Don't even know how to speak truth and hate I only do it out of love because I love women and I know God's ways are best I know they sound harsh I know they sound and I people will say that I'm blunt, but I never attack people personally Unless they're false teachers and I call out what they're teaching that is false I don't even attack them personally their looks or anything I'm because I we are called to mark false teachers and avoid them And I want women to stop being led astray by all these false female preachers who are teaching just garbage So anyway women, I just started get on here and give you a little background on my that post and my thoughts on it today and What I've learned from it is that I'm just going to continue to speak truth even it offends And and I will always continue to offend women because truth will always offend but I receive letters every day of women I just received the letter yesterday of a woman who has been it who's who's a doctor and she's quit in two 2015 against her desires, but now she's home with her Children that humble time and she's never been happier and more satisfied I get letters like this every day, and that's why I continue to do what I do Anyway, thanks for listening. Talk to you later. Bye. Bye