 My first year studying Enneagram I was so excited because I was a 7 and I'm like oh I'm so super fun I'm a 7 it's great. Then the second year I was studying Enneagram and I was like oh no I'm a 7 I'm shallow I'm all of a person oh I'm an addictive personality I hate being a 7. But finally my third year I put it all together and I like it all. It all makes sense so the gift in the center of the Enneagram it all balances out and leaves me liking you.