 What's going on you guys? So I had a text message that I thought I'd look at for you And he writes to me writes. Hey Lloyd. I've been texting this girl We had plans the weekend before and she couldn't make it So I texted her this week and she seemed really enthusiastic to meet up So I suggested we get drinks at this bar near my place. She said that sounds great smiley face some emojis But I might have to watch my dog that day. So I'll let you know How should I respond to this? What should I do? Okay, cool. So this is something that I get a lot I get a lot of guys who reach out to me where they're trying to get a girl out and You know, they're having some issues with it, but the girl seems like she's you know She seems like she wants to meet up. Okay. She seems like she likes him Unfortunately, I got some harsh news for this guy Yeah, I anytime you're getting I'll let you know anytime you're getting flaked on for reasons like that You're probably better off moving on man, okay Now what this woman has told you is that she is not willing to give up her time and set aside To hang out with you She's basically saying hey, I'm gonna see if there's anything better going on and then I'll come hang out with you Yes, is there a chance she does have to watch her dog? Yeah, absolutely But let's be real if she wanted to she could drop it off at a friend's house She could leave her dog there for just a couple hours, you know, like I've I've taken care of dogs Like you can leave them for that long a period of time. It's not a big deal This is kind of a bullshit excuse. Okay, if she wanted to meet up She would now it's not to say that she doesn't like this guy. I'm sure I'm sure she does But not enough to not watch your dog for a couple hours She's already flaked on him once and anytime you're getting the I'll let you know This basically means that they're looking for something better or they're just you know Waiting to see if they literally have nothing else to do and then they'll use you as a backup plan and almost always They just don't end up going for you. Okay This girl has flaked on you once dude and she's gonna flake on you again My rule and I recommend you have this rule too is if you try two times meet up with somebody and they haven't meet up with you Just go on and move move on to somebody who will meet up with you Okay, you have to price your time as as valuable like what are you gonna do like your options are either do that or You'll leave your freakin Saturday open for this girl just in case she might want to meet up with you Now if you don't respect your time that much, I mean Saturday nights like a big you could go out You could meet somebody else like there's so many possibilities for you to do Okay, you're leaving you don't she does not have respect for your time and the truth is you really don't either if you're doing this Here's what I would message her. I would message her something like this. I would message her Okay, no worries I'm gonna go ahead and make plans then we should just meet up another time and then you can put a smiley face You can put whatever it doesn't make a difference Okay, and then a positive note and then after you send that just don't text her again Okay, unless she's really trying to meet up with you like reaching out and saying hey When are we gonna do our date and stuff like okay? Maybe give her some You know see if she's actually like being serious and she doesn't want to meet up with you Because for the moment she doesn't do and honestly I know this guy's watching this and thinking but I really like maybe there's a chance that she does have to Watch her dog and all that stuff and I really want to meet up with her. Okay, cool First of all, you're in scarcity dude, so get out of scarcity. That should be your main priority And second of all, this is actually the best chance you have of meeting up with this person because right now if a woman doesn't Respect you or your time like she's not gonna sleep with you. She's not gonna want to date you Like that's just not behavior of a woman that's really interested in a guy. Okay, so yeah That's your best options to text that but honestly dude like I would want I would prefer that you go after somebody Who's gonna respect your time a little bit more. There's plenty of girls out there There's plenty of awesome wonderful women that you can meet And yeah, stop stop going after women. That's that's not gonna work out for you Okay, trying to narrow down women for dates is really tough I prefer to just organize my own event and things like that and bring you know Have fun and bring people who want to have fun with me and see who sticks around and see which people I have chemistry with I think it's a better way of doing things. So you don't have to leave dates open for people with my flake on you That way you're still having the fun regardless with or without them But that's something that I teach and you know my coaching and I'm also gonna be teaching it in my approaching system Which is gonna be coming out September 10th. We finally have a date for it you guys So if you want to get notified about that click the link in the description box below Thanks a lot you guys if you're having this problem, that's what I would text that person The I'll let you know is in general If you're getting a lot of those this girl is not serious about seeing you okay if she if she was she wouldn't be Cool all right. Thanks for watching you guys if you made it and consider subscribing and come up with videos like this every single week Good luck out there