 Gentlemen, if no one's told you, you got to tell yourself you are special. You are important. You are the man See when I talk about things like confident intelligent and assertive CIA When I talk about frames fragrance footwear when I talk about any of the things the catchwords I use I use them for a Very specific reason because you matter and you need to carry yourself as such Many guys if you're honest with yourself, you had to actually learn How to be treated well you came some of these chaotic dysfunctional kind of environments where Arguing screaming fuss and fighting was the order of the day when somebody was actually nice to you for the first time in Particular a lady friend would probably kind of threw you off or playing videos on the internet So guys who used to be in yell that a hollet by their girlfriend wife or significant other Take some getting over getting used to being treated better So how do you start getting treated? Well by other Kevin this is common sense or it's easiest and then how did you get there? Well, the first thing is I started to treat myself well at every level I was that I did not wait and I did not necessarily wait to treat myself well Yeah, even when you're making minimum wage get an extra topping on your pizza get extra cheese the little things guys Matter so much. That's why I talk about the three F's frames fragrance and footwear I just grabbed these two right here Roja dove Elysium costs more than the average fragrance But when you wear it, you'll know where your money went and this one right here molecular one probably my favorite fragrance on the planet But when I wear it, I feel incredible. This is me treating myself Well, this is me treating myself like I matter wearing this wearing that it comes to the frame game Putting a little bit more money into the quality of my frames You don't necessarily know it, but I know it when I wear them how they feel on my face how they hug Just the contouring you can tell the difference when you're wearing a nice pair of shoes How they feel a good pair of shoes changes you it changes everything about you It changes the way you walk the way you glide across the room It changes your strut your stride your stance your gate your masculine frame So guys you got to treat yourself better in everything. That's why I say fit is more important than fashion in Quality is more important to quantity talked about the frames to talk about the fragrance and let's talk about the footwear You can something as simple as this guys. This one pair of boots is money They're definitely highly complimented and they start lots of conversations. I take care of them and they take care of me I would say this what people are terminating these shoes any guy that's wearing those I want to get to know treat yourself like you matter and the world would do the same I would rather you have less of something and have good some a lot of average and do that in your personal life, too Stop allowing people into your personal life that don't meet up to your minimum Expectation like I said women should be FBI feminine beautiful and inspirational now Maybe you work for somebody else and you cannot control who you interact with at work, but in your personal life Oh, yes, you can you most definitely can decide to not have any women anybody in your life That does not treat you with respect Cooperation in that feminine beautiful inspirational kind of thing you can make those decisions And the thing is when you carry yourself a certain way when you treat yourself in a certain way You will actually give yourself permission to demand the best from others That's the key. You got to carry yourself that way Give yourself permission to demand that people treat you with respect address you with respect. Let nothing slide Uh-uh when someone wants to insult you when someone wants to do a sneak-diss or something like uh-uh Call it out call a ride on a mat. Nope. Your name is so-and-so. Don't let them Don't let me your name is Daryl Daryl. Don't let them call you D say my name is Daryl My name is Daryl or other than that call me mr. Tibbs. Do not address me informally Have a standard that you have for yourself and here's the thing the people that you'll tick off or something like that The ones that I'll say you're up to you you fully yourself you're arrogant you ambitious You didn't need them around you anyway You need them out of your world So they did you a favor by getting away from you by raising your standard You're gonna actually lose a lot of dead weight, but here's another thing you'll actually start attracting people like you Like attracts like you want to be treated better by your colleagues by women raise your standard Treat yourself well And demand the same thing but here's the other side You also have to treat others with the merit respect but the golden rule still applies You still need to treat other people the same way anytime I meet somebody I go into an interaction With good faith assuming that you're going to do the right thing You get an opportunity to show me different and as long as you treat me the way I expect to be treated I will treat you the same way and we will enjoy being around one another hit me up in the comment section Let me know if you agree with what I'm saying here or if you think Kevin I hear what you're saying But that's not how the world goes instead if you want to get that kind of outcome you should do it this way I'm hoping to hear in the discussion and inquiring minds would like to know But at the end of the day is the outcome that matters if you want to be treated better Treat yourself like you matter first your godfather is out Hey guys, whether look style or life whether personal or professional you can level up and be your personal best each and every day If you're interested in any of that do us both a favor Follow the link in the description and book your one-on-one session with me details down in the description. Peace