 Hi, I'm Matthew coast head dating coach and founder of commitment connection calm and in this video we're going to talk about how men fall in love and But before we talk about that if you're struggling to attract a quality man into a committed lasting relationship make sure you go to my website at commitment connection calm and take my quiz So today's question comes from a woman in our community and she's asking How do men fall in love and and by the way? This is a very important topic because if you don't understand how men fall in love You're relying on luck for a man to fall in love with you And that's never a good strategy because a lot of women when they're growing up. They learn a lot of habits and behaviors that actually Stop or prevent men from falling in love with them and it kind of does the opposite And it kind of pushes them away and so you need to make sure that you understand What it is that makes men fall in love and and Just to let you know that one thing Is this right here and it's it's Creating a deep Emotional connection with the man and I know that can sound kind of vague and like what does that even mean? So here's how to do that The first way to create a deep emotional connection with a man is to make him feel like he's a man When he's around you and what that kind of means is allowing him to be The provider and the protector and kind of the leader of the relationship and if you're a strong independent woman that might sound kind of like a hard thing for you to do but Um Guys want to feel like they're guys, you know, they want to feel like they're men. They want to feel respected as a man They want to feel appreciated as a man and if you can make him feel that way, you know a lot of women You know one of the big complaints that I hear from most of my guy friends from a lot of the guys that I used to coach is that They they you know a lot of them would tell me that they don't feel like women Especially Western women women in America. They tell me that they don't feel like women in America respect men And it's hard for a lot of those guys a lot of guys to date women and want to be in a long-term relationship with them If they don't feel like they're being respected if you don't know feeling respect is Incredibly important to a man. It's more important to them than love. It's more important to them than You know just about anything else so The second thing that you want to do to create a deep emotional connection and make a guy fall in love is to make him feel Sexually desirable, you know show him that you're sexually interested in him Men actually feel validated. They get validation from women Sexually they want to feel like they're sexually desirable and and if he can get that from you You'll go a long way and making him feel emotionally connected and attracted to you The third part is giving him space before he needs it a lot of women end up smothering men and they You know don't have they give everything to a relationship kind of in this like name like oh, I'm giving everything to a relationship Why don't guys, you know love me and it actually ends up smothering men, you know And it feels really kind of creepy and icky and bad and you know guys feel like they want to Like run away when a woman smothers him like that and so what you want to do instead is give him some space You know and have a life have things going on outside of the relationship Make sure you have friends you have activities you go and do things outside of the relationship and that can go a long way for Creating emotional attraction and making a guy fall in love with you And the last part that I want to talk about is showing him that you're on his team And this is a huge one, you know if you're constantly fighting him if you're you know putting him down out in public if you If he doesn't feel like you're on his side He'll you know, he won't be able to trust you he won't feel like you're loyal he won't He won't feel like you're in this together and the only way that he's going to want Something long-term with you is if he feels like you're on his side You know, at least if he's if he's a real man and he respects and values himself That's the only way that He's gonna want a long-term relationship with you as if he feels and and if he you do that If you make him feel like you're on his side He will I mean he will fall in love, you know, that's that's a huge huge thing for guys That will make them feel, you know, right now men are being attacked all over you know for a Variety of different reasons they're being shamed for you know who they are and and You know if you show him that you're on his side and that you respect them and you appreciate him For being a man and you know, you're part of his team It can go a long long way and making him feel and fall in love with you So that's it for this video if you want more information on what's stopping you from Attracting a quality man into a committed lasting relationship Make sure you go to my website at commitment connection calm and take my quiz So that's it. I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon