 You're not angry with them. You're not revolting. You're not rejecting. You're just neutral and you're quiet. Neutral and quiet. Each of the people you meet in your life who's not your family, you should have the same attachments to everyone or be detached from everyone. That's the way to be. Just because you share blood doesn't mean you're obliged now to to sit at family dinners for the rest of your life. You're obliged to look after your parents. You're obliged to look after their physical well-being because the emotional well-being of another person is difficult to do. You're obliged to look after your children. You're obliged to look after your partner. The rest of the family, they should be glad if you are there. They should appreciate your presence. If they don't, it's not the place for you to be.