 Five reasons why a narcissist can never be loyal to you to determine if a narcissist can be loyal to you We first need to identify what loyalty is We need to identify the quality of being loyal to a person to a narcissist Loyalty means they don't cheat on you. It means they shouldn't be sexually unfaithful When really Cheating is so much more than being involved with another person Cheating is an act of fraud or deception A person who cheats is someone who behaves dishonestly or unfairly in order to gain an advantage Rather than giving you support and allegiance Rather than being committed to you There are narcissists who don't cheat They can be self-righteous They are characterized by a certainty that they are totally correct or morally superior They believe that they are better and more moral than other people They are confident of their own righteousness They can appear smugly moralistic and intolerant of the opinions and behaviors of other people So these types of narcissists may not cheat on you But they will be disloyal in every other way imaginable They will throw you under the bus At any opportunity they get They will cause you to suffer In order to save themselves and gain a personal advantage They are self-absorbed and they lack empathy They are preoccupied with their own feelings, interests and situation And they have an inability to understand or feel what you are experiencing Which will always result in them betraying you It will always result in them being disloyal But by understanding the reasons why a narcissist cannot be loyal to you It will help you to protect yourself and it will help you to manage your expectations So here are five reasons why a narcissist can never be loyal to you One They have a negative outlook on life There is definitely a link between positivity and loyalty Positive people won't betray you But narcissists are always negative They are always dissatisfied with something And they cannot deal with disappointment They cannot deal with sadness or displeasure Caused by the non-fulfillment of their hopes and expectations But rather than trying to find a healthy solution They will do whatever it takes to get ahead They will throw you under the bus They will betray you for their own selfish reasons They will do something harmful to you In order to gain an advantage for themselves They will sacrifice you for the sake of their own advancement They do this to save their reputation Or to gain a personal advantage And it is the result of their negative outlook on life They're constantly in survival mode They're constantly doing whatever they can to survive emotionally And they lack the mental capacity to consider the effects that this may have on you Or they just don't care They believe that their needs are more important But only a person with a negative outlook on life is going to act in this way A positive person that is more likely to overlook daily announces or inconveniences Which might cause a negative person to deviate from the direct or proper course This is one reason why a narcissist can never be loyal to you Two, they have an itch they can't scratch They're always dissatisfied with what they have They're always discontented or unhappy with something They always want something more or something else They're always stuck for another option or alternative They're never happy with what they already have They never take a moment to stop and appreciate anything they have They're always thinking about what's next They're always thinking about what they might be missing out on They always think there could be a more desirable situation than what they are currently in They always think there could be something more But this doesn't always mean that they are looking for another person They might just demand more from you They might never be satisfied with anything you do for them Which in their minds is justification for them to treat you however they choose to They don't ever consider that their inability to be satisfied is the problem They just expect you to do more to manage their lack of contentment They hold you responsible for how they feel Their feelings are always a priority Their feelings are always more important than yours are Which makes it impossible for them to be loyal to you To be loyal we often have to put other people's feelings and needs before our own And this is something that narcissists cannot do Everything has to be their way Everything has to be done on their tombs They have to be in control of everything But they always expect more from you They're never satisfied And they see their dissatisfaction As a justification to portray you They see it as a justification to behave dishonestly or unfairly In order to gain an advantage Free They can't deal with uncertainty They can't deal with not being completely confident or sure about something They can't deal with unpredictability They can't deal with things that are likely to change suddenly and without reason Things that are not able to be predicted They always need to know what you are going to do Or how you are going to behave They always need to think ahead Uncertainty scares narcissists away Because they always need to be in control They need to be able to influence and direct your behaviour and the course of events Narcissists like everything to be predictable They want you to always behave in the way that they expect They don't want you to be your own person They don't want you to grow and develop Because that makes them feel uncertain That makes them feel like you might outgrow them Which then puts them in a state of fear Until they try to control you They try to maintain influence and authority over you And controlling people will often be disloyal Because everything has to suit their agenda Everything has to pan out in the way that they see it Regardless of how it affects you For, they have a lack of empathy They have a lack of empathy They have an inability to understand or share your feelings They lack the capacity to understand or feel what you are experiencing They cannot place themselves in your position They have an inability to share your feelings or experiences By imagining what it would be like to be in your situation They don't care about how their behaviour affects you All they care about is getting their desired outcome They don't stop to think about how their behaviour might affect you Before they do something They have an exaggerated sense of their own abilities and importance They have a strong sense of entitlement They believe that they are deserving of whatever they want Regardless of how it affects you But if you did the same thing to them They would see it as though you're being disloyal They set rules for you Which they don't think they need to comply with Because in their minds they are more important They think they are better than you So in their minds that demands a higher level of treatment A treatment that is better than what you are providing them So they will throw you under the bus to get ahead They will behave dishonestly or unfairly In order to gain an advantage Five They are not supportive A narcissist can never be loyal to you Because they are not supportive They will not provide you with encouragement or emotional support Because in their minds They are the ones who need their support They demand an expect loyalty from you Without feeling the need to support you in anything Without providing you with any reassurance Or raising your spirits They have an inability to do that Because they can't even deal with their own emotions They demand an expect your support But they have no support to give to you They lack empathy So they often don't even notice When you might need someone to make you feel more energetic and cheerful And even if they did notice They wouldn't even care Because in their minds Their feelings and needs should always be the priority You should always be the one who is supporting them Which makes it impossible for them to be loyal to you It makes it impossible for them to give you constant support and commitment In their minds They are the authority They are the ones who should write the rules and regulations That only you have to adhere to But they are not going to be obedient to you They are not going to comply with your requests Because they think they are better than you And they feel entitled to behave however they choose to Which will often result in them disrespecting you They will love to result in them talking about you behind your back If they are not respectful when they are around you They will not be respectful when they are away from your presence They will only spread gossip about you They will only start media campaigns against you Narcissists cannot be loyal to anyone but themselves They are not to be trusted They will only act like they care when things are going their way When you are doing what they want But the moment you decide to put your own feelings and needs first You will then see just how disloyal they are Because in their minds They only have to be loyal as long as you do what they want If you don't think the way they think Or live your life in the way they want you to live They see it as though that gives them enough reason to betray you They see it as though that gives them enough reason to do what they want So don't expect loyalty from a narcissist It's not something that they are capable of They will throw you under the bus at any chance they get They will do anything to get ahead Regardless of how it affects you They see it as though they would just be lowering themselves To try to understand or support you They see it as though that would be taking something away from them When they need all of the support and attention They need you to be focused on them Which is why they cannot even consider being loyal to you They cannot consider your feelings or needs Because in their minds That would be at their expense They would be around to take something from you They didn't come around to support you They didn't come around to share anything with you All a narcissist cares about Is getting what they want All they care about is getting their desired outcome or result Add another person's feelings or needs It's not going to stand in the way of them doing that Which is why they can never be loyal to you Thank you for watching I hope this video resonated with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My paypal link is in the video description Coaching inquiries You can email me at coaching.naxviver.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon