 Because only saying yes and only going down one path and only affirming isn't love it's enabling and I feel like that's just something that parents need to understand with this. This is a modern tragedy. Our culture believes that love is always saying yes. It's always saying you know you do you whatever makes you happy but it is no regard for the consequences of those actions. Sometimes love is saying hey friend I know you're you want to go down this path I know you think this will make you happy but it won't it will actually be harmful for you so I can't support it and for a parent especially they're commanded by God to train a child in the way that they should go and when they're old they shall not depart from it to guide to lead to discipline that is love. Love is not saying you do whatever you want to do. This doesn't mean you're not compassionate and caring towards them but it means you don't compromise the truth because you're scared of their reaction.