 Hello everyone, welcome to another NARC Survivor Live video. In this one we're going to be talking about what happens when the narcissist knows they can't trick you anymore. Because the entire time they've been deceiving you, they've been playing you for a fool. They pulled the world over your eyes. They manipulated you. They love bombed you. They lied to you, they future faked. They gaslit you. They made you believe in all of these things that they weren't even about. They strung you along, believing in a dream, a fantasy, a delusion. Making you believe that they were actually about that for real. But you never saw anything come into fruition. It never manifested into reality because it wasn't even real. So the entire time they tricked you. They played you for a fool. They pulled the world over your eyes. They made you believe in something that they weren't even about. But what happens when they know that they can't trick you anymore? When the narcissist knows that they can't trick you anymore. That's when you will see who they really are. They won't even bother trying to hide it from you anymore. They will just rip their mask off and show you exactly who they are. And they will go all out on a campaign to destroy you. Once they know that there's no going back, you figure them out. They will discard you. They will get rid of you. When some cases they may just play along and act like they're still on your side. Especially those who are more covert. The overt narcissist won't even do that. They will just come out and show you exactly who they are. The covert will be more passive aggressive. But they will still be running a smear campaign behind your back. And of course the overt will be doing that. But it won't be behind your back. It will be done openly so that you can see. And they will want you to know that they are the cause of it. The covert will try to hide it. But either way that's what they're going to do when they know they can't trick you anymore. And again they're going to blame you for everything. They're going to say it was all your fault. They're going to gossip and spread rumors about you. They're going to talk about you to people behind your back. They're going to assassinate your character. Smear your name. Destroy your reputation. Try to get you fired from your job. Target you financially. And they're going to try to turn everyone against you so that you have no support. They will try to isolate you. And they will try to prevent you from moving on. Yes this is exactly what they will do. When they know that they can't trick you anymore. They may try to love bomb you again. They may try to bait you back in. To see if you're still susceptible to them in ablation. But once they've tried that and they can see that it doesn't work. Then they're forced to accept it. They're forced to accept that they just can't play you anymore. They can't mess with you. Because you're no longer susceptible. It's no longer having an effect. And they're not going to keep doing something if it's not working. If it's no longer effective on you. So instead they're going to try something else. They're going to completely turn against you and show you exactly who they are. And then they're going to go all out to take you down. Because it's the only way that they can get what they want. And what they want. If it's not your compliance then it's going to be your destruction. It's going to be taking you down. And preventing you from ever getting back up again. Because at that point you become a threat to the illusion. You become a threat to their false self. And they don't want anyone or anything to threaten that. They want to have full control. And if you're no longer under their influence. Then they're going to do anything they can to take you down. To get rid of you. Because at that point you become a problem. You threaten to expose them. For who they actually are. But as I said if you're dealing with an overt narcissist. They're not even going to do it behind your back. They will do it openly. And especially those who are more psychopathic. They will not only do it openly but they will even put their own reputation on the line. And they won't even care what other people think of them. They will do the most hurtful inhumane things you could ever imagine. And there's nothing to stop them. There's nothing holding them back. If you're dealing with a smear campaign from a psychopath. Because they're not even covert. They're not even trying to hide it. They're not even trying to maintain a false image. Because they really don't care what anyone thinks of them at all. So most definitely that can be the most difficult smear campaign to deal with. In comparison to an overt narcissist. But then the covert narcissist can be very damaging as well. Because the abuse is hidden. And it really messes with your minds. You will be dealing with a lot of gaslighting. But yes this is exactly what they will do. When they know that you're no longer going to play their game. You're no longer believing in their lies. You're validating the illusion. At that point you're good as dead to them. You become a lost cause. Because they see you as an object that exists to serve them. They view you as an extension of themselves. And if you're no longer playing your parts. Then they see it as though they have no use for you anymore. But that doesn't mean they're just going to let you move on and do whatever you choose to do. They see it as though that's a threat to their control. And for all they know you may go on and try to expose them. And after everything they've done to you. Of course they may be anticipating that you may want to seek revenge. Yes of course they're already anticipating that. And that's why they just won't let up on the abuse. They won't let up on trying to destroy you. Because they look at it like if you're in a strong position. Then you could get back at them. And that's the last thing they want. And not only that. But they're also constantly haunted by the things they've done to you. And they're trying to avoid reflecting on their shame. So they go into this shame rage abuse cycle. But they feel shame so they abuse you. They rage. And then they feel more shame. So then it abuse you again. And it just goes on and on. It never ends. But yeah you may think that you knew this person. And in the beginning they may have seemed so kind and sweet. It's like everything you ever wanted. This person who cared about you. He was there to support you. And then by the end of it when they rip off their mask. It's like Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde. You never knew what you were dealing with. Because the entire time you were being tricked, deceived. They played you for a fool. They were messing with you. And then when you finally begin to wake up. And you realize what you're actually dealing with. As soon as you realize that. When you finally know. They already know that you know. Because they immediately sense that your energy has shifted. They sense that you're no longer validating the illusion. You're no longer believing in their lies. You're no longer self loathing or blaming yourself. You're no longer questioning yourself or your actions. And now you're shining the light on them. You're seeing them as they actually are. And they don't like it when you do that. Because they want to live in this false reality. But they're perfect. They're flawless. They can do no wrong. So when you catch on. You figure them out. You realize exactly what you're dealing with. And they can't trick you anymore. They just see it as though what's the point in hiding. Why even wear a mask if you already know what's under it. And so they just rip it off. They show you exactly who they are. And they hope that it will intimidate you. And that they can use it to coerce you. To back you into a corner where you submit. That's what they hope will happen. So they keep on you hoping that you will just stay down and give up. And just go along with it even though you know. That all of that time you were being deceived. And if you don't do that they will just go on a campaign. To destroy you. To take you out completely. Because you either validate the illusion. Or you're no good. You're bad. You're evil. You need to be gone. And that's the only way that it's ever going to be with them. At that point the narcissist has a choice. They can choose between you. As their source of supply. Or they can choose their false self and the illusion. And I can tell you that no narcissist. Is going to choose. Their source of supply. Over their false self. I mean you think they need supply. But they need their false self more. Because their false self is what. Gives them access to that supply. I mean yes in a way. There's another side to their false self. Where. They can feel powerful at your expense. By bringing you down. But then what about all of the other supply. All of the other people that they're manipulating. They're enablers, they're flying monkeys. And then they've got secondary sources, tertiary sources. They're not going to choose you over all of that. So when it comes down to it, when they have to make a choice. They're going to pick their false image. They're never going to choose you. The illusion will always continue. It will never end. And at all costs they will do everything in their power. To uphold the false character. And even when they rip off their mask. As I said that's just another side to the false character. Even then that's not really who they are. It's just a means to intimidate you. To scare you. There is no real true side to them. All they really have is the false self. And that false self can be nice sometimes. If they believe that you're susceptible to it. Or they can be very mean, cruel, intimidating and hurtful. And that's really down to you. Because as I've said before. We initiate the devaluation, the discard. And even the smear campaign. We initiate it all depending on whether we choose to believe in it or not. Whether we choose to go along with it. But what kind of a life is that? If you spend the rest of your life just living a fake life and validating this illusion at your expense. Which is why it's best to just get it over with as soon as you can. And even then it doesn't mean that you're going to be free. It doesn't mean that they're just going to leave you alone. In many cases they could be on you for life. But it's either that or you're just a prisoner, a slave. And you're not even really being yourself. Because who you actually are. That person wouldn't want to be a part of it. They wouldn't willingly choose to participate in it. So in your pursuits. Or finding your authentic self. You will find that you just break away from it. Even though that may come with a cost. And it may have a negative impact on you. Because you look at it like you just don't want to be a prisoner anymore. You want to be free to make your own choices and decisions. Even though yes they may try to take you out. They may try to destroy you. They may try to ruin everything that you are. Everything that you have. But it's either that or you're stuck with them for life. And not just stuck with them as it's like in a smear campaign. But in an intimate setting. Where you're living in the same home. You're sleeping in the same bed. So when you make that choice it's just. Because you want to distance yourself from them. But when they know you're no longer susceptible. You're not in it anymore. That is when they will just rip off their mask. And they will go all out on a campaign to destroy you. Because you're no longer validating the illusion. And they begin to seek you as a threat. To their false image. Which they must protect and defend at all costs. Because that's what gets them their supply. So this is what they will do. And I can't advise you in your individual situation. On whether or not you should go no contact. What if you should leave them. Sometimes it can be dangerous to do that. So it does depend on your individual situation. But I think it's important to put this message out there. So that people are aware of it. They're aware of what can happen. But yes this is what they will do. When they realise they can't trick you anymore. If you found this video helpful. Please hit the thumbs up button down below. It will help to get this message out there. To other survivors. Who may benefit from it. And if you would like to donate. You can leave a super chat. Or a super thanks in the comment section. You can also go to my PayPal. It is paypal.me-survivor. I appreciate all donations no matter how small. 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